Natalie Runion - Broken Churches

January 27, 2025 | S25:E26

The author of “The House That Jesus Built” talks about some of the issues plaguing the church and how to properly correct them.

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Life Today with James Robison | Natalie Runion - Broken Churches | January 27, 2025
  • Coming up on life today.
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  • When churches seem far from god's design,
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  • Natalie runyion helps us better understand
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  • The house that jesus built.
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  • >> and so i just pray as i traveled,
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  • Like lord, you are so kind.
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  • There are more good churches than bad churches.
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  • There are more healthy shepherds than unhealthy shepherds.
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  • I want to encourage everyone listening
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  • That yes, you've probably had a bad experience
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  • With one church,
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  • But for every one that has wounded you,
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  • There are a hundred more willing to help you heal.
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  • Randy: welcome to life today !
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  • Randy: welcome to life today ! i'm randy robison.
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  • Randy: welcome to life today ! i'm randy robison. this is tammy trent.
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  • I'm randy robison. this is tammy trent. how are you doing?
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  • This is tammy trent. how are you doing? tammy: i'm good!
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  • How are you doing? tammy: i'm good! randy: i love my church.
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  • Tammy: i'm good! randy: i love my church. we've been blessed to be
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  • Randy: i love my church. we've been blessed to be in some really great churches.
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  • How do you like your church?
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  • How do you like your church? tammy: i love my church.
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  • How do you like your church? tammy: i love my church. i really, really do.
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  • Tammy: i love my church. i really, really do. what a blessing to be
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  • I really, really do. what a blessing to be at a church, which you know,
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  • What a blessing to be at a church, which you know, that you love, and that
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  • At a church, which you know, that you love, and that you feel is flourishing.
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  • That you love, and that you feel is flourishing. and even though
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  • You feel is flourishing. and even though they're probably not doing
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  • And even though they're probably not doing everything right, at least
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  • They're probably not doing everything right, at least it feels like they are.
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  • Everything right, at least it feels like they are. i love it!
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  • It feels like they are. i love it! randy: i think that's probably
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  • I love it! randy: i think that's probably the case for most of you,
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  • Randy: i think that's probably the case for most of you, but definitely not all of you.
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  • The case for most of you, but definitely not all of you. we're going to talk about
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  • But definitely not all of you. we're going to talk about some of the issues
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  • We're going to talk about some of the issues with the church and maybe
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  • Some of the issues with the church and maybe how we can approach it
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  • With the church and maybe how we can approach it and make our church better.
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  • How we can approach it and make our church better. our guest today
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  • And make our church better. our guest today is natalie runyion.
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  • Our guest today is natalie runyion. she has a book called
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  • Is natalie runyion. she has a book called the house that jesus built .
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  • She has a book called the house that jesus built . natalie has not always
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  • The house that jesus built . natalie has not always had great experiences
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  • Natalie has not always had great experiences in churches.
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  • Had great experiences in churches. so if you've experienced
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  • In churches. so if you've experienced a little bit of what they call
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  • So if you've experienced a little bit of what they call "church hurt," we're going
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  • A little bit of what they call "church hurt," we're going to give you, a little bit
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  • "church hurt," we're going to give you, a little bit of encouragement today.
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  • To give you, a little bit of encouragement today. good to see you, natalie.
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  • Of encouragement today. good to see you, natalie. how are you?
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  • Good to see you, natalie. how are you? natalie: i'm well.
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  • How are you? natalie: i'm well. it is so good
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  • Natalie: i'm well. it is so good to be back with you guys.
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  • It is so good to be back with you guys. randy: how is your church
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  • To be back with you guys. randy: how is your church these days?
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  • Randy: how is your church these days? natalie: amazing!
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  • These days? natalie: amazing! man, we are a part
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  • Natalie: amazing! man, we are a part of the most thriving,
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  • Man, we are a part of the most thriving, beautiful, healthy church.
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  • Of the most thriving, beautiful, healthy church. it's been a very restorative
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  • Beautiful, healthy church. it's been a very restorative and redemptive season.
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  • It's been a very restorative and redemptive season. randy: that hasn't
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  • And redemptive season. randy: that hasn't always been the case.
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  • Randy: that hasn't always been the case. explain a little bit of why
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  • Natalie: i grew up
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  • Natalie: i grew up as a pastor's kid so i saw
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  • As a pastor's kid so i saw the underbelly of the beast
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  • The underbelly of the beast my entire life.
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  • My entire life. i saw the good, the bad,
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  • I saw the good, the bad, the brutal, the beautiful,
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  • The brutal, the beautiful, and so i think
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  • With the honesty
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  • With the honesty that we are humans
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  • With the honesty that we are humans in our flesh
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  • That we are humans in our flesh leading something holy,
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  • In our flesh leading something holy, that is god's, that we're
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  • Leading something holy, that is god's, that we're going to be disappointed,
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  • That is god's, that we're going to be disappointed, we're going to be let down,
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  • Going to be disappointed, we're going to be let down, and many times wounded.
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  • We're going to be let down, and many times wounded. for some, so wounded
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  • And many times wounded. for some, so wounded that they haven't been able
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  • For some, so wounded that they haven't been able to heal properly to come back.
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  • That they haven't been able to heal properly to come back. and for others of us,
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  • To heal properly to come back. and for others of us, just kind of constantly
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  • And for others of us, just kind of constantly daily wrestling
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  • Just kind of constantly daily wrestling with our relationship
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  • Daily wrestling with our relationship with god's people
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  • With our relationship with god's people in the church
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  • With god's people in the church while desperately wanting
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  • In the church while desperately wanting to cling to the lord.
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  • While desperately wanting to cling to the lord. tammy: let me start at the top
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  • To cling to the lord. tammy: let me start at the top where you talk
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  • Tammy: let me start at the top where you talk about the blueprint.
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  • Where you talk about the blueprint. how did we get away
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  • About the blueprint. how did we get away from the original blueprint?
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  • How did we get away from the original blueprint? natalie: it is such
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  • From the original blueprint? natalie: it is such a slippery slope.
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  • Natalie: it is such a slippery slope. we start with good intentions.
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  • A slippery slope. we start with good intentions. we want to build our churches
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  • We start with good intentions. we want to build our churches just as the early church did.
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  • We want to build our churches just as the early church did. we want to grow,
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  • Just as the early church did. we want to grow, we want to get the gospel out.
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  • We want to grow, we want to get the gospel out. and then worldly measures
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  • We want to get the gospel out. and then worldly measures start coming in,
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  • And then worldly measures start coming in, how much money is coming in?
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  • Start coming in, how much money is coming in? social media, technology.
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  • How much money is coming in? social media, technology. we start putting pastors
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  • Social media, technology. we start putting pastors on platforms
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  • We start putting pastors on platforms and they start building
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  • On platforms and they start building their own personas and
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  • And they start building their own personas and writing books and speaking.
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  • Their own personas and writing books and speaking. and now we have celebrities
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  • Writing books and speaking. and now we have celebrities as pastors, not people
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  • And now we have celebrities as pastors, not people who necessarily know
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  • As pastors, not people who necessarily know or are called to shepherd.
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  • Who necessarily know or are called to shepherd. so we just very slowly
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  • Or are called to shepherd. so we just very slowly started fading away
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  • So we just very slowly started fading away from god's original design
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  • Started fading away from god's original design for the church,
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  • From god's original design for the church, which was really to preach
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  • For the church, which was really to preach the message of jesus christ
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  • Which was really to preach the message of jesus christ and bring salvation
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  • The message of jesus christ and bring salvation to the lost.
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  • And bring salvation to the lost. that was the original intent.
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  • To the lost. that was the original intent. tammy: so what about
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  • That was the original intent. tammy: so what about the churches where you talk
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  • Tammy: so what about the churches where you talk about the celebrity
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  • The churches where you talk about the celebrity or the smoke during worship,
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  • About the celebrity or the smoke during worship, all the stuff that's going on?
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  • Or the smoke during worship, all the stuff that's going on? is there a place for that
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  • All the stuff that's going on? is there a place for that in the church?
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  • Is there a place for that in the church? what is your thought
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  • In the church? what is your thought when it comes to that?
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  • What is your thought when it comes to that? natalie: well, the disciples
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  • When it comes to that? natalie: well, the disciples and the apostle paul,
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  • Natalie: well, the disciples and the apostle paul, they all knew their culture.
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  • And the apostle paul, they all knew their culture. they knew their poets,
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  • They all knew their culture. they knew their poets, they knew the different
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  • They knew their poets, they knew the different political cultures.
