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Celebrating the Family

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May 12, 2019
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Power Point with Jack Graham

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Celebrating the Family

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  • Your home, as a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ should
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  • be the happiest place on earth. It really should be. And, as a
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  • matter of fact, people should be asking you... If you are a
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  • follower of Jesus, people should be asking you, "What is your
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  • secret? What sets you apart? Why is your life... why is your
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  • family successful?" People should want to know. Your
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  • neighbors should want to know the difference that Jesus makes
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  • in your family and in your home; if indeed, He makes a
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  • difference. We need to pray that God would bless our homes. Now I
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  • know not all homes are alike. There are different kinds of
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  • homes than we see here as an ideal in this very passage. We
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  • know that there is much brokenness in the world. And
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  • many times we are impacted by the brokenness around us, and
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  • choices that others made that we would have not made for
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  • ourselves. And some live with broken hearts and broken homes.
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  • But let me remind you that the church of the Lord Jesus Christ
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  • and God's Word has a message for the broken, and those who have
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  • messed up, and those who've not experienced happiness in their
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  • homes. And if you will just give God all the pieces, He will put
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  • your life back together again. Amen? He will! And no one has a
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  • perfect home. I don't; you don't. But we can have godly
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  • homes. We can all have Christ-centered homes. So take
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  • your Bibles and turn to Psalm 128... Verse 1 says: 1) Blessed
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  • is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in his ways! 2) You
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  • shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands; you shall be
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  • blessed, and it shall be well with you... (Note those words)
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  • ... it will be well with you. 3) Your wife will be like a
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  • fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive
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  • shoots (or branches) around your table. 4) Behold, thus shall the
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  • man be blessed who fears the Lord. 5) The Lord bless you from
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  • Zion! May you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of
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  • your life! 6) May you see your children's children! Peace be
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  • upon Israel! (Peace be upon you!) Four times the word bless
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  • or blessing shows up in this passage, and other words
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  • comparable, like prosperity and even peace and wellness. Is it
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  • well or it would be well with you. And this is the story,
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  • therefore... a song about the blessing of God upon the family;
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  • that your family would be blessed again and again and
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  • again. And these blessings are never ending. We're told in the
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  • book of Ephesians that we are blessed with every spiritual
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  • blessing in Jesus Christ in the heavenly places. We are
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  • abundantly blessed. And I assure you, you want... you need the
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  • blessing of God upon your life, upon your family, upon your
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  • husband, your wife, your children, your grandchildren.
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  • You should cry out and pray and claim this promise of the
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  • blessings of God. The blessing that God has promised us speaks
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  • of joy and favor and prosperity and security and happiness and
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  • pleasure and gladness. We ought to enjoy our family. There ought
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  • to be more laughter and more leisure in our homes. So often
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  • we're hustling around and we don't stop long enough or linger
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  • long enough to even laugh, much less live in the joy of that
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  • family. And we know there's a lot of unhappy family and a lot
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  • of unhappy people in family. You know, the problem is not the
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  • institution of the family, it's the personnel that's the
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  • problem. Again, there are no perfect families. There are
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  • knots on every family tree, and knot heads in every family. Why?
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  • Because it's not easy to raise a family. As a matter of fact, in
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  • my view it's the hardest thing you will ever do in life. Now
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  • I'm speaking to you know as a husband and a father, now a
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  • grandfather, and my calling in life is to be a spiritual father
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  • to God's family, the church. And I speak to you, therefore, as a
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  • father, a grandfather, a spiritual leader to say that
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  • Satan will attack your family, the world will try to suck you
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  • into its vortex that you might compromise your convictions and
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  • lose your values... biblical values as a family. You will be
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  • tempted many times along the way to give up and to give in to the
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  • world, and the wisdom of the world rather than the wisdom of
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  • God. And many times as a parent you will be driven on your knees
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  • and on your face, begging God for help! Can I get an Amen on
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  • that? Sure you will. Children keep us humble before the Lord,
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  • and dependent upon the Lord because we know how important
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  • this responsibility is. Raising a family will drive you to the
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  • Word for wisdom and to the church for assistance and help.
