Ron Carpenter;Hope Carpenter - Necessity Of An Enemy

December 10, 2024 | S

Hosted by James and Betty Robison, this program features guests who have emerged victorious from difficulties in their lives.

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Life Today with James Robison | Ron Carpenter;Hope Carpenter - Necessity Of An Enemy | December 10, 2024
  • >> and if god can do above and beyond
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  • What i could ask or imagine,
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  • Let me begin to imagine a tomorrow that is so great
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  • That it will pull me out of the pain of my yesterday.
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  • We went out that day in some nowhere place
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  • In colorado, and i just know it was cold,
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  • And we dreamed all day;
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  • That was a turning point.
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  • Ron and hope carpenter help you
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  • Turn your challenging circumstance
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  • Into a steppingstone for breakthrough. next!
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  • Randy: welcome to life today !
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  • Randy: welcome to life today ! i'm randy robison.
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  • Randy: welcome to life today ! i'm randy robison. i'm solo because
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  • I'm randy robison. i'm solo because tammy is overseas
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  • I'm solo because tammy is overseas on a mission outreach.
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  • Tammy is overseas on a mission outreach. we look forward to some
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  • On a mission outreach. we look forward to some wonderful reports from her
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  • When she gets back.
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  • When she gets back. but today, we're here
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  • When she gets back. but today, we're here to offer you some hope
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  • But today, we're here to offer you some hope and encouragement
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  • To offer you some hope and encouragement with hope and ron.
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  • And encouragement with hope and ron. my guests,
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  • With hope and ron. my guests, ron and hope carpenter.
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  • My guests, ron and hope carpenter. listen. if you missed
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  • Ron and hope carpenter. listen. if you missed the last program with them
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  • Listen. if you missed the last program with them where they really got into
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  • The last program with them where they really got into some tough stories,
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  • Where they really got into some tough stories, some heartbreaking
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  • Some tough stories, some heartbreaking difficulties
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  • Some heartbreaking difficulties that they've been through,
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  • Go to lifetoday.org
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  • Go to lifetoday.org and watch that program.
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  • Go to lifetoday.org and watch that program. today, we're going to get
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  • And watch that program. today, we're going to get to a little more
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  • Today, we're going to get to a little more of the good stuff.
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  • The things they learned
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  • The things they learned through the hardship
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  • The things they learned through the hardship in the way that
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  • Through the hardship in the way that god has gloriously
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  • In the way that god has gloriously brought them back together,
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  • God has gloriously brought them back together, restored them.
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  • Brought them back together, restored them. it is a wonderful story.
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  • Restored them. it is a wonderful story. ron does have a book
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  • It is a wonderful story. ron does have a book that he talks about,
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  • Ron does have a book that he talks about, the necessity of an enemy
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  • That he talks about, the necessity of an enemy because i think a lot
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  • The necessity of an enemy because i think a lot of times, we face
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  • Because i think a lot of times, we face these situations and go,
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  • Of times, we face these situations and go, god, why do i have
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  • These situations and go, god, why do i have to go through that?
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  • God, why do i have to go through that? why suffering?
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  • To go through that? why suffering? nobody likes suffering.
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  • Why suffering? nobody likes suffering. but yet, it is a path
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  • Nobody likes suffering. but yet, it is a path to some beautiful things.
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  • But yet, it is a path to some beautiful things. so, hang on.
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  • To some beautiful things. so, hang on. you're going
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  • So, hang on. you're going to grow spiritually.
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  • You're going to grow spiritually. ron, hope, welcome back.
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  • To grow spiritually. ron, hope, welcome back. great to have you.
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  • Ron, hope, welcome back. great to have you. ron: great to be here.
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  • Great to have you. ron: great to be here. randy: let me just say
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  • Ron: great to be here. randy: let me just say thank you for sharing
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  • Randy: let me just say thank you for sharing so openly and honestly.
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  • Thank you for sharing so openly and honestly. i know when you're a pastor
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  • So openly and honestly. i know when you're a pastor you've got a congregation,
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  • I know when you're a pastor you've got a congregation, you have an image to uphold.
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  • You've got a congregation, you have an image to uphold. you're on
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  • You have an image to uphold. you're on christian television.
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  • You're on christian television. sometimes, we can want
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  • Christian television. sometimes, we can want to protect "the ministry"
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  • Sometimes, we can want to protect "the ministry" when god is like, i'm more
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  • To protect "the ministry" when god is like, i'm more interested in you guys.
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  • When god is like, i'm more interested in you guys. i don't want to rehash
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  • Interested in you guys. i don't want to rehash the whole program, but
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  • I don't want to rehash the whole program, but you guys were at a point
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  • The whole program, but you guys were at a point where your marriage
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  • You guys were at a point where your marriage was basically done and
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  • Where your marriage was basically done and it was affecting your church
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  • Was basically done and it was affecting your church and your family,
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  • It was affecting your church and your family, your children.
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  • And your family, your children. to go through the hard work,
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  • Your children. to go through the hard work, the sacrificial hard work
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  • To go through the hard work, the sacrificial hard work on your part,
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  • The sacrificial hard work on your part, and honesty on your part,
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  • On your part, and honesty on your part, what were some of the lessons
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  • And honesty on your part, what were some of the lessons you learned in fighting
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  • What were some of the lessons you learned in fighting for your message
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  • You learned in fighting for your message and standing up to this enemy
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  • For your message and standing up to this enemy of trauma, of pain,
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  • And standing up to this enemy of trauma, of pain, of betrayal,
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  • Of trauma, of pain, of betrayal, and unfaithfulness?
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  • Of betrayal, and unfaithfulness? hope: i think for me,
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  • Eye-opening.
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  • Eye-opening. and this sounds so silly
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  • And this sounds so silly because we know why
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  • Because we know why jesus had to come.
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  • Jesus had to come. he had to come because
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  • He had to come because we were sinful
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  • But the eye-opening revelation
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  • But the eye-opening revelation that we're all broken,
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  • But the eye-opening revelation that we're all broken, and we really
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  • That we're all broken, and we really do need a savior.
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  • And we really do need a savior. for some reason,
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  • Do need a savior. for some reason, when we get saved, we feel
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  • For some reason, when we get saved, we feel like nothing is supposed
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  • When we get saved, we feel like nothing is supposed to be wrong in our lives.
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  • Like nothing is supposed to be wrong in our lives. or we're not supposed
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  • To be wrong in our lives. or we're not supposed to fight anything.
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  • Or we're not supposed to fight anything. so, i think when that starts
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  • To fight anything. so, i think when that starts hitting our lives,
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  • So, i think when that starts hitting our lives, we feel like
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  • Hitting our lives, we feel like second-class citizens,
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  • We feel like second-class citizens, second-class christians.
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  • Second-class citizens, second-class christians. we're not good enough.
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  • Second-class christians. we're not good enough. we're not holy enough.
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  • We're not good enough. we're not holy enough. we don't read
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  • We're not holy enough. we don't read our bible enough.
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  • We don't read our bible enough. so, we have a tendency
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  • Our bible enough. so, we have a tendency to stuff it, and we have
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  • So, we have a tendency to stuff it, and we have a tendency to not talk
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  • To stuff it, and we have a tendency to not talk about it or admit it
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  • A tendency to not talk about it or admit it or get help for it.
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  • About it or admit it or get help for it. so, for me, it was just
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  • Or get help for it. so, for me, it was just like the weight was
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  • So, for me, it was just like the weight was lifted off of me to realize,
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  • Like the weight was lifted off of me to realize, we're on a journey
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  • Lifted off of me to realize, we're on a journey to become more like jesus.
