Joel Osteen - The Two Yous

April 22, 2025 | S25:E112

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - The Two Yous | April 22, 2025
  • >> joel osteen: well,
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • God bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes, and if you're ever
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  • Homes, and if you're ever in our area, please stop by,
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  • In our area, please stop by, be a part of one
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  • Be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of our services. i promise you, we'll make you
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  • I promise you, we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. but i like to start with
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  • But i like to start with something funny, and i heard
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  • Something funny, and i heard about this pastor.
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  • About this pastor. he bought a new horse.
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  • He bought a new horse. he trained it to respond to,
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  • He trained it to respond to, "praise the lord," meaning,
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  • "praise the lord," meaning, "giddy up," and,
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  • "giddy up," and, "hallelujah," meaning,
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  • "hallelujah," meaning, "whoa," and every time he
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  • "whoa," and every time he said, "praise the lord," the
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  • Said, "praise the lord," the horse would take off running.
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  • Horse would take off running. when he said, "hallelujah,"
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  • When he said, "hallelujah," it would quickly stop.
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  • It would quickly stop. one day, he was out riding,
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  • One day, he was out riding, and the horse got spooked,
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  • And the horse got spooked, and took off straight toward
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  • And took off straight toward a cliff going full blast.
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  • A cliff going full blast. in the panic, he couldn't
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  • In the panic, he couldn't remember what he had taught
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  • Remember what he had taught his horse.
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  • His horse. he said, "bless god, glory,
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  • He said, "bless god, glory, amen," nothing worked.
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  • Amen," nothing worked. at the last second, he
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  • At the last second, he shouted, "hallelujah."
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  • Shouted, "hallelujah." the horse came to a
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  • The horse came to a screeching halt inches before
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  • Screeching halt inches before the edge of the cliff.
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  • The edge of the cliff. he breathed a sigh of relief
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  • He breathed a sigh of relief and said, "praise the lord."
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  • And said, "praise the lord." say it like you mean it:
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  • Say it like you mean it: "this is my bible.
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  • "this is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do. today i will be taught the
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess my mind is
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  • I boldly confess my mind is alert, my heart is receptive,
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive, i will never be the same,
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus' name."
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  • In jesus' name." god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about "the two yous."
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  • About "the two yous." there are two people living
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  • There are two people living on the inside of each one of
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  • On the inside of each one of us, the strong, disciplined,
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  • Us, the strong, disciplined, confident you, and the weak,
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  • Confident you, and the weak, insecure, compromising you.
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  • Insecure, compromising you. the positive, faith-filled,
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  • The positive, faith-filled, big dreams you, and the
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  • Big dreams you, and the negative, discouraged,
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  • Negative, discouraged, not-going-to-happen you.
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  • Not-going-to-happen you. we all have these
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  • We all have these contradictions,
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  • Contradictions, inconsistencies.
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  • Inconsistencies. you're a good person.
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  • You're a good person. you love the lord.
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  • You love the lord. most of the time, you're
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  • Most of the time, you're friendly, easygoing, "good
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  • Friendly, easygoing, "good morning, great to see you
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  • Morning, great to see you today."
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  • Today." but if someone pushes the
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  • But if someone pushes the wrong buttons, if they're
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  • Wrong buttons, if they're rude, harsh, the other you
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  • Rude, harsh, the other you can come out.
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  • Can come out. he may have been hidden
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  • He may have been hidden for 2 months.
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  • For 2 months. you thought he was
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  • You thought he was finally gone, but he was
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  • Finally gone, but he was still in there.
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  • Still in there. there's a battle constantly
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  • There's a battle constantly taking place between the two
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  • Taking place between the two yous.
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  • Yous. the scripture calls it,
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  • The scripture calls it, "between the flesh and the
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  • "between the flesh and the spirit," between our old
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  • Spirit," between our old carnal nature, giving into
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  • Carnal nature, giving into our feelings, compromising,
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  • Our feelings, compromising, telling somebody off, and the
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  • Telling somebody off, and the new redeemed nature, and when
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  • New redeemed nature, and when your life to christ, paul
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  • Your life to christ, paul said in corinthians, "you
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  • Said in corinthians, "you became a new creation.
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  • Became a new creation. old things are passed away,"
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  • Old things are passed away," and we celebrate that.
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  • And we celebrate that. that's good news.
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  • That's good news. but here's what i've learned.
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  • But here's what i've learned. the old man may be dead, but
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  • The old man may be dead, but sometimes he gets
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  • Sometimes he gets resurrected.
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  • Resurrected. he may have died, but don't
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  • He may have died, but don't kid yourself, he can get back
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  • Kid yourself, he can get back up again.
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  • Up again. we see this in the scripture
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  • We see this in the scripture with peter.
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  • With peter. peter was a faithful
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  • Peter was a faithful disciple, a close friend of
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  • Disciple, a close friend of jesus, strong, committed.
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  • Jesus, strong, committed. his name even means "rock."
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  • His name even means "rock." jesus said to him, "you are
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  • Jesus said to him, "you are peter, and upon this rock i
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  • Peter, and upon this rock i will build my church."
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  • Will build my church." nobody god had more
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  • Nobody god had more confidence in than peter.
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  • Confidence in than peter. when the soldiers came to
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  • When the soldiers came to arrest jesus, peter was so
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  • Arrest jesus, peter was so loyal, so determined to stand
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  • Loyal, so determined to stand up for him, he pulled his
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  • Up for him, he pulled his sword out and cut off one of
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  • Sword out and cut off one of the soldier's ears.
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  • The soldier's ears. he was ready to die defending
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  • He was ready to die defending christ.
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  • Christ. that was the strong peter,
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  • That was the strong peter, the faithful peter, the rock.
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  • The faithful peter, the rock. that would be great if that
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  • That would be great if that was the only peter, but there
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  • Was the only peter, but there was another peter in there
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  • Was another peter in there that came out from time to
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  • That came out from time to time.
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  • Time. when they arrested jesus and
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  • When they arrested jesus and took him to the high priest,
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  • Took him to the high priest, peter followed along and he
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  • Peter followed along and he was standing outside the
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  • Was standing outside the house, in the courtyard,
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  • House, in the courtyard, warming himself by the fire,
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  • Warming himself by the fire, and there were guards all
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  • And there were guards all around.
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  • Around. a young lady said to him,
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  • A young lady said to him, "aren't you one of jesus'
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  • "aren't you one of jesus' disciples?"
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  • Disciples?" he said, "no, what are you
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  • He said, "no, what are you talking about?
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  • Talking about? i don't know him."
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  • I don't know him." another person came up and
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  • Another person came up and said, "are you sure you're
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  • Said, "are you sure you're not one of his disciples?"
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  • Not one of his disciples?" he said it again, "i'm
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  • He said it again, "i'm telling you, i don't know
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  • Telling you, i don't know him."
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  • Him." then someone came out of the
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  • Then someone came out of the house.
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  • House. they said, "i know you're his
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  • They said, "i know you're his disciple.
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  • Disciple. i saw you there when we
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  • I saw you there when we arrested him."
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  • Arrested him." this time, peter got angry.
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  • This time, peter got angry. he started cursing, swearing,
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  • He started cursing, swearing, "i don't know the man."