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  • So it's hard! But cheer up! That's what this message is
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  • about. Look up! Because when you look to the end and you see your
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  • children's children... if God gives you that grace, you'll
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  • look back and you'll say "We did it; to the glory of God it
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  • happened!" God is promising us here in your twilight years,
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  • when you see your children's children, you will look back and
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  • you will remember some of the battles, but most of all you
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  • will remember the blessings. Because four times... blessed,
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  • blessed, blessed, blessed, prospered, at peace... all of
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  • this! Celebrate the family. Celebrate your children.
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  • Celebrate your marriage. How do we do that? Well, it's very
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  • clear. Because verse one of chapter 128... Psalm 128
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  • says... look at it: "Blessed is everyone who fears
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  • the Lord, who walks in his ways!" I could just drop the mic
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  • right there, because that's it! "Blessed is everyone who fears
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  • the Lord and walks in his ways." This is the way of wisdom, this
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  • is the way of enjoyment and blessing for your family. "...
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  • fear the Lord and walk in His ways". Now no one but God can
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  • keep your family from falling apart. That's why in the sister
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  • psalm here, number 127 in Psalms, it says in verse 1:
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  • "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who
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  • build it." It's impossible to build a godly home without God,
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  • a Christian home without Christ! How do we know this? Because
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  • Jesus said it. At the end of the Sermon on the Mount... Matthew
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  • chapter 7... after Jesus gave those Beatitudes... the
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  • attitudes that ought to be in every believer's life... and
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  • those beatitudes and teaching of the way we live our lives in the
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  • sermon, He gives a closing illustration. He talked about
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  • two men who build a house, one on sand, one on rock. In fact,
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  • let's listen to the words of Jesus. We'll put them up.
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  • "Everyone then who hears these words of Mine and does them
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  • (there you go... who fears the Lord and walks in His ways) ...
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  • he hears these words and does them will be like a wise man who
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  • built his house on the rock. And the rain fell and the floods
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  • came and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not
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  • fall because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who
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  • hears these words of Mine and does not do them will be like a
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  • foolish man who built his house on the sand, and the rain fell
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  • and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that
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  • house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it." Into every
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  • life some rain will fall. There are storms and seasons in life
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  • that beat against us. And in your life, I guarantee it, you
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  • will be blasted and battered by trials and tribulation, even
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  • tragedy. There will be sickness and sadness along the way. There
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  • will be storms guaranteed. Sometimes it's a spring rain; at
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  • other times it is a tornado that tears everything down. But if
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  • your house is built upon the Rock... Who is the Rock? The
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  • Bible says Jesus is our Rock... He is our Rock, and He is our
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  • Redeemer. And as you build your life upon Jesus Christ...
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  • "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who
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  • build it." It's worthless without Him; it's meaningless.
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  • It's going to blow away. It will be nothing but a wasted life and
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  • wasted household if you don't build your life upon Jesus
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  • Christ. And that's what it means to "fear the Lord and walk in
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  • His ways." He said you hear these words and do them, you'll
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  • be like that one who built his house... her house on the Rock
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  • with a solid foundation. So the question is: are you... is your
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  • family on the rocks or is it on the Rock? Are you building your
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  • home... your family on a foundation that will not fail?
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  • Jesus Christ. When you build your house on Jesus, it means
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  • that you're fearing Him and walking with Him. Now what does
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  • it mean to "fear the Lord." We don't hear those words often
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  • enough today. As of fact, I believe that's ultimately what's
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  • missing in society... in culture without God in our generation.