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  • We're on a journey to become more like jesus. that doesn't happen overnight
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  • To become more like jesus. that doesn't happen overnight when we say yes to jesus
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  • That doesn't happen overnight when we say yes to jesus and get saved.
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  • When we say yes to jesus and get saved. and it is okay
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  • And get saved. and it is okay that we stumble.
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  • And it is okay that we stumble. but the goal is
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  • That we stumble. but the goal is to get back up.
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  • But the goal is to get back up. so, i think for me
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  • To get back up. so, i think for me personally, it was just
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  • So, i think for me personally, it was just the weight lifted off.
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  • Personally, it was just the weight lifted off. that yes, there is going
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  • The weight lifted off. that yes, there is going to be an adversary;
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  • That yes, there is going to be an adversary; you have an adversary.
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  • To be an adversary; you have an adversary. you have your own issues.
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  • You have an adversary. you have your own issues. you have your own past.
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  • You have your own issues. you have your own past. you have your own
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  • You have your own past. you have your own unrenewed mind that
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  • You have your own unrenewed mind that you're having to renew
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  • Unrenewed mind that you're having to renew on a daily basis.
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  • You're having to renew on a daily basis. and it is a journey,
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  • On a daily basis. and it is a journey, but you can't stop.
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  • And it is a journey, but you can't stop. it's a journey till you
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  • But you can't stop. it's a journey till you get to the finish line.
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  • It's a journey till you get to the finish line. and the finish line is when
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  • Get to the finish line. and the finish line is when you're six feet under,
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  • Randy: i think there are
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  • Randy: i think there are certain -- you guys are
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  • Certain -- you guys are experiencing some things
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  • Experiencing some things that you had to journey
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  • That you had to journey toward that are good.
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  • Toward that are good. that is an interesting
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  • That is an interesting parallel because when
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  • In egypt, god miraculously
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  • In egypt, god miraculously delivered them and had
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  • In egypt, god miraculously delivered them and had for them a promised land
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  • Delivered them and had for them a promised land of milk and honey.
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  • For them a promised land of milk and honey. it is a place of abundance,
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  • Of milk and honey. it is a place of abundance, a place of security.
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  • It is a place of abundance, a place of security. but in-between,
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  • A place of security. but in-between, there is this desert,
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  • But in-between, there is this desert, and they had to fight.
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  • There is this desert, and they had to fight. the interesting thing
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  • And they had to fight. the interesting thing is the reason that
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  • The interesting thing is the reason that a whole generation wandered
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  • Is the reason that a whole generation wandered in the desert was because
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  • A whole generation wandered in the desert was because they didn't believe the report
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  • In the desert was because they didn't believe the report that if they fought,
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  • They didn't believe the report that if they fought, they would win.
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  • That if they fought, they would win. they believed the 12 spies,
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  • They would win. they believed the 12 spies, two of them said,
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  • They believed the 12 spies, two of them said, "they're giants but
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  • Two of them said, "they're giants but we can beat them."
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  • "they're giants but we can beat them." ten of them say,
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  • We can beat them." ten of them say, "no, we can't win.
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  • Ten of them say, "no, we can't win. it's too much."
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  • "no, we can't win. it's too much." they went with the odds
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  • It's too much." they went with the odds on that.
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  • They went with the odds on that. and here's what i see.
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  • On that. and here's what i see. a lot of people in the church
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  • And here's what i see. a lot of people in the church are stuck between
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  • A lot of people in the church are stuck between their deliverance
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  • Are stuck between their deliverance and their destiny,
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  • Their deliverance and their destiny, and it is a desert.
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  • And their destiny, and it is a desert. so, ron, for you,
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  • And it is a desert. so, ron, for you, what made you realize
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  • So, ron, for you, what made you realize that yeah, i can fight?
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  • What made you realize that yeah, i can fight? i have to fight,
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  • Ron: you know egypt
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  • Ron: you know egypt is full of external enemies
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  • Is full of external enemies so god fought those enemies
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  • So god fought those enemies because you can't fight them.
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  • Because you can't fight them. the wilderness,
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  • The wilderness, you have to fight
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  • You have to fight the internal enemies and
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  • You have to fight them
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  • You have to fight them yourself.
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  • You have to fight them yourself. that's why a whole generation
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  • Yourself. that's why a whole generation didn't make it.
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  • That's why a whole generation didn't make it. i wrote that book
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  • Didn't make it. i wrote that book in the middle of all this,
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  • I wrote that book in the middle of all this, not really knowing
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  • In the middle of all this, not really knowing what was going on.
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  • Not really knowing what was going on. i wrote that book.
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  • What was going on. i wrote that book. that was during
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  • I wrote that book. that was during the recession.
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  • That was during the recession. pastored in the bible belt,
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  • The recession. pastored in the bible belt, a very blue-collar area.
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  • Pastored in the bible belt, a very blue-collar area. during the recession,
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  • A very blue-collar area. during the recession, i lost 42% of my operating
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  • During the recession, i lost 42% of my operating income in one year.
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  • I lost 42% of my operating income in one year. i remember one day
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  • Income in one year. i remember one day i had to lay off
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  • I remember one day i had to lay off 17 single mothers.
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  • I had to lay off 17 single mothers. i came home and laid
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  • 17 single mothers. i came home and laid in my lap and cried.
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  • I came home and laid in my lap and cried. i felt like i wasn't
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  • In my lap and cried. i felt like i wasn't even saved.
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  • I felt like i wasn't even saved. our oldest son was gone
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  • Even saved. our oldest son was gone on drugs somewhere.
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  • Our oldest son was gone on drugs somewhere. i didn't know where he was.
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  • On drugs somewhere. i didn't know where he was. my marriage was --
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  • I didn't know where he was. my marriage was -- i didn't know what
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  • My marriage was -- i didn't know what was going on,
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  • I didn't know what was going on, but it was crumbling,
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  • Was going on, but it was crumbling, and the church was
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  • But it was crumbling, and the church was in bankruptcy,
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  • And the church was in bankruptcy, and i was under an f.b.i.
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  • In bankruptcy, and i was under an f.b.i. investigation.
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  • And i was under an f.b.i. investigation. randy: oh!
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  • Investigation. randy: oh! ron: our church did a lot
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  • Randy: oh! ron: our church did a lot of community efforts,
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  • Ron: our church did a lot of community efforts, a lot of partnerships
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  • Of community efforts, a lot of partnerships with the state
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  • A lot of partnerships with the state and local governments.
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  • With the state and local governments. we were building
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  • And local governments. we were building a subdivision
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  • We were building a subdivision for single moms.
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  • A subdivision for single moms. had a lot of success
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  • For single moms. had a lot of success of people who never had
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  • Had a lot of success of people who never had a chance of ever owning
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  • Of people who never had a chance of ever owning property and we were
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  • A chance of ever owning property and we were putting them in property.
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  • Property and we were putting them in property. we did a lot of things
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  • Putting them in property. we did a lot of things like that.
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  • We did a lot of things like that. this is just one.
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  • Like that. this is just one. we had a lot of things
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  • This is just one. we had a lot of things we did like that.
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  • We had a lot of things we did like that. but i had a company
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  • We did like that. but i had a company i worked with where
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  • But i had a company i worked with where the president of that company
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  • I worked with where the president of that company was doing some unethical
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  • The president of that company was doing some unethical things with investments.
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  • Was doing some unethical things with investments. and so, the 250 some people
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  • Things with investments. and so, the 250 some people involved took out
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  • And so, the 250 some people involved took out a class action lawsuit on me
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  • Involved took out a class action lawsuit on me for hiring him because
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  • A class action lawsuit on me for hiring him because that's where the lawyers
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  • For hiring him because that's where the lawyers told them to go after,
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  • That's where the lawyers told them to go after, go after the preacher.
