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That's What Love Looks Like: God's Plan for the Man

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September 7, 2016
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Matthew Hagee

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That's What Love Looks Like: God's Plan for the Man

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  • JOHN HAGEE MINISTRIES HAS BEEN
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  • REACHING OUT TO MILLIONS OF
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  • PEOPLE WORLDWIDE EVERY WEEK,
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  • DELIVERING ALL THE GOSPEL
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  • TO ALL THE WORLD
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  • AND TO ALL GENERATIONS.
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE: HELLO
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  • AND WELCOME TO TODAY'S PROGRAM.
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  • I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU'RE
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  • WATCHING US
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  • ON THE HILLSONG NETWORK.
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  • AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW
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  • THAT GOD HAS A PLAN
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  • FOR EVERY FAMILY.
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  • THE TRUTH IS IT BEGINS
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  • WITH THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD.
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  • TODAY, YOU'RE WATCHING
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  • A MESSAGE ENTITLED
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • I KNOW A LOT OF HOUSEHOLDS
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  • WHO WISH THAT THEY WOULD
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  • FUNCTION UNDER THE BLESSINGS
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  • OF GOD.
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  • BUT IT WILL NOT TAKE PLACE
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  • UNTIL YOU, SIR,
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  • GET IN PROPER POSITION.
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  • TODAY' YOU'RE GOING TO SEE
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  • WHAT THE BIBLE HAS TO SAY
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  • ABOUT THE ROLE THAT GOD
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  • HAS GIVEN YOU TO PLAY
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  • AND HOW YOUR FAMILY
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  • CAN FUNCTION UNDER HIS BLESSING
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  • AS SOON AS YOU COME INTO
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  • ALIGNMENT.
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  • THANK YOU FOR WATCHING.
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  • AND ENJOY
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • STAY TUNED FOR TODAY'S SERMON
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • DO YOU HAVE A GOD-GIVEN DREAM
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  • OR PROMISE THAT CONTINUES
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  • TO SEEM UNREACHABLE?
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  • HAVE PROBLEMS COME INTO
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  • YOUR LIFE TO DISCOURAGE YOU?
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  • DID YOU KNOW THAT IT'S HOW
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  • YOU RESPOND TO THE PROBLEM
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  • THAT DETERMINES HOW QUICKLY
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  • YOU GET THE PROVISION FROM GOD?
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  • THIS MONTH, FOR YOUR SUPPORT
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  • OF ANY AMOUNT,
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  • WE'LL SEND YOU A COPY
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  • OF PASTOR HAGEE'S MESSAGE
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  • "FIVE STEPS IN SOLVING
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  • THE PROBLEM."
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  • AND FOR YOUR GENEROUS GIFT
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  • OF $150 OR MORE,
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  • WE'LL SEND YOU PASTOR'S
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  • FULL TEACHING SERIES
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  • "PROMISE, PROBLEM, PROVISION"
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  • ALONG WITH AN AUTOGRAPHED,
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  • SPECIAL EDITION, LEATHER-BOUND
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  • COPY OF PASTOR'S 52-WEEK
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  • DEVOTIONAL AND PRAYER JOURNAL
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  • "LIFE LESSONS TO LIVE BY."
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  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: I WANT TO
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  • TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY
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  • TO SAY THANK YOU TO ALL
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  • OF OUR FRIENDS AND PARTNERS
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  • ACROSS AMERICA FOR ALL THAT
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  • YOU DO IN SO MANY WAYS TO MAKE
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  • IT POSSIBLE FOR US TO SHARE
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  • THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST
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  • TO THIS NATION AND TO
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  • THE NATIONS OF THE WORLD.
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  • I LOVE YOU.
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  • THANK YOU.
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  • CALL 1-800-854-9899,
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  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG/PROVISION
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  • TODAY.
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  • THIS FALL,
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  • MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE
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  • ARE RETURNING TO THE SCREEN.
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  • PASTOR MATT: WE WANT TO BRING
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  • FAITH AND FAMILY VALUES,
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  • A LITTLE BIT OF OURSELVES
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  • INTO YOUR EVERYDAY WORLD,
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  • AND SHOW YOU THE DIFFERENCE
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  • THAT JESUS CHRIST CAN MAKE.
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  • AND THEY'RE BRINGING A
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  • FRESH LINEUP OF SPECIAL GUESTS,
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  • DISCUSSING TRENDING TOPICS,
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  • SHOWCASING LIVE MUSICAL
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  • PERFORMANCES AND MUCH MORE.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: WE ARE HERE TO
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  • SHARE THE WORD OF GOD.
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  • PASTOR MATT: THE WHISPERS GO
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  • AWAY AND WE JUST WORK TOGETHER.
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE" SEASON FOUR
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  • WITH MATT AND KENDALL HAGEE,
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  • STARTING SEPTEMBER 9TH
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  • ON THE HILLSONG CHANNEL.
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  • AND NOW,
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE'S SERMON
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE: IF YOU
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  • BROUGHT YOUR BIBLES TONIGHT,
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  • I WANT YOU TO TURN THEM TO
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  • EPHESIANS 5:25 THROUGH 28,
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  • AS WE CONTINUE IN THE SERMON
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  • AND TEACHING SERIES
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  • "THAT'S WHAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE."
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  • WE DISCUSSED SOME OF THE
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  • PERSPECTIVES THAT SOLOMON WROTE
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  • ABOUT LOVE AND MARRIAGE FROM
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  • THE BIBLICAL CONTEXT.
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  • AND I BELIEVE THAT IN OUR
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  • SOCIETY,
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  • IF WE WERE LOOKING FOR
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  • SOMETHING TO PUT ON THE
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  • SOCIALLY ENDANGERED SPECIE'S
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  • LIST,
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  • MARRIAGE AND FAMILY WOULD HAVE
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  • TO BE AT THE TOP.
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  • WE ARE A NATION THAT HAS SO
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  • DEVALUED MARRIAGE THAT IT IS IN
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  • DANGER OF BEING REDEFINED.
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  • WE ARE A CULTURE THAT HAS SO
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  • DEVALUED HAVING CHILDREN THAT
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  • RIGHT NOW WE ARE NOT HAVING
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  • ENOUGH CHILDREN IN THIS COUNTRY
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  • TO SUSTAIN OUR NATION.
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  • THIS IS JUST STATS, FACTS.
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  • AMERICAN FAMILIES, RIGHT NOW,
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  • ARE HAVING 1.9 KIDS
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  • AND 2.4 DOGS.
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  • THEY'D RATHER RAISE PETS THAN
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  • CHILDREN.
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  • NOW HERE'S THE PROBLEM;
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  • WHEN YOU HAVE LESS THAN
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  • 2.2 KIDS,
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  • YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH KIDS 30
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  • YEARS FROM NOW FOR THERE TO BE
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  • CHILDREN TO GET MARRIED TO EACH
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  • OTHER AND HAVE CHILDREN FOR YOU
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  • TO HAVE GRANDCHILDREN.
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  • YOU HAVE TO HAVE A GENERATION
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  • THAT WILL REPOPULATE AND
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  • SUSTAIN THE NEXT ONE THAT IS TO
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  • COME.
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  • AND THE REASON THAT I BELIEVE
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  • WE'RE FACING THESE KINDS OF
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  • PROBLEMS IN OUR WORLD IS
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  • BECAUSE WE HAVE FORGOTTEN WHAT
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  • LOVE LOOKS LIKE.
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  • WE HAVE BECOME WHAT PAUL
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  • SAID TO TIMOTHY WOULD BE IN THE
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  • LAST DAY.
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  • FOR HE SAID TO HIS DISCIPLE
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  • TIMOTHY THAT IN THE LAST DAYS,
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  • PERILOUS TIMES WOULD COME,
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  • FOR MEN WOULD BE LOVERS OF
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  • THEMSELVES.
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  • HOW MANY OF YOU COULD SAY THAT
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  • IN THIS CULTURE,
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  • IN THIS DAY AND THIS AGE,
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  • WE HAVE FULFILLED THAT
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  • STATEMENT THAT WE LOVE MORE OF
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  • OURSELVES THAN WE DO ANYTHING
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  • ELSE?
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  • IF WE ARE GOING TO RECREATE THE
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  • CULTURE,
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  • IF WE ARE GOING TO TAKE AMERICA
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  • BACK,
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  • IF WE ARE GOING TO RETURN TO
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  • RIGHTEOUSNESS,
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  • THAT RETURN HAS TO BEGIN IN
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  • YOUR LIVING ROOM.
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  • IT WILL NOT COME IN THE FORM OF
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  • A LEADER IN THE OVAL OFFICE,
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  • BECAUSE AS GOES THE FAMILY,
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  • SO GOES THE NATION.
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  • IF IT'S A PROBLEM IN THE
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  • STREET,
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  • IT'S A PROBLEM IN YOUR HOUSE.
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  • IF THERE ARE IMMORALITY ISSUES
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  • ON THE CAMPUS,
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  • THERE ARE IMMORALITY ISSUES
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  • BEHIND YOUR DOOR.
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  • IF THERE ARE DISRESPECT ISSUES
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  • IN PLACES WHERE THERE SHOULD BE
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  • RESPECT FOR PROPER AUTHORITY,
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  • THERE ARE DISRESPECT ISSUES IN
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  • YOUR HOUSE.
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  • YOU CAN'T COME TO A PUBLIC
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  • PLACE WHERE YOUR CHILDREN
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  • ANSWER EVERYBODY WITH "HUH?"
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  • AND "WHAT?"
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  • AND SAY THEY DON'T EVER SAY
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  • THAT AT HOME.
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  • IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT.
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  • THE PROBLEMS THAT WE HAVE IN
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  • OUR CULTURE ARE ONLY MAGNIFIED
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  • WHEN WE GET BEHIND THE WALLS OF
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  • OUR HOME.
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  • AND IT'S IMPERATIVE THAT WE
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  • RECOGNIZE THAT THE FAMILY IS
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  • THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT
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  • STRUCTURE IN SOCIETY.
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  • WHOEVER OWNS THE FAMILY,
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  • OWNS THE FUTURE.
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  • IF THE CHURCH HAS STRONG
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  • FAMILIES,
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  • THEN THE CHURCH CAN BUILD A
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  • STRONG COMMUNITY,
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  • AND A STRONG COMMUNITY CAN
  • 00:05:53.030 --> 00:05:54.100
  • BUILD A STRONG NATION.