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  • They knew the different political cultures. so the church
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  • Political cultures. so the church has always been moving
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  • So the church has always been moving with the current culture,
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  • Has always been moving with the current culture, and we have to be aware
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  • With the current culture, and we have to be aware of our culture.
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  • And we have to be aware of our culture. so when we see things
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  • Of our culture. so when we see things like smoke and lights,
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  • So when we see things like smoke and lights, and certain things like that,
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  • Like smoke and lights, and certain things like that, we can say,
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  • And certain things like that, we can say, okay, that's a culture.
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  • We can say, okay, that's a culture. that's something
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  • Okay, that's a culture. that's something that we're matching the times
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  • That's something that we're matching the times that we're in.
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  • That we're matching the times that we're in. that's something
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  • That we're in. that's something that people value these days;
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  • That's something that people value these days; not everyone, but some.
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  • That people value these days; not everyone, but some. because we live in america,
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  • Not everyone, but some. because we live in america, we have the choice
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  • Because we live in america, we have the choice to pretty much go
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  • We have the choice to pretty much go to any church on the corner
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  • To pretty much go to any church on the corner and pick our adventure.
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  • To any church on the corner and pick our adventure. like do we want
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  • And pick our adventure. like do we want to have smoke and lights?
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  • Like do we want to have smoke and lights? do we want to have
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  • To have smoke and lights? do we want to have an organist?
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  • Do we want to have an organist? do we want to have
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  • An organist? do we want to have sunday school?
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  • Do we want to have sunday school? do we not?
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  • Sunday school? do we not? so we're blessed
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  • Do we not? so we're blessed here in america
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  • So we're blessed here in america to be able to pick and choose
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  • Here in america to be able to pick and choose what we prefer,
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  • To be able to pick and choose what we prefer, which the acts church,
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  • What we prefer, which the acts church, didn't have that luxury.
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  • Which the acts church, didn't have that luxury. and churches around the world
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  • Didn't have that luxury. and churches around the world don't have that luxury
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  • And churches around the world don't have that luxury as well.
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  • Don't have that luxury as well. randy: you're talking
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  • As well. randy: you're talking about style, and i'm with you,
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  • Randy: you're talking about style, and i'm with you, i love that we have
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  • About style, and i'm with you, i love that we have different styles
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  • I love that we have different styles because different styles
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  • Different styles because different styles help different people connect.
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  • Because different styles help different people connect. as long as the point
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  • Help different people connect. as long as the point is always to connect to god,
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  • Right?
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  • Right? i think one of our
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  • I think one of our classic mistakes,
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  • Classic mistakes, and i'd love to hear
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  • And i'd love to hear your input on this,
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  • Your input on this, is we oftentimes
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  • Thinking what am i going
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  • Thinking what am i going to get out of it?
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  • Thinking what am i going to get out of it? as opposed to how am i going
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  • To get out of it? as opposed to how am i going to contribute to be a part?
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  • As opposed to how am i going to contribute to be a part? do some of the problems,
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  • To contribute to be a part? do some of the problems, and some of the solutions
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  • Natalie: always. always!
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  • Natalie: always. always! it's why we have
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  • It's why we have to pray that prayer,
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  • To pray that prayer, search my heart, o lord,
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  • Search my heart, o lord, and find out if there
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  • And find out if there is any wicked way in me.
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  • And inspecting the foundations
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  • And inspecting the foundations of our own houses
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  • And inspecting the foundations of our own houses before we walk into a church
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  • Of our own houses before we walk into a church and demand that it is perfect
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  • Before we walk into a church and demand that it is perfect or that it meets
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  • And demand that it is perfect or that it meets all of our criteria.
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  • Or that it meets all of our criteria. we have become
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  • All of our criteria. we have become a consumer culture.
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  • We have become a consumer culture. i talk about that in the book,
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  • A consumer culture. i talk about that in the book, how easy it is
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  • I talk about that in the book, how easy it is to google review a church
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  • How easy it is to google review a church like we're staying
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  • To google review a church like we're staying at an airbnb.
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  • Like we're staying at an airbnb. well, the coffee wasn't hot.
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  • At an airbnb. well, the coffee wasn't hot. the music was too loud.
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  • Well, the coffee wasn't hot. the music was too loud. but what we're forgetting
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  • The music was too loud. but what we're forgetting is that the original church
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  • But what we're forgetting is that the original church was founded on things
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  • Is that the original church was founded on things like community and communion
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  • Was founded on things like community and communion and worship and repentance
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  • Like community and communion and worship and repentance and reconciliation.
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  • And worship and repentance and reconciliation. these are all things
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  • And reconciliation. these are all things that whether you have an organ
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  • These are all things that whether you have an organ or you have the biggest,
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  • That whether you have an organ or you have the biggest, most famous band leading you
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  • Or you have the biggest, most famous band leading you in worship every week,
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  • Most famous band leading you in worship every week, that we can all agree on
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  • In worship every week, that we can all agree on that that original foundation
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  • That we can all agree on that that original foundation truly was the very fundamental
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  • That that original foundation truly was the very fundamental part of our christianity
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  • Truly was the very fundamental part of our christianity and it started with jesus
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  • Tammy: totally.
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  • Tammy: totally. natalie, there are
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  • Natalie, there are a couple of things
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  • A couple of things i want to read
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  • I want to read that stood out to me.
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  • That stood out to me. it's like i put them
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  • It's like i put them on a sticky note.
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  • To me every single day.
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  • To me every single day. "there is coming a day
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  • To me every single day. "there is coming a day when it will be very clear
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  • "there is coming a day when it will be very clear who built with jesus and
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  • When it will be very clear who built with jesus and who built for themselves."
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  • Who built with jesus and who built for themselves." "god is patient
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  • Who built for themselves." "god is patient but is not unaware."
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  • "god is patient but is not unaware." that one hit me hard
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  • But is not unaware." that one hit me hard because we're always
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  • That one hit me hard because we're always talking about jesus
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  • Because we're always talking about jesus is always so patient.
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  • Talking about jesus is always so patient. but you went on to say,
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  • Is always so patient. but you went on to say, "but god is not unaware."
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  • But you went on to say, "but god is not unaware." he is so aware.
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  • "but god is not unaware." he is so aware. i want to also say, "god
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  • He is so aware. i want to also say, "god doesn't want a clean house,
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  • I want to also say, "god doesn't want a clean house, he wants a holy house."
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  • Doesn't want a clean house, he wants a holy house." what does that look like?
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  • He wants a holy house." what does that look like? natalie: well, first of all,
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  • What does that look like? natalie: well, first of all, we have to stop putting
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  • Natalie: well, first of all, we have to stop putting such an emphasis
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  • We have to stop putting such an emphasis on the gifts that we get
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  • Such an emphasis on the gifts that we get as consumers of christ
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  • On the gifts that we get as consumers of christ and start focusing
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  • As consumers of christ and start focusing on the fruit
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  • And start focusing on the fruit that we are producing.
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  • On the fruit that we are producing. how will we know
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  • That we are producing. how will we know if something is of god?
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  • How will we know if something is of god? the proof will be
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  • If something is of god? the proof will be in the fruit.
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  • The proof will be in the fruit. and what is that fruit?
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  • In the fruit. and what is that fruit? well, we read about that
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  • And what is that fruit? well, we read about that in galatians, it's joy,
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  • Well, we read about that in galatians, it's joy, peace, gentleness, kindness.
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  • In galatians, it's joy, peace, gentleness, kindness. but then beyond that,
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  • Peace, gentleness, kindness. but then beyond that, its measure is of salvation.
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  • But then beyond that, its measure is of salvation. are we bringing the lost
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  • Its measure is of salvation. are we bringing the lost to be found?
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  • Are we bringing the lost to be found? are we in our cities
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  • To be found? are we in our cities feeding the homeless?
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  • Are we in our cities feeding the homeless? are we taking care
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  • Feeding the homeless? are we taking care of the widow and the orphan?
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  • Are we taking care of the widow and the orphan? are we bringing in those
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  • Of the widow and the orphan? are we bringing in those who have been marginalized?
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  • Are we bringing in those who have been marginalized? that's the fruit
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  • Who have been marginalized? that's the fruit that we're looking for.
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  • That's the fruit that we're looking for. so when we get to heaven,
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  • That we're looking for. so when we get to heaven, all these earthly treasures
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  • So when we get to heaven, all these earthly treasures we built up in social media,
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  • All these earthly treasures we built up in social media, following, and books
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  • We built up in social media, following, and books that we've written
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  • Following, and books that we've written and songs that we've produced,
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  • That we've written and songs that we've produced, that's all great here
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  • And songs that we've produced, that's all great here but that's not anything
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  • That's all great here but that's not anything we can take into eternity.