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  • Told them to go after, go after the preacher. then the fbi got involved.
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  • Go after the preacher. then the fbi got involved. so, i've got a son on drugs,
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  • Then the fbi got involved. so, i've got a son on drugs, a marriage falling apart,
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  • So, i've got a son on drugs, a marriage falling apart, a church on the verge
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  • A marriage falling apart, a church on the verge of bankruptcy,
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  • A church on the verge of bankruptcy, and the fbi breathing down
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  • Of bankruptcy, and the fbi breathing down my neck every day
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  • And the fbi breathing down my neck every day going on at the same time.
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  • My neck every day going on at the same time. i'm a country boy
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  • Going on at the same time. i'm a country boy from possum kingdom,
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  • I'm a country boy from possum kingdom, south carolina.
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  • From possum kingdom, south carolina. [laughing]
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  • South carolina. [laughing] hope: we just wanted
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  • [laughing] hope: we just wanted to get some people saved.
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  • Hope: we just wanted to get some people saved. ron: i just wanted to help
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  • To get some people saved. ron: i just wanted to help some people get saved.
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  • Ron: i just wanted to help some people get saved. i'm like, what am i doing
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  • Some people get saved. i'm like, what am i doing here?
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  • I'm like, what am i doing here? what in the world?
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  • Here? what in the world? that was really
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  • What in the world? that was really a revelation to me because
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  • That was really a revelation to me because the bible says
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  • A revelation to me because the bible says first corinthians 16:9,
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  • The bible says first corinthians 16:9, "there is a great
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  • First corinthians 16:9, "there is a great and effective door open for me
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  • "there is a great and effective door open for me but there are
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  • And effective door open for me but there are many adversaries."
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  • But there are many adversaries." adversaries and doors
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  • Many adversaries." adversaries and doors go together.
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  • Adversaries and doors go together. opportunities always come
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  • Go together. opportunities always come with adversaries.
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  • Opportunities always come with adversaries. god gave me that book.
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  • With adversaries. god gave me that book. that book was the cry
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  • God gave me that book. that book was the cry of my heart, really trying
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  • That book was the cry of my heart, really trying to understand an enemy
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  • Of my heart, really trying to understand an enemy is a lot less lethal
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  • To understand an enemy is a lot less lethal if you know what
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  • Is a lot less lethal if you know what you're fighting.
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  • If you know what you're fighting. but man, when you don't know
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  • You're fighting. but man, when you don't know what you're fighting,
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  • But man, when you don't know what you're fighting, they're lethal.
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  • What you're fighting, they're lethal. and so, i began to go
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  • They're lethal. and so, i began to go through the bible, really,
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  • And so, i began to go through the bible, really, for my own survival.
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  • Through the bible, really, for my own survival. i didn't say man,
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  • For my own survival. i didn't say man, this will be a good book.
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  • I didn't say man, this will be a good book. i was going through
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  • This will be a good book. i was going through the bible to try to figure out
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  • I was going through the bible to try to figure out how to make it
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  • The bible to try to figure out how to make it and keep my sanity.
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  • How to make it and keep my sanity. i realized that you would
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  • And keep my sanity. i realized that you would have never even heard of
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  • I realized that you would have never even heard of a david if it wasn't
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  • Have never even heard of a david if it wasn't for goliath.
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  • A david if it wasn't for goliath. wouldn't have even
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  • For goliath. wouldn't have even heard of him.
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  • Wouldn't have even heard of him. you wouldn't never know
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  • Heard of him. you wouldn't never know about moses if
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  • You wouldn't never know about moses if there wasn't a pharaoh.
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  • About moses if there wasn't a pharaoh. the fact is, i realized
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  • There wasn't a pharaoh. the fact is, i realized the hope the enemy gave me
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  • The fact is, i realized the hope the enemy gave me because the enemy arising
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  • The hope the enemy gave me because the enemy arising in my life is a sign
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  • Because the enemy arising in my life is a sign that there is a door
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  • In my life is a sign that there is a door arising in my life.
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  • That there is a door arising in my life. and you've got to take
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  • Arising in my life. and you've got to take the enemy to be able
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  • And you've got to take the enemy to be able to access the door.
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  • The enemy to be able to access the door. so, usually the next seasons
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  • To access the door. so, usually the next seasons are introduced with an enemy.
  • 00:09:08.537 --> 00:09:10.406
  • So, usually the next seasons are introduced with an enemy. there is a great
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  • But there is an adversary.
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  • But there is an adversary. so, i just learned
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  • So, i just learned that all these battles
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  • That all these battles i'm fighting must be
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  • I'm fighting must be an entrance to something
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  • An entrance to something greater in my life.
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  • The fuel like i said,
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  • The fuel like i said, to stand up to these battles
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  • The fuel like i said, to stand up to these battles because they were draining
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  • To stand up to these battles because they were draining financially, they were
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  • Because they were draining financially, they were draining emotionally,
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  • Financially, they were draining emotionally, and in every which way,
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  • Draining emotionally, and in every which way, being hit from every side.
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  • And in every which way, being hit from every side. i really think it was
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  • Being hit from every side. i really think it was that small timespan of
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  • I really think it was that small timespan of about 2010 to 2013,
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  • That small timespan of about 2010 to 2013, i think the enemy wanted
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  • About 2010 to 2013, i think the enemy wanted to take ron carpenter out.
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  • I think the enemy wanted to take ron carpenter out. i don't think he wanted
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  • To take ron carpenter out. i don't think he wanted to hurt him or inhibit him;
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  • I don't think he wanted to hurt him or inhibit him; i think he wanted
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  • To hurt him or inhibit him; i think he wanted to take him out.
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  • I think he wanted to take him out. because honestly,
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  • To take him out. because honestly, any one of these three would
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  • Because honestly, any one of these three would take a lot of people out --
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  • Any one of these three would take a lot of people out -- any one of them.
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  • Take a lot of people out -- any one of them. the fbi thing went on
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  • Any one of them. the fbi thing went on for three years.
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  • The fbi thing went on for three years. that was horrible because
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  • For three years. that was horrible because you're fighting someone
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  • That was horrible because you're fighting someone with unlimited resources.
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  • You're fighting someone with unlimited resources. i was declared
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  • With unlimited resources. i was declared totally clean.
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  • I was declared totally clean. it was ridiculous but
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  • Have got to fight it.
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  • Have got to fight it. randy: let me ask you
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  • Randy: let me ask you this tough question though
  • 00:10:09.465 --> 00:10:10.533
  • This tough question though because it is easy to go,
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  • Because it is easy to go, oh, i'm a victim.
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  • Oh, i'm a victim. or the enemy is
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  • Or the enemy is out to get me!
  • 00:10:14.270 --> 00:10:15.471
  • And self-examination
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  • And self-examination required during that time?
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  • And self-examination required during that time? ron: totally.
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  • Required during that time? ron: totally. i'm not the same man i was
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  • Ron: totally. i'm not the same man i was then because when --
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  • I'm not the same man i was then because when -- when you're succeeding,
  • 00:10:29.151 --> 00:10:31.654
  • Then because when -- when you're succeeding, you tend to be oblivious
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  • When you're succeeding, you tend to be oblivious to things.
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  • You tend to be oblivious to things. but when everything starts
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  • To things. but when everything starts falling apart around you,
  • 00:10:36.792 --> 00:10:37.927
  • But when everything starts falling apart around you, you start assessing
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  • Falling apart around you, you start assessing everything.
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  • You start assessing everything. i think that was me.
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  • Everything. i think that was me. i don't know if i could
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  • I think that was me. i don't know if i could answer for her during
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  • I don't know if i could answer for her during that time, but yeah, i was
  • 00:10:44.300 --> 00:10:45.501
  • Answer for her during that time, but yeah, i was doing a lot of
  • 00:10:45.568 --> 00:10:47.103
  • That time, but yeah, i was doing a lot of how did i get here?
