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The Family Meeting

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August 3, 2016
28:30

Living by Faith with Mike & DeeDee Freeman

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  • - If you are married or engaged,
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    • - If you are married or engaged,
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    • then join the marriage doctors themselves,
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    • then join the marriage doctors themselves,
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    • Doctors Mike and DeeDee Freeman from Marriage Made EZ,
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    • Doctors Mike and DeeDee Freeman from Marriage Made EZ,
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    • with special guest, gospel, television, and movie
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    • with special guest, gospel, television, and movie
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    • powerhouse couple, David and Tamela Mann,
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    • powerhouse couple, David and Tamela Mann,
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    • as they share on faith, love, and marriage,
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    • as they share on faith, love, and marriage,
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    • both on and off the screen.
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    • Friday, August 5th, at 7pm at Spirit of Faith
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    • Friday, August 5th, at 7pm at Spirit of Faith
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    • Christian Center in Brandywine, Maryland.
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    • Christian Center in Brandywine, Maryland.
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    • For more information, visit marriagemadeez.com.
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    • For more information, visit marriagemadeez.com.
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    • (upbeat music)
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    • (upbeat music)
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    • - Don't miss Dr. Michael Freeman at the first anniversary
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    • - Don't miss Dr. Michael Freeman at the first anniversary
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    • celebration for Spirit of Faith Christian Center New York
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    • celebration for Spirit of Faith Christian Center New York
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    • and Pastor Kevin and First Lady Melody Adams,
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    • and Pastor Kevin and First Lady Melody Adams,
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    • Wednesday, August 17th, and Thursday, August 18th
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    • Wednesday, August 17th, and Thursday, August 18th
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    • at 7pm nightly at MIST Harlem, 46 West 116th Street
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    • at 7pm nightly at MIST Harlem, 46 West 116th Street
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    • in New York City.
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    • in New York City.
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    • - Can't wait to see ya there in the Big Apple.
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    • - Can't wait to see ya there in the Big Apple.
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    • spend some time with everybody together.
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    • spend some time with everybody together.
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    • - "What do you do when a spouse does more
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    • - "What do you do when a spouse does more
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    • "for their family members than they do for you?"
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    • "for their family members than they do for you?"
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    • Oh Jesus.
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    • Oh Jesus.
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    • - Right, and so after I got passed myself,
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    • - Right, and so after I got passed myself,
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    • I was like okay.
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    • I was like okay.
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    • - You know that's the prerequisite of following Christ?
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    • - You know that's the prerequisite of following Christ?
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • - Why is your wife getting on your nerve?
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    • - Why is your wife getting on your nerve?
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    • Or why is your husband getting on your nerve?
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    • Or why is your husband getting on your nerve?
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    • I promise you, you don't wanna miss
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    • I promise you, you don't wanna miss
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    • this upcoming table talk discussion
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    • this upcoming table talk discussion
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    • with Dr. Dee Dee.
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    • with Dr. Dee Dee.
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    • It's a reason why each other
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    • It's a reason why each other
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    • are getting on each others nerves
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    • are getting on each others nerves
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    • and we're gon fix that today.
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    • and we're gon fix that today.
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    • Don't leave from where you are.
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    • Don't leave from where you are.
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    • a level of control implemented there.
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    • a level of control implemented there.
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    • And I never wanted her or even you in that respect
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    • And I never wanted her or even you in that respect
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    • to feel like there's any control that I am
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    • to feel like there's any control that I am
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    • enforcing in your relationship.
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    • enforcing in your relationship.
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    • That's why I've always made it clear to Keisha
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    • That's why I've always made it clear to Keisha
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    • and also Kevin that you're your own people.
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    • and also Kevin that you're your own people.
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    • And you have the right to make whatever decisions.
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    • And you have the right to make whatever decisions.
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    • I on the other hand knowing some things
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    • I on the other hand knowing some things
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    • about life, and ministry, and handling domestic
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    • about life, and ministry, and handling domestic
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    • issues and so forth and so on.
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    • issues and so forth and so on.
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    • I can just share with you my two cent.
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    • Advise is for two things to take or to leave.
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    • Advise is for two things to take or to leave.
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    • And it would be entirely up to you
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    • And it would be entirely up to you
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    • and I'm glad you made that clear.
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    • and I'm glad you made that clear.
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    • Because I stand in the same premise with you in that.
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    • Because I stand in the same premise with you in that.
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    • I don't wanna just say do this and you do this.
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    • But as one who's been under my authority,
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    • But as one who's been under my authority,
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    • as it relates to her destiny and her future,
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    • as it relates to her destiny and her future,
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    • I had her best interests at heart at that particular time.
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    • I had her best interests at heart at that particular time.