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  • But that's not anything we can take into eternity. we can only take each other
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  • We can take into eternity. we can only take each other into eternity.
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  • We can only take each other into eternity. tammy: exactly right.
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  • Into eternity. tammy: exactly right. randy: when you,
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  • Tammy: exactly right. randy: when you, your point, where you had
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  • Randy: when you, your point, where you had to make that decision,
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  • Your point, where you had to make that decision, am i going to be a part
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  • To make that decision, am i going to be a part of a church
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  • Am i going to be a part of a church or am i going to walk away?
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  • Of a church or am i going to walk away? what were some of the issues
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  • Or am i going to walk away? what were some of the issues that you ran into?
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  • What were some of the issues that you ran into? i think a lot of people
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  • That you ran into? i think a lot of people who are struggling with church
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  • I think a lot of people who are struggling with church can relate
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  • Who are struggling with church can relate to some of the things
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  • Can relate to some of the things that you've been through.
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  • To some of the things that you've been through. natalie: it is just hard
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  • That you've been through. natalie: it is just hard to trust again.
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  • Natalie: it is just hard to trust again. you want to believe
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  • To trust again. you want to believe that the house that built us,
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  • You want to believe that the house that built us, especially those of us
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  • That the house that built us, especially those of us who grew up in church,
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  • Especially those of us who grew up in church, that we're going
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  • Who grew up in church, that we're going to be protected
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  • That we're going to be protected by this institution.
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  • To be protected by this institution. that should be
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  • By this institution. that should be the safest place
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  • That should be the safest place on the planet;
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  • The safest place on the planet; the church should be
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  • On the planet; the church should be the safest place.
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  • The church should be the safest place. and yet, so many people
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  • The safest place. and yet, so many people have walked in
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  • And yet, so many people have walked in and they've been rejected.
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  • Have walked in and they've been rejected. we've been assigning
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  • And they've been rejected. we've been assigning scarlet letters
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  • We've been assigning scarlet letters rather than
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  • Scarlet letters rather than extending scarlet ropes.
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  • Rather than extending scarlet ropes. so people are walking in
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  • Extending scarlet ropes. so people are walking in and they're thinking,
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  • So people are walking in and they're thinking, am i going to get hurt again?
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  • And they're thinking, am i going to get hurt again? am i going to be
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  • Am i going to get hurt again? am i going to be rejected again?
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  • Am i going to be rejected again? am i going to be
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  • Rejected again? am i going to be marginalized again
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  • Am i going to be marginalized again in the very place
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  • Marginalized again in the very place where it says
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  • And everyone is welcome?
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  • And everyone is welcome? so i think trust
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  • So i think trust is a huge part.
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  • Is a huge part. for me, it's even why
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  • For me, it's even why i get hesitant sometimes
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  • I get hesitant sometimes to want to join
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  • To want to join a church staff again.
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  • A church staff again. will i get hurt
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  • Or by another pastor?
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  • Or by another pastor? i also think that we feel
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  • Or by another pastor? i also think that we feel a little bit
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  • I also think that we feel a little bit of bait and switch sometimes,
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  • A little bit of bait and switch sometimes, in the church community
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  • Of bait and switch sometimes, in the church community where we're made promises.
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  • In the church community where we're made promises. like if you do x, y, and z
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  • Where we're made promises. like if you do x, y, and z then you're going to get
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  • Like if you do x, y, and z then you're going to get this in return.
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  • Then you're going to get this in return. so we serve
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  • This in return. so we serve and we work 50-hour weeks
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  • So we serve and we work 50-hour weeks or we show up
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  • And we work 50-hour weeks or we show up when nobody else will show up
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  • Or we show up when nobody else will show up and we're more lonely
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  • When nobody else will show up and we're more lonely than ever,
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  • And we're more lonely than ever, we're more discouraged
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  • Than ever, we're more discouraged than ever.
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  • We're more discouraged than ever. a lot of that is because
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  • Than ever. a lot of that is because we've attached ourselves
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  • A lot of that is because we've attached ourselves to counterfeit connections.
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  • We've attached ourselves to counterfeit connections. jesus says
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  • To counterfeit connections. jesus says that he is the vine,
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  • Jesus says that he is the vine, we are the branches,
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  • That he is the vine, we are the branches, and that if we will just
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  • We are the branches, and that if we will just remain in him,
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  • And that if we will just remain in him, that he'll remain in us.
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  • Remain in him, that he'll remain in us. but so much of
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  • That he'll remain in us. but so much of this deconstruction movement
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  • But so much of this deconstruction movement and leaving the church
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  • This deconstruction movement and leaving the church i believe has come
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  • And leaving the church i believe has come from where we've
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  • I believe has come from where we've attached ourselves
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  • From where we've attached ourselves to faulty connections, and
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  • Attached ourselves to faulty connections, and attached ourselves to people
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  • To faulty connections, and attached ourselves to people versus remaining in christ.
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  • Attached ourselves to people versus remaining in christ. because when people fail us,
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  • Versus remaining in christ. because when people fail us, god stays the same.
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  • Because when people fail us, god stays the same. randy: yeah! that is so true.
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  • God stays the same. randy: yeah! that is so true. what do you look for
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  • Randy: yeah! that is so true. what do you look for when you walk in a church?
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  • What do you look for when you walk in a church? natalie: oh man,
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  • When you walk in a church? natalie: oh man, i'm looking for people
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  • Natalie: oh man, i'm looking for people who are happy that i'm there.
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  • I'm looking for people who are happy that i'm there. i'm looking for people
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  • Who are happy that i'm there. i'm looking for people who are happy
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  • I'm looking for people who are happy that they're there.
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  • Who are happy that they're there. i'm watching for joy.
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  • That they're there. i'm watching for joy. i'm watching for community,
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  • I'm watching for joy. i'm watching for community, signs of community.
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  • I'm watching for community, signs of community. i'm looking for a
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  • Signs of community. i'm looking for a multi-generational community.
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  • I'm looking for a multi-generational community. i'm looking for
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  • Multi-generational community. i'm looking for multi-ethnic communities
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  • I'm looking for multi-ethnic communities that model my city.
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  • Multi-ethnic communities that model my city. it isn't just a vanilla look
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  • That model my city. it isn't just a vanilla look at what we think
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  • It isn't just a vanilla look at what we think the church should be.
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  • At what we think the church should be. i want to see all believers.
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  • The church should be. i want to see all believers. i want it to look like
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  • I want to see all believers. i want it to look like the upper room.
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  • I want it to look like the upper room. and i don't mean
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  • The upper room. and i don't mean tongues of fire flowing.
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  • And i don't mean tongues of fire flowing. i mean i want to see baptisms,
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  • Tongues of fire flowing. i mean i want to see baptisms, i want to see potlucks,
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  • I want to see people
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  • I want to see communion.
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  • I want to see communion. i don't need
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  • I don't need to feel the chills.
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  • To feel the chills. i don't need to feel emotion
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  • That i'm wanted.
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  • That i'm wanted. and that when i walk in,
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  • That i'm wanted. and that when i walk in, christ is made known,
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  • And that when i walk in, christ is made known, that he is the first one
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  • Christ is made known, that he is the first one preaching on that platform.
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  • That he is the first one preaching on that platform. he is the one
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  • Preaching on that platform. he is the one that's sending us out.
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  • He is the one that's sending us out. and i want the church
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  • That's sending us out. and i want the church to be a mission field,
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  • And i want the church to be a mission field, not a country club.
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  • To be a mission field, not a country club. so i'm looking for a place
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  • Not a country club. so i'm looking for a place that is going out
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  • So i'm looking for a place that is going out and doing things
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  • That is going out and doing things beyond their jerusalem,
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  • And doing things beyond their jerusalem, judea, and samaria.
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  • Beyond their jerusalem, judea, and samaria. i'm watching for us to go
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  • Judea, and samaria. i'm watching for us to go to the ends of the earth.
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  • I'm watching for us to go to the ends of the earth. i'm looking for a shepherd
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  • To the ends of the earth. i'm looking for a shepherd who preaches the word of god,
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  • I'm looking for a shepherd who preaches the word of god, genesis through revelation.
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  • Who preaches the word of god, genesis through revelation. i'm looking for a pastor
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  • Genesis through revelation. i'm looking for a pastor who is going
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  • I'm looking for a pastor who is going to preach to me jesus,
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  • Who is going to preach to me jesus, not politics.