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  • "i don't know the man." just a little earlier, he was
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  • Just a little earlier, he was defending jesus.
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  • Defending jesus. what happened?
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  • What happened? the other peter came out.
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  • The other peter came out. there were two peters in
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  • There were two peters in there, the kind peter and the
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  • There, the kind peter and the curse-you-out peter, the
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  • Curse-you-out peter, the defend-you peter, and the
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  • Defend-you peter, and the deny-you peter, the, "great
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  • Deny-you peter, the, "great to see you today," peter, and
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  • To see you today," peter, and the, "i can't stand to see
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  • The, "i can't stand to see you today," peter.
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  • You today," peter. and the scripture says,
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  • And the scripture says, "no discipline at the time
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  • "no discipline at the time feels good, but later on, it
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  • Feels good, but later on, it produces a harvest of
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  • Produces a harvest of righteousness."
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  • Righteousness." it doesn't feel good at the
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  • It doesn't feel good at the time to walk away when
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  • Time to walk away when somebody insults you.
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  • Somebody insults you. it feels good to insult them
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  • It feels good to insult them back.
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  • Back. it doesn't feel good to stay
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  • It doesn't feel good to stay home and study for the test
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  • Home and study for the test when your friends are out
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  • When your friends are out having fun.
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  • Having fun. the flesh likes to be
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  • The flesh likes to be comfortable, but if you're
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  • Comfortable, but if you're comfortable all the time, you
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  • Comfortable all the time, you won't grow, and the reason
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  • Won't grow, and the reason some people are stuck is not
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  • Some people are stuck is not because they're not talented,
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  • Because they're not talented, not because they don't have
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  • Not because they don't have favor.
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  • Favor. it's because they keep
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  • It's because they keep letting the old man get back
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  • Letting the old man get back up.
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  • Up. they're not disciplined to do
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  • They're not disciplined to do the right thing when it's
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  • The right thing when it's hard.
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  • Hard. you have to be consistent.
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  • You have to be consistent. the flesh is not going to go
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  • The flesh is not going to go away.
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  • Away. you'll never get so spiritual
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  • You'll never get so spiritual that you don't have to deal
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  • That you don't have to deal with carnal desires.
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  • With carnal desires. paul said, "i die daily."
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  • Paul said, "i die daily." he wrote over the half of the
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  • He wrote over the half of the new testament, yet he
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  • New testament, yet he admitted he had to deal with
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  • Admitted he had to deal with his flesh on a daily basis.
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  • His flesh on a daily basis. every day, we have to say,
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  • Every day, we have to say, "no," to things.
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  • "no," to things. "no, i'm not going to make
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  • "no, i'm not going to make that comment.
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  • That comment. no, i'm not going to watch
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  • No, i'm not going to watch that.
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  • That. no, i'm not going to hang out
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  • No, i'm not going to hang out with that friend that causes
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  • With that friend that causes me to compromise."
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  • Me to compromise." you have to tell the flesh,
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  • You have to tell the flesh, "you are not going to rule
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  • "you are not going to rule me.
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  • Me. i'm not going to eat
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  • I'm not going to eat everything you tell me to
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  • Everything you tell me to eat."
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  • Eat." now i'm getting real.
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  • Now i'm getting real. at the mall, you can smell
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  • At the mall, you can smell those fresh-baked cinnamon
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  • Those fresh-baked cinnamon rolls 3 blocks away.
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  • Rolls 3 blocks away. you pull into the parking
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  • You pull into the parking lot, and the aroma is in the
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  • Lot, and the aroma is in the air.
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  • Air. you're new man tells you,
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  • You're new man tells you, "walk on by.
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  • "walk on by. you don't need that."
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  • You don't need that." your old man, he may be dead,
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  • Your old man, he may be dead, but he can smell too.
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  • But he can smell too. he'll get up and say, "you
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  • He'll get up and say, "you need three of those.
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  • Need three of those. you deserve it.
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  • You deserve it. you can work out extra hard
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  • You can work out extra hard tomorrow.
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  • Tomorrow. you can pray and ask god to
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  • You can pray and ask god to take away those calories."
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  • Take away those calories." you've heard of "the walking
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  • You've heard of "the walking dead."
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  • Dead." your old man may be dead, but
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  • Your old man may be dead, but he'll get up and walk around.
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  • He'll get up and walk around. he'll try to run your life.
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  • He'll try to run your life. now, quit telling yourself,
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  • Now, quit telling yourself, "i can't control my temper.
  • 00:07:06.782 --> 00:07:08.985
  • "i can't control my temper. i can't break this addiction.
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  • I can't break this addiction. joel, i can't keep my eyes on
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  • Joel, i can't keep my eyes on the right things."
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  • The right things." your old man is not that
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  • Your old man is not that strong.
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  • Strong. the reason he's controlling
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  • The reason he's controlling you is you keep feeding him.
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  • You is you keep feeding him. whatever you feed is going to
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  • Whatever you feed is going to grow.
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  • Grow. every time you give into the
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  • Every time you give into the temptation, you're feeding
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  • Temptation, you're feeding it.
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  • It. it's getting stronger.
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  • It's getting stronger. every time you're impatient,
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  • Every time you're impatient, offended, you lose your
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  • Offended, you lose your temper, you're feeding the
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  • Temper, you're feeding the negative.
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  • Negative. do yourself a favor.
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  • Do yourself a favor. quit feeding the old man.
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  • Quit feeding the old man. start starving the
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  • Start starving the temptation, starving the
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  • Temptation, starving the offense.
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  • Offense. starve the negative, and it
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  • Starve the negative, and it will become weaker.
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  • "well, joel, i tried.
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  • "well, joel, i tried. i just don't have the
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  • I just don't have the discipline."
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  • Discipline." no, quit telling yourself
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  • No, quit telling yourself that.
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  • That. philippians 2 says: "god is
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  • Philippians 2 says: "god is working in you, giving you
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  • Working in you, giving you the desire to obey him and
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  • The desire to obey him and the power to do what's
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  • The power to do what's right."
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  • Right." in the scripture, david and
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  • In the scripture, david and his men had been protecting
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  • His men had been protecting the house of a man named
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  • The house of a man named nabal.
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  • Nabal. nabal was a wealthy man that
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  • Nabal was a wealthy man that owned a lot of sheep.
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  • Owned a lot of sheep. and since david was
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  • And since david was doing this good deed, being
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  • Doing this good deed, being kind, you would think nabal
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  • Kind, you would think nabal would be happy to give him
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  • Would be happy to give him something.
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  • Something. but nabal was rude and
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  • But nabal was rude and ungrateful.
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  • Ungrateful. commentaries say he was a
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  • Commentaries say he was a harsh man, hot-tempered, and
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  • Harsh man, hot-tempered, and hard to get along with, that
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  • Hard to get along with, that he spent most of his life
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  • He spent most of his life drunk.
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  • Drunk. he said to david's men, "i
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  • He said to david's men, "i don't owe you anything.
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  • Don't owe you anything. i didn't ask you to protect
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  • I didn't ask you to protect me.
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  • Me. what are you doing on my
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  • What are you doing on my property?"
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  • Property?" he sent them away
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  • He sent them away empty-handed, and when david
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  • Empty-handed, and when david heard how he had insulted
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  • Heard how he had insulted them, david was furious.
