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Marriage Made EZ: Deny/Kill Yourself

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August 28, 2016
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Living by Faith with Mike & DeeDee Freeman

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Marriage Made EZ: Deny/Kill Yourself

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  • I once overheard Pastor Dwayne sharing with Lisa,
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    • I once overheard Pastor Dwayne sharing with Lisa,
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    • he told her he said,
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    • he told her he said,
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    • "If in fact you happen to go before I,
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    • "If in fact you happen to go before I,
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    • "there's one thing I can promise you I will not have."
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    • "there's one thing I can promise you I will not have."
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    • And he said "That will be regret.
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    • And he said "That will be regret.
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    • "I will not regret at your departure,
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    • "I will not regret at your departure,
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    • "anything that I have done or have not done.
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    • "anything that I have done or have not done.
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    • "Because I'm gonna give you my best."
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    • "Because I'm gonna give you my best."
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    • Woo, can you turn to the person you are here with
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    • Woo, can you turn to the person you are here with
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    • and make that same commitment tonight.
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    • and make that same commitment tonight.
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    • Look at them, tell them, you are about to see
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    • Look at them, tell them, you are about to see
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    • a person you have never seen before.
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    • a person you have never seen before.
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    • Because I'm getting ready to turn up on you girl.
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    • Because I'm getting ready to turn up on you girl.
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    • I'm a give you all of what you've been deserving.
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    • I'm a give you all of what you've been deserving.
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    • - Why is your wife getting on your nerve?
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    • - Why is your wife getting on your nerve?
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    • Or why is your husband getting on your nerve?
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    • Or why is your husband getting on your nerve?
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    • I promise you, you don't wanna miss
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    • I promise you, you don't wanna miss
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    • this upcoming table talk discussion
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    • this upcoming table talk discussion
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    • with Dr. Dee Dee.
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    • with Dr. Dee Dee.
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    • It's a reason why each other
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    • It's a reason why each other
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    • are getting on each others nerves
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    • are getting on each others nerves
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    • and we're gon fix that today.
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    • and we're gon fix that today.
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    • Don't leave from where you are.
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    • Don't leave from where you are.
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    • - As I typically am about
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    • - As I typically am about
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    • being here.
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    • being here.
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    • It's as though the spirit of God really wants
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    • It's as though the spirit of God really wants
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    • to arrest the attention of the attendees here tonight.
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    • to arrest the attention of the attendees here tonight.
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    • So that we can really, very severely consider
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    • So that we can really, very severely consider
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    • some areas of our relationship that we may
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    • some areas of our relationship that we may
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    • not be taking as soberly
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    • not be taking as soberly
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    • as we ought to.
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    • as we ought to.
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    • And precious people.
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    • And precious people.
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    • That sounded like Benny Hinn, precious people.
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    • That sounded like Benny Hinn, precious people.
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    • Precious people understand that
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    • Precious people understand that
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    • moment matter.
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    • moment matter.
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    • I've talked about that so much
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    • I've talked about that so much
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    • and maybe I'm at an advantage
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    • and maybe I'm at an advantage
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    • to some degree because,
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    • to some degree because,
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    • and it may not sound as though I am.
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    • and it may not sound as though I am.
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    • But being close to moving away from here,
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    • But being close to moving away from here,
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    • departing, dying.
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    • departing, dying.
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    • Has taught me and brought to my attention
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    • Has taught me and brought to my attention
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    • a lot of things that will cause you to be
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    • a lot of things that will cause you to be
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    • a lot sober minded than typical.
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    • a lot sober minded than typical.
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    • It's at Home Grown Services
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    • It's at Home Grown Services
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    • or Memorial Services that we commonly refer to them as.
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    • or Memorial Services that we commonly refer to them as.
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    • That they're sobering reminders of
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    • That they're sobering reminders of
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    • all of our one day facing this
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    • all of our one day facing this
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    • particular position and place in life.
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    • particular position and place in life.
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    • Which is death.
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    • Which is death.
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    • That allows us to know,
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    • That allows us to know,
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    • or should allow us to know
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    • or should allow us to know
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    • that you know, time is so critical,
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    • that you know, time is so critical,
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    • and it's essential, and it's important.