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  • BUT IF A CHURCH HAS WEAK
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  • FAMILIES,
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  • THEN THE CHURCH WILL DO ALL
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  • THAT IT CAN TO SUSTAIN ITSELF
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  • AND NOT BE ABLE TO IMPACT THE
  • 00:06:01.270 --> 00:06:03.080
  • CULTURE.
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  • THE FAMILY REPRESENTS A VERY
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  • IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP.
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  • AND TONIGHT,
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  • WE'RE GOING TO LOOK AT THAT,
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  • BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT
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  • IT REPRESENTS IS THE SAME
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  • RELATIONSHIP THAT JESUS CHRIST
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  • HAS WITH THE CHURCH.
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  • TONIGHT WE'RE DISCUSSING
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN"
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  • IN WHAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE.
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  • AND GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU,
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  • SIR.
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  • HE WANTS YOU TO PLAY THE SAME
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  • ROLE FOR YOUR FAMILY THAT HE
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  • PLAYED FOR THE CHURCH WHEN HE
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  • REDEEMED HER, SAVED HER,
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  • LOVED HER, AND SANCTIFIED HER.
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  • TONIGHT WE'RE GOING TO LOOK AT
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  • FIVE WAYS FOR A MAN TO LOVE HIS
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  • WIFE AND LOVE HIS FAMILY,
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  • IN THAT ORDER.
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  • WHY?
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  • BECAUSE THAT IS YOUR PRIORITY.
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  • YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE, FIRST.
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  • AND THROUGH LOVING HER,
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  • YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY.
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  • IF YOU EVER REPLACE YOUR FAMILY
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  • AND PUT YOUR WIFE AS THIRD
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  • PLACE ON THE LIST,
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  • YOU ARE OUT OF BALANCE,
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  • AND THINGS IN YOUR HOME WILL
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  • BEGIN TO DISINTEGRATE.
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  • DON'T YOU EVER FORGET THIS FACT;
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  • YOU DIDN'T GET MARRIED TO HAVE
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  • CHILDREN.
  • 00:06:58.160 --> 00:06:59.030
  • YOU HAD CHILDREN BECAUSE YOU
  • 00:06:59.030 --> 00:07:00.140
  • GOT MARRIED.
  • 00:07:00.150 --> 00:07:03.150
  • LET'S READ EPHESIANS 5:25.
  • 00:07:03.150 --> 00:07:06.140
  • YOU'RE SHOUTING SO LOUD;
  • 00:07:06.140 --> 00:07:07.170
  • I CAN'T REMEMBER WHERE MY TEXT
  • 00:07:07.170 --> 00:07:08.250
  • IS.
  • 00:07:08.250 --> 00:07:09.250
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:07:09.250 --> 00:07:11.050
  • GET READY.
  • 00:07:11.050 --> 00:07:12.250
  • WE'RE GOING TO BE HERE A WHILE.
  • 00:07:12.250 --> 00:07:15.130
  • EPHESIANS 5:25,
  • 00:07:15.130 --> 00:07:16.240
  • IF YOU'RE THERE, SAY, AMEN.
  • 00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:17.290
  • AMEN.
  • 00:07:17.290 --> 00:07:19.110
  • HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES JUST
  • 00:07:19.110 --> 00:07:21.270
  • AS CHRIST ALSO LOVED THE CHURCH
  • 00:07:21.270 --> 00:07:24.190
  • AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER.
  • 00:07:24.190 --> 00:07:27.070
  • SAY THAT PHRASE WITH ME,
  • 00:07:27.070 --> 00:07:28.080
  • AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER.
  • 00:07:28.200 --> 00:07:31.200
  • VERSE 26: THAT HE MIGHT
  • 00:07:31.200 --> 00:07:33.030
  • SANCTIFY AND CLEANSE HER WITH
  • 00:07:33.030 --> 00:07:35.270
  • THE WASHING OF THE WATER BY THE
  • 00:07:35.270 --> 00:07:37.180
  • WORD;
  • 00:07:37.180 --> 00:07:38.100
  • THAT HE MIGHT PRESENT HER TO
  • 00:07:38.100 --> 00:07:40.180
  • HIMSELF A GLORIOUS CHURCH,
  • 00:07:40.180 --> 00:07:43.150
  • NOT HAVING A SPOT OR A WRINKLE
  • 00:07:43.150 --> 00:07:45.240
  • OR ANY SUCH THING;
  • 00:07:45.240 --> 00:07:47.090
  • BUT THAT SHE SHOULD BE HOLY AND
  • 00:07:47.090 --> 00:07:49.190
  • WITHOUT BLEMISH.
  • 00:07:49.190 --> 00:07:50.260
  • SO HUSBANDS OUGHT TO LOVE THEIR
  • 00:07:50.260 --> 00:07:53.010
  • OWN WIVES AS THEIR OWN BODIES;
  • 00:07:53.130 --> 00:07:56.130
  • FOR HE, WHO LOVES HIS WIFE,
  • 00:07:56.130 --> 00:07:58.130
  • LOVES HIMSELF.
  • 00:07:58.130 --> 00:08:00.160
  • HEAVENLY FATHER,
  • 00:08:00.160 --> 00:08:02.030
  • LET THE TRUTH OF YOUR WORD
  • 00:08:02.030 --> 00:08:04.130
  • CHANGE OUR LIVES TONIGHT;
  • 00:08:04.130 --> 00:08:07.020
  • THAT BY CHANGING US,
  • 00:08:07.020 --> 00:08:09.020
  • WE COULD BEGIN TO CREATE A
  • 00:08:09.020 --> 00:08:10.110
  • CHANGE IN THIS NATION THAT
  • 00:08:10.110 --> 00:08:12.280
  • WOULD BRING US BACK TO A PEOPLE
  • 00:08:12.280 --> 00:08:15.110
  • OF RIGHTEOUSNESS.
  • 00:08:15.110 --> 00:08:16.260
  • IN JESUS' NAME, WE PRAY.
  • 00:08:16.260 --> 00:08:17.260
  • AND ALL OF GOD'S CHILDREN SAID,
  • 00:08:17.260 --> 00:08:19.140
  • PRAISE THE LORD.
  • 00:08:19.140 --> 00:08:20.110
  • PRAISE THE LORD.
  • 00:08:20.110 --> 00:08:21.190
  • MEN, HOW MANY OF YOU ARE
  • 00:08:21.190 --> 00:08:22.160
  • INTERESTED IN BEING THE KING
  • 00:08:22.160 --> 00:08:23.270
  • OF YOUR CASTLE?
  • 00:08:23.270 --> 00:08:26.060
  • I MEAN WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH
  • 00:08:26.060 --> 00:08:27.020
  • THE DOOR,
  • 00:08:27.020 --> 00:08:27.170
  • SHE SAYS, WHEW! HE'S HOME!
  • 00:08:27.170 --> 00:08:30.040
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:08:30.040 --> 00:08:31.110
  • BY THE END OF THIS SERVICE,
  • 00:08:33.220 --> 00:08:36.220
  • YOU'LL STILL FEEL THAT WAY.
  • 00:08:36.220 --> 00:08:38.170
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:08:38.170 --> 00:08:40.020
  • AS WE BEGAN THIS TEACHING
  • 00:08:40.020 --> 00:08:42.090
  • SERIES,
  • 00:08:42.090 --> 00:08:42.270
  • WE MADE IT VERY CLEAR THAT IF
  • 00:08:42.270 --> 00:08:44.080
  • YOU WERE GOING TO BE THE KING
  • 00:08:44.080 --> 00:08:45.200
  • OF YOUR CASTLE,
  • 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:46.170
  • YOU HAD TO BE SUBMITTED TO THE
  • 00:08:46.170 --> 00:08:48.060
  • KING OF KINGS;
  • 00:08:48.060 --> 00:08:49.280
  • THAT YOU COULD NOT BE OUT OF
  • 00:08:49.280 --> 00:08:51.070
  • ORDER WITH HIM AND EXPECT YOUR
  • 00:08:51.070 --> 00:08:53.010
  • FAMILY TO BE IN ORDER AT THE
  • 00:08:53.010 --> 00:08:54.180
  • HOUSE.
  • 00:08:54.180 --> 00:08:56.160
  • AND THIS IS WHAT
  • 00:08:56.160 --> 00:08:56.270
  • 1 CORINTHIANS 11 SAYS.
  • 00:08:56.270 --> 00:08:58.100
  • IT SAYS: THE HEAD OF EVERY MAN
  • 00:08:58.100 --> 00:08:59.160
  • IS CHRIST.
  • 00:08:59.160 --> 00:09:00.260
  • SAY THAT WITH ME,
  • 00:09:00.260 --> 00:09:01.290
  • THE HEAD OF EVERY MAN IS
  • 00:09:01.290 --> 00:09:03.280
  • CHRIST.
  • 00:09:03.280 --> 00:09:04.140
  • WHEN MAN SEPARATES HIMSELF FROM
  • 00:09:04.140 --> 00:09:06.070
  • SUBMISSION TO CHRIST,
  • 00:09:06.070 --> 00:09:07.170
  • WE HAVE ANARCHY.
  • 00:09:07.170 --> 00:09:09.210
  • AND THE BIBLE SAYS THAT GOD IS
  • 00:09:09.210 --> 00:09:11.100
  • NOT A GOD OF CONFUSION.
  • 00:09:11.100 --> 00:09:12.260
  • HE WILL NEVER OPERATE IN
  • 00:09:12.260 --> 00:09:14.130
  • CONFUSION.
  • 00:09:14.130 --> 00:09:15.250
  • HE WILL ALWAYS OPERATE IN
  • 00:09:15.250 --> 00:09:17.060
  • ORDER.
  • 00:09:17.060 --> 00:09:17.280
  • SO IN ORDER FOR YOU TO DO WHAT
  • 00:09:17.280 --> 00:09:20.010
  • IS NECESSARY IN YOUR HOME TO BE
  • 00:09:20.010 --> 00:09:22.010
  • THE LEADER AT YOUR HOUSE,
  • 00:09:22.010 --> 00:09:23.160
  • THE FIRST THING THAT YOU HAVE
  • 00:09:23.160 --> 00:09:24.220
  • TO DO IS SUBMIT.