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  • Them, david was furious. he told his men to get their
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  • He told his men to get their swords.
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  • Swords. they were going to go take
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  • They were going to go take care of nabal.
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  • Care of nabal. well, nabal had a wife named
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  • Well, nabal had a wife named abigail.
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  • Abigail. she was not only extremely
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  • She was not only extremely beautiful, she was very wise,
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  • Beautiful, she was very wise, and when she heard what her
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  • And when she heard what her husband did, she loaded up
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  • Husband did, she loaded up animals with food and
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  • Animals with food and supplies and headed out
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  • Supplies and headed out toward david.
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  • Toward david. they met on the road.
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  • They met on the road. she bowed down before him and
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  • She bowed down before him and said, "david, my husband is a
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  • Said, "david, my husband is a fool.
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  • Fool. i'm sorry for the way he
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  • I'm sorry for the way he treated you, but i've brought
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  • Treated you, but i've brought you and your men these
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  • You and your men these supplies.
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  • Supplies. please forgive us for what he
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  • Please forgive us for what he did."
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  • Did." she calmed david down and
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  • She calmed david down and kept him from wiping out her
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  • Kept him from wiping out her whole town.
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  • Whole town. david thanked her and turned
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  • David thanked her and turned away, went back home.
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  • Away, went back home. he knew that god had used her
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  • He knew that god had used her to protect him from making a
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  • To protect him from making a mistake.
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  • Mistake. ten days later, nabal had a
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  • Ten days later, nabal had a stroke and suddenly died.
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  • Stroke and suddenly died. david sent word to abigail,
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  • David sent word to abigail, asking her to become his
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  • Asking her to become his wife.
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  • Wife. now that the old man died,
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  • Now that the old man died, she was able to meet the new
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  • She was able to meet the new man.
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  • Man. nabal is symbolic of our old
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  • Nabal is symbolic of our old nature, hot-tempered, rude,
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  • Nature, hot-tempered, rude, addictions.
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  • Addictions. the name nabal means "fool,"
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  • The name nabal means "fool," and as long as the old man is
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  • And as long as the old man is alive, you'll never meet
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  • Alive, you'll never meet the new man.
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  • The new man. i'm speaking figuratively
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  • I'm speaking figuratively here.
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  • Here. i saw three ladies giving
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  • I saw three ladies giving high fives.
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  • High fives. that old man is your husband.
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  • That old man is your husband. you are stuck.
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  • You are stuck. i'm talking about the old man
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  • I'm talking about the old man that lives in you, the
  • 00:10:19.742 --> 00:10:22.011
  • That lives in you, the bitterness, the bad attitude,
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  • Bitterness, the bad attitude, the compromise.
  • 00:10:24.447 --> 00:10:25.648
  • The compromise. don't let the same issues
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  • Don't let the same issues keep you from seeing the new
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  • Keep you from seeing the new man, the same unforgiveness,
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  • Man, the same unforgiveness, the same hot temper, the same
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  • The same hot temper, the same addictions hold you back for
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  • Addictions hold you back for the next 20 years.
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  • The next 20 years. you have the grace to
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  • You have the grace to overcome.
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  • Overcome. the temptation may be strong,
  • 00:10:39.562 --> 00:10:40.596
  • The temptation may be strong, but the scripture says,
  • 00:10:40.663 --> 00:10:42.598
  • But the scripture says, "where sin abounds, grace
  • 00:10:42.665 --> 00:10:44.233
  • "where sin abounds, grace does much more abound."
  • 00:10:44.300 --> 00:10:46.836
  • Does much more abound." that means god's grace, his
  • 00:10:46.902 --> 00:10:48.270
  • That means god's grace, his enabling power is greater
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  • Enabling power is greater than anything that's trying
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  • Than anything that's trying to stop you, and it's
  • 00:10:52.208 --> 00:10:53.943
  • To stop you, and it's interesting that nabal died
  • 00:10:54.009 --> 00:10:55.478
  • Interesting that nabal died 10 days after abigail did the
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  • 10 days after abigail did the right thing, and when you dig
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  • Right thing, and when you dig your heels in and do the
  • 00:11:00.082 --> 00:11:01.884
  • Your heels in and do the right thing when it's hard,
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  • Right thing when it's hard, there will be times, like
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  • There will be times, like with her, you will come in to
  • 00:11:05.521 --> 00:11:07.389
  • With her, you will come in to your 10th day, where
  • 00:11:07.456 --> 00:11:09.391
  • Your 10th day, where something suddenly breaks.
  • 00:11:09.458 --> 00:11:11.627
  • Something suddenly breaks. that addiction doesn't have
  • 00:11:11.694 --> 00:11:12.728
  • That addiction doesn't have the power over you like it
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  • The power over you like it did.
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  • Did. that bad attitude, that
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  • That bad attitude, that temper, it may not totally go
  • 00:11:16.799 --> 00:11:18.067
  • Temper, it may not totally go away, but it doesn't control
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  • Away, but it doesn't control you anymore, and i wonder how
  • 00:11:20.369 --> 00:11:22.738
  • You anymore, and i wonder how much higher we would go, how
  • 00:11:22.805 --> 00:11:25.574
  • Much higher we would go, how much more of god's favor we
  • 00:11:25.641 --> 00:11:27.109
  • Much more of god's favor we would see if we would get rid
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  • Would see if we would get rid of the old man, if we would
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  • Of the old man, if we would start saying, "no," to things
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  • Start saying, "no," to things that we know are holding us
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  • That we know are holding us back.
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  • Back. sometimes a little thing can
  • 00:11:37.219 --> 00:11:39.321
  • Sometimes a little thing can keep you from a big blessing,
  • 00:11:39.388 --> 00:11:41.791
  • Keep you from a big blessing, a little bitterness, a little
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  • A little bitterness, a little compromise, just this one
  • 00:11:43.325 --> 00:11:44.927
  • Compromise, just this one friend i hang out with.
  • 00:11:44.994 --> 00:11:46.629
  • Friend i hang out with. "joel, i've always been
  • 00:11:46.695 --> 00:11:47.630
  • "joel, i've always been hot-tempered."
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  • Hot-tempered." no, it's time to get rid of
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  • No, it's time to get rid of nabal.
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  • Nabal. can i tell you, nobody likes
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  • Can i tell you, nobody likes him?
  • 00:11:53.169 --> 00:11:54.570
  • Him? nobody wants to be around
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  • Nobody wants to be around him.
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  • Him. you might as well put the old
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  • You might as well put the old man back in the grave.
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  • Man back in the grave. we don't want the
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  • We don't want the walking-dead you.
  • 00:12:01.477 --> 00:12:03.045
  • Walking-dead you. we want the new you, the free
  • 00:12:03.112 --> 00:12:04.647
  • We want the new you, the free you, the redeemed you, the
  • 00:12:04.713 --> 00:12:06.448
  • You, the redeemed you, the blessed you, the confident
  • 00:12:06.515 --> 00:12:07.683
  • Blessed you, the confident you, the victorious you.
  • 00:12:07.750 --> 00:12:11.086
  • You, the victorious you. david had to defeat his
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  • David had to defeat his personal enemies before god
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  • Personal enemies before god could trust him with goliath.