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    • and it's essential, and it's important.
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    • And if we are not maximizing
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    • And if we are not maximizing
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    • the moments that we have
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    • the moments that we have
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    • we may be kinda meandering our way through life
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    • we may be kinda meandering our way through life
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    • not experiencing God's best as we should.
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    • not experiencing God's best as we should.
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    • And the worst thing that I've noticed
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    • And the worst thing that I've noticed
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    • and I've mentioned this before.
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    • and I've mentioned this before.
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    • Because I've been with people at the end of their lives,
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    • Because I've been with people at the end of their lives,
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    • and I've watched their loved ones responses to
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    • and I've watched their loved ones responses to
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    • them departing right at the end of their life.
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    • them departing right at the end of their life.
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    • And it's one common denominator that I'm
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    • And it's one common denominator that I'm
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    • always witnessing and it's regret.
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    • always witnessing and it's regret.
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    • It's regret.
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    • It's regret.
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    • It's like I've watched family members,
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    • It's like I've watched family members,
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    • oh man, they were just sobbing over
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    • oh man, they were just sobbing over
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    • the idea that their loved one is now gone
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    • the idea that their loved one is now gone
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    • and there's no other opportunity to say
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    • and there's no other opportunity to say
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    • "I love you", to present a kind gesture.
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    • "I love you", to present a kind gesture.
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    • To present or propose
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    • To present or propose
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    • any terms of endearment
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    • any terms of endearment
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    • or loving words or there are no more acts of kindness
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    • or loving words or there are no more acts of kindness
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    • that you can provide for that individual.
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    • that you can provide for that individual.
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    • You now are faced with this reality that
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    • You now are faced with this reality that
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    • the things as you have known them relative
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    • the things as you have known them relative
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    • or germane to a relationship has been terminated.
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    • or germane to a relationship has been terminated.
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    • And I've watched the responses of people,
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    • And I've watched the responses of people,
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    • and one literally grabbed me up in my collar.
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    • and one literally grabbed me up in my collar.
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    • I'll never forget that.
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    • I'll never forget that.
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    • You remember that moment we were in
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    • You remember that moment we were in
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    • Georgetown University Hospital.
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    • Georgetown University Hospital.
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    • And this young woman, suddenly had an aneurysm.
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    • And this young woman, suddenly had an aneurysm.
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    • She died a few days later.
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    • She died a few days later.
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    • And her husband caught me in the hall of the hospital
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    • And her husband caught me in the hall of the hospital
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    • and pleaded with me to lay my hands upon her
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    • and pleaded with me to lay my hands upon her
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    • to raise her from this perishing predicament.
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    • to raise her from this perishing predicament.
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    • And so on tonight, I don't know if we soberly
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    • unfortunately we take what we have for granted
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    • And I want you to approach this tonight as a very
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    • challenging but yet sobering opportunity
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    • What would you do today or tonight
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    • that will try to convey to them your love.
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    • be giving now while you have this breath?
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    • And the same seems to be.
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    • I'll never forget when I was with, I remember.
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    • but I remember and I'll never forget
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    • when my father, he woke me up.
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    • Oh it had to have been about two
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    • "Dad where are we going?
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    • And the same thing I saw there is the same
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    • and make that same commitment tonight.
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    • I'm a give you all of what you've been deserving.
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    • Yeah, glory to God that's exciting.
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    • But I must admit it was pretty exciting
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    • when she was dressing me.
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    • (DeeDee and congregation laugh)
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    • - [DeeDee] I hope so.
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    • - Yeah amen, glory to God.
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    • - Yeah amen, glory to God.
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    • Did I tell you all about the night
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    • that I was in the bed there and I couldn't
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    • move a thing and I wanted to know
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    • if everything was paralyzed. (congregation laughs)
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    • Did I tell you about that night?
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    • - Yes you did.
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    • - Yes you did.
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    • Yes.
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    • - [Pastor] Woo Jesus.
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    • - [Pastor] Woo Jesus.