  • 00:09:24.220 --> 00:09:26.030
  • IN REVIEW, WE SAID,
  • 00:09:26.030 --> 00:09:26.270
  • SUBMISSION IS HOW YOU
  • 00:09:26.270 --> 00:09:28.080
  • ACCOMPLISH THE MISSION.
  • 00:09:28.080 --> 00:09:30.180
  • YOU CANNOT ASK FOR ANYONE IN
  • 00:09:30.180 --> 00:09:32.210
  • YOUR HOME, NOT EVEN THE DOG,
  • 00:09:32.210 --> 00:09:34.170
  • TO SUBMIT TO YOU IF YOU ARE NOT
  • 00:09:34.170 --> 00:09:36.110
  • SUBMITTED TO CHRIST.
  • 00:09:36.110 --> 00:09:39.090
  • THE POINT IS, YOU CANNOT EXALT
  • 00:09:39.090 --> 00:09:41.280
  • YOURSELF ON THE THRONE AND
  • 00:09:41.280 --> 00:09:43.070
  • BEGIN BARKING ORDERS,
  • 00:09:43.070 --> 00:09:44.100
  • AND DECLARE THAT BECAUSE YOU
  • 00:09:44.100 --> 00:09:45.160
  • ARE MASCULINE,
  • 00:09:45.160 --> 00:09:46.090
  • YOU ARE THE LEADER.
  • 00:09:46.090 --> 00:09:48.110
  • A MANLY LEADER SHOWS HIS FAMILY
  • 00:09:48.110 --> 00:09:50.110
  • THAT THE MOST COURAGEOUS THING
  • 00:09:50.110 --> 00:09:51.280
  • HE CAN DO IS CRUCIFY HIMSELF
  • 00:09:51.280 --> 00:09:53.270
  • AND SUBMIT TO THE LORD
  • 00:09:53.270 --> 00:09:54.260
  • JESUS CHRIST,
  • 00:09:54.260 --> 00:09:56.260
  • BECAUSE BIBLICAL LEADERSHIP IS
  • 00:09:56.260 --> 00:09:58.220
  • SERVANT LEADERSHIP.
  • 00:09:58.220 --> 00:10:01.130
  • IN OUR MODERN WORLD,
  • 00:10:01.130 --> 00:10:02.080
  • WE'VE CHANGED THE MINDSET THAT
  • 00:10:02.080 --> 00:10:04.190
  • LEADERS ARE TO BE SERVED.
  • 00:10:04.190 --> 00:10:07.110
  • BUT THE TRUTH IS SERVANTS OF
  • 00:10:07.110 --> 00:10:09.110
  • GOD LEAD BY SERVING.
  • 00:10:09.140 --> 00:10:12.140
  • MARK 10:44: AND WHOEVER
  • 00:10:12.140 --> 00:10:14.030
  • DESIRES TO BE FIRST SHALL BE
  • 00:10:14.030 --> 00:10:15.170
  • THE SLAVE OF ALL.
  • 00:10:15.170 --> 00:10:18.130
  • NOW THAT WAS NOT A STATEMENT OF
  • 00:10:18.130 --> 00:10:20.040
  • POSITION OR SELF-HUMILIATION;
  • 00:10:20.040 --> 00:10:22.030
  • THAT WAS A STATEMENT OF
  • 00:10:22.030 --> 00:10:23.060
  • SELF-SACRIFICE.
  • 00:10:23.060 --> 00:10:24.270
  • THIS WAS WHAT JESUS CHRIST SAID
  • 00:10:24.270 --> 00:10:26.110
  • TO HIS DISCIPLES AS HE WAS
  • 00:10:26.110 --> 00:10:27.280
  • DOING THE THINGS THAT NEEDED TO
  • 00:10:27.280 --> 00:10:29.150
  • BE DONE IN ORDER FOR THEM TO
  • 00:10:29.150 --> 00:10:31.070
  • PROGRESS IN THEIR FAITH.
  • 00:10:31.070 --> 00:10:33.020
  • HERE'S WHAT HE SAID.
  • 00:10:33.020 --> 00:10:34.000
  • HE SAID: THE SON OF MAN DID
  • 00:10:34.000 --> 00:10:35.060
  • NOT COME TO BE SERVED,
  • 00:10:35.060 --> 00:10:36.160
  • BUT TO SERVE AND TO GIVE HIS
  • 00:10:36.160 --> 00:10:38.200
  • LIFE A RANSOM FOR MANY.
  • 00:10:38.270 --> 00:10:41.270
  • IN LIKE FASHION,
  • 00:10:41.270 --> 00:10:42.280
  • MEN, YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND
  • 00:10:42.280 --> 00:10:44.080
  • THAT YOU DO NOT GO HOME TO
  • 00:10:44.080 --> 00:10:45.280
  • BE SERVED;
  • 00:10:45.280 --> 00:10:47.030
  • YOU'RE THERE TO SERVE AND TO
  • 00:10:47.030 --> 00:10:49.200
  • GIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR FAMILY.
  • 00:10:50.040 --> 00:10:53.040
  • IF YOU WANT TO BE THE KING IN
  • 00:10:53.040 --> 00:10:54.120
  • YOUR CASTLE,
  • 00:10:54.120 --> 00:10:55.010
  • IF YOU WANT TO BE THE GUY THAT
  • 00:10:55.010 --> 00:10:56.160
  • GETS CHEERED WHEN YOU WALK
  • 00:10:56.160 --> 00:10:57.280
  • THROUGH THE BACK DOOR,
  • 00:10:57.280 --> 00:10:58.220
  • START BY LOVING YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:10:59.140 --> 00:11:02.160
  • AND UNDERSTAND WHAT BIBLICAL
  • 00:11:02.160 --> 00:11:03.220
  • LOVE MEANS.
  • 00:11:03.220 --> 00:11:05.180
  • BIBLICAL LOVE IS NOT
  • 00:11:05.180 --> 00:11:07.030
  • ENJOYMENT.
  • 00:11:07.030 --> 00:11:08.210
  • WE HAVE TAKEN THE DEFINITION
  • 00:11:08.210 --> 00:11:10.000
  • OF "ENJOYMENT" AND USED THE
  • 00:11:10.000 --> 00:11:11.160
  • WORD "LOVE" TO DESCRIBE IT.
  • 00:11:11.160 --> 00:11:14.030
  • MANY PEOPLE ENJOY THEIR SPOUSE,
  • 00:11:14.030 --> 00:11:16.040
  • BUT THEY DON'T LOVE THEIR
  • 00:11:16.040 --> 00:11:16.250
  • SPOUSE.
  • 00:11:16.250 --> 00:11:18.120
  • AND I'LL GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE.
  • 00:11:18.120 --> 00:11:20.070
  • HOW MANY OF YOU ENJOY A GOOD
  • 00:11:20.070 --> 00:11:21.160
  • STEAK?
  • 00:11:21.160 --> 00:11:23.010
  • HOW MANY OF YOU KNOW A
  • 00:11:23.010 --> 00:11:23.200
  • RESTAURANT WHERE YOU CAN GO AND
  • 00:11:23.200 --> 00:11:25.020
  • HAVE A GOOD STEAK?
  • 00:11:25.020 --> 00:11:27.150
  • ALL IT TAKES FOR YOU TO STOP
  • 00:11:27.150 --> 00:11:29.080
  • ENJOYING THAT FOOD IS FOR YOU
  • 00:11:29.080 --> 00:11:31.230
  • TO GO THROUGH ONE TIME,
  • 00:11:31.230 --> 00:11:33.010
  • PAY FULL PRICE,
  • 00:11:33.010 --> 00:11:34.010
  • AND GET HALF THE VALUE.
  • 00:11:34.010 --> 00:11:36.090
  • AND SUDDENLY THE RESTAURANT
  • 00:11:36.090 --> 00:11:37.140
  • THAT YOU SAID YOU LOVED WHEN
  • 00:11:37.140 --> 00:11:39.080
  • THE SUN CAME UP,
  • 00:11:39.080 --> 00:11:40.100
  • YOU'VE JUST SHOWED EVERYBODY
  • 00:11:40.100 --> 00:11:42.080
  • THAT ALL YOU REALLY DO IS ENJOY
  • 00:11:42.080 --> 00:11:43.270
  • IT,
  • 00:11:43.270 --> 00:11:44.120
  • BECAUSE THEY DID YOU WRONG AND
  • 00:11:44.120 --> 00:11:45.210
  • NOW THEY'RE ON YOUR LIST.
  • 00:11:45.210 --> 00:11:48.080
  • OH, I USED TO GO THERE BUT I
  • 00:11:48.080 --> 00:11:49.110
  • DON'T GO THERE ANYMORE BECAUSE
  • 00:11:49.110 --> 00:11:50.050
  • THEY DID ME WRONG ONCE.
  • 00:11:50.060 --> 00:11:53.060
  • AND IN LIKE FASHION,
  • 00:11:53.060 --> 00:11:55.160
  • PEOPLE HAVE CHOSEN THAT SAME
  • 00:11:55.160 --> 00:11:57.020
  • ATTITUDE TOWARDS THEIR SPOUSE.
  • 00:11:57.020 --> 00:11:59.270
  • THEY ENJOY THEIR SPOUSE,
  • 00:11:59.270 --> 00:12:01.100
  • BUT THEY DON'T LOVE THEIR
  • 00:12:01.100 --> 00:12:02.020
  • SPOUSE.
  • 00:12:02.020 --> 00:12:03.240
  • THEY ENJOY THEIR SPOUSE WHEN
  • 00:12:03.240 --> 00:12:05.020
  • SHE'S PLEASANT.
  • 00:12:05.020 --> 00:12:06.270
  • THEY ENJOY THEIR SPOUSE WHEN
  • 00:12:06.270 --> 00:12:08.020
  • SHE DOES EVERYTHING THAT HE
  • 00:12:08.020 --> 00:12:09.120
  • WANTS HER TO DO BEFORE HE
  • 00:12:09.120 --> 00:12:10.210
  • EVEN ASKS HER TO DO IT.
  • 00:12:10.210 --> 00:12:11.280
  • THEY ENJOY HER WHEN SHE'S
  • 00:12:11.280 --> 00:12:13.090
  • STANDING BY THE BACK DOOR WITH
  • 00:12:13.090 --> 00:12:14.140
  • ICE TEA AND A REMOTE CONTROL.