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  • Could trust him with goliath. goliath, in one sense, wasn't
  • 00:12:16.892 --> 00:12:18.294
  • Goliath, in one sense, wasn't david's enemy.
  • 00:12:18.360 --> 00:12:20.029
  • David's enemy. that was god's enemy.
  • 00:12:20.095 --> 00:12:21.931
  • That was god's enemy. goliath was sent to establish
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  • Goliath was sent to establish the israelites, to show the
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  • The israelites, to show the philistines that god was on
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  • Philistines that god was on the israelites' side, and
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  • The israelites' side, and when david was out in the
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  • When david was out in the shepherd's fields alone, when
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  • Shepherd's fields alone, when nobody was watching, he
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  • Nobody was watching, he killed the lion and the bear.
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  • Killed the lion and the bear. those were his personal
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  • Those were his personal enemies.
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  • Enemies. he could have slacked up,
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  • He could have slacked up, thought, "nobody can see me
  • 00:12:41.317 --> 00:12:42.518
  • Thought, "nobody can see me out here.
  • 00:12:42.585 --> 00:12:43.752
  • Out here. if i lose a sheep or two,
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  • If i lose a sheep or two, it's no big deal."
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  • It's no big deal." but david was a person of
  • 00:12:46.488 --> 00:12:47.623
  • But david was a person of excellence.
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  • Excellence. he did the right thing when
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  • He did the right thing when nobody was watching, and
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  • Nobody was watching, and because he was faithful to
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  • Because he was faithful to defeat his personal enemies,
  • 00:12:53.929 --> 00:12:56.665
  • Defeat his personal enemies, god was able to promote him
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  • God was able to promote him and trust him with more, and
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  • And trust him with more, and if you'll do like david and
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  • If you'll do like david and start defeating the things
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  • Start defeating the things that nobody knows about--may
  • 00:13:04.673 --> 00:13:07.243
  • That nobody knows about--may not be a sin, it's just a
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  • Not be a sin, it's just a weight, a small thing that's
  • 00:13:08.944 --> 00:13:11.313
  • Weight, a small thing that's keeping you from being your
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  • Keeping you from being your best, sour attitude, being
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  • Best, sour attitude, being jealous of a friend, showing
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  • Jealous of a friend, showing up late to work.
  • 00:13:16.685 --> 00:13:18.254
  • Up late to work. are there personal enemies
  • 00:13:18.320 --> 00:13:19.822
  • Are there personal enemies you're not dealing with,
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  • You're not dealing with, thinking, "oh, come on, joel,
  • 00:13:22.091 --> 00:13:23.192
  • Thinking, "oh, come on, joel, everybody deals with
  • 00:13:23.259 --> 00:13:24.126
  • Everybody deals with something"?
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  • Something"? no, if you'll start defeating
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  • No, if you'll start defeating those small things that are
  • 00:13:26.629 --> 00:13:28.264
  • Those small things that are holding you back, god will
  • 00:13:28.330 --> 00:13:29.865
  • Holding you back, god will release the big things that
  • 00:13:29.932 --> 00:13:31.500
  • Release the big things that belong to you.
  • 00:13:31.567 --> 00:13:33.202
  • Belong to you. but sometimes we're waiting
  • 00:13:33.269 --> 00:13:34.770
  • But sometimes we're waiting for the temptation to go
  • 00:13:34.837 --> 00:13:36.205
  • For the temptation to go away, thinking that we're not
  • 00:13:36.272 --> 00:13:38.240
  • Away, thinking that we're not going to have the desire
  • 00:13:38.307 --> 00:13:39.475
  • Going to have the desire anymore, and there are times
  • 00:13:39.541 --> 00:13:41.477
  • Anymore, and there are times that happens, but most of the
  • 00:13:41.543 --> 00:13:43.345
  • That happens, but most of the time, the temptation will
  • 00:13:43.412 --> 00:13:45.147
  • Time, the temptation will still be there.
  • 00:13:45.214 --> 00:13:46.949
  • Still be there. your old man will want to get
  • 00:13:47.016 --> 00:13:48.284
  • Your old man will want to get back again and again, but god
  • 00:13:48.350 --> 00:13:50.152
  • Back again and again, but god has given you the grace to
  • 00:13:50.219 --> 00:13:51.587
  • Has given you the grace to overcome.
  • 00:13:51.654 --> 00:13:54.089
  • Overcome. i'm a very goal-oriented
  • 00:13:54.156 --> 00:13:55.991
  • I'm a very goal-oriented person, very focused.
  • 00:13:56.058 --> 00:13:58.060
  • Person, very focused. it's my personality type.
  • 00:13:58.127 --> 00:14:00.195
  • It's my personality type. when i go to the grocery
  • 00:14:00.262 --> 00:14:01.330
  • When i go to the grocery store, i'm on a mission.
  • 00:14:01.397 --> 00:14:03.232
  • Store, i'm on a mission. i'm going to get in, get out,
  • 00:14:03.299 --> 00:14:04.500
  • I'm going to get in, get out, be efficient.
  • 00:14:04.566 --> 00:14:05.768
  • Be efficient. i don't like waiting around.
  • 00:14:05.834 --> 00:14:06.602
  • I don't like waiting around. i used to be impatient.
  • 00:14:06.669 --> 00:14:09.438
  • I used to be impatient. i wouldn't let anybody see
  • 00:14:09.505 --> 00:14:10.639
  • I wouldn't let anybody see it, but if there was a long
  • 00:14:10.706 --> 00:14:12.074
  • It, but if there was a long line or if the waiter didn't
  • 00:14:12.141 --> 00:14:14.076
  • Line or if the waiter didn't come to the table right away,
  • 00:14:14.143 --> 00:14:15.778
  • Come to the table right away, i'd get stressed out.
  • 00:14:15.844 --> 00:14:17.579
  • I'd get stressed out. but living with victoria all
  • 00:14:17.646 --> 00:14:19.181
  • But living with victoria all these years, i've learned to
  • 00:14:19.248 --> 00:14:21.350
  • These years, i've learned to slow down, enjoy the journey.
  • 00:14:21.417 --> 00:14:23.819
  • Slow down, enjoy the journey. i'm much more relaxed, learn
  • 00:14:23.886 --> 00:14:25.321
  • I'm much more relaxed, learn to go with the flow.
  • 00:14:25.387 --> 00:14:27.256
  • To go with the flow. but even now, if something is
  • 00:14:27.323 --> 00:14:29.058
  • But even now, if something is not happening as fast as i
  • 00:14:29.124 --> 00:14:30.659
  • Not happening as fast as i would like, if the car in
  • 00:14:30.726 --> 00:14:32.461
  • Would like, if the car in front of me on the freeway
  • 00:14:32.528 --> 00:14:33.896
  • Front of me on the freeway in the fast lane is driving
  • 00:14:33.963 --> 00:14:36.231
  • In the fast lane is driving 40 miles an hour, my old man
  • 00:14:36.298 --> 00:14:39.001
  • 40 miles an hour, my old man still wants to get back up.
  • 00:14:39.068 --> 00:14:41.904
  • Still wants to get back up. i've had him down for years.