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  • To preach to me jesus, not politics. and i'm looking for a church
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  • Not politics. and i'm looking for a church that stewards their finances
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  • And i'm looking for a church that stewards their finances and honors people's worship.
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  • That stewards their finances and honors people's worship. because when we tithe,
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  • And honors people's worship. because when we tithe, we as a church
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  • Because when we tithe, we as a church are spending people's worship.
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  • We as a church are spending people's worship. so i'm looking
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  • Are spending people's worship. so i'm looking for stewardship, i'm looking
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  • So i'm looking for stewardship, i'm looking for accountability
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  • For stewardship, i'm looking for accountability for leaders at all levels.
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  • For accountability for leaders at all levels. those are just some things
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  • For leaders at all levels. those are just some things that you can see a little bit
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  • Those are just some things that you can see a little bit in maybe the website
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  • That you can see a little bit in maybe the website but what you're looking for,
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  • In maybe the website but what you're looking for, you have to stay
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  • But what you're looking for, you have to stay a little bit longer
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  • You have to stay a little bit longer to know if those things
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  • Tammy: it sounds like
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  • Tammy: it sounds like the perfect church.
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  • The perfect church. and we know the perfect church
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  • And we know the perfect church does not exist
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  • Does not exist but it sounds like
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  • But it sounds like the perfect church
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  • The perfect church and you have to be looking
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  • How do we get there?
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  • How do we get there? if a church is saying our
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  • How do we get there? if a church is saying our leadership is falling apart,
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  • If a church is saying our leadership is falling apart, we are crumbling,
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  • Leadership is falling apart, we are crumbling, how do they begin to rebuild?
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  • We are crumbling, how do they begin to rebuild? natalie: well, god is doing
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  • How do they begin to rebuild? natalie: well, god is doing the holy house cleaning
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  • Natalie: well, god is doing the holy house cleaning in his church
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  • The holy house cleaning in his church and that is happening
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  • In his church and that is happening supernaturally.
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  • And that is happening supernaturally. we're seeing that
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  • Supernaturally. we're seeing that through leaders
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  • We're seeing that through leaders who have made mistakes
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  • Through leaders who have made mistakes in the past,
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  • Who have made mistakes in the past, those things are starting
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  • In the past, those things are starting to come to the surface.
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  • Those things are starting to come to the surface. god is cleaning house
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  • To come to the surface. god is cleaning house because he loves his people,
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  • God is cleaning house because he loves his people, and he even loves
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  • Because he loves his people, and he even loves those leaders enough
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  • And he even loves those leaders enough to bring them into correction.
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  • Those leaders enough to bring them into correction. we have to remember
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  • To bring them into correction. we have to remember as church leaders
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  • We have to remember as church leaders that we are not to be critics
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  • As church leaders that we are not to be critics of one another
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  • Fruit inspectors.
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  • Fruit inspectors. and so it is okay for us to
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  • And so it is okay for us to look around our organization
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  • Look around our organization or the church
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  • Or the church and say, wait a minute,
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  • And say, wait a minute, i see a crack.
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  • I see a crack. i don't think
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  • I don't think it is intentional
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  • How can we begin
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  • How can we begin to seek the lord
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  • How can we begin to seek the lord to bring restoration
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  • To seek the lord to bring restoration to this issue?
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  • To bring restoration to this issue? we cannot be offended
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  • To this issue? we cannot be offended when leaders come to us,
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  • We cannot be offended when leaders come to us, or when congregants
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  • When leaders come to us, or when congregants even come to us and say,
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  • Or when congregants even come to us and say, i'm concerned about
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  • Even come to us and say, i'm concerned about (fill in the blank.)
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  • I'm concerned about (fill in the blank.) because not everyone coming in
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  • (fill in the blank.) because not everyone coming in is a critic.
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  • Because not everyone coming in is a critic. they have discernment.
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  • Is a critic. they have discernment. they see things
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  • They have discernment. they see things that we as leaders don't see
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  • They see things that we as leaders don't see because they're
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  • That we as leaders don't see because they're in kids' ministry,
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  • Because they're in kids' ministry, they're behind the scenes,
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  • In kids' ministry, they're behind the scenes, they're in conversation
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  • They're behind the scenes, they're in conversation with people we're not.
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  • They're in conversation with people we're not. so we can't have
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  • With people we're not. so we can't have all the suspicion
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  • So we can't have all the suspicion that everyone coming to us
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  • All the suspicion that everyone coming to us is just complaining.
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  • That everyone coming to us is just complaining. we as congregants
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  • Is just complaining. we as congregants have to understand
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  • We as congregants have to understand that we are not critics
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  • Have to understand that we are not critics of the house
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  • That we are not critics of the house but we are to be inspectors,
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  • Of the house but we are to be inspectors, fruit inspectors.
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  • But we are to be inspectors, fruit inspectors. and then in truth,
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  • Fruit inspectors. and then in truth, humility, and love
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  • And then in truth, humility, and love bring those concerns
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  • Humility, and love bring those concerns and say, this is how
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  • Bring those concerns and say, this is how we can do it better.
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  • And say, this is how we can do it better. randy: i had a house,
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  • We can do it better. randy: i had a house, a literal house,
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  • Randy: i had a house, a literal house, where the foundation
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  • A literal house, where the foundation was shifting.
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  • Where the foundation was shifting. it is texas,
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  • Everybody around here knows.
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  • Everybody around here knows. and we would get cracks.
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  • And we would get cracks. you know there are
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  • You know there are one or two things
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  • One or two things you can do with a crack.
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  • You can do with a crack. you can go in and you
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  • Or you can try to fill it
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  • Or you can try to fill it and make it better.
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  • Or you can try to fill it and make it better. and of course,
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  • And make it better. and of course, you deal with the foundation,
  • 00:12:37.112 --> 00:12:38.247
  • And of course, you deal with the foundation, obviously.
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  • You deal with the foundation, obviously. when you talk about
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  • Obviously. when you talk about the critics, i have a concern
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  • When you talk about the critics, i have a concern and that's why this topic
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  • The critics, i have a concern and that's why this topic can be a little dicey for me,
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  • And that's why this topic can be a little dicey for me, even talking about it
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  • Can be a little dicey for me, even talking about it on television,
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  • Even talking about it on television, i don't want to give
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  • On television, i don't want to give the impression
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  • I don't want to give the impression that we are the police
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  • The impression that we are the police of the church.
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  • That we are the police of the church. that we're above human faults.
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  • Of the church. that we're above human faults. how do we discern things
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  • That we're above human faults. how do we discern things and even point out things
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  • How do we discern things and even point out things without being that critic
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  • And even point out things without being that critic who is just ripping
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  • Without being that critic who is just ripping that crack wide open?
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  • Who is just ripping that crack wide open? natalie: it goes back to,
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  • That crack wide open? natalie: it goes back to, first of all,
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  • Natalie: it goes back to, first of all, handling our own cracks
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  • First of all, handling our own cracks because there is something
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  • Handling our own cracks because there is something so humbling about the lord
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  • Because there is something so humbling about the lord working on you.
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  • So humbling about the lord working on you. when people are kind to you,
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  • Working on you. when people are kind to you, patient with you,
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  • When people are kind to you, patient with you, when they are modeling
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  • Patient with you, when they are modeling that fruit with you
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  • When they are modeling that fruit with you when you're living a life
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  • That fruit with you when you're living a life that is not healthy
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  • When you're living a life that is not healthy at its foundation
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  • That is not healthy at its foundation then god says that
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  • At its foundation then god says that we are to give as freely
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  • Then god says that we are to give as freely as we have received.
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  • We are to give as freely as we have received. so if we are truly walking
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  • As we have received. so if we are truly walking in humility with the lord,
  • 00:13:29.665 --> 00:13:30.766
  • So if we are truly walking in humility with the lord, our heart is not to go in
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  • In humility with the lord, our heart is not to go in and rip churches apart.
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  • Our heart is not to go in and rip churches apart. but to say
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  • And rip churches apart. but to say god has been kind to me,
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  • But to say god has been kind to me, god has been gracious to me,
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  • God has been kind to me, god has been gracious to me, and in return,
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  • God has been gracious to me, and in return, i want to offer that
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  • And in return, i want to offer that to my brothers and sisters
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  • I want to offer that to my brothers and sisters and leaders.
