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January 18, 2017
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Stop Talking, Start Doing: Repositioning Yourself

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  • - Bil Cornelius: "Pastor Bil,
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  • how do you overcome temptation?"
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  • Don't go near it.
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  • It's not 'cause I'm so strong,
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  • it's 'cause I'm so weak.
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  • I just stay away from it.
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  • "Oh man, it's so hard not to
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  • look at the wrong channels,"
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  • then don't have the wrong
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  • channels.
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  • "Man, it's so hard to not be,
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  • you know, messing with
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  • the wrong person at the bar."
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  • Don't go to a bar.
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  • In other words, if you're
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  • tempted by doughnuts, don't
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  • work at the doughnut factory.
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  • [music]
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  • - Bil: You are the church
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  • - Bil: Welcome, it is great
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  • to have you here today.
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  • Thanks for joining us.
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  • So, we're in the middle of
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  • the series called,
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  • "Stop Talking and Start Doing,"
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  • and we're gonna continue
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  • that series today.
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  • Before we do that, I wanna give
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  • our mission statement
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  • real quick.
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  • Our goal is to take as many
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  • people to heaven as we can
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  • before we die, period.
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  • That's what we're all about
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  • here, is helping more and more
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  • people find Christ, and so
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  • that's what we do as a church.
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  • You know, as we started talking
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  • about Joseph last week,
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  • we discovered that
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  • we all have a dream.
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  • God has put a dream in all of
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  • our hearts to accomplish
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  • something that we're supposed
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  • to do while we're here
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  • on this earth.
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  • It's your purpose to fulfill.
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  • Every one of us has that.
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  • Joseph had a dream that God gave
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  • him, and he believed that God
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  • was gonna do great things, but
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  • of course his brothers had
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  • a whole nother idea
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  • of what his dreams meant.
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  • They did not like him.
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  • They hated his guts.
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  • They literally sold him into
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  • slavery.
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  • We talked about that last week,
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  • about how often times you can
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  • get started in your dreams
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  • not because of inspiration but
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  • because of desperation, because
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  • something bad happens, because
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  • of betrayal, or heartache,
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  • or difficulty, or failure.
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  • It makes you focus on what
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  • matters the most in your life.
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  • And so, this week we're gonna
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  • continue talking about that,
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  • and of course keep in mind that
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  • Joseph ended up being betrayed
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  • by his brothers and he was
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  • sold into slavery, now he finds
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  • himself in Egypt, in another
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  • land, speaking another language,
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  • and he goes from being free
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  • to being a slave.
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  • So, let's pick up in Scripture
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  • now, because today I wanna talk
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  • about how you can
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  • reposition yourself.
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  • In other words,
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  • God's already repositioning you,
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  • you might as well work with it.
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  • And so, God repositioned him
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  • from where he was to Egypt,
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  • because you can't become
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  • a great leader of Egypt
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  • unless you're in Egypt, right?
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  • So, he had to move there.
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  • So, he ends up there by force,
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  • not by choice, and so
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  • let's pick up in Scripture.
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  • It says in Genesis chapter 39,
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  • verses 1 through 2,chapter 39,
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  • it says, "Now, Joseph
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  • had been taken down to Egypt.
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  • Potiphar, an Egyptian, who was
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  • one of Pharaoh's officials,
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  • the captain of the guard,
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  • bought him from the Ishmaelites
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  • who had taken him there.
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  • The Lord was with Joseph
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  • so that he prospered,
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  • and he lived in the house
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  • of the Egyptian master."
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  • So, let's dive right in.
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  • The first thing you need to
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  • know, number one, is to bloom
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  • where you are planted.
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  • Joseph was not where
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  • he wanted to be, but he decided
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  • to do good where he was.
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  • That's important to understand,
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  • that most of us have
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  • destination disease.
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  • We're always one zip code away
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  • from being happy.
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  • "Oh man, if I just lived there,
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  • then I'd be happy."
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  • "If I was just in that town,
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  • if I just had that job,
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  • working at that company.
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  • If I was just married
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  • to that person.
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  • If I didn't have my kids,
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  • if I had their kids,
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  • then I'd be happy," right?
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  • We're always one step away.
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  • "If I just went to that church."
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  • "If I just was there."
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  • Whatever it is, we're always
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  • one step away from being happy,
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  • but the truth is,
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  • if you look over and the grass
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  • seems greener next door,
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  • it's because someone's
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  • watering it over there.
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  • And so, if you water your own
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  • grass, it will get green, too.
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  • If you water your own marriage,
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  • water your own children, water
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  • your own career, water your own
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  • church, water your own ministry,
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  • water where you are,
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  • then you will bloom.
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  • Does that make sense?
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  • And so, let's talk about how
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  • we can do that now,
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  • 'cause Joseph had to work in
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  • a hostile environment, okay.
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  • To be the captain of the guard,
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  • which is what Potiphar was, man,
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  • you are the number one henchman
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  • for the king.
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  • You're the guy that took people
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  • out for the king, know what I
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  • mean.
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  • That's what you did, alright.
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  • I mean, you're the bully,
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  • the strong arm for basically
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  • the mob, okay,
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  • that's how that worked.
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  • And so, the king says, "I don't
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  • like that guy," then Potiphar
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  • shows up and says,
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  • "Forget about it," and he'd go,
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  • and he'd take care of it.
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  • That's what he did.
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  • I mean, this guy
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  • was not a nice guy.
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  • So, Joseph is now
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  • a slave to a very scary guy.
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  • This is not a good situation
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  • to be in, but he found himself
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  • prospering in the middle of
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  • a very difficult situation.
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  • Could that be said of you
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  • and me?
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  • That we learn to prosper
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  • even when our boss is not nice?
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  • Can we prosper even when
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  • the situation where we work
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  • is not really that good?
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  • When you feel like you kind of
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  • have people against you, you
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  • feel like there's some kind of
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  • conspiracy going on against you.
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  • There may actually be that,
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  • but you can still prosper.
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  • You can still succeed
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  • in the middle of that.
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  • Joseph shows us how.
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  • So, how do you do that?
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  • Let me give you the A, B, C,
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  • and D of how to do that.
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  • Check it out.to do that.
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  • It says in verse 3, "When his
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  • master saw that the Lord was
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  • with him, and the Lord gave him
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  • success in everything he did,
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  • Joseph found favor in his eyes
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  • and became his attendant."
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  • So, Potiphar wanted him closer
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  • to him 'cause he saw he was
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  • successful in everything he did.
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  • So, just imagine Potiphar says,
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  • "Hey, what's your name?
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  • You're the new kid, right?
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  • What's your name?
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  • Joseph, alright Joseph, hey,
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  • the backyard's a mess,
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  • go clean it up."
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  • So he goes and cleans it up.
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  • Potiphar walks by the back
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  • window at some point and says,
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  • "Wow, man, this kid's good.
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  • Hey Joseph, come in here.
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  • Can you do what you did
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  • out there to the front yard?"
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  • So he goes and does
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  • the front yard.
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  • "Hey, man, you really got
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  • this place looking good.
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  • Can you go out to my stables,
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  • 'cause they're a big mess, too?
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  • Can you go clean that up?
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  • Hey, can you come and
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  • take care of the back room?
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  • Can you come see what's going on
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  • with the kitchen?
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  • Hey, can you come help rearrange
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  • the--" and so, he eventually
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  • just says, "Joseph, man,
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  • you can do all of this.
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  • I just wanna put you in charge.
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  • I mean, you're knocking it out,"
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  • so he just keeps giving him
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  • more and more responsibility.
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  • You know,
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  • let me ask you something.
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  • Do you grunt and groan when
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  • you're given more responsibility
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  • at work, or do you see it as
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  • an opportunity?
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  • 'Cause Joseph saw it as
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  • an opportunity,
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  • and he took the opportunity.
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  • This teaches us something,
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  • really.
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  • It says here that the Lord
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  • gave him success.
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  • If you look up the word success,
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  • that means to achieve
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  • a worthy goal.
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  • And so, the A here on how
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  • to reposition yourself
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  • and massively increase
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  • your opportunity at work
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  • is to set and achieve a goal
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  • that pleases your boss.
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  • Set and achieve a goal
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  • that pleases your boss.
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  • Not just your goal, not just
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  • something random I wanna do,
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  • 'cause you're not there to do
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  • just what you wanna do,
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  • you're there to do
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  • what your boss wants you to do.
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  • Even if you don't agree with
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  • the boss, I highly recommended
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  • you do what they want and not
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  • what you want, or you'll find
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  • yourself without a paycheck,
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  • okay.
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  • The best thing to do is to walk
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  • into the boss's office tomorrow
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  • morning and say, "Hey, you know,
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  • I just--I was studying the Bible
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  • actually, believe it or not,
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  • and a guy named Joseph, he
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  • did exactly what he was asked,
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  • and so I just figured
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  • I'd come to you to say,
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  • 'What do you need me to do?'
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  • What do I need to do to be
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  • successful in your eyes, not
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  • in my eyes, but in your eyes?"
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  • If you do this for 6 weeks
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  • straight, you will not have
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  • a problem getting a promotion.
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  • I'm telling you right now.
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  • Check out what's next here.
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  • Genesis 39, verse 4.
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  • "Potiphar put him in charge
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  • of his household,
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  • and he entrusted to his care
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  • everything he owned."
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  • So the A is to set and achieve
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  • a goal that pleases your boss,
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  • B is to be trustworthy.