  • 00:14:41.971 --> 00:14:43.906
  • I've had him down for years. we buried him, had a nice
  • 00:14:43.973 --> 00:14:45.507
  • We buried him, had a nice funeral, but every week,
  • 00:14:45.574 --> 00:14:47.509
  • Funeral, but every week, he's trying to get back up.
  • 00:14:47.576 --> 00:14:49.311
  • He's trying to get back up. what am i saying?
  • 00:14:49.378 --> 00:14:50.612
  • What am i saying? god doesn't take away every
  • 00:14:50.679 --> 00:14:51.914
  • God doesn't take away every temptation, and remove every
  • 00:14:51.981 --> 00:14:53.983
  • Temptation, and remove every negative desire where you're
  • 00:14:54.049 --> 00:14:56.185
  • Negative desire where you're never tempted to be
  • 00:14:56.251 --> 00:14:57.486
  • Never tempted to be impatient, to be rude, to
  • 00:14:57.553 --> 00:14:58.721
  • Impatient, to be rude, to compromise.
  • 00:14:58.787 --> 00:15:00.089
  • Compromise. that's why paul said, "i die
  • 00:15:00.155 --> 00:15:01.523
  • That's why paul said, "i die daily."
  • 00:15:01.590 --> 00:15:03.726
  • Daily." you're still tempted to get
  • 00:15:03.792 --> 00:15:04.927
  • You're still tempted to get off course, join the crowd.
  • 00:15:04.994 --> 00:15:07.730
  • Off course, join the crowd. this is where discipline
  • 00:15:07.796 --> 00:15:08.731
  • This is where discipline steps in.
  • 00:15:08.797 --> 00:15:10.132
  • Steps in. this is where the grace of
  • 00:15:10.199 --> 00:15:11.033
  • This is where the grace of god shows up, and yes, i know
  • 00:15:11.100 --> 00:15:13.068
  • God shows up, and yes, i know people that god delivered
  • 00:15:13.135 --> 00:15:14.436
  • People that god delivered from an addiction.
  • 00:15:14.503 --> 00:15:16.005
  • From an addiction. they don't have the desire
  • 00:15:16.071 --> 00:15:16.872
  • They don't have the desire anymore.
  • 00:15:16.939 --> 00:15:18.307
  • Anymore. that's the mercy of god.
  • 00:15:18.374 --> 00:15:20.542
  • That's the mercy of god. but if it doesn't happen that
  • 00:15:20.609 --> 00:15:21.810
  • But if it doesn't happen that way for you, don't use it as
  • 00:15:21.877 --> 00:15:24.146
  • Way for you, don't use it as an excuse to let the old man
  • 00:15:24.213 --> 00:15:26.281
  • An excuse to let the old man get back up.
  • 00:15:26.348 --> 00:15:28.150
  • Get back up. keep nabal in the grave.
  • 00:15:28.217 --> 00:15:30.285
  • Keep nabal in the grave. nabal doesn't look good on
  • 00:15:30.352 --> 00:15:31.353
  • Nabal doesn't look good on you.
  • 00:15:31.420 --> 00:15:32.721
  • You. nabal is not your style.
  • 00:15:32.788 --> 00:15:34.723
  • Nabal is not your style. keep the old man down so the
  • 00:15:34.790 --> 00:15:36.191
  • Keep the old man down so the new man can shine,
  • 00:15:36.258 --> 00:15:37.760
  • New man can shine, what you conquer in a short
  • 00:15:37.826 --> 00:15:39.528
  • What you conquer in a short time is not what you have to
  • 00:15:39.595 --> 00:15:41.530
  • Time is not what you have to be concerned about.
  • 00:15:41.597 --> 00:15:43.365
  • Be concerned about. be grateful for that, but
  • 00:15:43.432 --> 00:15:44.700
  • Be grateful for that, but your real enemy doesn't go
  • 00:15:44.767 --> 00:15:46.502
  • Your real enemy doesn't go away easily.
  • 00:15:46.568 --> 00:15:48.937
  • Away easily. i'm not tempted to curse, to
  • 00:15:49.004 --> 00:15:50.706
  • I'm not tempted to curse, to do drugs, to be dishonest.
  • 00:15:50.773 --> 00:15:52.574
  • Do drugs, to be dishonest. by the grace of god, i don't
  • 00:15:52.641 --> 00:15:55.577
  • By the grace of god, i don't struggle in those areas.
  • 00:15:55.644 --> 00:15:57.780
  • Struggle in those areas. but being impatient, that old
  • 00:15:57.846 --> 00:15:59.615
  • But being impatient, that old man has been trying to get up
  • 00:15:59.681 --> 00:16:01.517
  • Man has been trying to get up for over 30 years.
  • 00:16:01.583 --> 00:16:03.786
  • For over 30 years. he's stubborn, he won't go
  • 00:16:03.852 --> 00:16:04.720
  • He's stubborn, he won't go away.
  • 00:16:04.787 --> 00:16:05.988
  • Away. for me, he's a real enemy.
  • 00:16:06.055 --> 00:16:08.724
  • For me, he's a real enemy. david defeated goliath in a
  • 00:16:08.791 --> 00:16:10.426
  • David defeated goliath in a few minutes, a victory that
  • 00:16:10.492 --> 00:16:12.594
  • Few minutes, a victory that changed the course of his
  • 00:16:12.661 --> 00:16:13.929
  • Changed the course of his life.
  • 00:16:13.996 --> 00:16:15.297
  • Life. but goliath wasn't david's
  • 00:16:15.364 --> 00:16:16.632
  • But goliath wasn't david's real enemy.
  • 00:16:16.698 --> 00:16:18.534
  • Real enemy. he was gone in a moment.
  • 00:16:18.600 --> 00:16:20.302
  • He was gone in a moment. his real enemy was saul.
  • 00:16:20.369 --> 00:16:23.172
  • His real enemy was saul. saul pestered david for
  • 00:16:23.238 --> 00:16:24.606
  • Saul pestered david for years, threw spears at him
  • 00:16:24.673 --> 00:16:26.909
  • Years, threw spears at him when david was being nice.
  • 00:16:26.975 --> 00:16:28.343
  • When david was being nice. he chased david through the
  • 00:16:28.410 --> 00:16:30.612
  • He chased david through the desert.
  • 00:16:30.679 --> 00:16:31.847
  • Desert. david had to live on the run.
  • 00:16:31.914 --> 00:16:33.816
  • David had to live on the run. god could have delivered
  • 00:16:33.882 --> 00:16:35.451
  • God could have delivered david from saul like he did
  • 00:16:35.517 --> 00:16:37.486
  • David from saul like he did goliath.
  • 00:16:37.553 --> 00:16:39.521
  • Goliath. he could've taken care of him
  • 00:16:39.588 --> 00:16:40.556
  • He could've taken care of him in 1 afternoon, no big deal.
  • 00:16:40.622 --> 00:16:43.358
  • In 1 afternoon, no big deal. but there are some enemies
  • 00:16:43.425 --> 00:16:45.627
  • But there are some enemies god doesn't deliver us from,
  • 00:16:45.694 --> 00:16:48.564
  • God doesn't deliver us from, some temptations he doesn't
  • 00:16:48.630 --> 00:16:50.199
  • Some temptations he doesn't totally remove, and if god is
  • 00:16:50.265 --> 00:16:52.534
  • Totally remove, and if god is not taking it away, that
  • 00:16:52.601 --> 00:16:54.636
  • Not taking it away, that means he's giving you the
  • 00:16:54.703 --> 00:16:56.405
  • Means he's giving you the grace to stand strong.