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    • Oh what a night
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    • Oh what a night
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    • Why is your spouse getting on your nerve
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    • and that's the question we wanna answer.
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    • You're saying she's getting on your nerve.
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    • She's saying,
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    • - He's getting on my nerves
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    • - And why?
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    • - And why?
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    • And I know they're different things that
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    • occur in the relationship that are challenging
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    • just because they are two different individuals
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    • locked into this thing we call covenant.
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    • So, naturally speaking, you would think
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    • that there would be times where you would come to an impasse
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    • or you just have these little quirks about your life.
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    • You know, you like pickin' your toes
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    • or you like cracking your knuckles
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    • or you take a sip of water and it gets everybody attention.
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    • - You leave crumbs all on the table
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    • - All different kinda things.
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    • - All different kinda things.
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    • - Or put the toilet paper roll on backwards
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    • or don't put the top on the toothpaste.
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    • don't make up the bed.
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    • - Well, I don't really know how you
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    • put the toilet paper on backwards.
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    • - You know 'cause some people like it
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    • flipped a different way.
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    • - So it can come under here instead of going over top.
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    • - So it can come under here instead of going over top.
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    • - Yeah, yeah.
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    • - Yeah, yeah.
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    • - So, you know, just like you said,
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    • lil' things that kinda get in the way
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    • - Yeah absolutely, and this it the proclivity
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    • - Yeah absolutely, and this it the proclivity
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    • and for a long time, I didn't pay much attention
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    • they just kinda got underneath my skin.
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    • or do something or make certain gestures that can just
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    • rub you the wrong way.
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    • And I'm certain that I have been doing the same things
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    • with her and the spirit of the Lord
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    • began to deal with me about why she got on my nerve.
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    • Because I would sometimes boast about
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    • and not boast, but discuss - Proudly say
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    • - It was not that I would proudly say
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    • I thought that it was something so
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    • - It was OK, because everybody
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    • got on each others nerves.
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    • - Like I thought every relationship argued, you know,
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    • until I got that revelation.
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    • I was really set free from that.
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    • it's worth repeating.
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    • - Yeah, it was good.
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    • - Yeah, it was good.
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    • - So, we were in
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    • You remember the story?
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    • - Yeah, I remember.
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    • - Yeah, I remember.
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    • - Tell 'em.
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    • - Tell 'em.
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    • - We were in one of our meetings,
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    • our marriage made easy meetings
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    • and we had about seven or eight hundred couples there
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    • "How many of you have never argued?"
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    • - Yeah, right.
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    • - Yeah, right.
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    • - out of all of these couples lift their hands
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    • so I had me a good time with that one.
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    • so I had me a good time with that one.
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    • - Yeah, you know you went in.
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    • - Yeah, you know you went in.
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    • He laughed and made all kinda faces
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    • And all of the other couples, they laughed
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    • - You know, because for us, that was so common.
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    • It was like, OK everybody argues, what?
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    • - It was not that you stay argumentative
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    • - Right.
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    • - but you have opportunities, it's natural
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    • Well, when I got in the car, the spirit of God said,
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    • - he doesn't know the answer and so
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    • Dr. Frederick K.C. Price is my pastor of course
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    • Dr. Frederick K.C. Price is my pastor of course
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    • and the spirit of God asked me,
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    • "Well, when have you ever argued with Him?"
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    • And I've been with this man for about 19, 20 years
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    • And I've been with this man for about 19, 20 years
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    • and I have never once argued with him.
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    • Well, the spirit of God pointed out to me
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    • that the reason why I have never argued with him is because
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    • I always want to present or convey
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    • some things that he's said
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    • - That's what I was getting ready to ask you
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    • - That's what I was getting ready to ask you
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    • because a lot of people would say,
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    • - Yeah, yeah he has.
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    • never done anything to me that cause you, you know.
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    • - Yeah, well that's not the case
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    • "You know why you don't argue with him?
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    • And this is what He said, and I'll never forget.
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    • He said, "And you don't care what you say to Dee Dee."
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    • Changed my life.
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    • - Changed my life.
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    • - Changed all of our lives.