  • 00:10:47.169 --> 00:10:48.971
  • Doing a lot of how did i get here? what decisions did i make?
  • 00:10:49.038 --> 00:10:51.073
  • How did i get here? what decisions did i make? who was influencing me
  • 00:10:51.140 --> 00:10:54.176
  • What decisions did i make? who was influencing me when i made these decisions?
  • 00:10:54.243 --> 00:10:55.778
  • Who was influencing me when i made these decisions? i started asking questions
  • 00:10:55.845 --> 00:10:56.946
  • When i made these decisions? i started asking questions about everything.
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  • I started asking questions about everything. probably from 2010 to 2020,
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  • About everything. probably from 2010 to 2020, i probably went through
  • 00:11:02.952 --> 00:11:04.053
  • Probably from 2010 to 2020, i probably went through my own personal revolution
  • 00:11:04.120 --> 00:11:06.489
  • I probably went through my own personal revolution with just assessing
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  • My own personal revolution with just assessing the kind of father i was
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  • With just assessing the kind of father i was and the kind of husband i was
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  • The kind of father i was and the kind of husband i was and the kind of pastor i was.
  • 00:11:10.459 --> 00:11:12.261
  • And the kind of husband i was and the kind of pastor i was. let's go back to the
  • 00:11:12.328 --> 00:11:13.429
  • And the kind of pastor i was. let's go back to the kind of man i wanted to be.
  • 00:11:13.496 --> 00:11:15.831
  • Let's go back to the kind of man i wanted to be. so yeah, there was a lot
  • 00:11:15.898 --> 00:11:17.166
  • Kind of man i wanted to be. so yeah, there was a lot of self-reflection
  • 00:11:17.233 --> 00:11:18.434
  • So yeah, there was a lot of self-reflection and a lot of what i found out
  • 00:11:18.501 --> 00:11:19.602
  • Of self-reflection and a lot of what i found out about myself i didn't like.
  • 00:11:19.668 --> 00:11:21.837
  • And a lot of what i found out about myself i didn't like. randy: i get that.
  • 00:11:21.904 --> 00:11:23.239
  • About myself i didn't like. randy: i get that. you know what's
  • 00:11:23.305 --> 00:11:24.340
  • Randy: i get that. you know what's interesting though?
  • 00:11:24.406 --> 00:11:25.374
  • You know what's interesting though? because we think, okay,
  • 00:11:25.441 --> 00:11:26.442
  • Interesting though? because we think, okay, we need to save the church!
  • 00:11:26.509 --> 00:11:27.676
  • Because we think, okay, we need to save the church! or we need to save
  • 00:11:27.743 --> 00:11:28.744
  • We need to save the church! or we need to save our marriage.
  • 00:11:28.811 --> 00:11:29.812
  • Or we need to save our marriage. both good things.
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  • Our marriage. both good things. but when you look
  • 00:11:30.946 --> 00:11:31.947
  • Both good things. but when you look at scripture it tells you
  • 00:11:32.014 --> 00:11:33.015
  • But when you look at scripture it tells you that god's desire is
  • 00:11:33.082 --> 00:11:34.083
  • At scripture it tells you that god's desire is to conform us
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  • That god's desire is to conform us to the image of christ.
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  • To conform us to the image of christ. we like things like hope
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  • To the image of christ. we like things like hope and faithfulness
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  • We like things like hope and faithfulness and perseverance,
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  • And faithfulness and perseverance, but scripture tells us
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  • And perseverance, but scripture tells us that starts with suffering.
  • 00:11:42.792 --> 00:11:44.660
  • But scripture tells us that starts with suffering. we don't like suffering.
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  • That starts with suffering. we don't like suffering. we call it the enemy --
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  • We don't like suffering. we call it the enemy -- the enemy component there.
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  • We call it the enemy -- the enemy component there. or we pray against it.
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  • The enemy component there. or we pray against it. or we think, well,
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  • Or we pray against it. or we think, well, that person is suffering,
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  • Or we think, well, that person is suffering, they must have done
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  • That person is suffering, they must have done something wrong.
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  • They must have done something wrong. what have you learned
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  • Something wrong. what have you learned through your suffering?
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  • What have you learned through your suffering? ron: what i've learned
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  • Through your suffering? ron: what i've learned is to press through.
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  • Ron: what i've learned is to press through. we say that
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  • Is to press through. we say that tongue-in-cheek, but
  • 00:12:02.511 --> 00:12:03.512
  • We say that tongue-in-cheek, but i'm concerned that we are
  • 00:12:03.579 --> 00:12:04.814
  • Tongue-in-cheek, but i'm concerned that we are raising up a generation now
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  • I'm concerned that we are raising up a generation now that has not learned
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  • Raising up a generation now that has not learned to press through.
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  • That has not learned to press through. because there are a whole
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  • To press through. because there are a whole lot of quick quitters
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  • Because there are a whole lot of quick quitters in the younger generation.
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  • Lot of quick quitters in the younger generation. what we learned was --
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  • In the younger generation. what we learned was -- there is an old saying,
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  • What we learned was -- there is an old saying, it is not an original
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  • There is an old saying, it is not an original with me.
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  • It is not an original with me. i don't know who
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  • With me. i don't know who said it first.
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  • I don't know who said it first. my mom and dad's generation,
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  • Said it first. my mom and dad's generation, their mom and dad's
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  • My mom and dad's generation, their mom and dad's generation, when something
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  • Their mom and dad's generation, when something was broken, you don't
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  • Generation, when something was broken, you don't throw it away, you fix it.
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  • Was broken, you don't throw it away, you fix it. we took the road
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  • Throw it away, you fix it. we took the road less traveled,
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  • We took the road less traveled, and it was not an easy road.
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  • Less traveled, and it was not an easy road. but now, on the other side
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  • And it was not an easy road. but now, on the other side of it, and we're skipping
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  • But now, on the other side of it, and we're skipping a whole lot of time
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  • On the other side of it,
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  • On the other side of it, i wouldn't trade places
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  • I wouldn't trade places with anybody in the world.
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  • With anybody in the world. because one of the things
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  • Because one of the things i'm so glad i didn't do
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  • Her healing and somebody else
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  • Her healing and somebody else get to enjoy it.
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  • Her healing and somebody else get to enjoy it. and i dealt with the one
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  • Get to enjoy it. and i dealt with the one that was painful but never
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  • And i dealt with the one that was painful but never dealt with the one
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  • That was painful but never dealt with the one who god had restored.
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  • Dealt with the one who god had restored. if i'm going to walk with
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  • Who god had restored. if i'm going to walk with the hope that was broken,
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  • If i'm going to walk with the hope that was broken, i want to hang around
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  • The hope that was broken, i want to hang around and wait for the hope
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  • I want to hang around and wait for the hope that gets restored.
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  • And wait for the hope that gets restored. and i'm so glad that i did.
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  • That gets restored. and i'm so glad that i did. randy: that required
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  • And i'm so glad that i did. randy: that required sacrifice on your side.
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  • Randy: that required sacrifice on your side. ron: yes, it did.
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  • Sacrifice on your side. ron: yes, it did. can i tell you one thing
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  • Ron: yes, it did. can i tell you one thing that helped me?
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  • Can i tell you one thing that helped me? counseling, counseling,
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  • That helped me? counseling, counseling, counseling --
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  • Counseling, counseling, counseling -- i'm not doing away with it,
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  • Counseling -- i'm not doing away with it, i'm so grateful for it but
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  • I'm not doing away with it, i'm so grateful for it but we went through so much.