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  • To be trustworthy means
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  • that you keep your word.
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  • That when they say, "Hey,
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  • will you handle this," you say,
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  • "Yes, sir.
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  • Yes, ma'am," and they know
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  • that it's done,
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  • 'cause it's in your hands.
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  • Could it be said that when
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  • someone gives you something to
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  • do, that they just automatically
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  • know it's gonna get done?
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  • Can you be counted on, right?
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  • So, this is really a big deal.
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  • It says in verse 5, "From
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  • the time he put him in charge
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  • of his household
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  • and all that he owned,
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  • the Lord blessed
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  • the household of the Egyptian
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  • because of Joseph."
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  • So, God blessed Potiphar,
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  • even though Potiphar was not
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  • a God-fearing man,
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  • just because Joseph was there.
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  • Could it be said that
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  • your business is blessed just
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  • 'cause you're there?
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  • Are you a blessing just 'cause
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  • you're on the team?
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  • Just 'cause you're on the team,
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  • the whole team's better, right?
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  • Could it be said of me
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  • just because we're there,
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  • we have that kind of an impact?
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  • It goes on to say, "The blessing
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  • of the Lord was on everything
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  • Potiphar had, both in
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  • the house and in the field."
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  • And so, basically he ends up
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  • being on the team, but
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  • eventually he's over the team.
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  • Now, this is very important.
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  • C is this, learn to work with
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  • people so you can learn to
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  • work through people.
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  • See, at first you're on the team
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  • and if you learn to work well
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  • with the team, then eventually
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  • the team will recruit you,
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  • or someone in management will
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  • recruit you and put you
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  • over the team.
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  • But this is very,
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  • very important.
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  • The moment you're over the team,
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  • you should not treat them like
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  • you're over the team,
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  • you should treat them
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  • like you're on the team.
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  • Did you know that 85% of all
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  • job loss happens not because you
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  • don't know how to do your job,
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  • but because you can't get
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  • along with other people?
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  • Eighty-five percent
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  • of job loss has nothing
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  • to do with your task.
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  • Isn't that crazy?
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  • So, we've got to learn to get
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  • along well with other people.
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  • You may say, "But, I am
  • 00:08:08.200 --> 00:08:09.080
  • the boss, I don't have to listen
  • 00:08:09.080 --> 00:08:10.040
  • to them."
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  • Yeah, you do.
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  • Every boss has a boss, too.
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  • It's really a big deal.
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  • You may be the man in charge,
  • 00:08:14.280 --> 00:08:15.280
  • but if you don't do your job and
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  • understand who the boss is, then
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  • you're not gonna have customers.
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  • The customer's the boss, right?
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  • "Well, Pastor Bil,
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  • you're the pastor here.
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  • You're in charge."
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  • No, I'm not, you are,
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  • because you vote with your feet.
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  • I understand how this works.
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  • If I'm not delivering a message
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  • that's gonna really help you,
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  • and encourage you, build you up
  • 00:08:34.100 --> 00:08:35.190
  • in the Lord and bring
  • 00:08:35.190 --> 00:08:36.150
  • God's truth to you, you'll
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  • find another place that will.
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  • I understand that, so
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  • hopefully I'm doing okay today.
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  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:08:45.020 --> 00:08:47.070
  • Can I just mention here, too,
  • 00:08:47.070 --> 00:08:48.110
  • that Joseph literally changed
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  • the world and he was never
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  • the boss?
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  • Not once in his career was
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  • he in charge.
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  • He was always an employee
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  • of someone else.
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  • So, please don't think, "Well,
  • 00:08:59.250 --> 00:09:00.210
  • I gotta strike out on my own."
  • 00:09:00.210 --> 00:09:02.020
  • Maybe God wants you to do that,
  • 00:09:02.020 --> 00:09:03.090
  • but maybe not.
  • 00:09:03.090 --> 00:09:04.160
  • Maybe you're supposed to be
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  • serving underneath someone else
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  • and do the best you can, and
  • 00:09:06.180 --> 00:09:08.100
  • you will literally push them up.
  • 00:09:08.100 --> 00:09:09.260
  • The higher you go, the higher
  • 00:09:09.260 --> 00:09:11.230
  • your boss has to go 'cause
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  • you're pushing him up by the way
  • 00:09:12.230 --> 00:09:14.240
  • you live your life, by the wayay
  • 00:09:14.240 --> 00:09:15.280
  • you run things, by the way
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  • you handle things.
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  • So, it's important to understand
  • 00:09:17.230 --> 00:09:18.130
  • that we have to learn to work
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  • with people and also work
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  • through people which is
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  • delegation.
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  • Then it says in verse 6,
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  • "So Potiphar left everything
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  • he had in Joseph's care.
  • 00:09:24.010 --> 00:09:25.060
  • With Joseph in charge,
  • 00:09:25.060 --> 00:09:26.130
  • he did not concern himself
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  • with anything except
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  • the food he ate."
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  • His number one concern
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  • on a daily basis, Potiphar's,
  • 00:09:31.120 --> 00:09:32.020
  • because Joseph was there, was,
  • 00:09:32.020 --> 00:09:33.050
  • "Am I gonna have pizza
  • 00:09:33.050 --> 00:09:33.260
  • or chicken tonight?"
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  • Man that must be nice, right?
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  • To have someone who is so good
  • 00:09:37.160 --> 00:09:39.190
  • at what they do that you show up
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  • at the office and you're like,
  • 00:09:40.210 --> 00:09:41.230
  • "I don't even need to be here.
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  • Joseph's got it.
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  • I mean, what do I need to do
  • 00:09:43.280 --> 00:09:44.160
  • all day?"
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  • Right?
  • 00:09:45.100 --> 00:09:46.040
  • Which, by the way, here's
  • 00:09:46.040 --> 00:09:47.020
  • the perfect example of a CEO-COO
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  • relationship, how it's supposed
  • 00:09:50.020 --> 00:09:51.010
  • to work, is that someone's
  • 00:09:51.010 --> 00:09:52.150
  • supposed to be running
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  • everything so that the head
  • 00:09:53.080 --> 00:09:54.240
  • person can then have
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  • their mind in the future, and
  • 00:09:55.270 --> 00:09:57.280
  • then their world is in today.
  • 00:09:57.280 --> 00:09:59.170
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:09:59.170 --> 00:10:00.050
  • That Joseph was like,
  • 00:10:00.050 --> 00:10:01.060
  • "I got this so you can
  • 00:10:01.060 --> 00:10:02.090
  • go work on expansion.
  • 00:10:02.090 --> 00:10:03.140
  • You can go work on the
  • 00:10:03.140 --> 00:10:04.050
  • next big dream.
  • 00:10:04.050 --> 00:10:04.290
  • You can go work something--"
  • 00:10:04.290 --> 00:10:05.180
  • he says, "I got this."
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  • That's important.
  • 00:10:06.150 --> 00:10:07.010
  • So, D is this, focus on adding
  • 00:10:07.010 --> 00:10:08.280
  • value everywhere you go.
  • 00:10:09.040 --> 00:10:12.040
  • Wherever Joseph went,
  • 00:10:12.040 --> 00:10:13.020
  • things got better,
  • 00:10:13.020 --> 00:10:14.190
  • and people liked him, too.
  • 00:10:14.190 --> 00:10:15.240
  • That's important to know.
  • 00:10:15.240 --> 00:10:16.180
  • As we're about to see,
  • 00:10:16.180 --> 00:10:17.080
  • people really like him, as we're
  • 00:10:17.080 --> 00:10:19.080
  • about to see in just a moment.
  • 00:10:19.080 --> 00:10:20.090
  • Potiphar's wife
  • 00:10:20.090 --> 00:10:21.010
  • really liked him.
  • 00:10:21.010 --> 00:10:22.190
  • And so, the enemy all of
  • 00:10:22.190 --> 00:10:24.010
  • a sudden comes after Joseph
  • 00:10:24.010 --> 00:10:25.120
  • in a big way, and the enemy
  • 00:10:25.120 --> 00:10:26.240
  • always attacks us fist, morally.
  • 00:10:26.240 --> 00:10:29.140
  • That's the first way he attacks
  • 00:10:29.140 --> 00:10:30.290
  • us, then he'll attack us from
  • 00:10:30.290 --> 00:10:32.060
  • outside ways as well, as we'll
  • 00:10:32.060 --> 00:10:34.010
  • see both of these right
  • 00:10:34.010 --> 00:10:34.250
  • here in Scripture.
  • 00:10:34.250 --> 00:10:35.290
  • Check it out.
  • 00:10:35.290 --> 00:10:36.190
  • It says in verse 6, "Now Joseph
  • 00:10:36.190 --> 00:10:38.160
  • was well-built and handsome."
  • 00:10:38.160 --> 00:10:40.220
  • Now, that may seem like
  • 00:10:40.220 --> 00:10:41.190
  • a nice thing, but it's actually
  • 00:10:41.190 --> 00:10:42.140
  • a real problem for Joseph,
  • 00:10:42.140 --> 00:10:43.240
  • and I understand, I've had
  • 00:10:43.240 --> 00:10:44.150
  • this problem my whole life.
  • 00:10:44.200 --> 00:10:47.200
  • Just kidding.
  • 00:10:47.200 --> 00:10:48.090
  • Okay, check it out.