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    • When I give her hand to you in marriage, guess what?
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    • When I give her hand to you in marriage, guess what?
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    • That is cut off, you be the man at that time.
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    • That is cut off, you be the man at that time.
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    • But I'll kill you if you mess up.
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    • But I'll kill you if you mess up.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • Now dig this, dig this.
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    • Now dig this, dig this.
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    • We gotta also understand the weight of a man
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    • We gotta also understand the weight of a man
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    • and the weight of a man's voice.
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    • And that's where you father's play such significant role
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    • And that's where you father's play such significant role
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    • in the relationship because the weight of a woman
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    • is like about 25 pounds compared to the weight
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    • is like about 25 pounds compared to the weight
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    • of a man who is about 500 pounds.
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    • of a man who is about 500 pounds.
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    • When a man speaks in an environment
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    • it's more weightier than a woman speaking.
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    • it's more weightier than a woman speaking.
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    • I promise you that.
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    • I promise you that.
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    • My mama used to really exercise and enforce that,
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    • My mama used to really exercise and enforce that,
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    • and it registered in us.
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    • and it registered in us.
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    • She would just say "Wait til your daddy get home."
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    • She would just say "Wait til your daddy get home."
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    • She coupled her weight with his weight
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    • She coupled her weight with his weight
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    • and it literally caused something to stand up in us
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    • and it literally caused something to stand up in us
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    • to respect and honor in a greater magnitude.
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    • to respect and honor in a greater magnitude.
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    • You two coming together with the weight that you possess
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    • You two coming together with the weight that you possess
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    • and what you say and do, it's gonna be an unstoppable force.
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    • and what you say and do, it's gonna be an unstoppable force.
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    • And it's not much I'm gonna have to tell ya.
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    • And it's not much I'm gonna have to tell ya.
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    • But what I am saying to you,
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    • But what I am saying to you,
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    • like I would suggest to everybody here,
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    • like I would suggest to everybody here,
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    • if you ever need me son, I'm right here with you
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    • if you ever need me son, I'm right here with you
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    • to give you my best.
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    • to give you my best.
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    • Cause all mine is thine.
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    • Cause all mine is thine.
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    • Everything I'm working for at this particular point
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    • Everything I'm working for at this particular point
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    • is for these people and their offsprings.
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    • is for these people and their offsprings.
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    • I rest my case.
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    • I rest my case.
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    • - I receive that. (audience applauds)
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    • - I receive that. (audience applauds)
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    • - That's my dude.
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    • Come on Keisha, talk to me.
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    • Keisha hasn't said a thing over there.
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    • - [Keisha] Can you repeat - [Pastor] What your mama
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    • - [Keisha] Can you repeat - [Pastor] What your mama
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    • - [Keisha] the question? - [Pastor] say about Josh.
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    • - [Keisha] the question? - [Pastor] say about Josh.
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    • - [Pastor] What did your mama say about Josh?
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    • - [Pastor] What did your mama say about Josh?
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    • Was she opposed to him?
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    • I mean or did you have the kind of relationship
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    • with mama that she would
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    • have the impact?
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    • What kind of weight did she possess in your life?
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    • Relative to your decision.
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    • - Well Josh knows, it's been like me
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    • - Well Josh knows, it's been like me
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    • and my mom my whole life.
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    • and my mom my whole life.
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    • So, she has impact in my choice.
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    • So my mom did love Josh in the beginning.
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    • She still does but. - [Pastor] In the beginning.
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    • She still does but. - [Pastor] In the beginning.
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • - You know before you get married everything gets peachy,
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    • and then you know you get married and you go through things,
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    • but you make it through.
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    • And yeah, she likes Josh she loves Josh.
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    • - So, if she woulda said "Keisha, I don't think
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    • "that's a good choice for you."
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    • - [Josh] Tell the truth.
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    • - [Josh] Tell the truth.
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    • - I would of had to respect it.
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    • But...
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    • I may have tried to "Well ma you know
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    • "he such and such." - [Pastor] Okay talk it.
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    • "he such and such." - [Pastor] Okay talk it.
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    • That's typical, right right.
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    • That's typical, right right.
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    • - So, I didn't have that problem but,
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    • - So, I didn't have that problem but,
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    • he's my choice.
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    • he's my choice.
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    • I'm happy I made that choice.
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    • - [Pastor] You sound so happy about it.
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    • - [Pastor] You sound so happy about it.
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    • "He's my choice, I guess I gotta."
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    • - [DeeDee] She said she happy with that choice.
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    • - I know, I'm just playing.
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    • - I know, I'm just playing.
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    • Can't I play?
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    • You know, I recently met with a young man,
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    • and I don't mean to dominate this time.
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    • Y'all jump in there.
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    • But I recently met this young man he's 15 years old.