  • 00:16:56.472 --> 00:16:58.907
  • Grace to stand strong. you have the power to keep
  • 00:16:58.974 --> 00:17:00.542
  • You have the power to keep the old man down.
  • 00:17:00.609 --> 00:17:02.578
  • The old man down. now, you may be tempted to
  • 00:17:02.644 --> 00:17:03.946
  • Now, you may be tempted to hold on to bitterness.
  • 00:17:04.012 --> 00:17:06.281
  • Hold on to bitterness. somebody did you wrong.
  • 00:17:06.348 --> 00:17:07.916
  • Somebody did you wrong. they hurt you.
  • 00:17:07.983 --> 00:17:09.451
  • They hurt you. it's been years, and that
  • 00:17:09.518 --> 00:17:10.853
  • It's been years, and that temptation is still there.
  • 00:17:10.919 --> 00:17:13.021
  • Temptation is still there. that's your real enemy.
  • 00:17:13.088 --> 00:17:15.390
  • That's your real enemy. keep the old man down.
  • 00:17:15.457 --> 00:17:17.459
  • Keep the old man down. do the right thing when it's
  • 00:17:17.526 --> 00:17:18.594
  • Do the right thing when it's hard.
  • 00:17:18.660 --> 00:17:19.595
  • Hard. bitterness doesn't look good
  • 00:17:19.661 --> 00:17:20.696
  • Bitterness doesn't look good on you.
  • 00:17:20.762 --> 00:17:22.197
  • On you. maybe you have an ongoing
  • 00:17:22.264 --> 00:17:23.398
  • Maybe you have an ongoing temptation with alcohol or to
  • 00:17:23.465 --> 00:17:25.534
  • Temptation with alcohol or to compromise in a relationship,
  • 00:17:25.601 --> 00:17:28.137
  • Compromise in a relationship, to be negative or critical.
  • 00:17:28.203 --> 00:17:30.139
  • To be negative or critical. every person has a saul.
  • 00:17:30.205 --> 00:17:33.008
  • Every person has a saul. there's a temptation, an
  • 00:17:33.075 --> 00:17:34.409
  • There's a temptation, an attitude, some area of
  • 00:17:34.476 --> 00:17:36.645
  • Attitude, some area of compromise that doesn't go
  • 00:17:36.712 --> 00:17:38.614
  • Compromise that doesn't go away, and you need to know
  • 00:17:38.680 --> 00:17:40.849
  • Away, and you need to know what your real enemy is, and
  • 00:17:40.916 --> 00:17:43.752
  • What your real enemy is, and don't let the sauls wear you
  • 00:17:43.819 --> 00:17:45.721
  • Don't let the sauls wear you down to where you think,
  • 00:17:45.787 --> 00:17:47.789
  • Down to where you think, "this is just who i am."
  • 00:17:47.856 --> 00:17:49.725
  • "this is just who i am." no, announce to that saul,
  • 00:17:49.791 --> 00:17:51.426
  • No, announce to that saul, "you will not keep me from my
  • 00:17:51.493 --> 00:17:53.061
  • "you will not keep me from my destiny.
  • 00:17:53.128 --> 00:17:54.530
  • Destiny. if you never go away, i'm not
  • 00:17:54.596 --> 00:17:56.098
  • If you never go away, i'm not giving in.
  • 00:17:56.165 --> 00:17:57.699
  • Giving in. i'm not letting the old man
  • 00:17:57.766 --> 00:17:58.901
  • I'm not letting the old man get back up.
  • 00:17:58.967 --> 00:18:00.102
  • Get back up. i'm going to keep resisting,
  • 00:18:00.169 --> 00:18:01.403
  • I'm going to keep resisting, standing strong, doing the
  • 00:18:01.470 --> 00:18:03.238
  • Standing strong, doing the right thing."
  • 00:18:03.305 --> 00:18:05.240
  • Right thing." but too often, we want a
  • 00:18:05.307 --> 00:18:06.375
  • But too often, we want a quick fix.
  • 00:18:06.441 --> 00:18:07.809
  • Quick fix. "god, deliver me instantly.
  • 00:18:07.876 --> 00:18:09.845
  • "god, deliver me instantly. take away this hot temper.
  • 00:18:09.912 --> 00:18:11.547
  • Take away this hot temper. lord, make me patient and
  • 00:18:11.613 --> 00:18:12.981
  • Lord, make me patient and kind and do it overnight,"
  • 00:18:13.048 --> 00:18:15.117
  • Kind and do it overnight," and you will defeat some
  • 00:18:15.184 --> 00:18:16.785
  • And you will defeat some giants overnight.
  • 00:18:16.852 --> 00:18:18.787
  • Giants overnight. you will conquer some
  • 00:18:18.854 --> 00:18:20.222
  • You will conquer some goliaths quickly, but most of
  • 00:18:20.289 --> 00:18:22.157
  • Goliaths quickly, but most of the time, god will deliver
  • 00:18:22.224 --> 00:18:24.193
  • The time, god will deliver you little by little.
  • 00:18:24.259 --> 00:18:26.495
  • You little by little. when he sees you doing your
  • 00:18:26.562 --> 00:18:28.230
  • When he sees you doing your part, being patient when you
  • 00:18:28.297 --> 00:18:30.132
  • Part, being patient when you could be stressed, forgiving
  • 00:18:30.199 --> 00:18:32.100
  • Could be stressed, forgiving the person that did you
  • 00:18:32.167 --> 00:18:33.535
  • The person that did you wrong, resisting the
  • 00:18:33.602 --> 00:18:34.736
  • Wrong, resisting the temptation, as you keep
  • 00:18:34.803 --> 00:18:36.605
  • Temptation, as you keep passing these tests, one step
  • 00:18:36.672 --> 00:18:38.607
  • Passing these tests, one step at a time, god will begin to
  • 00:18:38.674 --> 00:18:40.709
  • At a time, god will begin to change things.
  • 00:18:40.776 --> 00:18:42.477
  • Change things. this is what happened to
  • 00:18:42.544 --> 00:18:43.679
  • This is what happened to jacob in the scripture.
  • 00:18:43.745 --> 00:18:45.280
  • Jacob in the scripture. he was dishonest.
  • 00:18:45.347 --> 00:18:46.949
  • He was dishonest. he went around tricking
  • 00:18:47.015 --> 00:18:48.083
  • He went around tricking people.
  • 00:18:48.150 --> 00:18:49.117
  • People. he deceived his brother out
  • 00:18:49.184 --> 00:18:50.185
  • He deceived his brother out of his birthright.
  • 00:18:50.252 --> 00:18:51.787
  • Of his birthright. being dishonest was his saul.
  • 00:18:51.853 --> 00:18:54.389
  • Being dishonest was his saul. he struggled with it for
  • 00:18:54.456 --> 00:18:55.457
  • He struggled with it for years.
  • 00:18:55.524 --> 00:18:56.658
  • Years. he wasn't disciplined.