  • 00:10:48.090 --> 00:10:50.000
  • "Now Joseph
  • 00:10:50.000 --> 00:10:50.220
  • was well-built and handsome.
  • 00:10:50.220 --> 00:10:51.270
  • And after a while, his master's
  • 00:10:51.270 --> 00:10:53.050
  • wife took notice of Joseph and
  • 00:10:53.050 --> 00:10:54.230
  • said, 'Come to bed with me.'"
  • 00:10:54.230 --> 00:10:56.040
  • This is a very forward woman,
  • 00:10:56.040 --> 00:10:57.110
  • right?
  • 00:10:57.110 --> 00:10:58.060
  • She's like, "Hey, let's go
  • 00:10:58.060 --> 00:10:59.090
  • get it on right now."
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  • Verse 8, "But he refused.
  • 00:11:00.160 --> 00:11:01.280
  • 'With me in charge,' he told
  • 00:11:01.280 --> 00:11:02.290
  • her, 'My master doesn't concern
  • 00:11:02.290 --> 00:11:04.070
  • himself with anything.
  • 00:11:04.070 --> 00:11:05.080
  • Everything he owns,
  • 00:11:05.080 --> 00:11:05.290
  • he has entrusted to my care.'"
  • 00:11:05.290 --> 00:11:07.120
  • Now, he's not bragging to her,
  • 00:11:07.120 --> 00:11:08.210
  • he's trying to say, "Your
  • 00:11:08.210 --> 00:11:10.140
  • husband's been so good to me.
  • 00:11:10.140 --> 00:11:11.140
  • Why would I do this?"
  • 00:11:11.140 --> 00:11:13.140
  • Right, he's saying, "Why would
  • 00:11:13.140 --> 00:11:15.050
  • I be disloyal to the man
  • 00:11:15.050 --> 00:11:16.090
  • who has been so good to me?
  • 00:11:16.090 --> 00:11:18.000
  • Why would I do that?"
  • 00:11:18.000 --> 00:11:19.080
  • That's just dumb, right?
  • 00:11:19.080 --> 00:11:20.050
  • Then he says this, he says,
  • 00:11:20.050 --> 00:11:21.010
  • "Everything he owns, he's
  • 00:11:21.010 --> 00:11:21.290
  • entrusted to my care.
  • 00:11:21.290 --> 00:11:22.290
  • No one is greater in this
  • 00:11:22.290 --> 00:11:24.040
  • household than I am.
  • 00:11:24.040 --> 00:11:25.020
  • My master has withheld nothing
  • 00:11:25.020 --> 00:11:26.070
  • from me except you,
  • 00:11:26.070 --> 00:11:27.100
  • because you are his wife."
  • 00:11:27.100 --> 00:11:28.140
  • Then he reminds her,
  • 00:11:28.140 --> 00:11:29.050
  • "Oh, and by the way,
  • 00:11:29.050 --> 00:11:30.030
  • if you're gonna get it on
  • 00:11:30.030 --> 00:11:31.060
  • it should be with him, not me.
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  • You're married to him.
  • 00:11:33.130 --> 00:11:34.160
  • Go get your freak nasty on
  • 00:11:34.160 --> 00:11:35.270
  • with him, not me."
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  • I don't actually know what
  • 00:11:38.140 --> 00:11:39.020
  • that means.
  • 00:11:39.020 --> 00:11:39.190
  • Please don't Google that,
  • 00:11:39.190 --> 00:11:40.100
  • that's probably bad.
  • 00:11:40.100 --> 00:11:43.000
  • Okay, so look at this,
  • 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:45.080
  • this is important.
  • 00:11:45.080 --> 00:11:45.280
  • So he says what?
  • 00:11:45.280 --> 00:11:46.200
  • He says, "You're his wife."
  • 00:11:46.200 --> 00:11:48.030
  • Then he says, "How then could
  • 00:11:48.030 --> 00:11:49.030
  • I do such a wicked thing
  • 00:11:49.030 --> 00:11:49.280
  • and sin against God?"
  • 00:11:49.280 --> 00:11:51.100
  • Oh, there's the real reason,
  • 00:11:51.100 --> 00:11:52.030
  • right?
  • 00:11:52.030 --> 00:11:52.180
  • He's like, "I can't do this
  • 00:11:52.180 --> 00:11:53.060
  • against God.
  • 00:11:53.060 --> 00:11:54.040
  • God's been so good to me."
  • 00:11:54.040 --> 00:11:55.030
  • Now, this is a guy that's being
  • 00:11:55.030 --> 00:11:56.080
  • grateful towards God from
  • 00:11:56.080 --> 00:11:57.190
  • the position of being a slave.
  • 00:11:57.250 --> 00:12:00.270
  • What?
  • 00:12:00.270 --> 00:12:02.010
  • So he's thanking God for
  • 00:12:02.010 --> 00:12:03.290
  • his goodness in his life and
  • 00:12:03.290 --> 00:12:04.240
  • he doesn't even have freedom.
  • 00:12:04.240 --> 00:12:07.100
  • Does that maybe change
  • 00:12:07.100 --> 00:12:08.120
  • you and I in our perspective on
  • 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:09.260
  • whether we're grateful or not?
  • 00:12:09.260 --> 00:12:12.080
  • I mean, can we just stop for
  • 00:12:12.080 --> 00:12:14.080
  • a moment and just say, "God,
  • 00:12:14.080 --> 00:12:15.100
  • you've been so good to me.
  • 00:12:15.270 --> 00:12:18.270
  • You've been so good to us."
  • 00:12:18.270 --> 00:12:20.270
  • Can we just honor God right now
  • 00:12:20.270 --> 00:12:22.070
  • for a moment, and just say,
  • 00:12:22.070 --> 00:12:23.060
  • "God, thank you
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  • for your goodness."
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  • He's so good, isn't he?
  • 00:12:29.020 --> 00:12:32.020
  • Check it out.
  • 00:12:32.020 --> 00:12:32.230
  • It says, "Day after day,
  • 00:12:32.230 --> 00:12:34.050
  • he refused to go to bed with her
  • 00:12:34.050 --> 00:12:35.080
  • or even be with her."
  • 00:12:35.080 --> 00:12:36.290
  • Please underline,
  • 00:12:36.290 --> 00:12:37.200
  • "Even be with her."
  • 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:38.070
  • This is important.
  • 00:12:38.070 --> 00:12:38.220
  • You wanna know how you can
  • 00:12:38.220 --> 00:12:39.090
  • overcome temptation?
  • 00:12:39.090 --> 00:12:40.020
  • Stay away from it.
  • 00:12:40.020 --> 00:12:42.030
  • So maybe you say,
  • 00:12:42.030 --> 00:12:42.240
  • "I need to change my habits.
  • 00:12:42.240 --> 00:12:43.230
  • I need to not do that anymore.
  • 00:12:43.230 --> 00:12:44.220
  • Instead of going Friday nights
  • 00:12:44.220 --> 00:12:45.210
  • with them, I'm gonna go join
  • 00:12:45.210 --> 00:12:46.210
  • a small group and go to
  • 00:12:46.210 --> 00:12:48.080
  • the Life Group on Friday night."
  • 00:12:48.080 --> 00:12:49.060
  • Here you've got an example.
  • 00:12:49.060 --> 00:12:50.110
  • This is Potiphar's wife.
  • 00:12:50.110 --> 00:12:51.100
  • They don't actually name her,
  • 00:12:51.100 --> 00:12:52.120
  • let's just call her Hotiphar.
  • 00:12:52.120 --> 00:12:53.220
  • Okay, so Hotiphar was the very
  • 00:12:54.110 --> 00:12:57.110
  • definition of a cougar, okay,
  • 00:12:57.110 --> 00:12:59.000
  • that's what she was.
  • 00:12:59.000 --> 00:13:00.120
  • She's all over Joseph,
  • 00:13:00.120 --> 00:13:01.270
  • literally, I mean, she's just
  • 00:13:01.270 --> 00:13:02.200
  • hunting him down, "Come on,
  • 00:13:02.200 --> 00:13:03.200
  • baby, you know you want me.
  • 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:04.260
  • Let's do this, come on."
  • 00:13:04.260 --> 00:13:06.000
  • And so, he's like, "Oh,
  • 00:13:06.000 --> 00:13:07.160
  • you've gotta be kidding me."
  • 00:13:07.160 --> 00:13:08.050
  • She is the very definition
  • 00:13:08.050 --> 00:13:09.160
  • of what Proverbs says is called
  • 00:13:09.160 --> 00:13:10.250
  • the adulterous woman.
  • 00:13:10.250 --> 00:13:12.050
  • That's what she is.
  • 00:13:12.050 --> 00:13:13.050
  • She's the very definition.
  • 00:13:13.050 --> 00:13:13.230
  • Now, there is such a thing
  • 00:13:13.230 --> 00:13:15.000
  • as an adulterous man, too,
  • 00:13:15.000 --> 00:13:15.290
  • no doubt about it, okay.
  • 00:13:15.290 --> 00:13:17.010
  • But, in a moment we're gonna
  • 00:13:17.010 --> 00:13:18.070
  • show you something about
  • 00:13:18.070 --> 00:13:19.050
  • Potiphar's wife, Hotiphar, that
  • 00:13:19.080 --> 00:13:22.080
  • I really believe is the case,
  • 00:13:22.080 --> 00:13:23.110
  • but I think that we're about to
  • 00:13:23.110 --> 00:13:24.270
  • discover that this is a trend
  • 00:13:24.270 --> 00:13:25.270
  • in her life, this is not just
  • 00:13:25.270 --> 00:13:27.000
  • a one-time thing.