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    • His mother just married a guy six years ago
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    • and he can't stand his mother's choice.
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    • What do you do?
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    • Cause now you got a blended deal coming on.
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    • And I sat and talked with her.
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    • And she did not methodically, there was no strategy,
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    • there was no plan.
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    • didn't incorporate this cat
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    • into her baby's flow.
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    • And now he doesn't have much
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    • to do with his stepfather.
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    • I don't personally like the term stepfather.
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    • I just like dad or whatever they choose
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    • to call them, but stepfather.
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    • Let's talk about that for a moment.
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    • How do you get some one who's.
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    • Because there are more blended families now
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    • than the traditional.
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    • - [DeeDee] Of course, and we gonna address
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    • - [DeeDee] Of course, and we gonna address
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    • some of that kind of stuff probably in the family series.
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    • But it's too many different dynamics for it.
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    • That's too broad of a thing right there.
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    • Because I need to know okay,
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    • how's the mother treating the son now?
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    • How is the stepfather treating the son.
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    • You know, what kind of--
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    • - She's guarding the son now.
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    • - Yeah, so it's like why don't he like him?
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    • You know, there's so many other things--
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    • - I tell you what, you can narrow all of what I ask
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    • by giving us some pointers for those who
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    • are marrying people who have had kids
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    • - I think they should develop relationships
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    • with the kids as well.
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    • I do, I think--
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    • - How?
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    • - I don't know, spending time with each other.
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    • - How?
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    • - Go to the movies do something.
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    • Go to dinner, sit down, have a family meeting.
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    • You know involve them, because they are a part of it now.
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    • You know involve them, because they are a part of it now.
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    • Like you said, you're not just marrying the mom now.
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    • You're marrying into this family
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    • and you're becoming one unit.
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    • is just having some kind of personal issues
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    • You know, opposed to being in a relationship
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    • So it's just so many different dynamics in that to me.
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    • I think that's so broad, but I do personally would say
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    • spend some time with everybody together.
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    • - "What do you do when a spouse does more
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    • "for their family members than they do for you?"
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    • (indistinct chatter from audience)
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    • Oh Jesus.
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    • Oh Jesus.
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    • Y'all are kinda one sided in that respect.
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    • Yeah, you're one sided.
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    • Because I always try to encourage you,
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    • especially you Britney to go and to take
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    • the baby's to Kevin's mom and dad's house.
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    • And you always over at my house.
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    • And I kinda feel like there's
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    • no equality or balance in that.
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    • And I don't know how his parents may feel about that.
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    • So you may be doing more for your family
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    • with respect to having your children around
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    • with respect to having your children around
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    • in our environment and not giving them
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    • the same kind of love.
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    • - You know while you were making that point about
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    • how now, I no longer get on your nerves
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    • because you have made some decisions
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    • to change and I love that.
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    • I mean because that's evident.
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    • You have definitely changed your position,
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    • your disposition towards me
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    • and with everybody in that regard.
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    • But I was thinking, you know how we're always
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    • that they're encountering that you disagree with
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    • or you are having challenges with,
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    • how I can just pray about it and leave it alone.
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    • There is something that I pray about you everyday.
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    • That you would be even tempered,
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    • that you would love me the way Christ loves the church,
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    • and that you would be affectionate towards me,
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    • that you would understand me.
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    • These are things that I pray
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    • and even when you are irritated with something that I do,
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    • it would change your position on how you would treat me
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    • - So, you're responsible for this change
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    • - So, you're responsible for this change
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    • that has taken place?
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    • that has taken place?
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    • - Of course, I would like to say that you know women
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    • - How in God's name are you gonna take credit for that?
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    • - How in God's name are you gonna take credit for that?
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    • - However this transpired.
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    • - However this transpired.
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    • - Yeah, I'm not taking credit for that,
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    • - Yeah, I'm not taking credit for that,
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    • my whole point is this, it's like
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    • you don't have to murmur and complain,
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    • you don't have to get worked up,
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    • you don't have to loose it,
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    • all you have to do is trust God through this whole process.
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    • - And watch and pray that, yeah.
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    • You know because, it's like I can pray about some things
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    • and I can leave it alone,
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    • walk away from it and allow God to minister to your heart.
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    • walk away from it and allow God to minister to your heart.
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    • So, regardless of how you got there
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    • - Right.
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    • - You know, you've gotten there
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    • and I wanted to use that as a point
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    • to say OK, we don't have to just loose it all the time
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    • to say OK, we don't have to just loose it all the time
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    • when we don't agree, or when we get on each others nerves
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    • or when we do stuff that irritate each other.
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    • We can pray about it, leave it alone,
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    • walk away from it and allow
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    • Holy Spirit to do the work because ultimately
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    • the Holy Spirit is the one.