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    • That changed my life.
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    • it was because of my immaturity
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    • to say certain things or do certain things to me.
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    • Now the scripture is clear.
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    • And here's the kicker, she hasn't stopped doing
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    • - pre gettin' on my nerve days.
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    • Now in the post gettin' on my nerve days,
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    • Now in the post gettin' on my nerve days,
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    • you would think that there would've been a change
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    • that caused the change in me.
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    • that caused the change in me.
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    • No, you can change whatever you are going through right now.
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    • No, you can change whatever you are going through right now.
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    • How big is the God that you claim
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    • How big is the God that you claim
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    • is within you, lives within you?
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    • is within you, lives within you?
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    • So, greater is He.
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    • So, greater is He.
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    • And He is, greater than anything
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    • And He is, greater than anything
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    • that your spouse can do to cause a disruption in your peace.
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    • that your spouse can do to cause a disruption in your peace.
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    • And we call forth uninterrupted peace
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    • And we call forth uninterrupted peace
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    • in our relationship, in Jesus' name.
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    • in our relationship, in Jesus' name.
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    • This has been table talk with Dr. Mike and Dee Dee Freeman.
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    • This has been table talk with Dr. Mike and Dee Dee Freeman.
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    • We love you.
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    • We love you.
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    • - You know while you were making that point about
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    • - You know while you were making that point about
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    • - [Pastor] Woo Jesus.
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    • - [Pastor] Woo Jesus.
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    • Oh what a night
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    • Oh what a night
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    • I told my nurse, I called I hit the little button.
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    • I told my nurse, I called I hit the little button.
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    • I said "I do not wanna be disturbed tonight."
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    • I said "I do not wanna be disturbed tonight."
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    • She said "Oh why Dr. Freeman?
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    • She said "Oh why Dr. Freeman?
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    • "Have we been bothering you?" - [DeeDee] She didn't say why.
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    • "Have we been bothering you?" - [DeeDee] She didn't say why.
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    • - [DeeDee] She didn't say why..
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    • - [DeeDee] She didn't say why..
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    • She just said okay.
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    • She just said okay.
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    • - They stayed out that room too didn't they.
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    • - They stayed out that room too didn't they.
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • - [DeeDee] I'm so embarrassed.
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    • - [DeeDee] I'm so embarrassed.
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    • - In a hospital room.
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    • - In a hospital room.
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • Hey mama, hey mama.
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    • Hey mama, hey mama.
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    • - [DeeDee] It was ministry.
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    • - [DeeDee] It was ministry.
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    • - It was ministry.
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    • - It was ministry.
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    • She was visiting the sick.
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    • She was visiting the sick.
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • - [DeeDee] And shut in.
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    • - [DeeDee] And shut in.
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    • - Laid oil.
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    • - Laid oil.
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    • - Shut up.
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    • - Shut up.
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    • - I was putting on my sneakers earlier
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    • - I was putting on my sneakers earlier
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    • and it dawned on me that these were
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    • the same sneakers that she purchased for me
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    • the same sneakers that she purchased for me
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    • so that I could attend rehab.
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    • so that I could attend rehab.
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    • And as I sat there and tied up these shoes,
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    • I remember the time where she had to
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    • I remember the time where she had to
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    • put on these shoes and tie em up.
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    • put on these shoes and tie em up.
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    • And I turned to her I said "Sweetie these are the shoes
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    • "that you purchased for me,
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    • "that you purchased for me,
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    • "and you had to tie them up
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    • "and you had to tie them up
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    • "and make sure that I was prepared for it."
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    • "and make sure that I was prepared for it."
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    • Now all of the other patients were coming
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    • Now all of the other patients were coming
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    • to rehab in their gowns and some other things.
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    • to rehab in their gowns and some other things.
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    • And they wore these awful looking socks
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    • with this rubber on the bottom.
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    • with this rubber on the bottom.
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    • I couldn't stand those socks.
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    • So DeeDee would never allow me to go to rehab
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    • looking like a patient.
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    • And I sat there this morning on the edge of my bed
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    • and I looked at her.
