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What Are Soul Ties? | Better Together

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January 15, 2020
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How can we identify and break unhealthy spiritual and emotional bonds that keep us from healing? | TBN Prayer Line: 1-888-731-1000;

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  • that block us from healing?
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  • Come on, let's talk about it.
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  • (inspirational new age music)
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  • being in certain relationships.
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  • in my life.
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  • thank you, thank you, thank you.
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  • an abundant life.
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  • between me and my stepfather.
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  • that we had.
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  • his approach to me.
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  • that I've had over my life.
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  • or a Hivite, of some type,
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  • he raped her.
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  • between two parties, and there's
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  • an emotional bond that happens.
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  • I wasn't aware of.
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  • that's what a soul tie is.
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  • So we are in him.
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  • that's where who he is resides.
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  • on what we do, and how we feel,
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  • it infects your relationships.
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  • they will destroy you.
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  • (shared laughing)
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  • But, it happened; I loved him.
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  • - [Woman] Bless his heart.
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  • Don't let him watch this one.
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  • that was knit to him.
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  • That's where the battle is.
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  • Once we change our thinking
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  • But it starts with our thoughts.
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  • if you do have kids,
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  • You need to let go.
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  • What do you need to let go of?
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  • Who's a bad influence on you?
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  • It doesn't mean you can't just,
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  • to have boundaries.
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  • Boundaries are good.
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  • of an intimate moment.
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  • And so, how do I cut that?
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  • and just put it into this oven,
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  • he'll put it into that fire.
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  • on the inside.
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  • and with your soul.
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  • (soft new age music)
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  • - We are here for you.
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  • after Barry and I got married.
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  • and I said, oh gosh, what?
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  • So she flew in, I went with her,
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  • who I am. (shared laughing)
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  • there's nothing wrong with her.
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  • you're absolutely fine.
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  • and I'd been doing some things,
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  • that could have dinner?
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  • And I'm like, yeah, sure, come.
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  • there's nothing in her system.
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  • I want to be part of it,
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  • and say to her, you know what?
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  • This is not acceptable anymore.
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  • It's not appropriate.
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  • something that's not healthy.
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  • - And it was toxic.
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  • you know what?
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  • This is not healthy.
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  • like, this just isn't working.
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  • - Or manipulate.
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  • - Or they'll manipulate you.
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  • what you do too.
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  • with her and say, you know what?
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  • This isn't gonna work.
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  • setting boundaries.
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  • That's how you resolve it.
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  • so responsible for them.
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  • - Which is normal, which is,
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  • - A protective layer.
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  • - I accidentally got married.
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  • I married him.
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  • she was home.
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  • was not really a believer.
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  • but I don't need her approval.
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  • but I am with this man.
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  • We are one, together.
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  • - You're leaving and cleaving.
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  • - Wow.
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  • in the first marriage.
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  • let go of this.
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  • it flows into that relationship.
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  • it was a unhealthy connection
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  • my husband had with his mom.
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  • - Interesting.
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  • it becomes a challenge.
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  • it's not just one woman,
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  • and I want to replicate that.
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  • I want to be supportive,
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  • and be there when they need me,
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  • we're just more.
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  • can I get you a cup of coffee?
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  • And she would just be nothing.
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  • and she went home.
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  • that my husband made that clear,
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  • - You will become the enemy.
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  • - Man, I love that.
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  • it's, can it happen?
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  • Can I live a whole life?
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  • (soft new age music)
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  • - Would you let me pray for you?
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  • in our place.
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  • soul ties before you.
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  • and bring those names to mind.
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  • the indicator was my marriage.
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  • if I could put it that way,
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  • that really needs to happen.
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  • but keep moving.
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  • in her spirit, so to speak.
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  • that kind of woman.
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  • all of our latest conversations.
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  • our brokenness is our ministry.
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  • as a tool to free other people.
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