  • 00:13:27.000 --> 00:13:27.250
  • I think she knows exactly
  • 00:13:27.250 --> 00:13:28.220
  • what she's doing.
  • 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.170
  • Okay, and here's the thing
  • 00:13:29.170 --> 00:13:30.240
  • about her, too.
  • 00:13:30.240 --> 00:13:31.110
  • She's crazy.
  • 00:13:31.110 --> 00:13:32.130
  • And one of the ways you know you
  • 00:13:32.130 --> 00:13:33.030
  • have someone crazy is they
  • 00:13:33.030 --> 00:13:34.030
  • will try to manipulate you
  • 00:13:34.030 --> 00:13:34.280
  • emotionally.
  • 00:13:34.280 --> 00:13:36.070
  • That's how you know you have
  • 00:13:36.070 --> 00:13:37.130
  • a crazy person, okay.
  • 00:13:37.130 --> 00:13:38.070
  • You need to identify and know
  • 00:13:38.070 --> 00:13:39.240
  • they're crazy because they're
  • 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:40.160
  • crazy enough to take you down
  • 00:13:40.160 --> 00:13:41.190
  • with 'em.
  • 00:13:41.190 --> 00:13:43.030
  • They will do that.
  • 00:13:43.030 --> 00:13:44.040
  • If you entrust them,
  • 00:13:44.040 --> 00:13:45.040
  • they'll take you down with 'em.
  • 00:13:45.040 --> 00:13:46.160
  • And they're whirlwind people.
  • 00:13:46.160 --> 00:13:48.010
  • You don't even have to be
  • 00:13:48.010 --> 00:13:49.040
  • involved with them directly,
  • 00:13:49.040 --> 00:13:50.050
  • but indirectly they'll hurt you.
  • 00:13:50.050 --> 00:13:52.000
  • And she is nuts as can be.
  • 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:54.100
  • She's like, "Hi, Joseph,e.
  • 00:13:54.100 --> 00:13:55.260
  • how you doin'?"
  • 00:13:55.260 --> 00:13:56.240
  • She seems all seductive,
  • 00:13:56.240 --> 00:13:58.010
  • and sweet, and awesome, but boy
  • 00:13:58.010 --> 00:13:59.220
  • does she turn that fast on him.
  • 00:13:59.220 --> 00:14:01.080
  • So, check this out, that's how
  • 00:14:01.080 --> 00:14:02.180
  • we know she's crazy as a loon.
  • 00:14:02.180 --> 00:14:03.240
  • Check it out.
  • 00:14:03.240 --> 00:14:04.130
  • This is important.
  • 00:14:04.130 --> 00:14:04.290
  • Number two, we need to make
  • 00:14:04.290 --> 00:14:06.100
  • no room for compromise.
  • 00:14:06.100 --> 00:14:08.110
  • You make room for it,
  • 00:14:08.110 --> 00:14:09.050
  • you're gonna compromise.
  • 00:14:09.050 --> 00:14:10.090
  • You gotta make no room for it.
  • 00:14:10.090 --> 00:14:12.160
  • "Pastor Bil, how do you
  • 00:14:12.160 --> 00:14:13.070
  • overcome temptation?"
  • 00:14:13.070 --> 00:14:14.020
  • Don't go near it.
  • 00:14:14.020 --> 00:14:16.030
  • It's not 'cause I'm so strong,
  • 00:14:16.030 --> 00:14:17.110
  • it's 'cause I'm so weak.
  • 00:14:17.110 --> 00:14:18.160
  • I just stay away from it.
  • 00:14:18.160 --> 00:14:19.230
  • Just make no room for it.
  • 00:14:19.230 --> 00:14:20.180
  • "Oh man, it's so hard not to
  • 00:14:20.180 --> 00:14:22.000
  • look at the wrong channels,"
  • 00:14:22.000 --> 00:14:23.120
  • then don't have
  • 00:14:23.120 --> 00:14:24.030
  • the wrong channels.
  • 00:14:24.030 --> 00:14:25.000
  • "Man, it's so hard to not be,
  • 00:14:25.000 --> 00:14:25.280
  • you know, messing with
  • 00:14:25.280 --> 00:14:27.010
  • the wrong person at the bar."
  • 00:14:27.010 --> 00:14:27.280
  • Don't go to a bar.
  • 00:14:27.280 --> 00:14:30.010
  • In other words, if you're
  • 00:14:30.010 --> 00:14:30.200
  • tempted by doughnuts, don't
  • 00:14:30.200 --> 00:14:31.170
  • work at the doughnut factory.
  • 00:14:31.170 --> 00:14:32.250
  • This is not hard.
  • 00:14:32.250 --> 00:14:34.250
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:14:34.250 --> 00:14:36.130
  • I mean, it's real simple.
  • 00:14:36.130 --> 00:14:38.140
  • If Mexican food is a weakness,
  • 00:14:38.140 --> 00:14:40.000
  • do not work at a tacoria,
  • 00:14:40.000 --> 00:14:41.110
  • that would be a problem.
  • 00:14:41.110 --> 00:14:43.250
  • And so, we need to
  • 00:14:43.250 --> 00:14:46.030
  • uncomplicate temptation.
  • 00:14:46.030 --> 00:14:47.120
  • Can we do that real quick?
  • 00:14:47.120 --> 00:14:48.190
  • Let's just uncomplicate it,
  • 00:14:48.190 --> 00:14:49.150
  • okay.
  • 00:14:49.150 --> 00:14:50.050
  • The fastest way to overcome
  • 00:14:50.050 --> 00:14:51.010
  • temptation is to put blocks
  • 00:14:51.010 --> 00:14:52.040
  • in your life, is to put hedges
  • 00:14:52.040 --> 00:14:53.020
  • of protection.
  • 00:14:53.020 --> 00:14:53.290
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:14:53.290 --> 00:14:54.290
  • And so, we need to learn
  • 00:14:54.290 --> 00:14:55.270
  • to build some fences around
  • 00:14:55.270 --> 00:14:57.200
  • ourselves and keep from things.
  • 00:14:57.200 --> 00:14:59.050
  • And so, this is really
  • 00:14:59.050 --> 00:15:00.110
  • important.
  • 00:15:00.110 --> 00:15:00.270
  • Make no room for compromise.
  • 00:15:00.270 --> 00:15:01.150
  • Now, he avoids her as much as he
  • 00:15:01.150 --> 00:15:02.140
  • can, but at some point he can't
  • 00:15:02.140 --> 00:15:04.070
  • avoid her and he has to face
  • 00:15:04.070 --> 00:15:05.120
  • temptation directly.
  • 00:15:05.120 --> 00:15:06.230
  • Look at verse 11.
  • 00:15:06.230 --> 00:15:07.190
  • "One day she caught him."
  • 00:15:07.190 --> 00:15:09.180
  • She literally grabbed him.
  • 00:15:09.180 --> 00:15:11.010
  • I can only imagine where she
  • 00:15:11.010 --> 00:15:11.220
  • grabbed, I don't wanna know.
  • 00:15:11.220 --> 00:15:13.240
  • "She caught him by his cloak and
  • 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:15.010
  • said, 'Come to bed with me,' but
  • 00:15:15.010 --> 00:15:16.100
  • he left his cloak in her hand
  • 00:15:16.100 --> 00:15:17.180
  • and ran out of the house.
  • 00:15:17.180 --> 00:15:18.170
  • When she saw that she had his
  • 00:15:18.170 --> 00:15:19.210
  • cloak in her hand and that
  • 00:15:19.210 --> 00:15:21.080
  • he had run out of the house, she
  • 00:15:21.080 --> 00:15:22.020
  • called her household servants.
  • 00:15:22.020 --> 00:15:23.010
  • 'Look, this Hebrew,'"
  • 00:15:23.010 --> 00:15:24.120
  • that makes me so mad when
  • 00:15:24.120 --> 00:15:25.180
  • I see that, by the way.
  • 00:15:25.180 --> 00:15:26.170
  • Oh, that makes me mad.
  • 00:15:26.170 --> 00:15:27.220
  • You gotta understand
  • 00:15:27.220 --> 00:15:28.130
  • the context of this.
  • 00:15:28.130 --> 00:15:29.040
  • "Look at this Hebrew."
  • 00:15:29.040 --> 00:15:30.140
  • You know, there's no mention of
  • 00:15:30.140 --> 00:15:32.140
  • his race before, and suddenly
  • 00:15:32.260 --> 00:15:35.260
  • she doesn't get what she wants
  • 00:15:35.260 --> 00:15:37.010
  • and all of a sudden now
  • 00:15:37.010 --> 00:15:38.230
  • he's a Hebrew.
  • 00:15:38.230 --> 00:15:40.100
  • So frustrating.
  • 00:15:40.100 --> 00:15:41.250
  • This is such the world
  • 00:15:41.250 --> 00:15:42.160
  • we live in today.
  • 00:15:42.160 --> 00:15:43.080
  • There is real racism.
  • 00:15:43.080 --> 00:15:44.200
  • I will openly acknowledge it.