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    • And I told her I said "Thank you so much for how
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    • "you have taken care of me."
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    • "you have taken care of me."
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    • She said "Did I take care of you well?"
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    • I think you were about to cry too.
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    • Were you? - [DeeDee] No
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    • (congregation laughs)
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    • - I guess it wasn't that emotional.
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    • I certainly was about to cry. - [DeeDee] Yeah I know.
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    • I certainly was about to cry. - [DeeDee] Yeah I know.
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    • - [Pastor] And I put my head down and I said
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    • - [Pastor] And I put my head down and I said
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    • "You took care of me very well."
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    • Well, you know, I could've just allowed
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    • that moment to pass.
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    • What's the big deal, she put on my shoes?
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    • What's the big deal, she put on my shoes?
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    • But it's just the little things sometimes
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    • that we fail to remind ourselves
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    • that our spouses are doing for us on the regular.
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    • that our spouses are doing for us on the regular.
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    • And they go unacknowledged.
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    • And sometimes not as appreciated as they should be.
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    • And you really don't realize how much of them
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    • that you are taking for granted.
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    • that you are taking for granted.
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    • And then the nerve of some little floozy
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    • coming along and getting your attention,
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    • coming along and getting your attention,
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    • when the one who's down with you until
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    • when the one who's down with you until
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    • the wheels fall off.
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    • the wheels fall off.
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    • I'm preaching good boy. - [DeeDee] That's good.
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    • I'm preaching good boy. - [DeeDee] That's good.
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    • - [Pastor] One of the things
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    • - [Pastor] One of the things
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    • that I have not been able to get away from,
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    • that I have not been able to get away from,
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    • and I don't intend to get away from it
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    • and I don't intend to get away from it
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    • until the spirit of the Lord
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    • until the spirit of the Lord
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    • gives me permission.
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    • gives me permission.
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    • Is the lesson that I learned
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    • Is the lesson that I learned
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    • while I was in the hospital.
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    • Jesus taught me this lesson at my bedside.
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    • Jesus taught me this lesson at my bedside.
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    • He spoke with me about the prerequisite of following Him.
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    • He spoke with me about the prerequisite of following Him.
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    • He asked me that question.
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    • He asked me that question.
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    • And He asked me that question quite abruptly.
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    • And He asked me that question quite abruptly.
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    • What is the prerequisite?
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    • What is the prerequisite?
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    • It is my desire that you are patient with me
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    • It is my desire that you are patient with me
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    • until we exhaust all the revelation that we can exhaust
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    • until we exhaust all the revelation that we can exhaust
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    • out of this truth that was given to me at my bedside.
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    • out of this truth that was given to me at my bedside.
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    • And I challenge you to not to become weary
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    • And I challenge you to not to become weary
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    • in hearing this until you are walking
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    • in hearing this until you are walking
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    • in the revelation that was intended to receive from it.
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    • in the revelation that was intended to receive from it.
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    • He asked me what was the prerequisite
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    • He asked me what was the prerequisite
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    • of following Him.
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    • of following Him.
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    • And most of you all know,
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    • And most of you all know,
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    • and we've concluded and we've found out.
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    • and we've concluded and we've found out.
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    • I don't know if anyone is working
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    • I don't know if anyone is working
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    • in the media department where they can put
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    • in the media department where they can put
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    • the scripture up and we don't have to
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    • the scripture up and we don't have to
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    • turn much on tonight.
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    • turn much on tonight.
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    • - I don't know.
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    • - I don't know.
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    • - Matthew 16, I'll just throw it out there,
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    • - Matthew 16, I'll just throw it out there,
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    • maybe they have it.
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    • maybe they have it.
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    • Verse number 24.
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    • Verse number 24.
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    • Can you all read it?
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    • Can you all read it?
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    • Ready read.
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    • Ready read.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - Y'all sound good man.
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    • - Y'all sound good man.
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    • Did you hear this Sheryl?
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    • Did you hear this Sheryl?
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    • Say it again.
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    • Say it again.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - No, doesn't that sound good?
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    • - No, doesn't that sound good?
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    • Look at your spouse and say you did good baby you did.