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  • There is no fear of God. But we need to identify the fear of
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  • God. It doesn't mean that we are afraid of God necessarily. Now
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  • if you don't know the Lord, judgment is coming and there's
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  • something to fear, for sure! But to fear God as a believer and
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  • follower means that you passionately and purposefully,
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  • profoundly stand in awe of God. You reverence Him, you honor
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  • Him, you obey Him. You walk in His Word and His wisdom. You
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  • live in awe of the Almighty. And if you, parents, will teach your
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  • children to respect God, to revere God, to fear God by your
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  • own example, by your own testimony, your children will
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  • grow up to honor and fear God as well. To fear God is to love God
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  • and live in obedience to His commandments. So, celebrate the
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  • family by walking in the fear of the Lord in the wisdom of God.
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  • And then expect and envision your family God's way. Enjoy
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  • your family and celebrate it but experience your family God's
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  • way. Please remember, if you honor God in this way, you're
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  • going to have a lot of faith, but let me tell you something
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  • else! You're going to have a lot of fun! There's not enough
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  • laughter. There's so much stress for success. Psalm 127 talks
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  • about it; people staying up late, working hard, not getting
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  • enough sleep. Sometime we're hustling around, we're hurrying
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  • around. We don't stop to really enjoy our family! Not enough
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  • time around the table. The picture that is given to us here
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  • is a family sitting around the table. You've got a godly dad
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  • and a faithful wife, and it's called a beautiful vine here. An
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  • unusual description of a beautiful wife, a beautiful
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  • woman and mother... a fruitful vine. You know the vine in
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  • Israel was a symbol of its prosperity. It was a symbol of
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  • its beauty... it was a symbol of enjoyment and pleasure. And here
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  • is the wife. And the husband comes home and this wife is
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  • there at the table, surrounded by the children who are
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  • described as olive shoots, like branches. The fact is that each
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  • of these branches... these shoots are to produce fruit and
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  • be productive. And the role that we have as parents in our family
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  • is to help them bear fruit in the world... spiritual fruit and
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  • make a difference as they go forward. That they would grow up
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  • and grow out. And that each child in the family would be a
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  • testimony to the goodness and the grace of God. So I say that
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  • ought to be fun doing that. Didn't say it wasn't hard; it is
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  • hard, but the family that prays together, stays together, and
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  • you could also say the family that plays together, stays
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  • together. I asked my own children... I sent them a
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  • text... Jason and Kelly and Josh. I sent something to the
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  • three of them, all adult children now. Sent them a text,
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  • said: Describe some of your favorite memories growing up.
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  • And I added there: I know I'm taking a risk here", [laughter]
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  • because they grew up in a preacher's home. And you know
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  • what they said? It was the time together as a family. Those
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  • times of vacations that we had together. We had a thing in our
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  • family on Friday evenings when we would have a pizza party and
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  • the kids would all bunk down on mattresses or sleeping
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  • blankets... beds on the floor. And each one of them mentioned
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  • that. Those family nights that we had together. Board games! I
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  • hated playing those board games... I really did!
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  • [laughter] Kids would come and say, you know, "Let's play
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  • monopoly." And I'd say "That's a wintertime game." [laughter] It
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  • was summer. And in the winter I'd say, "That's a summertime
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  • game!" You know, any way... but maybe their mom did it. I don't
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  • know but... No, games and so fun... and then those times
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  • around the table. We don't have enough family time around the
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  • table! We're rushing here and there. And we all know we live
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  • in a fast paced, pressure cooker world, but the fact is, you need
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  • to slow down and sit down together. Because it's around
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  • the table when people let their guard down and they talk. And
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  • that fourteen year old child of yours that used to talk to you,
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  • that never talks to you anymore? They might open up and talk
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  • about what's going on in their life. I'm saying that those
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  • times... Interestingly enough, my kids... not one of them
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  • mentioned my great sermons! [laughter] But all of our
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  • children have grown up to love the Lord. They have wonderful
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  • mates and spouses and now have given us children. And as 3 John
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  • 4 says, "There's no greater joy than to know that your children
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  • are walking in truth." And so it wasn't the sermons necessarily.