  • 00:12:14.190 --> 00:12:17.190
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:17.190 --> 00:12:18.270
  • BUT THE SECOND THAT SHE HAS A
  • 00:12:19.090 --> 00:12:22.090
  • BAD ATTITUDE,
  • 00:12:22.090 --> 00:12:23.090
  • THE SECOND SHE HAS A
  • 00:12:23.090 --> 00:12:24.090
  • DON'T-TOUCH-ME DAY,
  • 00:12:24.090 --> 00:12:25.220
  • THE SECOND SHE HAS A "YOU STAY
  • 00:12:25.220 --> 00:12:27.050
  • ON YOUR SIDE OF THE HOUSE AND
  • 00:12:27.050 --> 00:12:28.130
  • I'LL STAY ON MINE" KIND OF
  • 00:12:28.130 --> 00:12:29.270
  • MOMENT,
  • 00:12:29.270 --> 00:12:31.240
  • WE PROVE THAT WE DON'T LOVE
  • 00:12:31.240 --> 00:12:33.210
  • HER; WE JUST ENJOY HER,
  • 00:12:34.000 --> 00:12:37.000
  • BECAUSE SHE'S NOT TREATING ME
  • 00:12:37.000 --> 00:12:37.290
  • RIGHT.
  • 00:12:37.290 --> 00:12:39.160
  • I DON'T DESERVE TO BE TALKED TO
  • 00:12:39.160 --> 00:12:40.200
  • LIKE THAT.
  • 00:12:40.200 --> 00:12:42.090
  • WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS
  • 00:12:42.090 --> 00:12:43.080
  • ANYWAY?
  • 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:44.170
  • NOW I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU.
  • 00:12:44.170 --> 00:12:45.190
  • I'M JUST TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE
  • 00:12:45.190 --> 00:12:46.140
  • YOU MAY KNOW.
  • 00:12:46.140 --> 00:12:47.290
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:47.290 --> 00:12:49.130
  • BUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO
  • 00:12:49.130 --> 00:12:52.040
  • DEMONSTRATE BIBLICAL LOVE,
  • 00:12:52.040 --> 00:12:53.180
  • YOU HAVE TO LOVE
  • 00:12:53.180 --> 00:12:54.150
  • UNCONDITIONALLY.
  • 00:12:54.150 --> 00:12:55.130
  • YOU HAVE TO LOVE THEM WELL EVEN
  • 00:12:55.130 --> 00:12:57.070
  • WHEN THEY'RE WRONG.
  • 00:12:58.230 --> 00:13:01.250
  • OTHERWISE,
  • 00:13:01.250 --> 00:13:02.160
  • YOU'RE JUST ENJOYING THEM.
  • 00:13:02.160 --> 00:13:04.190
  • BIBLICAL LOVE INVOLVES
  • 00:13:04.190 --> 00:13:06.150
  • SACRIFICE.
  • 00:13:06.150 --> 00:13:08.190
  • MOST MEN ENJOY THEY'RE WIVES
  • 00:13:08.190 --> 00:13:11.150
  • AND WHAT THEIR WIVES DO FOR
  • 00:13:11.150 --> 00:13:12.210
  • THEM,
  • 00:13:12.210 --> 00:13:13.010
  • BUT THEY DON'T DEMONSTRATE
  • 00:13:13.010 --> 00:13:14.220
  • BIBLICAL LOVE THROUGH
  • 00:13:14.220 --> 00:13:16.010
  • SACRIFICE.
  • 00:13:16.010 --> 00:13:17.200
  • OUR VERSE TONIGHT,
  • 00:13:17.200 --> 00:13:18.120
  • EPHESIANS 5:25.
  • 00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:19.270
  • IT SAYS: AND CHRIST GAVE
  • 00:13:19.270 --> 00:13:22.150
  • HIMSELF.
  • 00:13:22.150 --> 00:13:24.170
  • HE GAVE HIMSELF.
  • 00:13:24.170 --> 00:13:26.240
  • HE SACRIFICED HIMSELF FOR WHAT
  • 00:13:27.190 --> 00:13:30.190
  • THE CHURCH NEEDED.
  • 00:13:30.190 --> 00:13:32.200
  • IN LIKE FASHION,
  • 00:13:32.200 --> 00:13:33.210
  • GOD EXPECTS A MAN TO GIVE
  • 00:13:33.210 --> 00:13:35.250
  • HIMSELF FOR WHAT HIS WIFE
  • 00:13:35.250 --> 00:13:38.140
  • NEEDS.
  • 00:13:38.140 --> 00:13:39.260
  • THERE ARE THREE WAYS FOR YOU TO
  • 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:41.150
  • DEMONSTRATE BIBLICAL LOVE TO
  • 00:13:41.150 --> 00:13:42.240
  • YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:13:42.240 --> 00:13:44.000
  • FIRST,
  • 00:13:44.000 --> 00:13:44.160
  • YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO BE
  • 00:13:44.160 --> 00:13:45.150
  • HER SAVIOR,
  • 00:13:45.150 --> 00:13:47.040
  • AND THEN HER SANCTIFIER,
  • 00:13:47.040 --> 00:13:49.080
  • AND THEN HER SATISFIER.
  • 00:13:49.080 --> 00:13:51.210
  • LET'S BEGIN WITH THE FIRST
  • 00:13:51.210 --> 00:13:52.190
  • WORD, "SAVIOR."
  • 00:13:52.190 --> 00:13:54.250
  • WHENEVER YOU CONSIDER THE
  • 00:13:54.250 --> 00:13:55.230
  • OPERATION OF A SAVIOR,
  • 00:13:55.230 --> 00:13:57.000
  • IT IS THE PURPOSE OF A SAVIOR
  • 00:13:57.000 --> 00:13:58.160
  • TO CARRY BURDENS THAT YOU
  • 00:13:58.160 --> 00:13:59.270
  • CANNOT CARRY.
  • 00:13:59.270 --> 00:14:01.170
  • THIS IS WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
  • 00:14:01.170 --> 00:14:02.180
  • JESUS CHRIST DID FOR US.
  • 00:14:02.180 --> 00:14:03.260
  • IT SAYS: CAST ALL OF YOUR CARES
  • 00:14:03.260 --> 00:14:05.220
  • UPON HIM.
  • 00:14:05.220 --> 00:14:06.110
  • WHY?
  • 00:14:06.110 --> 00:14:07.040
  • BECAUSE HE CARES FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:07.040 --> 00:14:09.040
  • YOU COULDN'T CARRY THE BURDEN
  • 00:14:09.040 --> 00:14:10.100
  • OF SIN.
  • 00:14:10.100 --> 00:14:11.000
  • THE SAVIOR CAME AND HE CARRIED
  • 00:14:11.000 --> 00:14:12.150
  • THAT BURDEN FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:12.150 --> 00:14:13.220
  • YOU COULDN'T CARRY THE GUILT
  • 00:14:13.220 --> 00:14:14.290
  • AND THE SHAME OF YOUR PAST.
  • 00:14:14.290 --> 00:14:16.060
  • THE SAVIOR CAME AND HE CARRIED
  • 00:14:16.060 --> 00:14:17.220
  • THAT BURDEN FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:17.220 --> 00:14:18.280
  • MEN,
  • 00:14:18.280 --> 00:14:19.180
  • IF YOU ARE GOING TO DEMONSTRATE
  • 00:14:19.180 --> 00:14:20.290
  • BIBLICAL LOVE FOR YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:14:20.290 --> 00:14:22.140
  • YOU HAVE TO BECOME HER SAVIOR.
  • 00:14:22.140 --> 00:14:24.100
  • AND THE BURDEN THAT SHE IS
  • 00:14:24.100 --> 00:14:25.120
  • CARRYING,
  • 00:14:25.120 --> 00:14:26.060
  • SHE HAS TO BE ABLE TO COUNT ON
  • 00:14:26.060 --> 00:14:27.190
  • YOU TO SHOW UP AND SAY,
  • 00:14:27.190 --> 00:14:28.230
  • LET ME CARRY THAT FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:29.290 --> 00:14:32.290
  • NOW YOU'RE LOOKING AT ME GOING,
  • 00:14:32.290 --> 00:14:33.270
  • DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH STUFF
  • 00:14:33.270 --> 00:14:34.280
  • SHE'S GOT TO CARRY?
  • 00:14:34.280 --> 00:14:36.260
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:14:36.260 --> 00:14:38.170
  • DON'T FORGET POINT ONE.
  • 00:14:39.010 --> 00:14:42.010
  • THE HEAD OF EVERY MAN IS WHOM?
  • 00:14:42.010 --> 00:14:44.120
  • CHRIST.
  • 00:14:44.120 --> 00:14:45.200
  • SO IF CHRIST IS THE ONE THAT
  • 00:14:45.200 --> 00:14:46.290
  • YOU'RE SUBMITTED TO,
  • 00:14:46.290 --> 00:14:48.040
  • THAN YOU STILL TAKE ALL OF
  • 00:14:48.040 --> 00:14:49.160
  • YOUR BURDENS AND CAST THEM ON
  • 00:14:49.160 --> 00:14:50.260
  • HIM.
  • 00:14:50.260 --> 00:14:52.250
  • BUT AT HOME,
  • 00:14:52.250 --> 00:14:53.170
  • YOU'VE GOT TO GO UP TO HER AND
  • 00:14:53.170 --> 00:14:54.240
  • SAY, WHAT'S BOTHERING YOU?
  • 00:14:54.240 --> 00:14:56.000
  • SHE SAYS,
  • 00:14:56.000 --> 00:14:56.200
  • JUST DON'T WORRY ABOUT THAT.
  • 00:14:56.200 --> 00:14:57.150
  • LET ME TAKE CARE OF THAT.
  • 00:14:57.150 --> 00:14:58.100
  • AND YOU JUST TAKE IT AND SAY,
  • 00:14:58.100 --> 00:14:59.060
  • HERE, JESUS, CATCH.
  • 00:14:59.060 --> 00:15:01.040
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:01.040 --> 00:15:02.210
  • IT'S NOT YOURS TO HARBOR;
  • 00:15:06.050 --> 00:15:09.050
  • IT'S YOURS TO REMOVE FROM HER.
  • 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:12.200
  • SHE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE
  • 00:15:12.200 --> 00:15:14.050
  • THE PLACE THAT SHE CAN COME TO
  • 00:15:14.050 --> 00:15:15.260
  • AND FIND SOLUTIONS IN HER HOUR
  • 00:15:15.260 --> 00:15:17.240
  • OF NEED.