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    • - Well, if your prayers are that potent
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    • - Well, if your prayers are that potent
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    • and that powerful, why haven't you prayed about
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    • not doing what you do to get on my nerves?
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    • - Because
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    • - We coulda reversed this two ways.
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    • - We coulda reversed this two ways.
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    • - Totally.
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    • - Totally.
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    • - God change his heart, no,
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    • - God change his heart, no,
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    • you pray about your own heart so that
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    • you won't do the things you do
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    • that were getting on my nerves.
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    • - No, but it's not necessarily things that I was doing
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    • - No, but it's not necessarily things that I was doing
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    • that was getting on your nerves
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    • it was the things that you expect to be done.
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    • - And allowed.
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    • - And allowed.
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    • - And allowed.
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    • - And allowed.
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    • - Yeah
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    • - Yeah
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    • Because, just because somebody put the toothpaste
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    • in a different spot doesn't mean that it was wrong
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    • it was just that it irritated you
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    • because that's not what you're accustomed too.
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    • - And it's not my spot.
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    • - And it's not my spot.
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    • - And it's not your spot.
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    • - And it's not your spot.
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    • - Right.
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    • - Right.
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    • - And so that's the whole pride thing
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    • - And so that's the whole pride thing
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    • so it's like, OK, God let me just pray
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    • so it's like, OK, God let me just pray
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    • that we can come together and get along
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    • that we can come together and get along
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    • and have some type of agreement.
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    • - And all you had to do was pray
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    • - And all you had to do was pray
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    • for God to remind you to put the toothpaste in my spot.
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    • for God to remind you to put the toothpaste in my spot.
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    • - (laughing)
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    • - (laughing)
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    • - (laughing)
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    • - (laughing)
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    • - Well I don't know what got you there,
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    • - Well I don't know what got you there,
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    • but I thank God that you're there.
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    • but I thank God that you're there.
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    • - I am here.
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    • - I am here.
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    • - And you too can get there.
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    • - And you too can get there.
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    • - Yeah, however you get there
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    • - Yeah, however you get there
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    • whether you're praying about a situation
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    • that your husband is doing
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    • that your husband is doing
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    • or you're praying about a situation for yourself.
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    • Just like she mentioned, prayer will assist you
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    • Just like she mentioned, prayer will assist you
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    • in changing everything you need to have changed.
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    • in changing everything you need to have changed.
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    • It's just amazing and your lives will never be the same.
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    • It's just amazing and your lives will never be the same.
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    • - It takes the struggle out.
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    • - It takes the struggle out.
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    • - That's how marriage is made easy.
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    • - That's how marriage is made easy.
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    • You gotta get our book too, it'll bless your life.
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    • You gotta get our book too, it'll bless your life.
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    • Amen.
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    • Amen.
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    • in our environment and not giving them
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    • the same kind of love.
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    • Come on speak up lady.
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    • Come on speak up lady.
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    • Cause we used to do that.
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    • My mom used to get real upset sometimes
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    • because I was always over your house
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    • with your family doing family things, holidays.
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    • - [DeeDee] Well my mama would say
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    • - [DeeDee] Well my mama would say
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    • "Okay go to Mrs. Freeman house.
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    • "Okay go to Mrs. Freeman house.
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    • "Y'all get on outta here."
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    • - Well you didn't listen to your mother that much.
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    • - Well you didn't listen to your mother that much.
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    • - [DeeDee] Yes I did.
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    • - No, we felt that way as well.
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    • And because I am believe in God
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    • for more family togetherness.
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    • That's why we started going over there
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    • at least two Sundays a month.
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    • Like we alternate Sundays.
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    • - I can't stand it but I understand.
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    • - Right.
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    • - Right.
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    • I was about to say cause you say go over there.
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    • Then I'll be like "Well you know this their Sunday.
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    • "What?!
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    • "What?!
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    • "You just was with them!"
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • But in doing that it has started to create
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    • more family togetherness.
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    • Like his mom is talking to me.
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    • She smile when she see me now.
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    • She smile when she see me now.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • - Oh she was giving you some--
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    • - Oh she was giving you some--
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    • - [DeeDee] She's gonna see this show!
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    • - [DeeDee] She's gonna see this show!
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    • - No, she smile when she see me.
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    • - No, she smile when she see me.
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    • We play volleyball together Sunday.
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    • And I binged the ball at her head
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    • cause she's very competitive.
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    • cause she's very competitive.
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    • Wait, let me rewind this in case she see.
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    • Wait, let me rewind this in case she see.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - She's competitive and so am I.
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    • - She's competitive and so am I.
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    • And she was on the opposing team and she.