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    • Look at your spouse and say you did good baby you did.
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    • See, it's little things.
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    • See, it's little things.
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    • It's moment matter.
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    • It's moment matter.
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    • I got a lesson as I was getting this lesson together
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    • I got a lesson as I was getting this lesson together
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    • entitled "Small Stuff."
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    • entitled "Small Stuff."
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    • Small stuff.
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    • Small stuff.
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    • It's the small stuff.
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    • It's the small stuff.
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    • Okay, do it again.
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    • Okay, do it again.
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    • I just had to commend you on how well you were doing.
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    • I just had to commend you on how well you were doing.
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    • 'Cause again, I don't take anything for granted.
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    • 'Cause again, I don't take anything for granted.
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    • You sound so well.
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    • You sound so well.
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    • Don't mess it up this time would you please?
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    • Don't mess it up this time would you please?
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    • Okay ready read.
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    • Okay ready read.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - [Congregation] Then Jesus said to His disciples.
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    • - [Pastor] What did He say?
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    • - [Pastor] What did He say?
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    • - [Congregation] If anyone desires to come after me.
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    • - [Congregation] If anyone desires to come after me.
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    • - [Pastor] How do you all know to stay together like that?
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    • - [Pastor] How do you all know to stay together like that?
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    • No, I mean can you hear yourselves?
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    • No, I mean can you hear yourselves?
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    • No really, do you sound as good as I hear you?
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    • No really, do you sound as good as I hear you?
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    • No really, come on, give yourselves a hand.
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    • No really, come on, give yourselves a hand.
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    • (Pastor laughs)
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    • (Pastor laughs)
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    • And Jesus said disciple.
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    • And Jesus said disciple.
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    • It sounds like one voice.
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    • It sounds like one voice.
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    • And if we can get this many people with one voice.
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    • And if we can get this many people with one voice.
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    • How about the two of you in one voice,
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    • How about the two of you in one voice,
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    • saying the same things, coming into an agreement.
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    • saying the same things, coming into an agreement.
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    • It's powerful man. - [DeeDee] It's beautiful.
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    • It's powerful man. - [DeeDee] It's beautiful.
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    • - [Pastor] God, do it again.
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    • - [Pastor] God, do it again.
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    • Okay, we're gonna start all over.
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    • Okay, we're gonna start all over.
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    • Don't mess it up, we're gonna go through the whole thing.
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    • Don't mess it up, we're gonna go through the whole thing.
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    • I liked your cadence.
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    • I liked your cadence.
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    • Your cadence is perfect.
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    • Your cadence is perfect.
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    • I mean no, you're flowing together.
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    • I mean no, you're flowing together.
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    • Watch somebody mess it up right there boy.
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    • Watch somebody mess it up right there boy.
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • Look at the one you with and say
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    • Look at the one you with and say
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    • don't you be the one to mess this up.
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    • don't you be the one to mess this up.
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    • Okay, here we go again guys.
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    • Okay, here we go again guys.
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    • All right, ready read.
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    • All right, ready read.
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    • - [Congregation] "Then Jesus said to His disciples,
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    • - [Congregation] "Then Jesus said to His disciples,
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    • 'If anyone decides to come after me,
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    • 'If anyone decides to come after me,
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    • 'let him deny himself
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    • 'and take up his cross and follow me.'"
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    • 'and take up his cross and follow me.'"
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    • - [Pastor] That's what's up, come on one more time.
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    • - [Pastor] That's what's up, come on one more time.
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    • Give yourselves a hand.
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    • Give yourselves a hand.
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    • The denying yourself
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    • is the prerequisite of following Him.
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    • is the prerequisite of following Him.
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    • When He shared this with me, I promise you,
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    • When He shared this with me, I promise you,
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    • I did not have an idea of the totality.
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    • I did not have an idea of the totality.
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    • This is such an invaliable
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    • This is such an invaliable
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    • principle that I've discovered.
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    • principle that I've discovered.
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    • Make marriage easy.
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    • Make marriage easy.
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    • to become a partner of purpose with us today.
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    • can be made easy to the world.
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