  • 00:15:17.240 --> 00:15:19.270
  • THAT'S WHERE YOU TURN TO A
  • 00:15:19.270 --> 00:15:21.040
  • SAVIOR.
  • 00:15:21.040 --> 00:15:21.220
  • YOU LOVE HER LIKE CHRIST LOVED
  • 00:15:21.220 --> 00:15:24.020
  • YOU.
  • 00:15:24.020 --> 00:15:25.200
  • I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT
  • 00:15:25.200 --> 00:15:26.170
  • SAY, WELL,
  • 00:15:26.170 --> 00:15:27.120
  • I JUST MARRIED THE WRONG WOMAN.
  • 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:30.110
  • WELL TREAT HER LIKE THE RIGHT
  • 00:15:30.110 --> 00:15:31.090
  • ONE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
  • 00:15:31.200 --> 00:15:34.200
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:15:38.210 --> 00:15:41.210
  • LOVE HER LIKE CHRIST LOVED
  • 00:15:42.050 --> 00:15:45.050
  • YOU.
  • 00:15:45.050 --> 00:15:45.160
  • ROMANS 5:8,
  • 00:15:45.160 --> 00:15:46.150
  • GOD DEMONSTRATED HIS OWN LOVE
  • 00:15:46.150 --> 00:15:47.290
  • TOWARDS US;
  • 00:15:47.290 --> 00:15:48.160
  • THAT WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS,
  • 00:15:49.110 --> 00:15:52.110
  • HE DIED FOR US.
  • 00:15:52.110 --> 00:15:54.160
  • HE DIDN'T DISPLAY HIS LOVE
  • 00:15:54.160 --> 00:15:56.040
  • BEFORE WE WERE RIGHT.
  • 00:15:56.040 --> 00:15:57.100
  • HE DISPLAYED HIS LOVE WHEN WE
  • 00:15:57.100 --> 00:15:58.240
  • WERE WRONG SO THAT HE COULD
  • 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:00.040
  • MAKE US RIGHT.
  • 00:16:00.040 --> 00:16:03.000
  • IF YOUR WIFE SEES YOU AS THE
  • 00:16:03.000 --> 00:16:04.160
  • PERSON WHO'S WILLING TO CARRY
  • 00:16:04.160 --> 00:16:05.210
  • BURDENS FOR HER INSTEAD OF JUST
  • 00:16:05.210 --> 00:16:07.020
  • TELL, THAT'S NOT IMPORTANT.
  • 00:16:07.020 --> 00:16:08.010
  • OH, I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU KEEP
  • 00:16:08.010 --> 00:16:09.170
  • BLAMING ME,
  • 00:16:09.170 --> 00:16:10.100
  • BLAH, BLAH, BLAH,
  • 00:16:10.100 --> 00:16:11.120
  • BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH.
  • 00:16:11.120 --> 00:16:12.160
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:12.160 --> 00:16:14.000
  • IF YOU COULD INTERPRET ALL OF
  • 00:16:14.000 --> 00:16:15.250
  • THAT,
  • 00:16:15.250 --> 00:16:16.090
  • YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I'M
  • 00:16:16.090 --> 00:16:17.040
  • TALKING ABOUT.
  • 00:16:17.040 --> 00:16:18.220
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:18.220 --> 00:16:20.000
  • IF SHE SEES YOU AS A PLACE
  • 00:16:21.180 --> 00:16:24.180
  • WHERE, FROM THE TROUBLES OF THIS
  • 00:16:24.180 --> 00:16:25.170
  • WORLD, SHE CAN FIND SALVATION,
  • 00:16:26.070 --> 00:16:29.070
  • THEN YOU'RE GOING TO
  • 00:16:29.070 --> 00:16:29.230
  • DEMONSTRATE BIBLICAL LOVE.
  • 00:16:29.230 --> 00:16:32.120
  • SECONDLY,
  • 00:16:32.120 --> 00:16:33.010
  • YOU NEED TO SANCTIFY YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:16:33.010 --> 00:16:35.190
  • EPHESIANS 5:26,
  • 00:16:35.190 --> 00:16:37.080
  • STAYING IN OUR TEXT,
  • 00:16:37.080 --> 00:16:38.050
  • IT SAYS: AND HE GAVE HIMSELF
  • 00:16:38.050 --> 00:16:40.000
  • FOR HER THAT HE MAY SANCTIFY
  • 00:16:40.000 --> 00:16:42.000
  • HER WITH THE CLEANSING AND THE
  • 00:16:42.000 --> 00:16:43.180
  • WASHING OF THE WATER BY THE
  • 00:16:43.180 --> 00:16:46.000
  • WORD.
  • 00:16:46.000 --> 00:16:47.150
  • THE DEFINITION OF "SANCTIFY" IS
  • 00:16:47.150 --> 00:16:49.070
  • TO SET APART FOR A PURPOSE.
  • 00:16:49.070 --> 00:16:51.220
  • AND YOUR WIFE NEEDS KNOW THAT
  • 00:16:51.220 --> 00:16:53.200
  • SHE IS SET APART FROM ALL OTHER
  • 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:55.280
  • WOMEN IN THIS WORLD.
  • 00:16:55.280 --> 00:16:58.050
  • SHE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT SHE IS
  • 00:16:58.050 --> 00:17:00.080
  • THE ONLY ONE AND THERE IS NO
  • 00:17:00.080 --> 00:17:02.210
  • OTHER.
  • 00:17:02.210 --> 00:17:04.030
  • YOU SEE SOCIETY HAS IT
  • 00:17:04.030 --> 00:17:05.100
  • BACKWARDS.
  • 00:17:05.100 --> 00:17:06.010
  • SOCIETY TEACHES US THAT WE
  • 00:17:06.010 --> 00:17:07.190
  • SHOULD BE TOTALLY ROMANTIC AND
  • 00:17:07.190 --> 00:17:09.110
  • FULLY INVOLVED IN THIS
  • 00:17:09.110 --> 00:17:10.130
  • RELATIONSHIP AS LONG AS WE'RE
  • 00:17:10.130 --> 00:17:11.230
  • DATING.
  • 00:17:11.230 --> 00:17:12.150
  • BUT WHEN WE GET MARRIED,
  • 00:17:12.150 --> 00:17:13.220
  • WE CAN NO LONGER DATE.
  • 00:17:13.220 --> 00:17:16.040
  • THE BIBLE TEACHES US THIS;
  • 00:17:16.040 --> 00:17:18.040
  • NOT TO DATE, TO MATE.
  • 00:17:18.040 --> 00:17:19.210
  • BUT ONCE YOU BEGIN TO MATE,
  • 00:17:19.210 --> 00:17:21.140
  • START DATING.
  • 00:17:21.140 --> 00:17:24.060
  • YOU SHOULD DATE YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:17:24.060 --> 00:17:27.040
  • YOU SHOULD DEMONSTRATE TO HER
  • 00:17:27.040 --> 00:17:28.140
  • GREATER ROMANCE TODAY THAN YOU
  • 00:17:28.140 --> 00:17:30.120
  • DID BEFORE SHE HAD YOUR LAST
  • 00:17:30.120 --> 00:17:32.040
  • NAME.
  • 00:17:32.040 --> 00:17:34.110
  • HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?
  • 00:17:34.110 --> 00:17:36.080
  • HERE'S WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
  • 00:17:36.080 --> 00:17:37.080
  • CONCERNING THE LOVE THAT GOD
  • 00:17:37.080 --> 00:17:38.110
  • DEMONSTRATES TOWARDS US.
  • 00:17:38.110 --> 00:17:39.120
  • IT SAYS: HIS MERCIES ARE
  • 00:17:39.120 --> 00:17:40.250
  • RENEWED -- WHEN?
  • 00:17:40.250 --> 00:17:42.240
  • -- EVERY MORNING.
  • 00:17:42.240 --> 00:17:44.090
  • NOT JUST ON THE ANNIVERSARY OF
  • 00:17:44.090 --> 00:17:45.210
  • YOUR SALVATION,
  • 00:17:45.210 --> 00:17:47.150
  • BUT EVERY MORNING.
  • 00:17:47.150 --> 00:17:50.000
  • YOU SHOULD DEMONSTRATE,
  • 00:17:50.000 --> 00:17:51.190
  • EVERY DAY,
  • 00:17:51.190 --> 00:17:52.210
  • A MEANINGFUL DEMONSTRATION OF
  • 00:17:52.210 --> 00:17:54.180
  • LOVE TO YOUR SPOUSE.
  • 00:17:54.260 --> 00:17:57.260
  • YOU SAY,
  • 00:17:57.260 --> 00:17:58.090
  • HAVE YOU EVER SEEN ANYBODY DO
  • 00:17:58.090 --> 00:17:59.080
  • THAT?
  • 00:17:59.080 --> 00:17:59.210
  • ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:17:59.210 --> 00:18:01.110
  • MY PARENTS DID IT ALL THROUGH
  • 00:18:01.110 --> 00:18:02.280
  • MY CHILDHOOD.
  • 00:18:02.280 --> 00:18:03.240
  • IT WAS CALLED O-W-E,
  • 00:18:03.240 --> 00:18:05.160
  • ONE WAY EVERY DAY.
  • 00:18:05.160 --> 00:18:07.240
  • I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU ABOUT
  • 00:18:07.240 --> 00:18:09.050
  • THEORIES THAT I'VE READ IN AN
  • 00:18:09.050 --> 00:18:10.110
  • OLD BOOK.
  • 00:18:10.110 --> 00:18:11.080
  • I'M TALKING TO YOU ABOUT THINGS
  • 00:18:11.080 --> 00:18:12.250
  • THAT I HAVE SEEN WORK IN
  • 00:18:12.250 --> 00:18:14.070
  • RELATIONSHIPS THAT REALLY HAD A
  • 00:18:14.070 --> 00:18:16.100
  • LOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN THEM.
  • 00:18:16.100 --> 00:18:19.000
  • MOM AND DAD WOULD TAKE A LITTLE
  • 00:18:19.000 --> 00:18:20.040
  • POST-IT NOTE AND WRITE
  • 00:18:20.040 --> 00:18:21.060
  • SOMETHING SWEET ON IT AND STICK
  • 00:18:21.060 --> 00:18:22.210
  • IT IN A PLACE WHERE THE OTHER
  • 00:18:22.210 --> 00:18:23.260
  • WOULD FIND IT.