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    • Have you ever played something with somebody
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    • Have you ever played something with somebody
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    • who talks so much trash that you just,
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    • who talks so much trash that you just,
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    • you wanted to win with everything in you.
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    • you wanted to win with everything in you.
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    • - That's that boys mother baby.
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    • - That's that boys mother baby.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • - [Britney] Listen, anybody can get it okay.
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    • - [Britney] Listen, anybody can get it okay.
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    • His nephew was over there one time.
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    • His nephew was over there one time.
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    • His nephew and his mother and I'm like
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    • "I'm coming for both of y'all."
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    • "I'm coming for both of y'all."
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    • But no we had a lot of fun.
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    • But no we had a lot of fun.
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    • She squatted down, she looked at me
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    • She squatted down, she looked at me
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    • and she's like "I got you."
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    • and she's like "I got you."
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    • She got me a couple of times.
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    • She got me a couple of times.
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    • I was on the floor and she kinda laughed.
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    • I was on the floor and she kinda laughed.
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    • And was like "Girl all I hear is excuses
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    • "coming out your mouth."
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    • "coming out your mouth."
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • (everyone laughs)
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    • But it was fun, it was fun.
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    • But it was fun, it was fun.
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    • She beat me.
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    • She beat me.
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    • - She beat you?
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    • - She beat you?
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    • - She won.
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    • - She won.
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    • Kevin was on her team.
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    • Kevin was on her team.
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    • He carried this.
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    • He carried this.
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    • I know right?
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    • I know right?
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    • - Maybe he was taking it out on you in the game?
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    • - Maybe he was taking it out on you in the game?
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    • Because Kevin how do you feel? - [Britney] I know.
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    • Because Kevin how do you feel? - [Britney] I know.
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    • - [Pastor] I mean cause you are always over at our place.
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    • - [Pastor] I mean cause you are always over at our place.
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    • There's some balance now being implemented.
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    • There's some balance now being implemented.
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    • But did you feel like she always wanted to do things
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    • But did you feel like she always wanted to do things
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    • for her family and never yours?
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    • for her family and never yours?
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    • Did that ever create an issue?
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    • Did that ever create an issue?
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    • - No, cause I kinda felt like how,
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    • - No, cause I kinda felt like how,
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    • well I wouldn't say how she did but I wanted
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    • well I wouldn't say how she did but I wanted
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    • to be over at your guys house because, no.
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    • to be over at your guys house because, no.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • - [Pastor] I got ya, I got ya.
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    • - [Pastor] I got ya, I got ya.
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    • I'm gonna hook you up. - [Kevin] I mean because,
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    • I'm gonna hook you up. - [Kevin] I mean because,
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    • - [Kevin] you know, in the (mumbles).
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    • - [Kevin] you know, in the (mumbles).
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    • Because in the beginning things did not transpire
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    • Because in the beginning things did not transpire
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    • with my family as smoothly as we would've liked
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    • with my family as smoothly as we would've liked
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    • for it to have happened.
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    • for it to have happened.
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    • 00:17:59.190 --> 00:18:02.060
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    • So I took the position, "Okay you don't like her,
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    • So I took the position, "Okay you don't like her,
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    • "you don't like me."
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    • "you don't like me."
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    • 00:18:05.230 --> 00:18:07.000
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    • And so I'm rolling with it you know.
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    • And so I'm rolling with it you know.
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    • - Your family didn't like Britney?
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    • - Your family didn't like Britney?
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    • - I wouldn't say didn't like, just.
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    • - I wouldn't say didn't like, just.
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    • (audience and DeeDee laugh)
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    • (audience and DeeDee laugh)
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    • That's such a strong term - [Pastor] Did you know
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    • That's such a strong term - [Pastor] Did you know
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    • to use and you know. - [Pastor] about that?
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    • to use and you know. - [Pastor] about that?
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    • - [DeeDee] Yeah, you knew.
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    • - [DeeDee] Yeah, you knew.
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    • - I didn't know nothing--
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    • - I didn't know nothing--
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    • - [DeeDee] Yes you did.
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    • - [DeeDee] Yes you did.
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    • - I did not know--
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    • - I did not know--
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    • - It was new to them.
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    • - It was new to them.
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    • 00:18:23.170 --> 00:18:24.270
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    • And you know being--
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    • And you know being--
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    • - Are you the baby boy?
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    • - Are you the baby boy?
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    • - No, I'm the oldest boy. - [DeeDee] No, but he's
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    • - No, I'm the oldest boy. - [DeeDee] No, but he's
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    • - [DeeDee] like the one that--
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    • - [DeeDee] like the one that--
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    • - But I was like the golden child to them if you will.
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    • - But I was like the golden child to them if you will.
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    • And so--
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    • - You are a little light.
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    • - You are a little light.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • - [DeeDee] This is how it goes in our family meetings.