  • 00:18:56.725 --> 00:18:58.427
  • He wasn't disciplined. he didn't try to overcome.
  • 00:18:58.493 --> 00:18:59.895
  • He didn't try to overcome. he accepted it for who he
  • 00:18:59.962 --> 00:19:01.096
  • He accepted it for who he was.
  • 00:19:01.163 --> 00:19:02.531
  • Was. but in genesis 32, when he
  • 00:19:02.598 --> 00:19:04.733
  • But in genesis 32, when he wrestled with the angel, god
  • 00:19:04.800 --> 00:19:06.935
  • Wrestled with the angel, god changed his name from jacob
  • 00:19:07.002 --> 00:19:09.004
  • Changed his name from jacob to israel.
  • 00:19:09.071 --> 00:19:11.373
  • To israel. this was to symbolize his new
  • 00:19:11.440 --> 00:19:13.308
  • This was to symbolize his new beginning.
  • 00:19:13.375 --> 00:19:15.077
  • Beginning. god was saying, "jacob, i'm
  • 00:19:15.143 --> 00:19:16.511
  • God was saying, "jacob, i'm giving you the grace to
  • 00:19:16.578 --> 00:19:18.180
  • Giving you the grace to conquer this dishonesty," and
  • 00:19:18.247 --> 00:19:20.582
  • Conquer this dishonesty," and jacob did his best to change
  • 00:19:20.649 --> 00:19:22.517
  • Jacob did his best to change and live with integrity.
  • 00:19:22.584 --> 00:19:24.820
  • And live with integrity. he started making better
  • 00:19:24.886 --> 00:19:26.188
  • He started making better decisions.
  • 00:19:26.255 --> 00:19:27.656
  • Decisions. but just because god touched
  • 00:19:27.723 --> 00:19:29.191
  • But just because god touched him didn't mean he suddenly
  • 00:19:29.258 --> 00:19:31.460
  • Him didn't mean he suddenly turned into a different
  • 00:19:31.526 --> 00:19:33.195
  • Turned into a different person and he didn't have
  • 00:19:33.262 --> 00:19:34.863
  • Person and he didn't have these temptations anymore.
  • 00:19:34.930 --> 00:19:37.332
  • These temptations anymore. in genesis 48, he came to the
  • 00:19:37.399 --> 00:19:39.201
  • In genesis 48, he came to the end of life.
  • 00:19:39.268 --> 00:19:40.969
  • End of life. verse 2 says: "when jacob was
  • 00:19:41.036 --> 00:19:43.238
  • Verse 2 says: "when jacob was told, 'your son joseph is
  • 00:19:43.305 --> 00:19:45.440
  • Told, 'your son joseph is here to see you,' israel
  • 00:19:45.507 --> 00:19:48.477
  • Here to see you,' israel gathered up his strength and
  • 00:19:48.543 --> 00:19:50.579
  • Gathered up his strength and sat up in bed."
  • 00:19:50.646 --> 00:19:52.648
  • Sat up in bed." he was near death, and look
  • 00:19:52.714 --> 00:19:54.182
  • He was near death, and look who was there, israel and
  • 00:19:54.249 --> 00:19:55.684
  • Who was there, israel and jacob.
  • 00:19:55.751 --> 00:19:58.020
  • Jacob. you would think the scripture
  • 00:19:58.086 --> 00:19:59.388
  • You would think the scripture would just refer to him as
  • 00:19:59.454 --> 00:20:00.956
  • Would just refer to him as israel.
  • 00:20:01.023 --> 00:20:02.491
  • Israel. jacob was over and done.
  • 00:20:02.557 --> 00:20:04.660
  • Jacob was over and done. but this was put there to
  • 00:20:04.726 --> 00:20:06.328
  • But this was put there to show us that he never totally
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  • Show us that he never totally got rid of jacob.
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  • Got rid of jacob. he lived as israel, his new
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  • He lived as israel, his new name, but jacob didn't go
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  • Name, but jacob didn't go away easily.
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  • Away easily. jacob kept trying to get back
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  • Jacob kept trying to get back up and come again and again.
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  • Up and come again and again. it's the same way with us.
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  • It's the same way with us. god made us a new creation.
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  • God made us a new creation. he says, "you are no longer
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  • He says, "you are no longer jacob, the deceiver, the
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  • Jacob, the deceiver, the compromiser, now you're
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  • Compromiser, now you're israel.
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  • Israel. but even though you're
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  • But even though you're israel, jacob is going to get
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  • Israel, jacob is going to get up out of the grave and try
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  • Up out of the grave and try to work his way back."
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  • To work his way back." there will be a conflict
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  • There will be a conflict between these two men, who
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  • Between these two men, who you're called to be, and who
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  • You're called to be, and who you used to be.
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  • You used to be. somebody cuts you off in
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  • Somebody cuts you off in traffic, israel says, "no big
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  • Traffic, israel says, "no big deal.
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  • Deal. it's not going to ruin my
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  • It's not going to ruin my day.
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  • Day. bless them, lord."
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  • Bless them, lord." it would be easy if jacob
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  • It would be easy if jacob were totally gone.
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  • Were totally gone. the problem is, the old man,
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  • The problem is, the old man, jacob, he's still in there.
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  • Jacob, he's still in there. when israel says, "i'm going
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  • When israel says, "i'm going to bless them," jacob gets up
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  • To bless them," jacob gets up and says, "no, i'm going to
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  • And says, "no, i'm going to curse them."
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  • Curse them." israel wants to overlook the
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  • Israel wants to overlook the offense.
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  • Offense. jacob wants to tell them off.
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  • Jacob wants to tell them off. israel wants to resist
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  • Israel wants to resist the temptation,
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  • The temptation, set a new standard.
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  • Set a new standard. jacob wants to take
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  • Jacob wants to take the easy way out,
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  • The easy way out, not be uncomfortable.
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  • Not be uncomfortable. in bible days, they didn't
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  • In bible days, they didn't have machinery, so they would
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  • Have machinery, so they would take the wheat to the
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  • Take the wheat to the threshing floor.
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  • Threshing floor. they would put it on the
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  • They would put it on the ground and have the oxen walk
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  • Ground and have the oxen walk over it again and again,
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  • Over it again and again, grinding up the husk and the
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  • Grinding up the husk and the straw, and the valuable part
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  • Straw, and the valuable part of the plant, the grain,
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  • Of the plant, the grain, would come loose from the
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  • Would come loose from the chaff, and when you're in a
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  • Chaff, and when you're in a situation you don't like,
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  • Situation you don't like, you're uncomfortable, instead
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  • You're uncomfortable, instead of being sour, recognize
  • 00:21:49.698 --> 00:21:51.500
  • Of being sour, recognize you're on the threshing
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  • You're on the threshing floor.
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  • Floor. that's god working on you to
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  • That's god working on you to try to get rid of the
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  • Try to get rid of the unusable parts, maybe the
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  • Unusable parts, maybe the pride, the jealousy, the
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  • Pride, the jealousy, the impatience.
  • 00:22:02.210 --> 00:22:03.412
  • Impatience. whatever it is, do your part
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  • Whatever it is, do your part and be willing to change.
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  • And be willing to change. stay pliable, stay moldable.