  • 00:18:23.260 --> 00:18:24.230
  • THEY'D TAKE A LITTLE HERSHEY'S
  • 00:18:24.230 --> 00:18:25.180
  • KISS AND PUT IT ON THE
  • 00:18:25.180 --> 00:18:26.110
  • DASHBOARD OF THE CAR,
  • 00:18:26.110 --> 00:18:27.090
  • ONLY IN DECEMBER BECAUSE IN
  • 00:18:27.090 --> 00:18:28.110
  • JULY IT MELTS TOO QUICK.
  • 00:18:28.110 --> 00:18:30.100
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:18:30.100 --> 00:18:31.290
  • THEY DID SOMETHING ON A
  • 00:18:34.020 --> 00:18:37.020
  • REGULAR BASIS TO SAY,
  • 00:18:37.020 --> 00:18:38.120
  • "I LOVE YOU AND YOU ARE MORE
  • 00:18:38.150 --> 00:18:41.150
  • IMPORTANT TO ME THAN ANYBODY
  • 00:18:41.150 --> 00:18:42.200
  • ELSE ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH."
  • 00:18:42.230 --> 00:18:45.230
  • BY DOING THIS,
  • 00:18:45.230 --> 00:18:46.190
  • YOU SET APART THAT RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:18:46.190 --> 00:18:48.150
  • AND YOU SANCTIFY IT.
  • 00:18:48.150 --> 00:18:50.230
  • NOW HERE'S HOW I READ
  • 00:18:50.230 --> 00:18:51.210
  • EPHESIANS 5:25 THROUGH 28.
  • 00:18:51.220 --> 00:18:54.220
  • BY SANCTIFYING YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:18:54.220 --> 00:18:56.100
  • YOU BECOME THE ANTI-AGING AGENT
  • 00:18:56.100 --> 00:18:58.270
  • IN HER LIFE.
  • 00:18:58.270 --> 00:19:00.260
  • HOW MANY OF YOU WOULD LIKE TO
  • 00:19:00.260 --> 00:19:01.210
  • SAVE MONEY ON THEM BOTOX
  • 00:19:01.210 --> 00:19:02.280
  • INJECTIONS?
  • 00:19:02.280 --> 00:19:04.110
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:04.110 --> 00:19:05.050
  • DON'T ACT LIKE YOU DON'T DO
  • 00:19:05.050 --> 00:19:06.110
  • IT.
  • 00:19:06.110 --> 00:19:07.050
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:07.050 --> 00:19:08.070
  • SOME OF YOU HAVE TO HAVE YOUR
  • 00:19:08.070 --> 00:19:09.050
  • FOREHEAD HIT WITH A HAMMER
  • 00:19:09.050 --> 00:19:10.100
  • BEFORE IT WOULD MOVE.
  • 00:19:10.100 --> 00:19:11.130
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:11.190 --> 00:19:14.190
  • TELL ME YOU'RE THIS HAPPY ALL
  • 00:19:14.190 --> 00:19:15.220
  • THE TIME.
  • 00:19:15.220 --> 00:19:17.100
  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
  • 00:19:19.020 --> 00:19:22.020
  • YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
  • 00:19:22.020 --> 00:19:24.250
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:24.250 --> 00:19:26.030
  • YOU SAY,
  • 00:19:26.030 --> 00:19:28.120
  • WHERE'S THAT ANTI-AGING STUFF?
  • 00:19:28.180 --> 00:19:31.180
  • VERSE 27: THAT HE MIGHT PRESENT
  • 00:19:31.180 --> 00:19:33.070
  • HER TO HIMSELF A GLORIOUS
  • 00:19:33.070 --> 00:19:36.040
  • CHURCH.
  • 00:19:36.040 --> 00:19:36.160
  • SAY THAT WITH ME,
  • 00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:37.130
  • A GLORIOUS CHURCH.
  • 00:19:37.130 --> 00:19:39.040
  • DO YOU HAVE A GLORIOUS WIFE?
  • 00:19:39.070 --> 00:19:42.070
  • WHEN SHE WALKS INTO THE ROOM,
  • 00:19:42.070 --> 00:19:43.100
  • DOES EVERYBODY GO,
  • 00:19:43.100 --> 00:19:43.290
  • NOW THAT WOMAN IS WELL KEPT?
  • 00:19:44.000 --> 00:19:47.000
  • DO THEY SEE HER COMING AND
  • 00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:48.120
  • THEIR HEART BEGINS TO WARM,
  • 00:19:48.120 --> 00:19:50.070
  • BECAUSE A PERSON THAT THEY
  • 00:19:50.070 --> 00:19:51.110
  • ENJOY BEING AROUND HAS JUST
  • 00:19:51.110 --> 00:19:52.250
  • WALKED INTO THE ROOM?
  • 00:19:52.250 --> 00:19:53.280
  • OR DO THEY SEE HER COME,
  • 00:19:53.280 --> 00:19:54.290
  • AND GO, "OH, OH, OH,
  • 00:19:54.290 --> 00:19:56.150
  • LET'S GET BUSY DOING SOMETHING
  • 00:19:56.150 --> 00:19:57.140
  • ELSE"?
  • 00:19:57.140 --> 00:19:58.190
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:58.190 --> 00:19:59.240
  • JESUS HAS A GLORIOUS CHURCH,
  • 00:20:01.080 --> 00:20:04.080
  • BECAUSE HE SET THE CHURCH APART
  • 00:20:04.080 --> 00:20:05.250
  • AND HE'S DEMONSTRATED TO THE
  • 00:20:05.250 --> 00:20:07.000
  • CHURCH THAT WE MEAN SOMETHING
  • 00:20:07.000 --> 00:20:08.070
  • TO HIM THAT NO ONE ELSE MEANS.
  • 00:20:08.080 --> 00:20:11.080
  • AND HERE'S WHAT WE RECEIVE.
  • 00:20:11.080 --> 00:20:13.220
  • WE RECEIVE FREEDOM FROM SPOT
  • 00:20:15.030 --> 00:20:18.030
  • AND FREEDOM FROM WRINKLE.
  • 00:20:18.240 --> 00:20:21.240
  • NOW HERE'S WHAT A SPOT IS.
  • 00:20:21.240 --> 00:20:24.200
  • IF YOU EAT BARBECUE,
  • 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:25.230
  • YOU KNOW WHAT A SPOT IS.
  • 00:20:25.280 --> 00:20:28.280
  • IT'S DEFILEMENT THAT COMES FROM
  • 00:20:28.280 --> 00:20:30.220
  • AN OUTSIDE SOURCE AND YOU CAN
  • 00:20:30.220 --> 00:20:33.160
  • SEE IT.
  • 00:20:33.160 --> 00:20:34.030
  • YOU GO, OH, MAN.
  • 00:20:34.030 --> 00:20:37.030
  • AND THERE ARE A LOT OF MARRIAGE
  • 00:20:37.030 --> 00:20:38.110
  • RELATIONSHIPS THAT GET DEFILED
  • 00:20:38.110 --> 00:20:39.290
  • FROM OUTSIDE SOURCES,
  • 00:20:40.000 --> 00:20:43.000
  • ESPECIALLY NOW THAT WE'VE GOT
  • 00:20:43.000 --> 00:20:44.030
  • ALL THIS TECHNOLOGY.
  • 00:20:44.030 --> 00:20:46.170
  • FACEBOOK,
  • 00:20:46.170 --> 00:20:48.090
  • GO FIND SOMEBODY WE DIDN'T LIKE
  • 00:20:48.090 --> 00:20:49.210
  • 30 YEARS AGO AND TELL OURSELVES
  • 00:20:49.210 --> 00:20:51.090
  • WE LOVE THEM NOW.
  • 00:20:51.090 --> 00:20:53.070
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:20:53.070 --> 00:20:54.210
  • LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING.
  • 00:20:54.210 --> 00:20:56.170
  • IF YOU'VE GOT DIGITAL
  • 00:20:56.170 --> 00:20:57.180
  • RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE ON
  • 00:20:57.180 --> 00:20:58.270
  • THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD
  • 00:20:58.270 --> 00:20:59.290
  • THAT ARE DEEPER THAN THE ONES
  • 00:20:59.290 --> 00:21:01.000
  • YOU'VE GOT WITH THOSE IN YOUR
  • 00:21:01.000 --> 00:21:01.260
  • HOME, SOMETHING IS BACKWARDS.
  • 00:21:02.050 --> 00:21:05.050
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:21:07.060 --> 00:21:10.060
  • IF YOU'VE GOT TO UNPLUG
  • 00:21:10.060 --> 00:21:13.060
  • EVERYTHING IN YOUR HOUSE AND
  • 00:21:13.060 --> 00:21:14.080
  • BURN CANDLES TO REINTRODUCE
  • 00:21:14.080 --> 00:21:16.020
  • YOURSELF TO YOUR FAMILY,
  • 00:21:16.020 --> 00:21:17.220
  • DO IT.
  • 00:21:18.210 --> 00:21:21.210
  • BUT DEFILEMENT IS A SPOT THAT
  • 00:21:21.210 --> 00:21:23.050
  • COMES FROM THE OUTSIDE.
  • 00:21:23.050 --> 00:21:24.130
  • MEN, IF YOU WILL SANCTIFY
  • 00:21:24.130 --> 00:21:25.210
  • YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:21:25.210 --> 00:21:26.090
  • IF YOU WILL SET HER APART,
  • 00:21:26.090 --> 00:21:27.190
  • IF YOU WILL LET HER KNOW THAT
  • 00:21:27.190 --> 00:21:28.250
  • YOU LOVE HER LIKE YOU DON'T
  • 00:21:28.250 --> 00:21:29.270
  • LOVE ANYBODY ELSE,
  • 00:21:29.270 --> 00:21:30.270
  • THERE WILL NOT BE ANYONE ON THE
  • 00:21:30.270 --> 00:21:32.250
  • FACE OF THE EARTH WHO CAN
  • 00:21:32.250 --> 00:21:33.280
  • DEFILE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FROM
  • 00:21:33.280 --> 00:21:35.160
  • THE OUTSIDE.