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    • - [DeeDee] This is how it goes in our family meetings.
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    • - I got a tan, I'm just saying, y'all can't tell.
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    • - I got a tan, I'm just saying, y'all can't tell.
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    • - Welcome to the family meeting Tim.
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    • - Welcome to the family meeting Tim.
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    • - [Brelyn] Tan?!
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    • - [Brelyn] Tan?!
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    • - [Kevin] Come on man, look at me (mumbles).
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    • - [Kevin] Come on man, look at me (mumbles).
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    • - [Brelyn] No. - [Kevin] No oh.
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    • - [Brelyn] No. - [Kevin] No oh.
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    • - [Kevin] So it kind of pushed me away a bit.
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    • - [Kevin] So it kind of pushed me away a bit.
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    • Being that they did not, - [Pastor] Wow.
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    • Being that they did not, - [Pastor] Wow.
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    • - [Kevin] immediately accept the relationship
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    • - [Kevin] immediately accept the relationship
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    • that I decided to be in.
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    • But, like Britney said we worked on some things
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    • and we noticed the trend that was happening
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    • and we noticed the trend that was happening
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    • in conversations with my parents and even my siblings.
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    • in conversations with my parents and even my siblings.
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    • They would drop hints and things.
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    • Let me know like "Okay we don't see you that much."
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    • Let me know like "Okay we don't see you that much."
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    • And they would take it out in frustration
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    • And they would take it out in frustration
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    • but they were really hurting.
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    • but they were really hurting.
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    • And so. - [Pastor] Wow.
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    • And so. - [Pastor] Wow.
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    • - [Kevin] And it hurt me cause that's my family.
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    • - [Kevin] And it hurt me cause that's my family.
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    • - [Pastor] Absolutely.
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    • - [Pastor] Absolutely.
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    • - And so I've always wanted them to like her.
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    • - And so I've always wanted them to like her.
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    • And so once they would've jumped on board
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    • And so once they would've jumped on board
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    • and build a relationship with her.
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    • and build a relationship with her.
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    • Then the next one jumped on board
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    • Then the next one jumped on board
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    • and they built a relationship.
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    • and they built a relationship.
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    • So it was like my parents, like okay.
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    • So it was like my parents, like okay.
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    • And so we just started to go over there more.
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    • And so we just started to go over there more.
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    • - [Pastor] I love it.
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    • - [Pastor] I love it.
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    • - I started to call them more and talk to them more.
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    • - I started to call them more and talk to them more.
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    • - Because you identified what was going on.
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    • - Because you identified what was going on.
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    • - Yes, yes.
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    • - Yes, yes.
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    • - And you made the adjustments.
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    • - And you made the adjustments.
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    • - Absolutely.
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    • - Absolutely.
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    • - I would like to say--
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    • - I would like to say--
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    • - Go ahead sweetie.
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    • - Go ahead sweetie.
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    • - Because let me see.
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    • - Because let me see.
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    • Sorry, I'm gonna let you talk.
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    • Sorry, I'm gonna let you talk.
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    • I was at first waiting on them to reach out to me.
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    • I was at first waiting on them to reach out to me.
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    • - [Pastor] Wow!
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    • - [Pastor] Wow!
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    • - But then it was kind of like "I want this,
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    • - But then it was kind of like "I want this,
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    • "I want this family.
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    • "I want this family.
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    • "You know this means the world to him.
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    • "You know this means the world to him.
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    • "I want my kids to know."
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    • "I want my kids to know."
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    • So I started going after them.
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    • So I started going after them.
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    • And I would send his mom pictures or send her texts.
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    • And I would send his mom pictures or send her texts.
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    • Reach out to her. - [Pastor] What did you,
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    • Reach out to her. - [Pastor] What did you,
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    • - [Pastor] say that again, say that again.
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    • - [Pastor] say that again, say that again.
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    • You started going?
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    • You started going?
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    • - After them.
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    • - After them.
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    • Mmm hmm, I started going after them.
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    • Mmm hmm, I started going after them.
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    • - One more time.
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    • - One more time.
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    • - I started going after them.
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    • - I started going after them.
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    • - Cause you could've said, "Oh they don't like me I ain't."
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    • - Cause you could've said, "Oh they don't like me I ain't."
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    • - Yup.
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    • - Yup.
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    • - But you started to.
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    • - But you started to.
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    • - I started to go after them.
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    • - I started to go after them.
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    • Cause I mean it hurt me at first cause I had never been.
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    • Cause I mean it hurt me at first cause I had never been.
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    • I mean my family is so like. - [Pastor] We ain't used
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    • I mean my family is so like. - [Pastor] We ain't used
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    • - [Pastor] to that, right, absolutely.