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  • It's good to teach your children and to have the Bible stories,
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  • and to have formal times of Christian education, but it's
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  • typically around the table or playing a board game or being on
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  • a vacation. Our children all mentioned trips to Israel. They
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  • had the privilege of going to Israel with Deb and I many
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  • times, and it helped to solidify and strengthen their faith in
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  • certain ways. Look at verse 6 and we're finished: 6) May you
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  • see your children's children! So now in the twilight years your
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  • grandkids show up. And the promise... the vision here is
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  • looking back and there's peace and there's prosperity...
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  • spiritual success in your life, because I guarantee you when you
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  • get to the end of your life the only thing that's going to
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  • matter when it comes to the end... when you come to die,
  • 00:19:50.200 --> 00:19:54.000
  • will be your faith and your family and your friends. That's
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  • what matters! This is the ninetieth birthday of my wife's
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  • mother Joan who went to be with the Lord a
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  • couple of months ago. She almost made it to 90 years. She's in
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  • heaven now, but, Joan would come in her older age and she would
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  • just sit on the couch, weakened in her condition, and all the
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  • little great grandchildren were coming around and sitting in her
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  • lap, and the grandchildren were blessing her. I'm thinking "It
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  • doesn't get any better than that!" If God gives you life and
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  • length of years... You know, not everyone gets to be a
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  • grandfather. My dad didn't; Deb's dad didn't... but if you
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  • live long enough to see your children's children, that's the
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  • joy of life, that's such an incredible blessing upon you and
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  • your family. That's the vision... Mom and Dad, children
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  • around the table, and progressing on to the end of
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  • life and looking back and saying, "Yes, Lord! Thank you,
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  • Jesus, for giving me a happy home. Now for those of you who
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  • don't have happy homes, may God give you the grace to change
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  • things. If your home is broken, it could be put back together
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  • again. I've seen it happen many times... if you'll just give Him
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  • all the pieces. But even in your brokenness you can find peace,
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  • you can find a spiritual family that will love you. But I close
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  • with this: A gentleman by the name of Bob Benson wrote this.
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  • His wife's name was Peg. So get your... get your Kleenex ready,
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  • alright. It's called Laughter in the Walls. I passed a lot of
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  • houses on my way home. Some pretty, some expensive, some
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  • inviting. But my heart always skips a beat when I turn down
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  • the road and see my house, nestled against the hill. I
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  • guess I'm especially proud of the house and the way it looks
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  • because I drew the plans myself. It started out large enough for
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  • us. I even had a study... two teenage boys now reside in
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  • there. And it had a guest room... my girl and nine dolls
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  • are now permanent guests. It had a small room Peg had hoped would
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  • be her sewing room, but two boys swinging on the dutch door had
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  • claimed this room as their home. So it really doesn't look like
  • 00:22:42.190 --> 00:22:46.170
  • now as if I'm much of an architect, but it will be larger
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  • again. One by one they will go away... to work, to college, to
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  • service, to their own houses. And then there will be room. A
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  • guest room, a study and sewing room just for the two of us. But
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  • it won't be empty. Every corner, every room, every nick in the
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  • coffee table will be crowded with memories. Memories of
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  • picnics and parties and Christmases and bedside vigils,
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  • and summer, fires, winters, going barefoot, leaving on...
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  • for vacation, cat, conversations, blackeyes,
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  • graduations, first dates, ball games, arguments, washing
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  • dishes, bicycles, dogs (there you go!), boat rides, getting
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  • home from vacation, meals, rabbits, and a thousand other
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  • things that fill our lives with those who would raise five. And
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  • Peg and I will sit quietly by the fire and listen to the
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  • laughter in the walls. Let there be laughter in your home and
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  • laughter in your hearts because of the blessing of God upon your
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  • family. Amen?