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  • To my brothers and sisters and leaders. and so we go in,
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  • And leaders. and so we go in, and with truth, humility,
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  • And so we go in, and with truth, humility, and love, we don't go in
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  • And with truth, humility, and love, we don't go in with a wrecking ball,
  • 00:13:45.080 --> 00:13:46.148
  • And love, we don't go in with a wrecking ball, we go in with a white glove
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  • With a wrecking ball, we go in with a white glove called discernment
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  • We go in with a white glove called discernment and we serve.
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  • Called discernment and we serve. we get our hands dirty.
  • 00:13:50.319 --> 00:13:51.487
  • And we serve. we get our hands dirty. we get into the weeds.
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  • We get our hands dirty. we get into the weeds. we get into conversations.
  • 00:13:52.688 --> 00:13:53.789
  • We get into the weeds. we get into conversations. and as we fall in love
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  • We get into conversations. and as we fall in love with god's people,
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  • And as we fall in love with god's people, as we begin to see
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  • With god's people, as we begin to see that leadership loves us,
  • 00:13:57.159 --> 00:13:58.227
  • As we begin to see that leadership loves us, they're not perfect
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  • That leadership loves us, they're not perfect but they love us,
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  • They're not perfect but they love us, then my intent
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  • But they love us, then my intent is not to tear the house down
  • 00:14:01.664 --> 00:14:02.665
  • Then my intent is not to tear the house down but to do
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  • Is not to tear the house down but to do what you're talking about.
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  • But to do what you're talking about. go in and say, hey,
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  • What you're talking about. go in and say, hey, i have a solution to this.
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  • Go in and say, hey, i have a solution to this. can i help fill that crack?
  • 00:14:07.202 --> 00:14:08.203
  • I have a solution to this. can i help fill that crack? oh no, there is a crack.
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  • Can i help fill that crack? oh no, there is a crack. you need to deal with that.
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  • Oh no, there is a crack. you need to deal with that. randy: that is so right.
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  • You need to deal with that. randy: that is so right. here's a difficult part for me
  • 00:14:11.740 --> 00:14:13.042
  • Randy: that is so right. here's a difficult part for me and i'm wondering if
  • 00:14:13.108 --> 00:14:14.543
  • Here's a difficult part for me and i'm wondering if you've had to deal with this.
  • 00:14:14.610 --> 00:14:15.844
  • And i'm wondering if you've had to deal with this. i suspect you have, we all do.
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  • You've had to deal with this. i suspect you have, we all do. sometimes i go to a church
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  • I suspect you have, we all do. sometimes i go to a church and i go, i don't think
  • 00:14:18.647 --> 00:14:21.784
  • Sometimes i go to a church and i go, i don't think that's what scripture says.
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  • And i go, i don't think that's what scripture says. i'm not --
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  • That's what scripture says. i'm not -- i never went to seminary.
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  • I'm not -- i never went to seminary. i'm not like
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  • I never went to seminary. i'm not like the chief theologian
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  • I'm not like the chief theologian of the church,
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  • The chief theologian of the church, i know that.
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  • Of the church, i know that. but what do you do
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  • I know that. but what do you do when you go in and you go,
  • 00:14:34.129 --> 00:14:35.331
  • But what do you do when you go in and you go, i just, i think scripturally,
  • 00:14:35.397 --> 00:14:37.766
  • When you go in and you go, i just, i think scripturally, it's just off.
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  • I just, i think scripturally, it's just off. do we just walk?
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  • It's just off. do we just walk? or do we have
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  • Do we just walk? or do we have another responsibility
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  • Or do we have another responsibility in that case, do you think?
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  • The power under
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  • The power under the control of meekness
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  • The control of meekness comes into play in the church.
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  • Comes into play in the church. because first of all,
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  • Because first of all, unlike you and i
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  • Unlike you and i who may go in
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  • I think a lot of people
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  • I think a lot of people don't know the word of god.
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  • I think a lot of people don't know the word of god. they don't even know if
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  • Don't know the word of god. they don't even know if they're being taught heresy.
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  • They don't even know if they're being taught heresy. randy: that's true.
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  • They're being taught heresy. randy: that's true. even some pastors!
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  • Randy: that's true. even some pastors! natalie: yeah,
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  • Even some pastors! natalie: yeah, they don't know.
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  • Natalie: yeah, they don't know. so there is an oblivion
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  • They don't know. so there is an oblivion of biblical illiteracy
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  • So there is an oblivion of biblical illiteracy that we're dealing with
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  • Of biblical illiteracy that we're dealing with right now
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  • That we're dealing with right now because of social media,
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  • Right now because of social media, and things like that.
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  • Because of social media, and things like that. so we have to realize
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  • And things like that. so we have to realize there are very few people
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  • So we have to realize there are very few people who are hearing some things
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  • There are very few people who are hearing some things and checking that.
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  • Who are hearing some things and checking that. so when we do,
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  • And checking that. so when we do, pastors don't really know
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  • So when we do, pastors don't really know what to do with that
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  • Pastors don't really know what to do with that when they get confronted.
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  • What to do with that when they get confronted. i think of esther
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  • And how she prayed
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  • And how she prayed and she fasted
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  • I'm not saying that pastors
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  • I'm not saying that pastors are kings by any means,
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  • Are kings by any means, but what i'm saying is
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  • But what i'm saying is that there is a time
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  • Where god gives us
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  • Where god gives us both favor and boldness
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  • Where god gives us both favor and boldness through power under control
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  • Both favor and boldness through power under control after we have prayed
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  • Through power under control after we have prayed and fasted over something
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  • After we have prayed and fasted over something to say, god,
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  • And fasted over something to say, god, would you have me contend
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  • To say, god, would you have me contend for the culture of this house
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  • Would you have me contend for the culture of this house right now?
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  • For the culture of this house right now? or are you going to do that
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  • Right now? or are you going to do that through someone else?
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  • Or are you going to do that through someone else? that's hard for a lot of us
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  • Through someone else? that's hard for a lot of us who are trigger-happy.
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  • That's hard for a lot of us who are trigger-happy. because we want to like,
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  • Who are trigger-happy. because we want to like, that's wrong!
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  • Because we want to like, that's wrong! you can't say that.
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  • That's wrong! you can't say that. but for me
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  • You can't say that. but for me when i've had this happen,
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  • But for me when i've had this happen, and i've had it happen a lot,
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  • When i've had this happen, and i've had it happen a lot, especially traveling all over
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  • And i've had it happen a lot, especially traveling all over the world where i'm like,
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  • Especially traveling all over the world where i'm like, oh, i think that's off.
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  • The world where i'm like, oh, i think that's off. i go home and i want to write
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  • Oh, i think that's off. i go home and i want to write an email, "you've just
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  • I go home and i want to write an email, "you've just deceived a lot of people."
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  • An email, "you've just deceived a lot of people." what the lord is teaching me
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  • Deceived a lot of people." what the lord is teaching me is that with truth, humility,
  • 00:15:58.781 --> 00:15:59.782
  • What the lord is teaching me is that with truth, humility, and love we sit in the tension
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  • Is that with truth, humility, and love we sit in the tension of not being able to fix it.
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  • And love we sit in the tension of not being able to fix it. and we ask him, god,
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  • Of not being able to fix it. and we ask him, god, in your holy spirit
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  • And we ask him, god, in your holy spirit will you convict that pastor
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  • In your holy spirit will you convict that pastor that he missed that?
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  • Will you convict that pastor that he missed that? then i'm going to study,
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  • That he missed that? then i'm going to study, i'm going to get into my word.
  • 00:16:07.689 --> 00:16:08.690
  • Then i'm going to study, i'm going to get into my word. i'm going to dissect this
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  • I'm going to get into my word. i'm going to dissect this 100 different ways
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  • I'm going to dissect this 100 different ways to make sure i'm not wrong.
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  • 100 different ways to make sure i'm not wrong. then i'm going to pray and
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  • To make sure i'm not wrong. then i'm going to pray and fast for how to move forward.
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  • Then i'm going to pray and fast for how to move forward. and sometimes the lord
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  • Fast for how to move forward. and sometimes the lord will give me the green light,
  • 00:16:15.364 --> 00:16:16.398
  • And sometimes the lord will give me the green light, and other times he says,
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  • Will give me the green light, and other times he says, it is not your battle.
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  • And other times he says, it is not your battle. so discernment is knowing
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  • It is not your battle. so discernment is knowing when to go into the fight
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  • So discernment is knowing when to go into the fight and when to sit back
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  • When to go into the fight and when to sit back and let god fight it.