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  • I'm so grateful for it but we went through so much. we had friends,
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  • We went through so much. we had friends, "y'all need to go here
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  • We had friends, "y'all need to go here for a week."
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  • "y'all need to go here for a week." and we'd go there
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  • For a week." and we'd go there for a week.
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  • And we'd go there for a week. "y'all need to stay here."
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  • For a week. "y'all need to stay here." she had been here at this
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  • "y'all need to stay here." she had been here at this place seven months
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  • She had been here at this place seven months and it was just go
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  • Place seven months and it was just go and regurgitate it again and
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  • And it was just go and regurgitate it again and go and regurgitate it again.
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  • And regurgitate it again and go and regurgitate it again. this was now about six months
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  • Go and regurgitate it again. this was now about six months into us trying
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  • This was now about six months into us trying to patch it together.
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  • Into us trying to patch it together. we went to another place
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  • To patch it together. we went to another place that at that time was
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  • We went to another place that at that time was in colorado,
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  • That at that time was in colorado, called blessings ranch.
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  • In colorado, called blessings ranch. wonderful people.
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  • Called blessings ranch. wonderful people. very intelligent.
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  • Wonderful people. very intelligent. and we started it all again.
  • 00:13:41.944 --> 00:13:43.279
  • Very intelligent. and we started it all again. because we're just trying,
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  • And we started it all again. because we're just trying, whatever it is, to get it out
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  • Because we're just trying, whatever it is, to get it out and help us put things
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  • Whatever it is, to get it out and help us put things back together.
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  • And help us put things back together. i'm sitting there,
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  • Back together. i'm sitting there, and it was the second day,
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  • I'm sitting there, and it was the second day, and i just looked at
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  • And it was the second day, and i just looked at that therapist and i said,
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  • And i just looked at that therapist and i said, "i can't do this no more.
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  • And keep talking about this."
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  • And keep talking about this." and god took me to psalms 126,
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  • And god took me to psalms 126, where it said, "when we came
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  • We were like those
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  • We were like those who dreamed again."
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  • We were like those who dreamed again." i told the therapist,
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  • Who dreamed again." i told the therapist, i said, "with all due respect,
  • 00:14:11.140 --> 00:14:12.308
  • I told the therapist, i said, "with all due respect, y'all are amazing.
  • 00:14:12.374 --> 00:14:13.375
  • I said, "with all due respect, y'all are amazing. but i'm not going
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  • Y'all are amazing. but i'm not going to be coming back."
  • 00:14:14.510 --> 00:14:15.511
  • But i'm not going to be coming back." i said, "i've got to get
  • 00:14:15.577 --> 00:14:16.745
  • To be coming back." i said, "i've got to get my wife, i've got to get
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  • I said, "i've got to get my wife, i've got to get out of here, and i've got
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  • My wife, i've got to get out of here, and i've got to go dream again.
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  • Out of here, and i've got to go dream again. i've got to put my mind
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  • To go dream again. i've got to put my mind somewhere else."
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  • I've got to put my mind somewhere else." hope: we've got to quit
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  • Somewhere else." hope: we've got to quit talking about the past.
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  • Hope: we've got to quit talking about the past. ron: other than
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  • Talking about the past. ron: other than what i've been through.
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  • Ron: other than what i've been through. i said, "i've got
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  • What i've been through. i said, "i've got to dream again."
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  • I said, "i've got to dream again." why? because a lot of
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  • To dream again." why? because a lot of our dreams were broken.
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  • Why? because a lot of our dreams were broken. but a lot of our dreams
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  • Our dreams were broken. but a lot of our dreams were not broken,
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  • But a lot of our dreams were not broken, we let them go.
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  • Were not broken, we let them go. we went out that day,
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  • We let them go. we went out that day, another landmark day,
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  • We went out that day, another landmark day, this is one of those
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  • Another landmark day, this is one of those god encounters, we went out
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  • This is one of those god encounters, we went out to someplace in the middle
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  • God encounters, we went out to someplace in the middle of nowhere colorado.
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  • To someplace in the middle of nowhere colorado. it was freezing.
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  • Of nowhere colorado. it was freezing. it was cold!
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  • It was freezing. it was cold! and i remember we started
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  • It was cold! and i remember we started talking about things
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  • And i remember we started talking about things we wanted to do
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  • Talking about things we wanted to do that we hadn't done.
  • 00:14:48.210 --> 00:14:49.778
  • We wanted to do that we hadn't done. we started talking about
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  • That we hadn't done. we started talking about trips we wanted to take,
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  • We started talking about trips we wanted to take, and places we wanted to go
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  • Trips we wanted to take, and places we wanted to go and things we wanted
  • 00:14:56.852 --> 00:14:57.920
  • And places we wanted to go and things we wanted to accomplish, and books
  • 00:14:57.987 --> 00:14:59.621
  • And things we wanted to accomplish, and books that we wanted to write.
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  • To accomplish, and books that we wanted to write. hope: and how could
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  • That we wanted to write. hope: and how could god use this to help
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  • Hope: and how could god use this to help other people?
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  • God use this to help other people? ron: that's another one
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  • Other people? ron: that's another one of those days that helped
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  • Ron: that's another one of those days that helped save my life because
  • 00:15:08.030 --> 00:15:09.031
  • Of those days that helped save my life because your mind does two things,
  • 00:15:09.098 --> 00:15:10.332
  • Save my life because your mind does two things, it remembers,
  • 00:15:10.399 --> 00:15:11.400
  • Your mind does two things, it remembers, and it imagines.
  • 00:15:11.467 --> 00:15:12.468
  • It remembers, and it imagines. it is programmed that
  • 00:15:12.534 --> 00:15:13.535
  • And it imagines. it is programmed that if you don't give it
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  • It is programmed that if you don't give it anything to imagine,
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  • If you don't give it anything to imagine, it retreats to memory.
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  • Anything to imagine, it retreats to memory. i was tired of having
  • 00:15:19.008 --> 00:15:20.309
  • It retreats to memory. i was tired of having all of my focus --
  • 00:15:20.376 --> 00:15:21.477
  • I was tired of having all of my focus -- the pain having
  • 00:15:21.543 --> 00:15:22.544
  • All of my focus -- the pain having all of my focus.
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  • The pain having all of my focus. and if god can do above
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  • All of my focus. and if god can do above and beyond of what i could
  • 00:15:25.014 --> 00:15:26.081
  • And if god can do above and beyond of what i could ask or imagine,
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  • And beyond of what i could ask or imagine, let me begin to imagine
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  • Ask or imagine, let me begin to imagine a tomorrow that is so great
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  • Let me begin to imagine a tomorrow that is so great that it will pull me out
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  • A tomorrow that is so great that it will pull me out of the pain of my yesterday.
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  • That it will pull me out of the pain of my yesterday. and we went out that day
  • 00:15:34.390 --> 00:15:35.924
  • Of the pain of my yesterday. and we went out that day in some nowhere place
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  • And we went out that day in some nowhere place in colorado, and i just know
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  • In some nowhere place in colorado, and i just know it was cold,
  • 00:15:38.427 --> 00:15:39.962
  • In colorado, and i just know it was cold, and we dreamed all day.
  • 00:15:40.029 --> 00:15:42.231
  • It was cold, and we dreamed all day. and that was a turning point.
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  • And we dreamed all day. and that was a turning point. hope: it was!
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  • You'd done a lot of work.
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  • You'd done a lot of work. so, what i hear, and tell me
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  • So, what i hear, and tell me if this is what you're saying,
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  • If this is what you're saying, is that yeah,
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  • Is that yeah, you need to get honest.
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  • You've got to push through
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  • You've got to push through the pain, which is
  • 00:15:59.248 --> 00:16:00.416
  • You've got to push through the pain, which is the suffering part of it.