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  • [Music]
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  • Hey it's great having my wife, Deb Graham
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  • here with me here in the studio. And, you know, Deb, you and I
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  • have spent the last 48 years married, loving one another and
  • 00:24:23.000 --> 00:24:26.270
  • God has given us something more than just a household, He's
  • 00:24:26.280 --> 00:24:30.140
  • given us a home, not just walls and a roof (and we've lived all
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  • kinds of different houses over the years), but God has given us
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  • a home, a family and that happened because this woman
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  • right here, Deb Graham is a godly, loving wife who has loved
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  • and cared for our 3 children and now loves and cares for our 8
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  • grandchildren, it's awesome. But, I know not all homes are
  • 00:24:49.060 --> 00:24:54.120
  • alike, some homes don't have a Father or a mother or sometimes
  • 00:24:54.130 --> 00:24:58.090
  • they don't live even under the same roof. There is allot of
  • 00:24:58.100 --> 00:25:01.040
  • brokenness, some homes have children and grandchildren who
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  • have walked away from their faith and abandoned the faith
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  • and the values of their parents, it's so sad when we see this.
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  • There is so much heartache and hurt in our homes, our families
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  • today and many times we're impacted by the choices that
  • 00:25:14.230 --> 00:25:19.000
  • other people make. Not decisions we may have made but decisions
  • 00:25:19.010 --> 00:25:24.040
  • that others have made, including our partners or our parents, our
  • 00:25:24.050 --> 00:25:27.270
  • children, our grandchildren. So many people live with their
  • 00:25:27.280 --> 00:25:31.030
  • hearts broken and their homes broken but there is a hope, I
  • 00:25:31.040 --> 00:25:35.070
  • promise you, there is a hope and it's a promise to parents that
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  • comes right out of God's word. That's right isn't it Deb? Deb:
  • 00:25:39.000 --> 00:25:41.280
  • That's right, God's word has a powerful message for broken
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  • families. If you just give God all the pieces He can put your
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  • life and your home back together again. The Bible says that if
  • 00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:51.180
  • your house isn't built upon the rock, (and we know that the rock
  • 00:25:51.190 --> 00:25:55.010
  • is Jesus), it will not stand because it has no solid
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  • foundation, it will just simply wash away. No matter how hard
  • 00:25:58.060 --> 00:26:02.150
  • you work, no matter how much money you earn, no matter what
  • 00:26:02.160 --> 00:26:05.250
  • possessions you accumulate, if you don't give your children to
  • 00:26:05.260 --> 00:26:09.000
  • Jesus, you're missing the point. So mother's and grandmothers, if
  • 00:26:09.010 --> 00:26:12.260
  • you could do just one thing: teach your family to walk in the
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  • fear of the Lord and in the wisdom of God. Jack: So the
  • 00:26:17.000 --> 00:26:20.170
  • question is: is your family on the rocks or is it on the rock?
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  • The rock is Jesus Christ, He said, "build your life on me, my
  • 00:26:24.230 --> 00:26:28.090
  • truth, my word, my promises, my principles," and that's the
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  • foundation that will stand against every storm. So are you
  • 00:26:33.020 --> 00:26:36.150
  • building your home and growing your family on a foundation that
  • 00:26:36.160 --> 00:26:40.030
  • will never fail because God will never fail if you build your
  • 00:26:40.040 --> 00:26:43.040
  • life on Him. How do you build your home that can stand against
  • 00:26:43.050 --> 00:26:46.090
  • the storms of life and every season of life? How can you have
  • 00:26:46.100 --> 00:26:50.040
  • a home that lasts a lifetime, filled with love and devotion?
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  • Well it's not some super-secret because God has showed us in the
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  • Bible, the scriptures, that if you will follow His plan, God's
  • 00:26:59.140 --> 00:27:03.030
  • design for your life, your marriage, your home, your
  • 00:27:03.040 --> 00:27:05.260
  • family, that you will be blessed. And to be blessed means
  • 00:27:05.270 --> 00:27:08.280
  • that God's love and grace and favor and strength is upon you,
  • 00:27:08.290 --> 00:27:13.170
  • your family and your entire home. That's why I want to send
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