  • 00:21:35.160 --> 00:21:38.090
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:21:39.240 --> 00:21:42.240
  • THEY MAY TRY,
  • 00:21:42.240 --> 00:21:45.170
  • BUT THEY WON'T SUCCEED,
  • 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:48.110
  • BECAUSE YOUR WIFE WILL LOOK AT
  • 00:21:48.110 --> 00:21:49.050
  • THEM AND GO, PLEASE.
  • 00:21:49.050 --> 00:21:51.140
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:21:51.140 --> 00:21:52.230
  • DON'T NEED A MAN; I GOT ONE.
  • 00:21:54.080 --> 00:21:57.080
  • AND WHEN YOU SANCTIFY YOUR
  • 00:21:57.080 --> 00:21:59.000
  • WIFE,
  • 00:21:59.000 --> 00:22:00.080
  • JUST AS CHRIST SANCTIFIED THE
  • 00:22:00.080 --> 00:22:01.130
  • CHURCH,
  • 00:22:01.130 --> 00:22:02.190
  • SHE'S FREE FROM WRINKLE.
  • 00:22:02.190 --> 00:22:05.080
  • WHERE DO WRINKLES COME FROM?
  • 00:22:05.080 --> 00:22:08.000
  • INTERNAL STRESS.
  • 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:10.110
  • THAT'S A MEDICAL FACT.
  • 00:22:10.110 --> 00:22:12.170
  • THE MORE YOU INTERNALIZE,
  • 00:22:12.170 --> 00:22:13.210
  • THE MORE YOU WORRY,
  • 00:22:13.210 --> 00:22:14.190
  • THE MORE YOU AGE.
  • 00:22:14.190 --> 00:22:16.120
  • IF YOU SANCTIFY YOUR WIFE AND
  • 00:22:16.120 --> 00:22:17.280
  • YOU LOVE HER LIKE THE SAVIOR
  • 00:22:17.280 --> 00:22:20.010
  • LOVES YOU,
  • 00:22:20.010 --> 00:22:20.180
  • IF YOU ARE WILLING TO
  • 00:22:20.180 --> 00:22:21.180
  • DEMONSTRATE TO HER THE
  • 00:22:21.180 --> 00:22:22.200
  • UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THAT THE
  • 00:22:22.200 --> 00:22:23.260
  • BIBLE HAS,
  • 00:22:23.260 --> 00:22:24.280
  • THERE WILL BE STRESS,
  • 00:22:24.280 --> 00:22:26.030
  • BUT IT'S GOING TO BE OUTSIDE
  • 00:22:26.030 --> 00:22:27.170
  • STRESS;
  • 00:22:27.170 --> 00:22:28.030
  • IT'S NOT GOING TO BE INSIDE
  • 00:22:28.030 --> 00:22:29.130
  • STRESS,
  • 00:22:29.130 --> 00:22:30.000
  • BECAUSE SHE WILL KNOW IN HER
  • 00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:31.050
  • HEART OF HEARTS SHE'S GOT A
  • 00:22:31.050 --> 00:22:32.120
  • PARTNER THAT IS THERE FOR LIFE.
  • 00:22:33.000 --> 00:22:36.000
  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • THROUGH THIS SAME SACRIFICIAL
  • 00:22:40.270 --> 00:22:43.050
  • LOVE, CHRIST SANCTIFIED US.
  • 00:22:43.050 --> 00:22:45.080
  • HE WASHED US FROM THE
  • 00:22:45.080 --> 00:22:46.180
  • DEFILEMENT OF SIN.
  • 00:22:46.180 --> 00:22:47.220
  • HE REMOVED THE GUILT AND THE
  • 00:22:47.220 --> 00:22:49.010
  • SHAME.
  • 00:22:49.010 --> 00:22:49.220
  • AND THEREFORE,
  • 00:22:49.220 --> 00:22:50.130
  • HUSBANDS SHOULD DO THE SAME FOR
  • 00:22:50.130 --> 00:22:52.110
  • THEIR WIFE.
  • 00:22:52.110 --> 00:22:52.230
  • WHATEVER SHE NEEDS,
  • 00:22:52.230 --> 00:22:54.130
  • SHE NEEDS TO LOOK AT YOU AND
  • 00:22:54.130 --> 00:22:55.230
  • KNOW THAT YOU'LL PROVIDE IT.
  • 00:22:55.230 --> 00:22:57.190
  • IF SHE'S WEAK AND SHE NEEDS
  • 00:22:57.190 --> 00:22:59.020
  • STRENGTH,
  • 00:22:59.020 --> 00:22:59.170
  • SHE NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO COME TO
  • 00:22:59.170 --> 00:23:00.230
  • YOU AND FIND IT.
  • 00:23:00.230 --> 00:23:02.000
  • IF SHE'S IN NEED OF AN ANSWER
  • 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:03.170
  • AND LOOKING FOR LEADERSHIP,
  • 00:23:03.170 --> 00:23:04.270
  • YOU SHOULD BE WILLING TO GUIDE
  • 00:23:04.270 --> 00:23:06.020
  • HER.
  • 00:23:06.020 --> 00:23:07.070
  • SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO;
  • 00:23:07.070 --> 00:23:07.280
  • YOU HELP HER FIND THE ANSWER.
  • 00:23:07.280 --> 00:23:10.070
  • YOU LET HER KNOW THAT EVEN IF
  • 00:23:10.070 --> 00:23:11.130
  • YOU'RE NOT CLEAR,
  • 00:23:11.130 --> 00:23:12.110
  • YOU'RE GOING TO CONTINUE TO
  • 00:23:12.110 --> 00:23:13.110
  • LOOK UNTIL TOGETHER YOU CAN
  • 00:23:13.110 --> 00:23:15.000
  • COME INTO AGREEMENT ABOUT THE
  • 00:23:15.000 --> 00:23:16.210
  • DIRECTION AND THE ANSWER FOR
  • 00:23:16.210 --> 00:23:18.160
  • THE PROBLEM THAT SHE'S FACING.
  • 00:23:18.160 --> 00:23:20.040
  • SHE NEEDS HOPE;
  • 00:23:20.040 --> 00:23:21.030
  • YOU BRING HER CONFIDENCE.
  • 00:23:21.030 --> 00:23:23.010
  • JESUS CHRIST BRINGS US
  • 00:23:23.010 --> 00:23:24.080
  • CONFIDENCE.
  • 00:23:24.080 --> 00:23:24.240
  • HERE'S WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.
  • 00:23:24.240 --> 00:23:25.260
  • JESUS CHRIST SAID: BE OF GOOD
  • 00:23:25.260 --> 00:23:27.210
  • CHEER;
  • 00:23:27.210 --> 00:23:28.070
  • I HAVE OVERCOME THE WORLD.
  • 00:23:28.070 --> 00:23:29.220
  • WHEN YOUR WIFE SEES YOU AND
  • 00:23:29.220 --> 00:23:31.100
  • SHE'S IN DESPAIR,
  • 00:23:31.100 --> 00:23:32.130
  • YOUR PRESENCE SHOULD BRING GOOD
  • 00:23:32.130 --> 00:23:34.020
  • CHEER INTO HER LIFE.
  • 00:23:34.190 --> 00:23:37.190
  • OFTEN TIMES,
  • 00:23:37.190 --> 00:23:38.120
  • WHENEVER PEOPLE GET INTO STRESS
  • 00:23:38.120 --> 00:23:39.220
  • IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP,
  • 00:23:39.220 --> 00:23:40.190
  • THEY HIDE IT FROM THEIR SPOUSE
  • 00:23:40.190 --> 00:23:42.090
  • BECAUSE THEY DON'T BELIEVE THAT
  • 00:23:42.090 --> 00:23:43.150
  • THEY HAVE A SOURCE OF STRENGTH
  • 00:23:43.150 --> 00:23:45.040
  • IN THAT PERSON.
  • 00:23:45.040 --> 00:23:47.130
  • YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE PLACE
  • 00:23:47.130 --> 00:23:48.200
  • THAT YOUR SPOUSE RUNS TO
  • 00:23:48.200 --> 00:23:50.100
  • QUICKLY WHEN THEY NEED HELP.
  • 00:23:50.160 --> 00:23:53.160
  • SHE NEEDS ENCOURAGEMENT;
  • 00:23:53.160 --> 00:23:54.170
  • YOU ENCOURAGE HER.
  • 00:23:54.170 --> 00:23:56.220
  • SHE NEEDS A DEMONSTRATION
  • 00:23:56.220 --> 00:23:58.070
  • OF FAITHFULNESS;
  • 00:23:58.070 --> 00:23:58.280
  • YOU DO WHAT CHRIST DID.
  • 00:23:58.280 --> 00:24:00.030
  • I'LL NEVER LEAVE YOU,
  • 00:24:00.030 --> 00:24:01.140
  • NOR WILL I FORSAKE YOU.
  • 00:24:01.140 --> 00:24:03.220
  • YOUR WIFE NEEDS TO LAY DOWN
  • 00:24:03.220 --> 00:24:05.070
  • AT NIGHT AND THINK ABOUT YOU
  • 00:24:05.070 --> 00:24:07.050
  • THE SAME WAY THAT WE READ ABOUT
  • 00:24:07.050 --> 00:24:08.150
  • CHRIST IN ROMANS: IF GOD IS FOR
  • 00:24:08.150 --> 00:24:10.220
  • ME, WHO CAN BE AGAINST ME?
  • 00:24:10.220 --> 00:24:12.240
  • IF MY HUSBAND IS ON MY SIDE,
  • 00:24:12.240 --> 00:24:15.100
  • WHAT CAN THE WORLD DO TO ME?
  • 00:24:15.250 --> 00:24:18.250
  • THAT'S BIBLICAL LOVE
  • 00:24:18.250 --> 00:24:20.120
  • DEMONSTRATED.
  • 00:24:20.120 --> 00:24:22.080
  • NOT ONLY ARE YOU THE SAVIOR
  • 00:24:22.080 --> 00:24:23.100
  • THAT BEARS THE BURDEN,
  • 00:24:23.100 --> 00:24:24.100
  • AND YOU ARE THE SANCTIFIER THAT
  • 00:24:24.100 --> 00:24:25.280
  • SETS HER APART,
  • 00:24:25.280 --> 00:24:26.250
  • BUT YOU ARE ALSO HER SATISFIER.