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  • And when to sit back and let god fight it. and that just takes time, and
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  • And let god fight it. and that just takes time, and honestly, spiritual maturity.
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  • And that just takes time, and honestly, spiritual maturity. tammy: that is good wisdom,
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  • Honestly, spiritual maturity. tammy: that is good wisdom, right there. honestly!
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  • Tammy: that is good wisdom, right there. honestly! because so many of us
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  • Right there. honestly! because so many of us are so quick, randy,
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  • Because so many of us are so quick, randy, like you said, of --
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  • Are so quick, randy, like you said, of -- randy: i am. i notice.
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  • Like you said, of -- randy: i am. i notice. i want to say something.
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  • Randy: i am. i notice. i want to say something. my wife is like, "be quiet."
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  • I want to say something. my wife is like, "be quiet." natalie: but it is because
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  • My wife is like, "be quiet." natalie: but it is because you care and i don't want
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  • Natalie: but it is because you care and i don't want to tell people don't care.
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  • You care and i don't want to tell people don't care. that is an honest reaction
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  • To tell people don't care. that is an honest reaction to be like wow!
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  • That is an honest reaction to be like wow! you're deceiving the sheep.
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  • To be like wow! you're deceiving the sheep. but i am learning
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  • You're deceiving the sheep. but i am learning that i can bring more chaos
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  • But i am learning that i can bring more chaos with my emotions
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  • That i can bring more chaos with my emotions than if i just let
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  • With my emotions than if i just let the holy spirit be the one
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  • Than if i just let the holy spirit be the one to do the convicting
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  • The holy spirit be the one to do the convicting and allow him to tell me
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  • Tammy: but the maturity in
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  • Tammy: but the maturity in your relationship with jesus
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  • Your relationship with jesus to say, let me go home,
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  • To say, let me go home, let me sit in this for a bit.
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  • Let me sit in this for a bit. let me pray
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  • Let me pray that the holy spirit
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  • That the holy spirit will do the convicting.
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  • The holy spirit, let the
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  • The holy spirit, let the holy spirit do his job.
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  • The holy spirit, let the holy spirit do his job. and then let me get
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  • Holy spirit do his job. and then let me get into the word
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  • And then let me get into the word and teach me something there
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  • Into the word and teach me something there and wait for the green light
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  • And teach me something there and wait for the green light or wait for the red light.
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  • And wait for the green light or wait for the red light. you're right.
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  • Or wait for the red light. you're right. not everything
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  • You're right. not everything is our assignment.
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  • Not everything is our assignment. not everything we have
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  • Is our assignment. not everything we have to have our hands into.
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  • Not everything we have to have our hands into. but pray over it, completely.
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  • To have our hands into. but pray over it, completely. pray over everything.
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  • But pray over it, completely. pray over everything. and i know that god
  • 00:17:20.696 --> 00:17:21.763
  • Pray over everything. and i know that god will always have his way.
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  • And i know that god will always have his way. he will send the right people,
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  • Will always have his way. he will send the right people, i think, to convict,
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  • He will send the right people, i think, to convict, along with the holy spirit.
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  • I think, to convict, along with the holy spirit. but how has this book
  • 00:17:27.636 --> 00:17:29.972
  • Along with the holy spirit. but how has this book changed you?
  • 00:17:30.038 --> 00:17:31.306
  • But how has this book changed you? how has it changed
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  • Changed you? how has it changed your ministry?
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  • How has it changed your ministry? natalie: it's given me
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  • Your ministry? natalie: it's given me a much more sensitive heart
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  • Natalie: it's given me a much more sensitive heart toward pastors, honestly.
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  • A much more sensitive heart toward pastors, honestly. because being a pastor's kid
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  • Toward pastors, honestly. because being a pastor's kid you grow up being empathetic
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  • Because being a pastor's kid you grow up being empathetic to your father.
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  • You grow up being empathetic to your father. you see what
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  • To your father. you see what your father goes through.
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  • You see what your father goes through. and then you also get
  • 00:17:43.785 --> 00:17:44.853
  • Your father goes through. and then you also get a little bit hardened
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  • And then you also get a little bit hardened because you see
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  • A little bit hardened because you see that there are, yes, shepherds
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  • Because you see that there are, yes, shepherds doing a really good job
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  • That there are, yes, shepherds doing a really good job but then you also see the ones
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  • Doing a really good job but then you also see the ones that are struggling
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  • But then you also see the ones that are struggling or who aren't protecting
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  • The way that they should.
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  • The way that they should. so as i've been traveling
  • 00:17:57.099 --> 00:17:58.066
  • So as i've been traveling with this message,
  • 00:17:58.133 --> 00:17:59.101
  • With this message, and i'm listening to pastors
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  • And i'm listening to pastors talking about how hard it is
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  • Talking about how hard it is to lead sheep well
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  • To lead sheep well in a deconstruction movement
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  • That we're seeing politically,
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  • That we're seeing politically, and the division
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  • That we're seeing politically, and the division that's happening
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  • And the division that's happening within the church,
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  • That's happening within the church, it's given me a tenderness
  • 00:18:09.811 --> 00:18:10.746
  • Within the church, it's given me a tenderness back for the shepherds
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  • It's given me a tenderness back for the shepherds to understand that rebuilding
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  • Back for the shepherds to understand that rebuilding costs us all something.
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  • To understand that rebuilding costs us all something. because any time
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  • Costs us all something. because any time in the scriptures
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  • Because any time in the scriptures that god asks his people
  • 00:18:16.385 --> 00:18:17.452
  • In the scriptures that god asks his people to tear down something,
  • 00:18:17.519 --> 00:18:18.520
  • That god asks his people to tear down something, and there has been
  • 00:18:18.587 --> 00:18:19.688
  • To tear down something, and there has been some healthy deconstruction
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  • And there has been some healthy deconstruction that has needed to happen
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  • Some healthy deconstruction that has needed to happen in the church,
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  • That has needed to happen in the church, where our foundations needed
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  • In the church, where our foundations needed to have a little
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  • Where our foundations needed to have a little of a rubblezation,
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  • To have a little of a rubblezation, where we tore some things up.
  • 00:18:26.628 --> 00:18:27.696
  • Of a rubblezation, where we tore some things up. but it is hard to rebuild
  • 00:18:27.763 --> 00:18:29.431
  • Where we tore some things up. but it is hard to rebuild when people
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  • But it is hard to rebuild when people are constantly skeptical
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  • When people are constantly skeptical and waiting for you to fall
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  • Are constantly skeptical and waiting for you to fall or to fail.
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  • And waiting for you to fall or to fail. so this book has given me a
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  • Or to fail. so this book has given me a tenderness towards shepherds,
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  • So this book has given me a tenderness towards shepherds, and also a patience
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  • Tenderness towards shepherds, and also a patience with the sheep.
  • 00:18:39.107 --> 00:18:40.242
  • And also a patience with the sheep. to say that
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  • With the sheep. to say that we have been deceived
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  • To say that we have been deceived in so many ways
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  • We have been deceived in so many ways through social media,
  • 00:18:43.679 --> 00:18:44.713
  • In so many ways through social media, through wolves
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  • Through social media, through wolves in sheep's clothing,
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  • Through wolves in sheep's clothing, all of those things
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  • In sheep's clothing, all of those things and that we are just a bunch
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  • All of those things and that we are just a bunch of humans trying to carry
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  • And that we are just a bunch of humans trying to carry this perfect gospel.
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  • Of humans trying to carry this perfect gospel. and so if we can
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  • This perfect gospel. and so if we can just give the same grace
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  • And so if we can just give the same grace that we have received
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  • Just give the same grace that we have received from our father,
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  • That we have received from our father, then we won't be so quick
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  • From our father, then we won't be so quick to be critics.
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  • Then we won't be so quick to be critics. we will be more patient and
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  • To be critics. we will be more patient and loving and kind and caring,
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  • We will be more patient and loving and kind and caring, all that fruit
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  • Loving and kind and caring, all that fruit that we've been talking about.
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  • All that fruit that we've been talking about. and so i just pray
  • 00:19:02.197 --> 00:19:03.165
  • That we've been talking about. and so i just pray as i travel,
  • 00:19:03.232 --> 00:19:04.199
  • And so i just pray as i travel, lord, you are so kind.
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  • As i travel, lord, you are so kind. there are more good churches
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  • Lord, you are so kind. there are more good churches than bad churches.
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  • There are more good churches than bad churches. there are more
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  • Than bad churches. there are more healthy shepherds
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  • There are more healthy shepherds than unhealthy shepherds.