  • 00:15:44.200 --> 00:15:46.160
  • There is real racism, but
  • 00:15:46.160 --> 00:15:47.150
  • there's also people who use
  • 00:15:47.150 --> 00:15:49.070
  • this for their agenda, and
  • 00:15:49.070 --> 00:15:51.250
  • that's where I--at this moment,
  • 00:15:51.250 --> 00:15:53.100
  • this is a bunch of garbage.
  • 00:15:53.100 --> 00:15:55.090
  • This makes me so mad,
  • 00:15:55.090 --> 00:15:56.050
  • 'cause she all of a sudden,
  • 00:15:56.050 --> 00:15:56.280
  • "Look at this Hebrew.
  • 00:15:56.280 --> 00:15:57.200
  • He doesn't speak our language,
  • 00:15:57.200 --> 00:15:58.230
  • he doesn't look like us,
  • 00:15:58.230 --> 00:15:59.170
  • he doesn't act like us."
  • 00:15:59.170 --> 00:16:01.210
  • You know what's funny?
  • 00:16:01.210 --> 00:16:02.150
  • You were all cool with me when
  • 00:16:02.150 --> 00:16:03.110
  • I was cleaning your backyard.
  • 00:16:03.110 --> 00:16:05.240
  • You were all cool with me when
  • 00:16:05.240 --> 00:16:06.130
  • I was taking care of your house,
  • 00:16:06.130 --> 00:16:07.120
  • but all of a sudden you don't
  • 00:16:07.120 --> 00:16:08.040
  • like me 'cause you didn't get
  • 00:16:08.040 --> 00:16:08.230
  • what you want, and all of
  • 00:16:08.230 --> 00:16:09.170
  • a sudden you throw that out.
  • 00:16:09.170 --> 00:16:10.110
  • Very frustrating, right?
  • 00:16:10.110 --> 00:16:11.070
  • So now, all of a sudden,
  • 00:16:11.070 --> 00:16:11.290
  • it's bad to be Hebrew.
  • 00:16:11.290 --> 00:16:12.250
  • It wasn't bad before,
  • 00:16:12.250 --> 00:16:13.270
  • now it's bad.
  • 00:16:13.270 --> 00:16:14.270
  • Look what happens next.
  • 00:16:14.270 --> 00:16:15.200
  • "Look, this Hebrew has been
  • 00:16:15.200 --> 00:16:16.220
  • brought to us to make sport of
  • 00:16:16.220 --> 00:16:18.130
  • us."
  • 00:16:18.130 --> 00:16:19.040
  • Now he's trying to include
  • 00:16:19.040 --> 00:16:20.000
  • everyone in, like, "Look what
  • 00:16:20.000 --> 00:16:21.050
  • he's done to us," like,
  • 00:16:21.050 --> 00:16:22.170
  • I'm pretty sure it was only
  • 00:16:22.170 --> 00:16:23.110
  • the two of you, but
  • 00:16:23.110 --> 00:16:25.000
  • she's trying to build her case.
  • 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:26.050
  • Then she says this, "He came
  • 00:16:26.050 --> 00:16:27.140
  • in here to sleep with me,
  • 00:16:27.140 --> 00:16:28.110
  • but I screamed.
  • 00:16:28.110 --> 00:16:29.100
  • When he heard me scream for
  • 00:16:29.100 --> 00:16:30.050
  • help, he left his cloak beside
  • 00:16:30.050 --> 00:16:31.190
  • me and ran out of the house."
  • 00:16:31.190 --> 00:16:32.290
  • So basically, she jumps on him.
  • 00:16:32.290 --> 00:16:33.200
  • I can only imagine what
  • 00:16:33.200 --> 00:16:34.170
  • that looked like, something
  • 00:16:34.170 --> 00:16:35.060
  • on late-night HBO, right?
  • 00:16:35.060 --> 00:16:37.070
  • She jumps on him, okay,
  • 00:16:37.070 --> 00:16:39.050
  • and he immediately is like,
  • 00:16:39.050 --> 00:16:40.030
  • "You can have the shirt, but
  • 00:16:40.030 --> 00:16:41.090
  • you're not gonna have me."
  • 00:16:41.090 --> 00:16:42.090
  • So he, like, runs out of there
  • 00:16:42.090 --> 00:16:43.150
  • as fast as he can.
  • 00:16:43.150 --> 00:16:44.080
  • Here's my clothes, my cloak,
  • 00:16:44.080 --> 00:16:45.030
  • I'm outa here, right?
  • 00:16:45.030 --> 00:16:45.290
  • You can take that, but I'm gone.
  • 00:16:45.290 --> 00:16:46.210
  • So, she's grabbing a hold of him
  • 00:16:46.210 --> 00:16:48.060
  • and he strips of the shirt
  • 00:16:48.060 --> 00:16:49.280
  • and runs, right?
  • 00:16:49.280 --> 00:16:50.260
  • And so, she holds it,
  • 00:16:50.260 --> 00:16:51.280
  • and she realizes it now.
  • 00:16:51.280 --> 00:16:52.170
  • Isn't it amazing how fast she
  • 00:16:52.170 --> 00:16:53.140
  • goes, "Oh, I love you, baby.
  • 00:16:53.140 --> 00:16:55.010
  • Oh, it's just gonna be me
  • 00:16:55.010 --> 00:16:56.020
  • and you."
  • 00:16:56.020 --> 00:16:56.170
  • All of a sudden,
  • 00:16:56.170 --> 00:16:57.020
  • "You tried
  • 00:16:57.020 --> 00:16:57.170
  • to rape me."
  • 00:16:57.170 --> 00:16:58.250
  • Psycho.
  • 00:16:59.250 --> 00:17:02.270
  • What?
  • 00:17:02.270 --> 00:17:04.020
  • I'm trying to--if anyone's
  • 00:17:04.020 --> 00:17:04.250
  • trying to rape anybody, it was
  • 00:17:04.250 --> 00:17:06.060
  • you trying to rape me, right?
  • 00:17:06.060 --> 00:17:07.190
  • He's like, "Get away from me."
  • 00:17:07.190 --> 00:17:09.030
  • He's, like, trying to push
  • 00:17:09.030 --> 00:17:09.270
  • her away and she is getting
  • 00:17:09.270 --> 00:17:12.000
  • her freak on, and
  • 00:17:12.000 --> 00:17:12.270
  • he is running as fast as he can.
  • 00:17:12.270 --> 00:17:14.220
  • You know, at this point I don't
  • 00:17:14.220 --> 00:17:15.200
  • wanna say stop talking and start
  • 00:17:15.200 --> 00:17:16.210
  • doing, I wanna say stop
  • 00:17:16.210 --> 00:17:18.060
  • taking and start running, right?
  • 00:17:18.060 --> 00:17:20.270
  • Get out of there as fast
  • 00:17:20.270 --> 00:17:21.150
  • as you can.
  • 00:17:21.150 --> 00:17:22.070
  • And so, she is so crazy that she
  • 00:17:22.070 --> 00:17:23.180
  • shifts gears on him and she's
  • 00:17:23.180 --> 00:17:25.090
  • like, "Oh, I love you, baby,
  • 00:17:25.090 --> 00:17:26.260
  • I love you," all of a sudden
  • 00:17:26.260 --> 00:17:27.210
  • she turns on him
  • 00:17:27.210 --> 00:17:28.150
  • and calls for her husband,
  • 00:17:28.150 --> 00:17:29.190
  • and calls for him to come in.
  • 00:17:29.190 --> 00:17:30.170
  • "He tried to rape me."
  • 00:17:30.170 --> 00:17:31.210
  • And this is what happens.
  • 00:17:31.210 --> 00:17:32.160
  • I've seen this so many times,
  • 00:17:32.160 --> 00:17:34.170
  • guys, in people as a pastor.
  • 00:17:34.170 --> 00:17:35.190
  • I unfortunately get to kind of
  • 00:17:35.190 --> 00:17:36.270
  • be in the inside of a lot of
  • 00:17:36.270 --> 00:17:37.240
  • junk, and I see this
  • 00:17:37.240 --> 00:17:39.130
  • all the time about the girl
  • 00:17:39.130 --> 00:17:40.210
  • at the office that was
  • 00:17:40.210 --> 00:17:41.250
  • so enticing and sweet.
  • 00:17:41.250 --> 00:17:42.270
  • Next thing you know,
  • 00:17:42.270 --> 00:17:43.170
  • you start messin' around.
  • 00:17:43.170 --> 00:17:44.190
  • Guess what?
  • 00:17:44.190 --> 00:17:45.050
  • She's calling your boss,
  • 00:17:45.050 --> 00:17:46.040
  • you've lost your job, and
  • 00:17:46.040 --> 00:17:47.030
  • she was the one enticing you.
  • 00:17:47.030 --> 00:17:48.220
  • It's crazy.
  • 00:17:48.220 --> 00:17:49.220
  • I've see it with guys, too.
  • 00:17:49.220 --> 00:17:50.250
  • Guys are all, "Oh baby, I love
  • 00:17:50.250 --> 00:17:52.040
  • you forever," and all of
  • 00:17:52.040 --> 00:17:53.060
  • a sudden he what he wants,
  • 00:17:53.060 --> 00:17:53.280
  • bam, he's out of there.
  • 00:17:53.280 --> 00:17:54.240
  • Craziness, total manipulation.
  • 00:17:54.240 --> 00:17:56.280
  • She goes from, "I love you,
  • 00:17:56.280 --> 00:17:58.120
  • baby," to "I'm gonna accuse you
  • 00:17:58.120 --> 00:17:59.180
  • of rape," and I'm tellin' you,
  • 00:17:59.180 --> 00:18:01.080
  • 0-60 in 0.2 seconds.