  • 00:16:00.482 --> 00:16:01.984
  • The pain, which is the suffering part of it. but if you endure,
  • 00:16:02.051 --> 00:16:03.285
  • The suffering part of it. but if you endure, you can get to a place where
  • 00:16:03.352 --> 00:16:04.586
  • But if you endure, you can get to a place where you don't live in the past,
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  • You can get to a place where you don't live in the past, but you hope and dream again.
  • 00:16:06.388 --> 00:16:08.123
  • You don't live in the past, but you hope and dream again. hope: the wonderful scripture
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  • But you hope and dream again. hope: the wonderful scripture in hebrews 12 that tells us
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  • But do it with endurance.
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  • But do it with endurance. so, it is happening
  • 00:16:15.798 --> 00:16:17.066
  • So, it is happening at the same time.
  • 00:16:17.132 --> 00:16:19.068
  • At the same time. you're running forward
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  • You're running forward towards your future
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  • With endurance.
  • 00:16:24.073 --> 00:16:25.074
  • With endurance. that means you're having
  • 00:16:25.140 --> 00:16:26.341
  • With endurance. that means you're having to run against something.
  • 00:16:26.408 --> 00:16:29.011
  • That means you're having to run against something. but you keep running.
  • 00:16:29.078 --> 00:16:31.146
  • To run against something. but you keep running. that pain is what makes you
  • 00:16:31.213 --> 00:16:33.082
  • But you keep running. that pain is what makes you stronger to go faster.
  • 00:16:33.148 --> 00:16:35.784
  • That pain is what makes you stronger to go faster. randy: it is interesting
  • 00:16:35.851 --> 00:16:37.019
  • Stronger to go faster. randy: it is interesting because it also talks
  • 00:16:37.086 --> 00:16:38.353
  • Randy: it is interesting because it also talks about a race where it says,
  • 00:16:38.420 --> 00:16:39.721
  • Because it also talks about a race where it says, to lay aside the sin
  • 00:16:39.788 --> 00:16:40.889
  • About a race where it says, to lay aside the sin that so easily entangles us.
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  • To lay aside the sin that so easily entangles us. not only don't do the thing
  • 00:16:44.326 --> 00:16:46.895
  • That so easily entangles us. not only don't do the thing that is easier to do, right?
  • 00:16:46.962 --> 00:16:49.498
  • Not only don't do the thing that is easier to do, right? that's easier, but at
  • 00:16:49.565 --> 00:16:51.433
  • That is easier to do, right? that's easier, but at some point, you laid aside
  • 00:16:51.500 --> 00:16:52.534
  • That's easier, but at some point, you laid aside all the sin in your past
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  • Some point, you laid aside all the sin in your past and you just ran that race.
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  • All the sin in your past and you just ran that race. how are you guys now?
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  • And you just ran that race. how are you guys now? ron: the bible says --
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  • How are you guys now? ron: the bible says -- hope: he is more in love
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  • Ron: the bible says -- hope: he is more in love with me than he's ever been.
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  • Hope: he is more in love with me than he's ever been. and i'm more in love with him!
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  • With me than he's ever been. and i'm more in love with him! ron: and that's true.
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  • And i'm more in love with him! ron: and that's true. we are in some of
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  • Ron: and that's true. we are in some of the bliss stages.
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  • We are in some of the bliss stages. you know after you come
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  • The bliss stages. you know after you come out of the hell stage
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  • You know after you come out of the hell stage you need to have
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  • Out of the hell stage you need to have some bliss stage.
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  • You need to have some bliss stage. the bible says,
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  • Some bliss stage. the bible says, "forgetting those things
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  • The bible says, "forgetting those things that are behind, i press
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  • "forgetting those things that are behind, i press for the high calling
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  • That are behind, i press for the high calling of god in christ jesus."
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  • For the high calling of god in christ jesus." that "forget" doesn't mean
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  • Of god in christ jesus." that "forget" doesn't mean selective amnesia.
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  • That "forget" doesn't mean selective amnesia. you can't unknow
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  • Selective amnesia. you can't unknow what you know.
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  • You can't unknow what you know. so, i really honed in on that.
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  • What you know. so, i really honed in on that. because this, you know,
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  • So, i really honed in on that. because this, you know, was no longer a sermon.
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  • Because this, you know, was no longer a sermon. this was me surviving.
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  • Was no longer a sermon. this was me surviving. this is not preaching,
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  • This was me surviving. this is not preaching, this is life.
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  • This is not preaching, this is life. god how? it's in there.
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  • This is life. god how? it's in there. and i looked at that.
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  • God how? it's in there. and i looked at that. in the greek, that word
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  • And i looked at that. in the greek, that word forgetting don't mean
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  • In the greek, that word forgetting don't mean that you forget it.
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  • Forgetting don't mean that you forget it. it means to willfully
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  • That you forget it. it means to willfully unnotice.
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  • It means to willfully unnotice. so, in other words,
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  • Unnotice. so, in other words, you look on the timeline
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  • So, in other words, you look on the timeline of your life and when you get
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  • You look on the timeline of your life and when you get to those painful moments,
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  • Of your life and when you get to those painful moments, you get to it and you --
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  • To those painful moments, you get to it and you -- in other words, it's there
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  • You get to it and you -- in other words, it's there but it does not
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  • In other words, it's there but it does not retain your focus.
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  • But it does not retain your focus. i can't stop every random
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  • Retain your focus. i can't stop every random thought that the enemy
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  • I can't stop every random thought that the enemy wants to throw through
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  • Of my focus
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  • Of my focus and my meditations.
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  • And my meditations. and my pain does not
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  • And my pain does not get my meditations,
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  • Get my meditations, my victories get me
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  • Randy: so, all these things
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  • Randy: so, all these things that you talk about,
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  • Randy: so, all these things that you talk about, we would call "enemies,"
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  • That you talk about, we would call "enemies," is that why you can say
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  • We would call "enemies," is that why you can say that the enemy can be
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  • Is that why you can say that the enemy can be an opportunity, and we have
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  • That the enemy can be an opportunity, and we have to have those in life?
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  • An opportunity, and we have to have those in life? ron: everything.
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  • To have those in life? ron: everything. the bible says that
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  • Ron: everything. the bible says that he makes his enemies
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  • The bible says that he makes his enemies his footstool.
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  • He makes his enemies his footstool. i just end with this thought.
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  • His footstool. i just end with this thought. my grandmother,
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  • I just end with this thought. my grandmother, we were raised on a farm.
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  • My grandmother, we were raised on a farm. all my family were farmers.
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  • We were raised on a farm. all my family were farmers. and my grandma was
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  • All my family were farmers. and my grandma was a tiny woman,
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  • And my grandma was a tiny woman, just a tiny little --
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  • A tiny woman, just a tiny little -- she might have been
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  • Just a tiny little -- she might have been five-foot tall,
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  • She might have been five-foot tall, i don't know.
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  • Five-foot tall, i don't know. but she would can
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  • I don't know. but she would can all these vegetables.
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  • But she would can all these vegetables. she had a high rack
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  • All these vegetables. she had a high rack she'd can them on.
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  • She had a high rack she'd can them on. she would always tell me,
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  • She'd can them on. she would always tell me, "ron junior, hand me
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  • She would always tell me, "ron junior, hand me that stool."
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  • "ron junior, hand me that stool." so, i knew she was wanting
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  • That stool." so, i knew she was wanting to get something high.
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  • So, i knew she was wanting to get something high. so, i had this little stool
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  • To get something high. so, i had this little stool that i would bring
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  • So, i had this little stool that i would bring into the pantry where
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  • That i would bring into the pantry where she would can
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  • Into the pantry where she would can all those vegetables.