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    • - [Pastor] to that, right, absolutely.
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    • - All of the in-laws.
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    • - All of the in-laws.
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    • So when I experienced it I was like
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    • So when I experienced it I was like
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    • "I only see this on TV."
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    • "I only see this on TV."
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    • Like what's wrong with these people, people like me.
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    • Like what's wrong with these people, people like me.
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    • - Cause you're used to family.
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    • - Cause you're used to family.
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    • - Right.
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    • - Right.
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    • - And if you get out of your flow,
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    • - And if you get out of your flow,
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    • you select someone from
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    • you select someone from
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    • a family that isn't that.
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    • a family that isn't that.
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    • - [DeeDee] But it wasn't even about Britney.
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    • - [DeeDee] But it wasn't even about Britney.
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    • - I was about to say I hadn't realized
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    • - I was about to say I hadn't realized
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    • it wasn't about me. - [DeeDee] It would've been
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    • it wasn't about me. - [DeeDee] It would've been
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    • - [DeeDee] like that with anybody.
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    • - [DeeDee] like that with anybody.
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    • - Oh absolutely.
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    • - Oh absolutely.
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    • - [DeeDee] Right, because they wanted Kevin.
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    • - [DeeDee] Right, because they wanted Kevin.
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    • They wanted Kevin around.
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    • They wanted Kevin around.
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    • They wanted Kevin involved in different things.
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    • They wanted Kevin involved in different things.
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    • And Britney was just, you know,
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    • And Britney was just, you know,
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    • the object of their you know.
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    • the object of their you know.
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    • - They thought I was
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    • - They thought I was
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    • taking him away. - [DeeDee] That face that
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    • taking him away. - [DeeDee] That face that
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    • - [DeeDee] was taking him away yeah.
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    • - [DeeDee] was taking him away yeah.
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    • - Right, and so after I got passed myself,
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    • - Right, and so after I got passed myself,
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    • I was like okay.
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    • I was like okay.
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    • - You know that's the prerequisite of following Christ?
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    • - You know that's the prerequisite of following Christ?
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • It's so powerful for you to deny yourself.
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    • It's so powerful for you to deny yourself.
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    • That's how you follow Christ.
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    • That's how you follow Christ.
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • Get past yourself.
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    • And the minute you did that,
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    • And the minute you did that,
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    • look what is being established.
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    • look what is being established.
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    • - Yeah, and it's fun we really have a good time.
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    • - Yeah, and it's fun we really have a good time.
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    • - Isn't it fun?
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    • - Isn't it fun?
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    • - Yeah, we really have a good time.
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    • - Yeah, we really have a good time.
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    • - It's so much better when families are together.
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    • - It's so much better when families are together.
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    • - Yes, cause I love that his mom will go out
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    • - Yes, cause I love that his mom will go out
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    • and play baseball and stuff.
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    • and play baseball and stuff.
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    • Where she's like still really sporty.
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    • Where she's like still really sporty.
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    • So for her, I love that kind of stuff.
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    • So for her, I love that kind of stuff.
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    • I'm like we playing out here together,
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    • I'm like we playing out here together,
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    • the girls are riding on the lawnmower with his dad.
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    • the girls are riding on the lawnmower with his dad.
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    • Although I was like "You better not tear my baby's."
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    • Although I was like "You better not tear my baby's."
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    • But it was fun.
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    • But it was fun.
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    • I mean and I love it.
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    • I mean and I love it.
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    • So I'm happy that. - [Pastor] It's come a
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    • So I'm happy that. - [Pastor] It's come a
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    • - [Pastor] long way huh?
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    • - [Pastor] long way huh?
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    • 00:22:23.070 --> 00:22:24.090
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    • - A long way.
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    • - A long way.
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    • - But you did that.
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    • - But you did that.
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    • Huh, you did that.
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    • Huh, you did that.
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    • People will say, "Look what God has done."
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    • People will say, "Look what God has done."
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    • God has already done everything he's gonna do.
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    • God has already done everything he's gonna do.
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    • And let me let you in on another bit of information.
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    • And let me let you in on another bit of information.
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    • Time has not been given the authority to heal anything.
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    • Time has not been given the authority to heal anything.
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    • "Well we just need to give it time."
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    • "Well we just need to give it time."
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    • Where'd you get that from?
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    • Where'd you get that from?
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    • Time has never been given the authority to heal anything.
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    • Time has never been given the authority to heal anything.
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    • "We just need to take some time."
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    • "We just need to take some time."
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    • It doesn't take time, it takes a choice.
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    • It doesn't take time, it takes a choice.
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    • It takes a choice for you to exercise the authority
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    • It takes a choice for you to exercise the authority
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    • Dr. I.V. Hilliard and I are connected, it took all that time
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    • if in fact both of us would've made a mutual choice.