  • 00:18:01.080 --> 00:18:03.110
  • Now, here's the--let me
  • 00:18:03.110 --> 00:18:04.030
  • just say this real quick, too.
  • 00:18:04.030 --> 00:18:04.270
  • Maybe your temptation is not
  • 00:18:04.270 --> 00:18:06.000
  • moral, maybe your temptation is
  • 00:18:06.000 --> 00:18:08.090
  • you're tempted to stay bitter at
  • 00:18:08.090 --> 00:18:10.090
  • someone, to not forgive someone.
  • 00:18:10.090 --> 00:18:12.110
  • Maybe your temptation is gossip.
  • 00:18:12.110 --> 00:18:14.140
  • So, everyone has a different
  • 00:18:14.140 --> 00:18:15.140
  • form of temptation, and ladies,
  • 00:18:15.140 --> 00:18:16.260
  • before you elbow your husbands
  • 00:18:16.260 --> 00:18:18.220
  • or your boyfriend, before you
  • 00:18:18.220 --> 00:18:20.110
  • do that and say, "Yeah, you need
  • 00:18:20.110 --> 00:18:21.080
  • to be careful with
  • 00:18:21.080 --> 00:18:22.030
  • this kind of woman."
  • 00:18:22.030 --> 00:18:22.180
  • Hold on, ladies,
  • 00:18:22.180 --> 00:18:23.110
  • let me just say this.
  • 00:18:23.110 --> 00:18:24.220
  • Women fall into adultery, too,
  • 00:18:24.220 --> 00:18:26.230
  • they just fall into it
  • 00:18:26.230 --> 00:18:27.190
  • relationally.
  • 00:18:27.190 --> 00:18:29.060
  • This is when you're at
  • 00:18:29.060 --> 00:18:30.020
  • the office and you're
  • 00:18:30.020 --> 00:18:30.270
  • complaining about your husband
  • 00:18:30.270 --> 00:18:31.160
  • to another man.
  • 00:18:31.160 --> 00:18:33.030
  • That's just--can I tell you
  • 00:18:33.030 --> 00:18:33.230
  • what that is?
  • 00:18:33.230 --> 00:18:34.090
  • That's stupid.
  • 00:18:34.090 --> 00:18:35.120
  • You're setting yourself up
  • 00:18:35.120 --> 00:18:36.210
  • for a fall.
  • 00:18:36.210 --> 00:18:37.190
  • You're beginning to lean on
  • 00:18:37.190 --> 00:18:38.160
  • someone else emotionally
  • 00:18:38.160 --> 00:18:39.110
  • rather than your husband.
  • 00:18:39.110 --> 00:18:40.040
  • And you say, "But
  • 00:18:40.040 --> 00:18:41.000
  • my best friend, you know,
  • 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:41.280
  • is another guy.
  • 00:18:41.280 --> 00:18:43.100
  • And we've been best friends
  • 00:18:43.100 --> 00:18:43.280
  • for a long time.
  • 00:18:43.280 --> 00:18:44.240
  • My husband already knew about
  • 00:18:44.240 --> 00:18:45.160
  • him before we ever even met."
  • 00:18:45.160 --> 00:18:46.190
  • No, there's no grandfathering
  • 00:18:46.190 --> 00:18:47.080
  • this in.
  • 00:18:47.080 --> 00:18:48.090
  • The moment you fell in love with
  • 00:18:48.090 --> 00:18:49.280
  • your husband is the moment that
  • 00:18:49.280 --> 00:18:50.280
  • your best friend that's a man
  • 00:18:50.280 --> 00:18:52.290
  • is no longer your best friend.
  • 00:18:52.290 --> 00:18:54.220
  • There's no grandfathering
  • 00:18:54.220 --> 00:18:55.220
  • that in.
  • 00:18:55.220 --> 00:18:56.140
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:18:56.140 --> 00:18:58.280
  • I'm dropping truth on you.
  • 00:18:58.280 --> 00:19:02.000
  • That's a big deal.
  • 00:19:02.000 --> 00:19:03.170
  • Same goes for you, guys, you're
  • 00:19:03.170 --> 00:19:04.200
  • not gonna have a best friend
  • 00:19:04.200 --> 00:19:05.130
  • of the opposite sex.
  • 00:19:05.130 --> 00:19:06.100
  • Not gonna happen, 'cause it
  • 00:19:06.100 --> 00:19:07.140
  • doesn't work like that, okay.
  • 00:19:07.140 --> 00:19:08.290
  • When you get married,
  • 00:19:08.290 --> 00:19:10.040
  • that's your best friend.
  • 00:19:10.040 --> 00:19:12.000
  • That's how that works.
  • 00:19:12.000 --> 00:19:13.050
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:19:13.050 --> 00:19:14.060
  • It's a really big deal.
  • 00:19:14.060 --> 00:19:14.270
  • So, women will fall typically
  • 00:19:14.270 --> 00:19:15.290
  • relationally, start to lean on
  • 00:19:15.290 --> 00:19:17.260
  • another guy, that kind of thing,
  • 00:19:17.260 --> 00:19:18.270
  • and men are visual, ladies,
  • 00:19:18.270 --> 00:19:20.210
  • and so it's a big deal.
  • 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:21.270
  • And so what men see, they want.
  • 00:19:21.270 --> 00:19:24.060
  • And so you have to be real
  • 00:19:24.060 --> 00:19:25.200
  • careful with that, with what you
  • 00:19:25.200 --> 00:19:26.230
  • allow your eyes to see, guys.
  • 00:19:26.230 --> 00:19:28.010
  • It's really a big deal.
  • 00:19:28.010 --> 00:19:29.100
  • But let me just say this real
  • 00:19:29.100 --> 00:19:30.120
  • quick, too, to the men if I can.
  • 00:19:30.120 --> 00:19:31.170
  • I just wanna take a moment
  • 00:19:31.170 --> 00:19:32.160
  • on this, 'cause this is
  • 00:19:32.160 --> 00:19:33.120
  • a big problem.
  • 00:19:33.120 --> 00:19:34.000
  • I see this all the time.
  • 00:19:34.000 --> 00:19:34.210
  • I talk to a lot of guys, and
  • 00:19:34.210 --> 00:19:35.170
  • I wanna be real vulnerable
  • 00:19:35.170 --> 00:19:36.210
  • right now, if that's okay, and
  • 00:19:36.210 --> 00:19:37.190
  • just share some stuff, okay.
  • 00:19:37.190 --> 00:19:38.230
  • This is a big deal, okay.
  • 00:19:38.230 --> 00:19:39.250
  • So, I'm tempted like anyone
  • 00:19:39.250 --> 00:19:40.170
  • else, too, but let me tell you
  • 00:19:40.170 --> 00:19:41.220
  • something, men.
  • 00:19:41.220 --> 00:19:43.100
  • Champions have to win
  • 00:19:43.100 --> 00:19:45.280
  • on the road.
  • 00:19:45.280 --> 00:19:47.100
  • Are you a different guy when
  • 00:19:47.100 --> 00:19:49.230
  • you're out of town than you are
  • 00:19:49.230 --> 00:19:51.230
  • when you're in town?
  • 00:19:51.230 --> 00:19:53.120
  • It's a big deal.
  • 00:19:53.120 --> 00:19:55.100
  • So, you have to choose and make
  • 00:19:55.100 --> 00:19:57.250
  • some habits that when you travel
  • 00:19:57.250 --> 00:19:59.040
  • that you do things
  • 00:19:59.040 --> 00:20:00.160
  • to protect yourself.
  • 00:20:00.160 --> 00:20:01.260
  • So, there's a couple simple
  • 00:20:01.260 --> 00:20:02.160
  • things I do.
  • 00:20:02.160 --> 00:20:03.080
  • This may be too practical for
  • 00:20:03.080 --> 00:20:04.160
  • you, and you may thing, "Man, I
  • 00:20:04.160 --> 00:20:05.130
  • don't have this problem at all."
  • 00:20:05.130 --> 00:20:06.030
  • Great, awesome, but the average
  • 00:20:06.030 --> 00:20:07.190
  • guy does face this, okay.
  • 00:20:07.190 --> 00:20:09.060
  • So, this last year I was
  • 00:20:09.060 --> 00:20:10.210
  • traveling up to Canada,
  • 00:20:10.210 --> 00:20:11.230
  • I was doing a TV show up there,
  • 00:20:11.230 --> 00:20:13.030
  • and I went up there, did
  • 00:20:13.030 --> 00:20:14.080
  • the interview, it was great,
  • 00:20:14.080 --> 00:20:15.080
  • and afterwards I had all night.
  • 00:20:15.080 --> 00:20:16.130
  • I was like,
  • 00:20:16.130 --> 00:20:17.080
  • bored out of my mind.
  • 00:20:17.080 --> 00:20:18.030
  • I'm like, "Man, I'm just
  • 00:20:18.030 --> 00:20:19.060
  • sittin' around in a hotel
  • 00:20:19.060 --> 00:20:20.060
  • in another country."
  • 00:20:20.060 --> 00:20:21.250
  • It doesn't feel like another
  • 00:20:21.250 --> 00:20:22.180
  • country, but it is.