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  • She would can all those vegetables. and i remember back to
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  • All those vegetables. and i remember back to her stepping up and i am like,
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  • And i remember back to her stepping up and i am like, what is a footstool?
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  • Her stepping up and i am like, what is a footstool? a footstool is to help you
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  • What is a footstool? a footstool is to help you reach a level that
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  • A footstool is to help you reach a level that without it you would never
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  • Reach a level that without it you would never have been able to reach.
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  • Without it you would never have been able to reach. god said, "i'll make
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  • Have been able to reach. god said, "i'll make your enemies cause you
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  • God said, "i'll make your enemies cause you to reach levels that had
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  • Your enemies cause you to reach levels that had that enemy not been there,
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  • To reach levels that had that enemy not been there, you never would
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  • That enemy not been there, you never would have reached it."
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  • You never would have reached it." randy: aah!
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  • Have reached it." randy: aah! you just opened up the eyes
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  • Randy: aah! you just opened up the eyes of some viewers today.
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  • You just opened up the eyes of some viewers today. some of you heard that and
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  • Of some viewers today. some of you heard that and you went, i can see it now.
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  • Some of you heard that and you went, i can see it now. that in me that i've been
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  • You went, i can see it now. that in me that i've been fighting, it's going
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  • Do you want somebody
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  • Do you want somebody to pray with you
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  • To pray with you and agree with you in that?
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  • And agree with you in that? just pick up the phone.
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  • Just pick up the phone. we've got people that
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  • We've got people that are waiting to pray with you.
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  • Are waiting to pray with you. we just love to hear
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  • We just love to hear from you guys.
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  • From you guys. the viewers of this program
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  • The viewers of this program have meant so much to us
  • 00:19:40.168 --> 00:19:41.503
  • Have meant so much to us through the years.
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  • Through the years. we want to lift you up.
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  • We want to lift you up. we want to believe
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  • We want to believe for that victory
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  • For that victory and encourage you to fight.
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  • And encourage you to fight. go through the hard things.
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  • Go through the hard things. you may be suffering but
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  • You may be suffering but it will produce perseverance
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  • It will produce perseverance if you just abide in christ
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  • If you just abide in christ through that.
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  • Through that. we ask you to join us
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  • We ask you to join us in another fight
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  • In another fight and that is the fight
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  • And that is the fight against malnutrition,
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  • Against malnutrition, the fight against hunger,
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  • The fight against hunger, oftentimes,
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  • Oftentimes, the fight against death.
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  • The fight against death. we have partners in place
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  • We have partners in place right now around the world
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  • Right now around the world to help us in this fight,
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  • To help us in this fight, right now,
  • 00:20:11.733 --> 00:20:12.768
  • Right now, the situation is critical.
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  • The situation is critical. children are dying in clinics,
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  • Children are dying in clinics, and they don't need to.
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  • And they don't need to. we need to reach them
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  • We need to reach them before they get to that point,
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  • Before they get to that point, before they get to the clinic.
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  • Before they get to the clinic. we do it
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  • We do it through your participation.
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  • Through your participation. we do it through $30
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  • We do it through $30 that helps feed three children
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  • That helps feed three children for the next three months.
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  • For the next three months. a gift of $50 feeds five.
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  • A gift of $50 feeds five. $100 will help feed ten.
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  • $100 will help feed ten. maybe you can give $1,000
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  • Maybe you can give $1,000 and help feed 100 children
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  • And help feed 100 children just for the next few months.
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  • Just for the next few months. whatever god has
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  • Whatever god has enabled you to do,
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  • Enabled you to do, whatever he's put
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  • Whatever he's put on your heart to do,
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  • On your heart to do, i pray you'll do it right now.
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  • I pray you'll do it right now. over 350,000 children
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  • Over 350,000 children every single day on average
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  • Every single day on average receive that bowl
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  • Receive that bowl of nutritious soup,
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  • Of nutritious soup, and that is just to get them
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  • And that is just to get them through the day.
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  • Through the day. oftentimes, it is in areas
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  • Oftentimes, it is in areas where there has been a crisis,
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  • Where there has been a crisis, perhaps a famine,
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  • Perhaps a famine, perhaps a flood,
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  • Perhaps a flood, perhaps displacement
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  • Perhaps displacement from civil unrest.
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  • From civil unrest. whatever the situation,
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  • Whatever the situation, we go in and hold them over
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  • We go in and hold them over until they can get back
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  • Until they can get back on their feet
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  • On their feet and can continue to build
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  • And can continue to build for their future.
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  • For their future. now that's a great thing,
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  • Now that's a great thing, i think.
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  • I think. a lot of organizations
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  • A lot of organizations will do this.
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  • Will do this. but let me tell you
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  • But let me tell you a key difference.
  • 00:21:20.235 --> 00:21:21.503
  • A key difference. we do it
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  • We do it in the name of jesus christ.
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  • In the name of jesus christ. that's what we're inviting you
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  • That's what we're inviting you to be a part of,
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  • To be a part of, to be the hands and feet
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  • To be the hands and feet of jesus,
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  • Of jesus, to be the gospel
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  • To be the gospel in word and deed.
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  • In word and deed. not just to tell people
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  • Not just to tell people about christ
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  • About christ or tell them about his love
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  • Or tell them about his love but to show it
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  • But to show it to the people in need.
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  • To the people in need. pick up the phone
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  • Pick up the phone or go online,
  • 00:21:41.857 --> 00:21:42.991
  • Or go online, however you prefer.
  • 00:21:43.058 --> 00:21:44.459
  • However you prefer. make the best gift you can
  • 00:21:44.526 --> 00:21:46.228
  • Make the best gift you can towards mission feeding.
  • 00:21:46.294 --> 00:21:47.963
  • Towards mission feeding. know that it will save lives.
  • 00:21:48.029 --> 00:21:49.998
  • Know that it will save lives. it will give them hope.
  • 00:21:50.065 --> 00:21:52.167
  • It will give them hope. it will give them a future.
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  • It will give them a future. and it will be done
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  • And it will be done in the name of jesus christ.
  • 00:21:55.804 --> 00:21:58.840
  • Right now across the continent of africa,
  • 00:21:59.841 --> 00:22:02.310
  • Children are suffering,
  • 00:22:02.310 --> 00:22:04.413
  • Facing severe malnutrition and even death.
  • 00:22:04.413 --> 00:22:07.249
  • Extreme drought and famine
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  • Putting at risk thousands of lives
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  • Means we must replenish food supplies immediately
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  • To keep feeding the 350,000 children
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  • And help reach more people in desperate need.
  • 00:22:17.626 --> 00:22:20.996
  • Through life's mission feeding outreach,
  • 00:22:20.996 --> 00:22:23.165
  • Your gift of love can be an answer to prayer
  • 00:22:23.165 --> 00:22:25.300
  • For a hurting and hungry child in their time of need.
  • 00:22:25.300 --> 00:22:28.870
  • Call now with your life-saving gift
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  • Of $30, $50, or $100
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  • To help feed and care for
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  • Three, five, or ten children
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  • For three full months.
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  • With your gift of any amount,
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  • We'll send the daily life devotional calendar.
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  • This perpetual calendar has 365 days' worth of scriptures
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  • And inspirational thoughts to remind you
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  • Of the rest you can find in god's loving arms.
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  • With your gift of $100 or more,
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  • You may request the "the light of life" desk lamp.
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  • Find comfort and encouragement
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  • From jesus' words in john 8:12
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  • Displayed on this stand-alone acrylic gas lamp,
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  • Perfect for home or office décor
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  • As a reminder that jesus is the light of the world.