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  • Healthy shepherds than unhealthy shepherds. i want to encourage
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  • Than unhealthy shepherds. i want to encourage everyone listening
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  • I want to encourage everyone listening that yes, you've probably
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  • Everyone listening that yes, you've probably had a bad experience
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  • That yes, you've probably had a bad experience with one church
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  • Had a bad experience with one church but for every one
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  • With one church but for every one that has wounded you
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  • But for every one that has wounded you there are 100 more willing
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  • That has wounded you there are 100 more willing to help you heal.
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  • There are 100 more willing to help you heal. that is what
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  • To help you heal. that is what we're contending for
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  • That is what we're contending for in this book.
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  • We're contending for in this book. randy: there is hope.
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  • In this book. randy: there is hope. there is always hope.
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  • Randy: there is hope. there is always hope. i love it. okay.
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  • There is always hope. i love it. okay. there is hope for you
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  • I love it. okay. there is hope for you in your church.
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  • There is hope for you in your church. a big part of that
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  • In your church. a big part of that is serving the community,
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  • A big part of that is serving the community, serving the people around you,
  • 00:19:33.595 --> 00:19:34.796
  • Is serving the community, serving the people around you, whether you're in leadership
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  • Serving the people around you, whether you're in leadership or you're just a member
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  • Whether you're in leadership or you're just a member of the church.
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  • Or you're just a member of the church. the idea of getting out there
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  • Of the church. the idea of getting out there and finding that need
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  • The idea of getting out there and finding that need and not exploiting it
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  • And finding that need and not exploiting it but being part
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  • And not exploiting it but being part of the solution.
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  • But being part of the solution. and that goes for
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  • Of the solution. and that goes for not just your local church,
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  • And that goes for not just your local church, not just our country,
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  • Not just your local church, not just our country, but around the world.
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  • We have an opportunity
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  • We have an opportunity where there is a great need
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  • The pictures and hear
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  • The pictures and hear the stories that we hear
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  • The stories that we hear if we didn't know
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  • If we didn't know that we could do something.
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  • That we could do something. let's just give them water
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  • Let's just give them water that they can drink
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  • That they can drink and not have to worry about.
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  • And not have to worry about. we know this works
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  • We know this works because, over the years,
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  • Because, over the years, we're getting up
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  • We're getting up close to 9,000 wells now.
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  • Close to 9,000 wells now. but this year, right now,
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  • But this year, right now, our goal is 350 wells
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  • Our goal is 350 wells in 20 nations.
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  • In 20 nations. we're only going to meet that
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  • We're only going to meet that if people just like you
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  • If people just like you step up and say, yes,
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  • Step up and say, yes, i want to be a part
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  • I want to be a part of water for life.
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  • Of water for life. you can bless someone today.
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  • You can bless someone today. you can bless many people
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  • You can bless many people today.
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  • Today. let me give you the breakdown
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  • Let me give you the breakdown real quick.
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  • Real quick. the average well
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  • The average well costs about $4800.
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  • Costs about $4800. it varies depending
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  • It varies depending on the location, the soil,
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  • On the location, the soil, and the transportation.
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  • And the transportation. there are a lot of factors
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  • There are a lot of factors there but when we look at
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  • There but when we look at the whole program
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  • The whole program and average it out,
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  • And average it out, for $4800 on average
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  • For $4800 on average we'll drill a well.
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  • We'll drill a well. that well will last
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  • That well will last for about seventy years
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  • For about seventy years because we do
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  • Because we do a really good job of it.
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  • A really good job of it. not all wells are the same.
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  • Not all wells are the same. we put in a quality well
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  • We put in a quality well that is going to last
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  • That is going to last for basically a generation.
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  • For basically a generation. we call it a lifetime.
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  • We call it a lifetime. and that well will on average
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  • And that well will on average service about 1,000 people;
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  • Service about 1,000 people; people literally come
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  • And i know, tammy,
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  • And i know, tammy, you've seen -- it becomes
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  • And i know, tammy, you've seen -- it becomes a congregation point.
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  • I've been there!
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  • I've been there! i've been there when the --
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  • I've been there when the -- randy: it's a beautiful thing.
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  • Randy: it's a beautiful thing. we've gone back years later
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  • We've gone back years later and seen that.
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  • And seen that. but your gift today of $48
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  • But your gift today of $48 will provide water
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  • Will provide water for a lifetime for ten people.
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  • For a lifetime for ten people. that's how simple it is.
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  • That's how simple it is. a gift of $144 will provide
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  • A gift of $144 will provide that same fresh
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  • That same fresh clean drinking water
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  • Clean drinking water for 30 people.
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  • For 30 people. some of you can provide
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  • Some of you can provide a whole well.
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  • A whole well. i've known people
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  • I've known people who have been able
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  • Who have been able to provide multiple wells.
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  • To provide multiple wells. we're just asking
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  • We're just asking that you do what god
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  • Tammy: so go online,
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  • Tammy: so go online, go to your phone,
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  • Tammy: so go online, go to your phone, and give the very best gift
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  • Go to your phone, and give the very best gift you can today.
  • 00:21:47.829 --> 00:21:48.864
  • And give the very best gift you can today. whatever god's laying
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  • You can today. whatever god's laying on your heart, then give.
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  • Every day, thousands of lives are lost
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  • To waterborne disease,
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  • And nearly half of those are children
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  • Under the age of five.
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  • Through mission: water for life
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  • You can give mothers hope and children a future
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  • As we provide clean, life-giving water
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  • For thousands of children and their families
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  • Before it's too late.
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  • With your gift today, you can help drill
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  • And establish 350 water wells this year.
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  • Your gift of $24
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  • Will help provide clean water for five children.
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  • A gift of $48 will help provide for ten.
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  • And $144 will help provide
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  • Life-giving water for 30 people
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  • For a lifetime.
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  • With a gift of any amount,
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  • We'll send you dr. don colbert's new book
  • 00:22:33.942 --> 00:22:35.944
  • Spiritual health zone.
  • 00:22:35.944 --> 00:22:37.946
  • Discover the key to living in divine health
  • 00:22:37.946 --> 00:22:39.948
  • As you find a roadmap
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  • To adding joy, peace, and years to your life.
  • 00:22:41.950 --> 00:22:45.253
  • With your gift of $100 or more,
  • 00:22:45.253 --> 00:22:47.823
  • You may request the
  • 00:22:47.823 --> 00:22:49.825
  • "he restores my soul" candle set.
  • 00:22:49.825 --> 00:22:51.960
  • This decorative candle and match set
  • 00:22:51.960 --> 00:22:53.962
  • Will inspire you to remember
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  • The restoring presence of jesus,
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  • The true light of the world.
  • 00:22:58.266 --> 00:23:01.069
  • Finally, please consider a gift of $1200
  • 00:23:01.069 --> 00:23:03.872
  • To help provide water for 250 people
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  • Or a gift of $4800
  • 00:23:06.708 --> 00:23:08.844
  • To help sponsor a complete well,
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  • And request our new bronze sculpture,
  • 00:23:10.879 --> 00:23:12.881
  • "lion of judah"
  • 00:23:12.881 --> 00:23:14.883
  • Inspired by revelation 5:5.
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  • Please call, write, or make your gift online today!
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  • Randy: what an opportunity.
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  • Randy: what an opportunity. what a need!
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  • Randy: what an opportunity. what a need! but we can be the solution
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  • What a need! but we can be the solution to that need.
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  • But we can be the solution to that need. i hope you'll go online
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  • To that need. i hope you'll go online or go to the phone.
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  • I hope you'll go online or go to the phone. make the best gift you can!
  • 00:23:30.198 --> 00:23:31.299
  • Or go to the phone. make the best gift you can! and then look around you.
  • 00:23:31.366 --> 00:23:32.601
  • Make the best gift you can! and then look around you. the house that jesus built
  • 00:23:32.701 --> 00:23:33.935
  • And then look around you. the house that jesus built is everywhere
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  • The house that jesus built is everywhere and we're a part of it.
  • 00:23:35.403 --> 00:23:36.605
  • Is everywhere and we're a part of it. and that is the book.
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  • And we're a part of it. and that is the book. you can pick up natalie's book
  • 00:23:37.806 --> 00:23:38.874
  • And that is the book. you can pick up natalie's book wherever you get books.
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  • You can pick up natalie's book wherever you get books. natalie, thank you so much!
  • 00:23:40.141 --> 00:23:41.276
  • Wherever you get books. natalie, thank you so much! natalie: thank you
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  • Natalie, thank you so much! natalie: thank you for having me.