  • 00:20:22.180 --> 00:20:23.140
  • And so, I'm up there, and I'm
  • 00:20:23.140 --> 00:20:24.160
  • like, "I don't know anyone here,
  • 00:20:24.160 --> 00:20:25.130
  • what am I gonna do," right?
  • 00:20:25.130 --> 00:20:26.110
  • And so, you know what I did?
  • 00:20:26.110 --> 00:20:27.290
  • I went into my room, they had
  • 00:20:27.290 --> 00:20:29.190
  • a real nice hotel room for me,
  • 00:20:29.190 --> 00:20:31.020
  • it was real nice.
  • 00:20:31.020 --> 00:20:32.000
  • And so, I walked in, and I took
  • 00:20:32.000 --> 00:20:33.080
  • my little Beats, I got one of
  • 00:20:33.080 --> 00:20:34.290
  • those little speakers, and
  • 00:20:34.290 --> 00:20:36.050
  • I plugged into my phone, and
  • 00:20:36.050 --> 00:20:37.140
  • I turned on some praise music,
  • 00:20:37.140 --> 00:20:38.290
  • and then I left for about an
  • 00:20:38.290 --> 00:20:40.160
  • hour and went and got something
  • 00:20:40.160 --> 00:20:41.180
  • to eat and I came back,
  • 00:20:41.180 --> 00:20:42.220
  • and I let that praise music
  • 00:20:42.220 --> 00:20:43.170
  • fill the atmosphere of
  • 00:20:43.170 --> 00:20:44.200
  • my room with the presence of God
  • 00:20:44.200 --> 00:20:45.220
  • for about an hour.
  • 00:20:45.220 --> 00:20:47.240
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:20:47.240 --> 00:20:49.110
  • And I come in, and I hear that
  • 00:20:49.110 --> 00:20:50.180
  • praise music, and I'm like,
  • 00:20:50.180 --> 00:20:51.150
  • "God, I thank you that you're
  • 00:20:51.150 --> 00:20:52.040
  • here.
  • 00:20:52.040 --> 00:20:53.100
  • Your presence is here and
  • 00:20:53.100 --> 00:20:54.070
  • I'm gonna honor you tonight."
  • 00:20:54.070 --> 00:20:56.030
  • And then, guess what else I did?
  • 00:20:56.030 --> 00:20:56.270
  • I didn't turn on the TV, 'cause
  • 00:20:56.270 --> 00:20:57.250
  • I know you say, "Oh come in,
  • 00:20:57.250 --> 00:20:58.180
  • it's just TV."
  • 00:20:58.180 --> 00:20:59.150
  • No, it's not just TV, you know
  • 00:20:59.150 --> 00:21:00.220
  • what's on that television.
  • 00:21:00.220 --> 00:21:02.120
  • And men, we're visual.
  • 00:21:02.120 --> 00:21:04.020
  • Don't kid yourself,
  • 00:21:04.020 --> 00:21:05.080
  • don't lie to yourself and say,
  • 00:21:05.080 --> 00:21:06.050
  • "Oh, I'll be fine."
  • 00:21:06.050 --> 00:21:07.040
  • Were you fine last time?
  • 00:21:07.040 --> 00:21:08.290
  • Let's just not mess with it.
  • 00:21:08.290 --> 00:21:10.240
  • Now I know guys that actually
  • 00:21:10.240 --> 00:21:12.190
  • put the towel over the TV and
  • 00:21:12.190 --> 00:21:13.230
  • say, "I'm just not gonna turn
  • 00:21:13.230 --> 00:21:14.200
  • that on,
  • 00:21:14.200 --> 00:21:15.230
  • I'm just gonna avoid it."
  • 00:21:15.230 --> 00:21:16.230
  • And take your workout clothes.
  • 00:21:16.230 --> 00:21:17.290
  • Go work out.
  • 00:21:17.290 --> 00:21:19.050
  • You know, spend some more time
  • 00:21:19.050 --> 00:21:20.180
  • on work.
  • 00:21:20.180 --> 00:21:21.120
  • You know, when my wife
  • 00:21:21.120 --> 00:21:22.200
  • leaves town for some event
  • 00:21:22.200 --> 00:21:23.220
  • or something,
  • 00:21:23.220 --> 00:21:24.120
  • I become a workaholic.
  • 00:21:24.120 --> 00:21:25.160
  • You know why?
  • 00:21:25.160 --> 00:21:26.070
  • It's not bad then,
  • 00:21:26.070 --> 00:21:27.070
  • 'cause she's not there.
  • 00:21:27.070 --> 00:21:28.110
  • It's oaky, I just
  • 00:21:28.110 --> 00:21:29.040
  • work my way into the night.
  • 00:21:29.040 --> 00:21:30.160
  • I make sure the kids are good,
  • 00:21:30.160 --> 00:21:31.180
  • put them to bed, and then
  • 00:21:31.180 --> 00:21:32.120
  • just work all night.
  • 00:21:32.120 --> 00:21:33.030
  • And it's good, it's a great time
  • 00:21:33.030 --> 00:21:34.150
  • to accomplish more stuff, but
  • 00:21:34.150 --> 00:21:35.140
  • you've gotta have a set pattern.
  • 00:21:35.140 --> 00:21:37.190
  • If you don't, don't let
  • 00:21:37.190 --> 00:21:39.130
  • the pattern--don't let
  • 00:21:39.130 --> 00:21:40.220
  • bad habits pick what you do,
  • 00:21:40.220 --> 00:21:42.110
  • you pick what you do.
  • 00:21:42.110 --> 00:21:43.210
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:21:43.210 --> 00:21:45.170
  • Win on the road.
  • 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:47.070
  • You can do it.
  • 00:21:47.070 --> 00:21:48.140
  • You can overcome temptation.
  • 00:21:48.140 --> 00:21:50.020
  • It's a big deal.
  • 00:21:50.060 --> 00:21:53.060
  • I wanna say this real quick,
  • 00:21:53.060 --> 00:21:53.240
  • too, before we go any further.
  • 00:21:53.240 --> 00:21:54.160
  • 1 John 1:9 says that if you
  • 00:21:54.160 --> 00:21:56.040
  • confess your sin, he is faithful
  • 00:21:56.040 --> 00:21:58.260
  • and just, and will forgive you
  • 00:21:58.260 --> 00:21:59.210
  • of all unrighteousness.
  • 00:21:59.210 --> 00:22:01.140
  • And so, I just wanna encourage
  • 00:22:01.140 --> 00:22:02.070
  • you today, don't feel beat up
  • 00:22:02.070 --> 00:22:03.150
  • right now from what I just said.
  • 00:22:03.150 --> 00:22:04.240
  • Let today be a new beginning
  • 00:22:04.240 --> 00:22:06.260
  • for you.
  • 00:22:06.260 --> 00:22:08.150
  • Let God's grace sweep over you
  • 00:22:08.150 --> 00:22:10.050
  • to know we're not trying--God's
  • 00:22:10.050 --> 00:22:12.060
  • not pointing his finger at your
  • 00:22:12.060 --> 00:22:13.050
  • like this, he's pointing
  • 00:22:13.050 --> 00:22:14.040
  • his finger to you like this,
  • 00:22:14.040 --> 00:22:14.250
  • saying, "Come here.
  • 00:22:14.250 --> 00:22:15.150
  • I love you.
  • 00:22:15.150 --> 00:22:16.080
  • You're forgiven.
  • 00:22:16.080 --> 00:22:17.100
  • This is a new start
  • 00:22:17.100 --> 00:22:18.120
  • for you today."
  • 00:22:18.120 --> 00:22:19.010
  • Would you let today be a mile
  • 00:22:19.010 --> 00:22:20.120
  • marker that says today I've been
  • 00:22:20.120 --> 00:22:21.220
  • forgiven in Christ and I renew
  • 00:22:21.220 --> 00:22:23.240
  • my commitment to him, and
  • 00:22:23.240 --> 00:22:25.050
  • I'm gonna not feel guilt
  • 00:22:25.050 --> 00:22:26.160
  • and shame for the past anymore.
  • 00:22:26.160 --> 00:22:27.270
  • Today is a new day.
  • 00:22:27.270 --> 00:22:29.070
  • I'm gonna walk outa here
  • 00:22:29.070 --> 00:22:30.010
  • a lighter person because I left
  • 00:22:30.010 --> 00:22:32.040
  • my sin at the altar.
  • 00:22:32.040 --> 00:22:34.160
  • Isn't that good?
  • 00:22:34.160 --> 00:22:35.130
  • Can we just give God a hand
  • 00:22:35.130 --> 00:22:36.070
  • for his grace, his mercy,
  • 00:22:36.070 --> 00:22:38.270
  • his forgiveness?
  • 00:22:39.090 --> 00:22:42.090
  • You're forgiven.
  • 00:22:42.090 --> 00:22:44.110
  • Look what happens next
  • 00:22:44.110 --> 00:22:45.040
  • in Scripture, verse 16.
  • 00:22:45.040 --> 00:22:46.240
  • Now, it doesn't go better,
  • 00:22:46.240 --> 00:22:47.250
  • it gets a little worse.
  • 00:22:47.250 --> 00:22:48.210
  • Check it out.
  • 00:22:48.210 --> 00:22:49.130
  • "That Hebrew slave you brought
  • 00:22:49.130 --> 00:22:50.240
  • us came to me
  • 00:22:50.240 --> 00:22:51.220
  • to make sport of me."