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  • Stay pliable, stay moldable. you may not like it, but if
  • 00:22:10.652 --> 00:22:12.120
  • You may not like it, but if you'll keep the right
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  • You'll keep the right attitude, it's refining you.
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  • Attitude, it's refining you. you're going to come out
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  • You're going to come out better, and this is what
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  • Better, and this is what happened with peter.
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  • Happened with peter. even though he had all these
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  • Even though he had all these inconsistencies, even though
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  • Inconsistencies, even though one moment, he was defending
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  • One moment, he was defending christ, another moment he was
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  • Christ, another moment he was denying him, because he was
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  • Denying him, because he was pliable, because he kept
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  • Pliable, because he kept growing, his old man didn't
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  • Growing, his old man didn't keep him from his destiny.
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  • Keep him from his destiny. on the day of pentecost, a
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  • On the day of pentecost, a very important day in the
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  • Very important day in the church, out of all the
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  • Church, out of all the disciples, peter was chosen
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  • Disciples, peter was chosen to give the inaugural
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  • To give the inaugural address.
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  • Address. he had the honor of leading
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  • He had the honor of leading the church, and you may have
  • 00:22:49.458 --> 00:22:51.626
  • The church, and you may have let your old man get up way
  • 00:22:51.693 --> 00:22:53.094
  • Let your old man get up way more than you should have.
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  • More than you should have. be encouraged, it is not
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  • Be encouraged, it is not going to keep you from your
  • 00:22:56.531 --> 00:22:58.099
  • Going to keep you from your destiny.
  • 00:22:58.166 --> 00:22:59.534
  • Destiny. now, draw that line in the
  • 00:22:59.601 --> 00:23:00.802
  • Now, draw that line in the sand and say, "this is a new
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  • Sand and say, "this is a new day.
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  • Day. i'm not letting my flesh rule
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  • I'm not letting my flesh rule me anymore.
  • 00:23:04.873 --> 00:23:06.341
  • Me anymore. i'm done taking the easy way
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  • I'm done taking the easy way out.
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  • Out. i'm going to be disciplined
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  • I'm going to be disciplined and keep my old man down."
  • 00:23:10.145 --> 00:23:12.681
  • And keep my old man down." if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare, bondages that
  • 00:23:14.149 --> 00:23:17.085
  • And declare, bondages that have held you back are being
  • 00:23:17.152 --> 00:23:19.087
  • Have held you back are being broken right now.
  • 00:23:19.154 --> 00:23:20.956
  • Broken right now. you're going to step into a
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  • You're going to step into a new level of freedom, new
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  • New level of freedom, new level of favor, a new level
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  • Level of favor, a new level of growth.
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  • Of growth. like peter, you're going to
  • 00:23:26.761 --> 00:23:27.829
  • Like peter, you're going to rise higher, overcome
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  • Rise higher, overcome obstacles, and become
  • 00:23:29.498 --> 00:23:31.099
  • Obstacles, and become everything you were created
  • 00:23:31.166 --> 00:23:32.968
  • Everything you were created to be, in jesus' name, and if
  • 00:23:33.034 --> 00:23:35.804
  • To be, in jesus' name, and if you receive it, can you say,
  • 00:23:35.871 --> 00:23:37.772
  • You receive it, can you say, "amen," today?
  • 00:23:37.839 --> 00:23:40.242
  • "amen," today? i'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus
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  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • The lord of your life. would you pray with me?
  • 00:23:44.546 --> 00:23:46.114
  • Would you pray with me? just say: "lord jesus,
  • 00:23:46.181 --> 00:23:49.217
  • Just say: "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
  • 00:23:49.284 --> 00:23:51.586
  • I repent of my sins. come into my heart.
  • 00:23:51.653 --> 00:23:54.022
  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord
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  • I make you my lord and savior."
  • 00:23:55.323 --> 00:23:57.225
  • And savior." if you prayed that
  • 00:23:57.292 --> 00:23:58.260
  • If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe
  • 00:23:58.326 --> 00:23:59.694
  • Simple prayer, we believe you got born again.
  • 00:23:59.761 --> 00:24:01.730
  • You got born again. get in a good bible-based
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  • Get in a good bible-based church, and keep god
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  • Church, and keep god first place.
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  • First place. victoria and i will be
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  • Victoria and i will be right back to speak
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  • Right back to speak a blessing over you.
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  • When we
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  • When we face challenges, it's easy
  • 00:24:10.672 --> 00:24:12.307
  • Face challenges, it's easy to feel like god
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  • To feel like god has forgotten about us.
  • 00:24:13.174 --> 00:24:14.709
  • Has forgotten about us. we don't see
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  • We don't see anything happening,
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  • Anything happening, and thoughts tell us
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  • And thoughts tell us it's not going to work out.
  • 00:24:17.212 --> 00:24:18.980
  • It's not going to work out. but god is not called the great
  • 00:24:19.047 --> 00:24:20.649
  • But god is not called the great i was or the great i will be.
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  • I was or the great i will be. he's called the great i am.
  • 00:24:23.151 --> 00:24:25.253
  • He's called the great i am. in my new book,
  • 00:24:25.320 --> 00:24:26.321
  • In my new book, he is i am,
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  • He is i am, you'll discover
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  • You'll discover that god is with you
  • 00:24:28.823 --> 00:24:29.691
  • That god is with you in every area of your life.
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  • I am is always in the present,
  • 00:24:32.060 --> 00:24:34.396
  • I am is always in the present, not at a later time.
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  • Not at a later time. god is working
  • 00:24:35.997 --> 00:24:36.798
  • God is working in your life right now.
  • 00:24:36.865 --> 00:24:38.700
  • In your life right now. i am means i am your healer.
  • 00:24:38.767 --> 00:24:40.669
  • I am means i am your healer. i am your provider.
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  • I am your provider. i am your waymaker.
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  • I am your waymaker. whether you're
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  • Whether you're facing a challenge
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  • Facing a challenge or pursuing your dreams,
  • 00:24:45.740 --> 00:24:47.242
  • Or pursuing your dreams, stay in faith.
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  • Stay in faith. the great i am
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  • The great i am is right there with you.
  • 00:24:49.511 --> 00:24:51.613
  • Is right there with you. as our way of saying thank you
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  • He is i am: god is for you here and now.
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  • God is for you here and now. are you in need of protection
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  • Are you in need of protection or provision today?
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  • Or provision today? jesus assures us,
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  • Jesus assures us, "i am
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  • "i am the good shepherd."
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  • The good shepherd." does the path ahead
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  • Does the path ahead seem uncertain or dark?
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  • Seem uncertain or dark? jesus declares,
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  • Jesus declares, "i am the light of the world."
  • 00:25:13.868 --> 00:25:16.304
  • "i am the light of the world." do you feel like your career,
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  • Do you feel like your career, calling, or marriage
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  • Calling, or marriage is beyond hope?
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  • Is beyond hope? jesus promises,
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  • Jesus promises, "i am the resurrection
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  • "i am the resurrection and the life."
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  • And the life." with every i am statement,
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  • With every i am statement, you'll discover
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  • You'll discover more about who god is
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  • More about who god is and what he has made
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  • And what he has made available for you.
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  • Available for you. not someday, but today.
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  • No matter what you face, he is here and now for you.
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  • Making ways, opening doors, turning things in your favor.
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