  • 00:24:28.140 --> 00:24:31.140
  • THE BIBLE SAYS: HUSBANDS OUGHT
  • 00:24:31.140 --> 00:24:32.190
  • TO LOVE THEIR OWN WIVES AS
  • 00:24:32.190 --> 00:24:34.050
  • THEIR OWN BODIES.
  • 00:24:34.050 --> 00:24:36.200
  • FOR HE WHO LOVES HIS WIFE
  • 00:24:36.200 --> 00:24:38.040
  • LOVES HIMSELF.
  • 00:24:38.040 --> 00:24:39.170
  • AND NO ONE HAS EVER HATED HIS
  • 00:24:39.170 --> 00:24:40.210
  • OWN FLESH,
  • 00:24:40.210 --> 00:24:41.180
  • BUT NOURISHES IT AND CHERISHES
  • 00:24:41.180 --> 00:24:43.010
  • IT JUST AS THE LORD DOES THE
  • 00:24:43.010 --> 00:24:45.160
  • CHURCH.
  • 00:24:45.160 --> 00:24:47.120
  • IT IS NOT NORMAL IN HUMAN
  • 00:24:47.120 --> 00:24:50.010
  • NATURE TO SELF INFLICT A WOUND.
  • 00:24:51.250 --> 00:24:54.250
  • YOU WILL DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN
  • 00:24:54.250 --> 00:24:56.120
  • TO PROTECT AN AREA THAT YOU
  • 00:24:56.120 --> 00:24:57.250
  • BELIEVE IS HURT OR HINDERED.
  • 00:24:57.250 --> 00:25:00.040
  • IF YOU DON'T THINK THAT MODERN
  • 00:25:00.040 --> 00:25:01.050
  • MEN LOVE THEIR OWN BODIES.
  • 00:25:01.050 --> 00:25:02.180
  • GO LOOK AT THEM WORK OUT IN THE
  • 00:25:02.180 --> 00:25:03.200
  • GYM,
  • 00:25:03.200 --> 00:25:05.230
  • STAND IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR
  • 00:25:05.230 --> 00:25:07.030
  • AND PRETEND IT'S ALL THERE.
  • 00:25:07.030 --> 00:25:08.250
  • JOIN US TOMORROW
  • 00:25:08.250 --> 00:25:10.250
  • FOR THE CONCLUSION
  • 00:25:10.250 --> 00:25:11.140
  • OF THIS SERMON.
  • 00:25:11.140 --> 00:25:12.230
  • THE MODERN CONCEPT OF THE ROLE
  • 00:25:12.230 --> 00:25:15.230
  • OF A HUSBAND IS, WELL,
  • 00:25:15.230 --> 00:25:16.230
  • I PAY THE BILLS.
  • 00:25:16.230 --> 00:25:17.180
  • I PROVIDE ALL THE MATERIAL
  • 00:25:17.180 --> 00:25:18.290
  • NEEDS; WE'RE GOOD.
  • 00:25:18.290 --> 00:25:20.090
  • NO, YOU'RE NOT.
  • 00:25:20.090 --> 00:25:22.110
  • ONE-THIRD OF THE ROLE OF BEING
  • 00:25:22.110 --> 00:25:24.190
  • A PROVIDER IS PAYING THE BILLS.
  • 00:25:24.190 --> 00:25:27.020
  • BUT YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:25:27.020 --> 00:25:28.000
  • FINANCIALLY.
  • 00:25:28.000 --> 00:25:28.230
  • YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:25:28.230 --> 00:25:29.170
  • SPIRITUALLY.
  • 00:25:29.170 --> 00:25:30.110
  • AND YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:25:30.110 --> 00:25:31.090
  • EMOTIONALLY.
  • 00:25:31.090 --> 00:25:33.070
  • AND IF TWO OUT OF THOSE THREE
  • 00:25:33.070 --> 00:25:34.120
  • ACCOUNTS ARE BANKRUPT,
  • 00:25:34.120 --> 00:25:35.160
  • YOU'RE NOT DOING YOUR JOB.
  • 00:25:35.160 --> 00:25:37.080
  • BE SURE AND JOIN US TOMORROW
  • 00:25:37.080 --> 00:25:38.270
  • THIS SAME TIME AND CHANNEL
  • 00:25:38.270 --> 00:25:40.160
  • FOR THIS PROGRAM.
  • 00:25:40.160 --> 00:25:41.180
  • AT AN EARLY AGE,
  • 00:25:41.180 --> 00:25:43.140
  • JOHN HAGEE HAD A HEART TO HELP
  • 00:25:43.140 --> 00:25:45.200
  • ORPHANS AND THE UNBORN.
  • 00:25:45.200 --> 00:25:47.280
  • FROM THAT DREAM, CAME A VISION.
  • 00:25:47.280 --> 00:25:50.180
  • AND NOW, "SANCTUARY OF HOPE"
  • 00:25:50.180 --> 00:25:52.290
  • IS BECOMING A REALITY,
  • 00:25:52.290 --> 00:25:55.090
  • A REFUGE FOR ORPHANED CHILDREN
  • 00:25:55.090 --> 00:25:57.090
  • SEEKING A LASTING AND LOVING
  • 00:25:57.090 --> 00:25:58.240
  • FAMILY,
  • 00:25:58.240 --> 00:25:59.160
  • A REFUGE FOR UNWED MOTHERS WHO
  • 00:25:59.160 --> 00:26:01.150
  • CHOOSE TO GIVE THE GIFT OF LIFE.
  • 00:26:01.290 --> 00:26:04.290
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: WHILE WE
  • 00:26:04.290 --> 00:26:06.020
  • CAN'T HELP ALL OF THEM;
  • 00:26:06.020 --> 00:26:07.140
  • WE CAN HELP SOME OF THEM.
  • 00:26:07.140 --> 00:26:09.050
  • AND BECAUSE WE CAN,
  • 00:26:09.050 --> 00:26:10.240
  • WE SHOULD.
  • 00:26:10.240 --> 00:26:11.270
  • AND BECAUSE THIS IS
  • 00:26:11.270 --> 00:26:12.260
  • THE COMMISSION OF GOD,
  • 00:26:12.260 --> 00:26:14.100
  • WE ARE.
  • 00:26:14.100 --> 00:26:15.240
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: THE SANCTUARY
  • 00:26:15.240 --> 00:26:17.140
  • OF HOPE IS A PLACE WHERE
  • 00:26:17.140 --> 00:26:18.220
  • THE UNBORN WILL RECEIVE A LIFE
  • 00:26:18.220 --> 00:26:19.250
  • SENTENCE
  • 00:26:19.250 --> 00:26:20.190
  • INSTEAD OF A DEATH SENTENCE.
  • 00:26:20.190 --> 00:26:22.270
  • HELP US BUILD THE LEGACY
  • 00:26:22.270 --> 00:26:24.140
  • OUR NEXT GENERATIONS DESERVE
  • 00:26:24.140 --> 00:26:27.020
  • BUT CANNOT HAVE WITHOUT YOU.
  • 00:26:27.200 --> 00:26:30.200
  • HELP GIVE THE GIFT OF LIFE.
  • 00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:33.100
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN,
  • 00:26:33.100 --> 00:26:35.050
  • OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE.
  • 00:26:35.050 --> 00:26:37.100
  • DO YOU DARE TO DREAM?
  • 00:26:40.140 --> 00:26:43.140
  • MAYBE THE BURDENS OF LIFE
  • 00:26:43.140 --> 00:26:44.140
  • HAVE CAUSED YOU TO GIVE UP ON
  • 00:26:44.140 --> 00:26:45.140
  • YOUR DREAMS,
  • 00:26:45.140 --> 00:26:46.070
  • OR MAYBE YOU'VE BEEN TOO SCARED
  • 00:26:46.070 --> 00:26:47.110
  • TO DREAM,
  • 00:26:47.110 --> 00:26:48.030
  • AFRAID OF THE POSSIBILITY OF
  • 00:26:48.030 --> 00:26:49.070
  • FAILURE.
  • 00:26:49.070 --> 00:26:50.070
  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE HAS PUT
  • 00:26:50.070 --> 00:26:51.130
  • TOGETHER AN INSPIRING JOURNAL
  • 00:26:51.130 --> 00:26:52.260
  • FOR JUST THAT REASON.
  • 00:26:52.260 --> 00:26:54.080
  • FILLED WITH MOTIVATIONAL BIBLE
  • 00:26:54.080 --> 00:26:55.110
  • VERSES,
  • 00:26:55.110 --> 00:26:55.280
  • PRAYERS AND MESSAGES,
  • 00:26:55.280 --> 00:26:57.110
  • THE DREAM JOURNAL USES
  • 00:26:57.110 --> 00:26:58.100
  • PRACTICAL STEPS TO HELP YOU
  • 00:26:58.100 --> 00:26:59.250
  • ACHIEVE THE DREAM GOD HAS
  • 00:26:59.250 --> 00:27:01.090
  • PLACED IN YOUR HEART.
  • 00:27:01.090 --> 00:27:02.160
  • SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
  • 00:27:02.160 --> 00:27:03.260
  • STEP OUT AND HAVE THE COURAGE
  • 00:27:03.260 --> 00:27:04.270
  • TO BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL
  • 00:27:04.270 --> 00:27:05.250
  • COMPLETE WHAT HE HAS BEGUN IN
  • 00:27:05.250 --> 00:27:07.040
  • YOU.
  • 00:27:07.040 --> 00:27:07.260
  • ORDER THE DREAM JOURNAL TODAY.
  • 00:27:07.260 --> 00:27:09.070
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN,
  • 00:27:09.070 --> 00:27:10.110
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:27:10.110 --> 00:27:12.030
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: THIS
  • 00:27:12.030 --> 00:27:14.210
  • TELECAST HAS BEEN BROUGHT
  • 00:27:14.210 --> 00:27:15.290
  • TO YOU IN ITS ENTIRETY
  • 00:27:15.290 --> 00:27:17.150
  • BY THE FAITHFUL SUPPORT
  • 00:27:17.150 --> 00:27:18.200
  • OF SALT COVENANT PARTNERS
  • 00:27:18.200 --> 00:27:19.260
  • WITH THIS MINISTRY.
  • 00:27:19.260 --> 00:27:21.180
  • THANK YOU, PARTNERS,
  • 00:27:21.180 --> 00:27:22.230
  • FOR YOUR FAITHFUL SUPPORT.
  • 00:27:22.230 --> 00:27:24.280
  • MUSIC
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