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    • In spite of the differences that we have encountered
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    • mature individuals who can come together,
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    • who are saturated in the love of God
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    • that's willing to overcome evil with good
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    • and get on with the business of the Body of Christ.
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    • - [DeeDee] Amen.
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    • - Did I say something good?
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    • - Did I say something good?
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    • Well treat me like you do DeeDee.
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    • Well treat me like you do DeeDee.
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    • (audience applauds and cheers)
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    • - [DeeDee] Asked us down here,
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    • - [DeeDee] Asked us down here,
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] what's the most important lesson
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] what's the most important lesson
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    • - [Pastor] you have learned from watching
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    • - [Pastor] you have learned from watching
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    • your parents marriage?
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    • - [Audience member] Everybody got an answer.
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    • - [Audience member] Everybody got an answer.
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] Everybody got an answer.
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] Everybody got an answer.
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    • - [Pastor] Okay. - [DeeDee] They should.
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    • - [Pastor] Okay. - [DeeDee] They should.
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    • - [DeeDee] I think.
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    • - [DeeDee] I think.
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    • - [Male audience member] Start with Josh first.
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    • - [Male audience member] Start with Josh first.
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    • - Huh? (audience laughs)
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    • - Huh? (audience laughs)
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    • Start with Josh.
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    • Start with Josh.
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    • Josh the people love you. - [DeeDee] Keep your mike on.
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    • Josh the people love you. - [DeeDee] Keep your mike on.
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    • - [Pastor] And then we're gonna open the floor up
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    • - [Pastor] And then we're gonna open the floor up
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    • for any questions that you may have cause--
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    • - Man, I still need to.
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    • - Man, I still need to.
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    • Can y'all hear me?
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    • - [Pastor] No, just get a microphone.
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    • - [Pastor] No, just get a microphone.
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    • - Oh there it go.
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    • - Oh there it go.
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    • I still kinda need to think.
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    • I still kinda need to think.
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    • It's a lot of stuff.
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    • I mean it's--
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    • - [DeeDee] I know, cause they didn't know their question.
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    • - [DeeDee] I know, cause they didn't know their question.
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    • - [Pastor] The most important lesson.
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    • - [Pastor] The most important lesson.
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    • - [DeeDee] Yeah.
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    • - [DeeDee] Yeah.
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    • - At this point. - [DeeDee] It's a lot.
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    • - At this point. - [DeeDee] It's a lot.
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    • - [Pastor] I mean I know there's so many.
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    • - [Pastor] I mean I know there's so many.
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    • I've taught you a lot of most important lessons.
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    • I've taught you a lot of most important lessons.
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    • - Are you ready, are y'all ready?
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    • - Are you ready, are y'all ready?
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    • Britney's ready. - [Joshua] And it's not even
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    • Britney's ready. - [Joshua] And it's not even
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    • She could come back. - [Joshua] so many important
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    • She could come back. - [Joshua] so many important
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    • - [Joshua] lessons that they have said out their mouth,
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    • - [Joshua] lessons that they have said out their mouth,
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    • but just how they say more is caught than taught.
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    • Like stuff that you see, you know what to do,
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    • what not to do.
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    • You know, if they didn't tie their shoe when they fell
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    • then that means that you need to tie your
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    • You know, stuff like that.
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    • But other than that I can't really think of one thing
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    • that you have like really said to me,
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    • that kind of stuff with me.
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    • - [DeeDee] Okay, what one thing you may have caught?
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    • - [DeeDee] Okay, what one thing you may have caught?
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    • - [Pastor] That's really relevant or significant
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    • - [Pastor] That's really relevant or significant
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    • to you in your relationship marriage.
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    • - My biggest thing is--
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    • - It had to come from my side.
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    • - It had to come from my side.
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    • You've noticed that - [Joshua] Is to stay calm.
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    • You've noticed that - [Joshua] Is to stay calm.
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    • - [Pastor] I've done a lot of things.
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    • - [Pastor] I've done a lot of things.
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    • - Yeah yeah, I mean but my biggest thing is to stay calm.
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    • - Yeah yeah, I mean but my biggest thing is to stay calm.
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    • Like I've always seen--
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    • - [Pastor] Like your father.
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    • - [Pastor] Like your father.
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    • (audience laughs)
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    • - Now.
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    • - Now.
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] Now.
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    • - [DeeDee and Pastor] Now.
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    • (Audience and Pastor laugh)
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    • - But then I mean you know,
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    • back in the day.
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    • You know he is a spaz artist.
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    • You know what I'm saying?
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    • Like any little thing man.
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    • It can go from zero to 100 real quick.
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    • - In zero seconds.
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    • - In zero seconds.
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