  • 00:23:42.410 --> 00:23:43.378
  • Natalie: thank you for having me. tammy: loved having you here.
  • 00:23:43.445 --> 00:23:44.479
  • For having me. tammy: loved having you here. it is not just a book
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  • Tammy: loved having you here. it is not just a book for leaders but a book for
  • 00:23:45.647 --> 00:23:46.681
  • It is not just a book for leaders but a book for every one of us as believers.
  • 00:23:46.748 --> 00:23:47.849
  • For leaders but a book for every one of us as believers. so thank you for diving in.
  • 00:23:47.916 --> 00:23:48.984
  • Every one of us as believers. so thank you for diving in. thank you for being bold
  • 00:23:49.050 --> 00:23:50.085
  • So thank you for diving in. thank you for being bold and for speaking into my life
  • 00:23:50.151 --> 00:23:51.219
  • Thank you for being bold and for speaking into my life and challenging me
  • 00:23:51.286 --> 00:23:52.320
  • And for speaking into my life and challenging me in my own walk with jesus.
  • 00:23:52.387 --> 00:23:53.455
  • And challenging me in my own walk with jesus. i hope it was a challenge
  • 00:23:53.522 --> 00:23:54.589
  • In my own walk with jesus. i hope it was a challenge for you too, today.
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  • I hope it was a challenge for you too, today. and we'll see you next time
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  • For you too, today. and we'll see you next time on life today !
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  • Christine: hi! my name
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  • Christine: hi! my name is chris caine.
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  • Is chris caine. while reading the newspaper
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  • While reading the newspaper this morning i saw yet
  • 00:24:08.703 --> 00:24:09.771
  • This morning i saw yet another tragedy and i guess
  • 00:24:09.838 --> 00:24:11.072
  • Another tragedy and i guess wherever you look, it seems
  • 00:24:11.139 --> 00:24:12.474
  • Wherever you look, it seems like there is adversity
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  • Of hopelessness.
  • 00:24:15.277 --> 00:24:16.678
  • Of hopelessness. if it is not the stock market
  • 00:24:16.745 --> 00:24:18.146
  • Of hopelessness. if it is not the stock market that's falling then
  • 00:24:18.213 --> 00:24:19.414
  • If it is not the stock market that's falling then something else is happening
  • 00:24:19.481 --> 00:24:20.549
  • That's falling then something else is happening or there is another crime
  • 00:24:20.615 --> 00:24:21.683
  • Something else is happening or there is another crime or another violent encounter
  • 00:24:21.750 --> 00:24:22.984
  • Or there is another crime or another violent encounter and it is easy to lose hope.
  • 00:24:23.051 --> 00:24:24.419
  • Or another violent encounter and it is easy to lose hope. but the thing i've discovered
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  • And it is easy to lose hope. but the thing i've discovered is that the bible teaches us
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  • But the thing i've discovered is that the bible teaches us jesus is this hope we have,
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  • Is that the bible teaches us jesus is this hope we have, as an anchor for our soul,
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  • Jesus is this hope we have, as an anchor for our soul, both firm and secure.
  • 00:24:30.825 --> 00:24:32.127
  • As an anchor for our soul, both firm and secure. regardless of
  • 00:24:32.193 --> 00:24:33.194
  • Both firm and secure. regardless of the circumstances that
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  • Regardless of the circumstances that are happening around you,
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  • The circumstances that are happening around you, if you anchor your life
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  • Are happening around you, if you anchor your life on the hope of jesus christ
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  • If you anchor your life on the hope of jesus christ then he is going to help you
  • 00:24:39.501 --> 00:24:41.069
  • On the hope of jesus christ then he is going to help you to rise up above the storms
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  • Then he is going to help you to rise up above the storms of life and to be able to soar
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  • To rise up above the storms of life and to be able to soar above them into the future
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  • Of life and to be able to soar above them into the future and the destiny and the hope
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  • Above them into the future and the destiny and the hope that he has for you.
  • 00:24:48.243 --> 00:24:49.377
  • And the destiny and the hope that he has for you. don't be weighed down
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  • That he has for you. don't be weighed down but step up above them
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  • Don't be weighed down but step up above them by looking unto jesus,
  • 00:24:52.747 --> 00:24:54.082
  • But step up above them by looking unto jesus, the author of our faith.
  • 00:24:54.149 --> 00:24:55.817
  • By looking unto jesus, the author of our faith. if we fix our eyes on him,
  • 00:24:55.884 --> 00:24:57.719
  • The author of our faith. if we fix our eyes on him, don't fix your eyes
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  • If we fix our eyes on him, don't fix your eyes on your circumstances,
  • 00:24:58.920 --> 00:25:00.121
  • Don't fix your eyes on your circumstances, don't fix your eyes
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  • Don't fix your eyes
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  • Don't fix your eyes on those things that have
  • 00:25:03.758 --> 00:25:04.826
  • On those things that have disillusioned you or
  • 00:25:04.893 --> 00:25:05.994
  • Disillusioned you or are currently discouraging you
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  • Are currently discouraging you but choose to fix your eyes
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  • But choose to fix your eyes on jesus and he will
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  • On jesus and he will fill you with hope.
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  • Says that we are
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  • Says that we are prisoners of hope.
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  • Says that we are prisoners of hope. now when you are prisoner,
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  • Prisoners of hope. now when you are prisoner, you're locked in a jail cell
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  • Now when you are prisoner, you're locked in a jail cell and you're chained
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  • You're locked in a jail cell and you're chained to those bars.
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  • And you're chained to those bars. the bible teaches us make sure
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  • To those bars. the bible teaches us make sure that you chain yourself
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  • The bible teaches us make sure that you chain yourself to the hope of jesus.
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  • That you chain yourself to the hope of jesus. in fact, make it really
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  • To the hope of jesus. in fact, make it really difficult for anyone
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  • In fact, make it really difficult for anyone to make you hopeless
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  • Difficult for anyone to make you hopeless or without hope.
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  • To make you hopeless or without hope. if you put your trust
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  • Or without hope. if you put your trust in things or if you put
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  • If you put your trust in things or if you put your trust in people,
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  • In things or if you put your trust in people, you will be disappointed --
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  • Your trust in people, you will be disappointed -- things break,
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  • You will be disappointed -- things break, and things are lost.
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  • Things break, and things are lost. people will hurt you.
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  • And things are lost. people will hurt you. people do disappoint you.
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  • People will hurt you. people do disappoint you. but jesus, he will never
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  • People do disappoint you. but jesus, he will never leave you,
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  • But jesus, he will never leave you, he will never forsake you,
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  • Leave you, he will never forsake you, and he is this hope
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  • He will never forsake you, and he is this hope that we have as an anchor
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  • And he is this hope that we have as an anchor for our soul.
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  • That we have as an anchor for our soul. i don't know what you're
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  • For our soul. i don't know what you're confronting today, but
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  • I don't know what you're confronting today, but if you place your hope in him,
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  • Confronting today, but if you place your hope in him, he will raise you up
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  • If you place your hope in him, he will raise you up out of your hopelessness
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  • He will raise you up out of your hopelessness and despair and give you
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  • Out of your hopelessness and despair and give you a future and a destiny.
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  • And despair and give you a future and a destiny. god bless you.
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  • For over 60 years, life outreach international
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  • Has shared the transforming truth of god's love
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  • In both word and deed.
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  • We are forever grateful to everyone who has joined us
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  • In our mission of providing water to the thirsty,
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  • Food to the hungry, shelter to the orphan,
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  • And meeting the various needs of those who are struggling.
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  • Our ministry to the lost and hurting
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  • Is only made possible because of the prayers
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  • And generous gifts of our friends and partners
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  • Who provide consistent, faithful support.
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  • Become a friend for life partner
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  • With your recurring financial gifts.
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  • Along with encouraging spiritual resources
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  • To uplift and inspire you in your daily christian walk.
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  • Best of all, you will be blessed to know
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  • That your ongoing gift is helping make possible
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  • The outreaches of life.
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  • Your monthly support will help us continue
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  • To bring god's love, hope, and healing
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  • To a world in need one life at a time.
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  • >> and it means zero percent chance of survival.
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  • Brooke martin's faith and vulnerability
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  • Brought healing, resistance,
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  • And recovery -- tomorrow!
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  • Life today is made possible by the supporters of life outreach international.
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  • Your gift will be used exclusively for the exempt purposes of life.
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  • The ministry features specific outreaches
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  • As examples of the programs it supports and conducts.
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  • As to use unless explicitly stipulated by the donor.
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