  • 00:22:51.220 --> 00:22:52.260
  • She's now talking to
  • 00:22:52.260 --> 00:22:53.150
  • her husband.
  • 00:22:53.150 --> 00:22:54.100
  • So he comes home all mad, right,
  • 00:22:54.100 --> 00:22:55.070
  • when he finds out
  • 00:22:55.070 --> 00:22:56.030
  • what's going on.
  • 00:22:56.030 --> 00:22:56.220
  • "But as soon as I screamed for
  • 00:22:56.220 --> 00:22:57.130
  • help, he left his cloak beside
  • 00:22:57.130 --> 00:22:58.200
  • me and ran out of the house.
  • 00:22:58.200 --> 00:22:59.200
  • Potiphar burned with anger and
  • 00:22:59.200 --> 00:23:01.260
  • took him and put him in prison,
  • 00:23:01.260 --> 00:23:02.240
  • the place where the king's
  • 00:23:02.240 --> 00:23:03.210
  • prisoners were confined."
  • 00:23:03.210 --> 00:23:05.000
  • Please write this down,
  • 00:23:05.000 --> 00:23:05.200
  • number four, again, forced exits
  • 00:23:05.200 --> 00:23:08.030
  • are God simply repositioning you
  • 00:23:08.030 --> 00:23:09.230
  • for greatness.
  • 00:23:09.230 --> 00:23:11.090
  • That, by the way, is the same
  • 00:23:11.090 --> 00:23:11.280
  • point from last week, 'cause
  • 00:23:11.280 --> 00:23:13.050
  • a forced exit took him to Egypt,
  • 00:23:13.050 --> 00:23:15.100
  • now a forced exit takes him from
  • 00:23:15.100 --> 00:23:16.140
  • Egypt to the palace, 'cause did
  • 00:23:16.140 --> 00:23:18.050
  • you know that the prison, in
  • 00:23:18.050 --> 00:23:19.190
  • all the Middle East, the prison
  • 00:23:19.190 --> 00:23:21.010
  • was underneath the palace.
  • 00:23:21.010 --> 00:23:23.130
  • I don't know if you knew that.
  • 00:23:23.130 --> 00:23:24.110
  • So actually, he's in prison,
  • 00:23:24.110 --> 00:23:26.040
  • but he's closer than ever to his
  • 00:23:26.040 --> 00:23:27.290
  • destiny to work in the palace,
  • 00:23:27.290 --> 00:23:30.100
  • okay.
  • 00:23:30.100 --> 00:23:30.260
  • Now, this is important,
  • 00:23:30.260 --> 00:23:31.180
  • by the way, because if you don't
  • 00:23:31.180 --> 00:23:32.090
  • overcome your moral issue,
  • 00:23:32.090 --> 00:23:34.140
  • it will stop you from
  • 00:23:34.140 --> 00:23:36.010
  • getting to the palace.
  • 00:23:36.010 --> 00:23:38.120
  • So, now he gets repositioned
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  • and now he's literally
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  • going to prison for something
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  • he did not do.
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  • More on that next week.
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  • Don't let that frustrate you,
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  • thinking he honored God,
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  • he overcame temptation,
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  • and he still goes to prison?
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  • Yes, but when you're doing
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  • everything right and you still
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  • get wrong delivered to you,
  • 00:23:53.190 --> 00:23:55.200
  • that's because Satan tried to
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  • attack you with your inner life
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  • and you overcame it
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  • so all he has left to do now
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  • is attack you with lies.
  • 00:24:02.250 --> 00:24:05.050
  • This is why great leaders always
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  • get attacked with lies, 'cause
  • 00:24:06.290 --> 00:24:08.200
  • they overcome the inner life
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  • and the only way the devil
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  • can get at you is outter lies.
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  • This is why, Jesus, he didn't
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  • go to the cross because he did
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  • anything, he went to the cross
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  • because they lied about him,
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  • right?
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  • He didn't do anything wrong.
  • 00:24:20.210 --> 00:24:22.000
  • In the same way, we see this
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  • happening here, that basically
  • 00:24:24.010 --> 00:24:26.290
  • Joseph doesn't do anything
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  • wrong, but yet he gets lied on,
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  • he gets lied about,
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  • now he ends up in prison.
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  • This is really important to
  • 00:24:31.070 --> 00:24:31.280
  • understand this, though, okay.
  • 00:24:31.280 --> 00:24:32.220
  • Check this out.
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  • He starts off way outside of
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  • where Egypt is, the power center
  • 00:24:37.100 --> 00:24:39.110
  • where he's supposed to be
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  • for his future.
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  • Let's just say the other side of
  • 00:24:41.100 --> 00:24:42.140
  • the stage represents the palace.
  • 00:24:42.140 --> 00:24:44.080
  • He's here, he has a dream,
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  • he wants to honor God,
  • 00:24:46.130 --> 00:24:47.110
  • he's betrayed, and they threw
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  • him into slavery, now he ends up
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  • in Egypt, in Potiphar's home.
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  • This is horrible, it seems to
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  • him from his perspective, but
  • 00:24:54.240 --> 00:24:56.010
  • what he doesn't realize is he's
  • 00:24:56.010 --> 00:24:57.010
  • closer than ever to his destiny.
  • 00:24:57.010 --> 00:24:59.030
  • He honors God, he does the right
  • 00:24:59.030 --> 00:25:01.000
  • thing, they lie about him,
  • 00:25:01.000 --> 00:25:02.220
  • now he's thrown into prison
  • 00:25:02.220 --> 00:25:04.090
  • right underneath the palace.
  • 00:25:04.090 --> 00:25:07.060
  • Now he is actually in the place
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  • of his destiny, but
  • 00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:09.260
  • he's not in the right position.
  • 00:25:09.260 --> 00:25:11.060
  • You will always end up
  • 00:25:11.060 --> 00:25:12.090
  • in the wrong position
  • 00:25:12.090 --> 00:25:13.150
  • in the right place first.
  • 00:25:13.150 --> 00:25:14.290
  • If you will honor God in
  • 00:25:14.290 --> 00:25:15.260
  • the wrong position, he will then
  • 00:25:15.260 --> 00:25:17.210
  • give you the right position.
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  • Oh, I'm excited, man.
  • 00:25:22.040 --> 00:25:23.140
  • Love this.
  • 00:25:23.260 --> 00:25:26.260
  • I'm gonna go buy my own tape.
  • 00:25:26.260 --> 00:25:28.070
  • I'm excited.
  • 00:25:28.070 --> 00:25:30.000
  • I wanna encourage you.
  • 00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:31.080
  • God has a word for you, and I
  • 00:25:31.080 --> 00:25:32.170
  • really believe he's trying to
  • 00:25:32.170 --> 00:25:33.240
  • help you understand he's not
  • 00:25:33.240 --> 00:25:35.090
  • trying to hurt you with your
  • 00:25:35.090 --> 00:25:36.190
  • repositioning, he's trying to
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  • - Bil: Hey, thanks so much for
  • 00:25:47.250 --> 00:25:48.170
  • watching the program today.
  • 00:25:48.170 --> 00:25:50.020
  • I've got a question for you.
  • 00:25:50.020 --> 00:25:51.140
  • Have you asked Jesus Christ
  • 00:25:51.140 --> 00:25:52.240
  • to be your Lord and Savior?
  • 00:25:52.240 --> 00:25:54.090
  • Have you prayed a simple prayer
  • 00:25:54.090 --> 00:25:56.030
  • that guarantees that you will
  • 00:25:56.030 --> 00:25:58.000
  • go to heaven because
  • 00:25:58.000 --> 00:25:59.000
  • you know Jesus?
  • 00:25:59.000 --> 00:26:00.230
  • Would you pray this prayer with
  • 00:26:00.230 --> 00:26:01.180
  • me right now?
  • 00:26:01.180 --> 00:26:02.180
  • You can just say this out loud.
  • 00:26:02.180 --> 00:26:03.150
  • You can say, "Dear Jesus,
  • 00:26:03.150 --> 00:26:04.200
  • I realize I need you.
  • 00:26:04.200 --> 00:26:07.050
  • I believe you died on the cross
  • 00:26:07.050 --> 00:26:08.130
  • for me to pay the price for
  • 00:26:08.130 --> 00:26:09.260
  • my sins and I believe
  • 00:26:09.260 --> 00:26:11.140
  • you rose again.
  • 00:26:11.140 --> 00:26:12.130
  • Please come into my heart,
  • 00:26:12.130 --> 00:26:13.240
  • be my Lord and be my Savior.
  • 00:26:13.240 --> 00:26:16.180
  • Thank you, Jesus, for saving me.
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  • - female announcer: All of us
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  • have someone in our lives
  • 00:26:22.170 --> 00:26:23.230
  • who drives us crazy.
  • 00:26:23.230 --> 00:26:25.160
  • In his new DVD message,
  • 00:26:25.160 --> 00:26:27.040
  • Pastor Bil teaches us
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  • how to deal
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  • with the difficult people
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  • in our lives.
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  • - Bil Cornelius: These are
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  • the kind of people
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  • that everyone else avoids
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  • in your office, everyone else
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  • avoids at church, everyone else
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  • avoids in your small group,
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  • everyone else avoids them
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  • at your family reunion,
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  • but instead of avoiding them,
  • 00:26:40.180 --> 00:26:41.210
  • we need to be like Jesus
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  • and go directly to them.
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