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  • Finally, with your gift of $1,000 or more
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  • To help feed and care for 100 children,
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  • Be sure to request our inspiring
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  • Bronze sculpture, "a cup of water."
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  • Please call, write, or make your gift online today.
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  • Randy: i do hope
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  • Randy: i do hope you're going online
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  • Randy: i do hope you're going online or going to the phone.
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  • You're going online or going to the phone. make the best gift you can.
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  • Or going to the phone. make the best gift you can. let's defeat this enemy
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  • Make the best gift you can. let's defeat this enemy of malnutrition,
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  • Let's defeat this enemy of malnutrition, hunger and death.
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  • Of malnutrition, hunger and death. you can do it.
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  • Hunger and death. you can do it. if you want ron's book,
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  • You can do it. if you want ron's book, the necessity of an enemy ,
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  • If you want ron's book, the necessity of an enemy , he is going to challenge you
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  • The necessity of an enemy , he is going to challenge you a little bit but
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  • He is going to challenge you a little bit but he's going to give you
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  • A little bit but he's going to give you encouragement and hope
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  • He's going to give you encouragement and hope through the process.
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  • Encouragement and hope through the process. request that with any gift
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  • Through the process. request that with any gift today and we'd love
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  • Request that with any gift today and we'd love to send it to you
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  • Today and we'd love to send it to you just to lift you up.
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  • To send it to you just to lift you up. ron, hope, thank you so much.
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  • Just to lift you up. ron, hope, thank you so much. hope: thank you.
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  • Ron, hope, thank you so much. hope: thank you. ron: it's been a blessing.
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  • Hope: thank you. ron: it's been a blessing. randy: you keep giving hope
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  • Ron: it's been a blessing. randy: you keep giving hope and being that example.
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  • Randy: you keep giving hope and being that example. it is really neat that
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  • And being that example. it is really neat that you're just a witness.
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  • It is really neat that you're just a witness. you're not worried about
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  • You're just a witness. you're not worried about what people think
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  • You're not worried about what people think or your reputation
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  • What people think or your reputation or the past,
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  • Or your reputation or the past, you're just a witness.
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  • Or the past, you're just a witness. hope: trying to help people.
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  • You're just a witness. hope: trying to help people. randy: yeah! you really are.
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  • Hope: trying to help people. randy: yeah! you really are. i appreciate you guys
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  • Randy: yeah! you really are. i appreciate you guys helping people today.
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  • I appreciate you guys helping people today. appreciate all of you guys
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  • Helping people today. appreciate all of you guys watching.
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  • Christine: hi, my name
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  • Christine: hi, my name is chris caine
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  • Is chris caine and i've discovered life has
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  • And i've discovered life has a lot to do with choices.
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  • A lot to do with choices. the book of deuteronomy says
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  • The book of deuteronomy says that i call heaven and earth
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  • That i call heaven and earth to witness before you today.
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  • Life and death,
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  • Life and death, blessing and cursing
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  • Life and death, blessing and cursing therefore choose life,
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  • Blessing and cursing therefore choose life, the scripture says.
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  • Therefore choose life, the scripture says. a lot of us, we live in fear
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  • The scripture says. a lot of us, we live in fear and doubt and insecurity and
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  • A lot of us, we live in fear and doubt and insecurity and we think i can't do anything
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  • And doubt and insecurity and we think i can't do anything to change my circumstances
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  • We think i can't do anything to change my circumstances but i've discovered that
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  • To change my circumstances but i've discovered that you and i, we're set apart
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  • But i've discovered that you and i, we're set apart from the animals by one
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  • You and i, we're set apart from the animals by one very powerful force and that
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  • From the animals by one very powerful force and that is the power of choice.
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  • Very powerful force and that is the power of choice. you don't have to just accept
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  • Is the power of choice. you don't have to just accept the current situation
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  • You don't have to just accept the current situation that you're in.
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  • The current situation that you're in. you don't have to just accept,
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  • That you're in. you don't have to just accept, this is what it's always been
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  • You don't have to just accept, this is what it's always been like in our family,
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  • This is what it's always been like in our family, we've always had addiction,
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  • Like in our family, we've always had addiction, we've always struggled
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  • We've always had addiction, we've always struggled with this,
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  • We've always struggled with this, we've always lived in poverty.
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  • Of the word of god, you can
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  • Of the word of god, you can step up out of your present
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  • Step up out of your present circumstances into
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  • Circumstances into the promise of his future.
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  • The promise of his future. the word of god is full
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  • The word of god is full of the promise of god
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  • Of the promise of god but you and i need to go in
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  • We might inherit the promises
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  • We might inherit the promises that god has for us.
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  • We might inherit the promises that god has for us. don't just settle for
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  • That god has for us. don't just settle for a barely-get-by life.
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  • Don't just settle for a barely-get-by life. don't just settle for
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  • A barely-get-by life. don't just settle for an existence and say
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  • Don't just settle for an existence and say well, i'm a victim of my past.
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  • An existence and say well, i'm a victim of my past. today you can make choices
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  • Well, i'm a victim of my past. today you can make choices that will change the future.
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  • Today you can make choices that will change the future. i had a past where i didn't
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  • That will change the future. i had a past where i didn't start too good but i made
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  • I had a past where i didn't start too good but i made some choices that i was going
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  • Start too good but i made some choices that i was going to overcome the adversity
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  • Some choices that i was going to overcome the adversity of my past, the abuse,
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  • To overcome the adversity of my past, the abuse, and the adoption and i was
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  • Of my past, the abuse, and the adoption and i was going to make choices
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  • And the adoption and i was going to make choices to appropriate the truth
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  • Going to make choices to appropriate the truth of the word of god
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  • To appropriate the truth of the word of god and the power
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  • Of the word of god and the power of choosing life over death
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  • And the power of choosing life over death has not only changed my life
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  • Of choosing life over death has not only changed my life but it will change the life
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  • Has not only changed my life but it will change the life of my two daughters
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  • But it will change the life of my two daughters and our family
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  • Of my two daughters and our family for generations to come.
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  • And our family for generations to come. the choices you make today
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  • For generations to come. the choices you make today won't just affect your future
  • 00:25:55.844 --> 00:25:56.978
  • The choices you make today won't just affect your future but the future
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  • Won't just affect your future but the future of the generations.
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  • But the future of the generations. choose life today!
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  • For over 60 years, life outreach international
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  • Has shared the transforming truth of god's love
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  • In both word and deed.
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  • We are forever grateful to everyone who has joined us
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  • In our mission of providing water to the thirsty,
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  • Food to the hungry, shelter to the orphan,
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  • And meeting the various needs of those who are struggling.
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  • Our ministry to the lost and hurting
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  • Is only made possible because of the prayers
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  • And generous gifts of our friends and partners
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  • Who provide consistent, faithful support.
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  • Become a friend for life partner
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  • With your recurring financial gifts.
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  • We'll send you our monthly newsletter,
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  • Along with encouraging spiritual resources
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  • To uplift and inspire you in your daily christian walk.
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  • Best of all, you will be blessed to know
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  • That your ongoing gift is helping make possible
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  • The outreaches of life.
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  • Your monthly support will help us continue
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  • To bring god's love, hope, and healing
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  • To a world in need one life at a time.
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  • Kenza haddock joins wellness wednesdays
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  • To help you identify subtle attacks
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  • On your mental health
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  • And take proactive steps toward healing.
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  • Life today is made possible by the supporters of life outreach international.
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  • Your gift will be used exclusively for the exempt purposes of life.
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  • The ministry features specific outreaches
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  • As examples of the programs it supports and conducts.
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  • Gifts are considered to be without restriction
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  • As to use unless explicitly stipulated by the donor.
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  • The ministry is a member of the ecfa.
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