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Overcoming Loneliness and Thinking Through Your Friendship

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July 6, 2019
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In Touch with Dr. Charles Stanley

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Overcoming Loneliness and Thinking Through Your Friendship

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  • - Dr. Charles Stanley: When you
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    • trust the Lord Jesus Christ as
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    • trust the Lord Jesus Christ as
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    • your personal Savior, you have a
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    • your personal Savior, you have a
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    • reason to believe the teaching
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    • reason to believe the teaching
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    • of the Word of God that you will
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    • of the Word of God that you will
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    • never be, listen, alone again.
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    • never be, listen, alone again.
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    • I didn't say you wouldn't be
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    • I didn't say you wouldn't be
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    • lonely.
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    • lonely.
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    • But once you trust Him as your
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    • But once you trust Him as your
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    • Savior, you're never alone again
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    • Savior, you're never alone again
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    • no matter what you go through,
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    • no matter what you go through,
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    • what you experience, what you
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    • what you experience, what you
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    • suffer in life, how good the
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    • suffer in life, how good the
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    • - Dr. Stanley: Four decades
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    • - Dr. Stanley: Four decades
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    • ago, we started In Touch
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    • ago, we started In Touch
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    • Ministries to lead people
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    • Ministries to lead people
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    • worldwide into a growing
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    • worldwide into a growing
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    • relationship with Jesus Christ.
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    • relationship with Jesus Christ.
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    • Throughout the years, we've seen
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    • Throughout the years, we've seen
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    • God's greatness, his love and
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    • God's greatness, his love and
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    • his blessings in such awesome
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    • his blessings in such awesome
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    • ways that we just want everyone
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    • ways that we just want everyone
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    • to know him.
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    • to know him.
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    • So, let's open God's
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    • So, let's open God's
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    • - male announcer: Next on
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    • - male announcer: Next on
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    • "In Touch,"
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    • "In Touch,"
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    • Oh, blessed assurance, Jesus
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    • Oh, blessed assurance, Jesus
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    • is mine.
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    • is mine.
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    • And O what a foretaste of
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    • And O what a foretaste of
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    • glory divine.
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    • glory divine.
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    • Heir of salvation, purchase
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    • Heir of salvation, purchase
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    • of God.
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    • of God.
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    • - Rodney Brooks: Born of His
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    • - Rodney Brooks: Born of His
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    • Spirit.
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    • Spirit.
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    • Born of His Spirit,
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    • Born of His Spirit,
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    • washed in His blood.
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    • washed in His blood.
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    • Oh, this is my story, this
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    • Oh, this is my story, this
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    • is my song.
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    • is my song.
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • the day long.
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    • the day long.
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    • This is my story, oh, this
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    • This is my story, oh, this
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    • is my song.
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    • is my song.
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    • Praising my Savior all the
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    • Praising my Savior all the
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    • day long.
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    • day long.
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    • Perfect submission, perfect
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    • Perfect submission, perfect
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    • delight.
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    • delight.
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    • Visions of rapture now burst
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    • Visions of rapture now burst
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    • on my sight.
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    • on my sight.
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    • Angels descending bring from
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    • Angels descending bring from
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    • above.
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    • above.
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    • - Rodney: Echoes of mercy.
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    • - Rodney: Echoes of mercy.
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    • Echoes of mercy, whispers
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    • Echoes of mercy, whispers
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    • of love.
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    • of love.
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    • Perfect submission, all is
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    • Perfect submission, all is
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    • at rest.
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    • at rest.
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    • Well, I in my Savior am
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    • Well, I in my Savior am
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    • happy and blessed.
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    • happy and blessed.
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    • - Rodney: Are you watching?
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    • - Rodney: Are you watching?
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    • Watching and waiting, oh,
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    • Watching and waiting, oh,
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    • looking above.
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    • looking above.
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    • I'm filled with His
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    • I'm filled with His
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    • goodness.
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    • goodness.
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    • And lost in His love.
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    • And lost in His love.
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    • This is my story, this is my
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    • This is my story, this is my
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    • song.
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • the day long.
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    • the day long.
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    • This is my story,
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    • This is my story,
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    • this is my song.
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    • this is my song.
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    • Praising my Savior all
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    • Praising my Savior all
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    • the day long.
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    • the day long.
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    • Oh, this is my story, oh,
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    • Oh, this is my story, oh,
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    • this is my song.
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    • this is my song.
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • I'm praising my Savior all
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    • the day long.
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    • the day long.
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    • This is my story, this is my
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    • This is my story, this is my
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    • song.
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    • song.
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    • Praising my Savior all the
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    • Praising my Savior all the
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    • - Rodney: Oh, praise him
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    • - Rodney: Oh, praise him
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    • - Dr. Charles Stanley: Lonely
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    • - Dr. Charles Stanley: Lonely
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    • people are unhappy people.
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    • people are unhappy people.
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    • They feel insecure, feel
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    • inadequate; they feel restless.
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    • inadequate; they feel restless.
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    • Oftentimes they feel confused
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    • and they tend to waste time
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    • because of feeling lonely,
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    • because of feeling lonely,
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    • because their mind is divided.
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    • because their mind is divided.
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    • And when I think about their
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    • responses and how they operate
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    • responses and how they operate
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    • based on that, they waste
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    • based on that, they waste
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    • a lot of time.
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    • And a person's lonely, it's hard
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    • And a person's lonely, it's hard
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    • for them to concentrate.
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    • twenty eight: "Come to Me,
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    • God where are You?
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    • Savior, you're never alone again
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    • Is this the way I want to spend
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    • but what?
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    • Christ, here's what happens.
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    • the very source of life and
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    • will be our very best friend,
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    • a moment, more with Dr. Charles
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    • while making lasting friendships
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    • - Dr. Charles Stanley: The Lord
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    • friendship.
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    • When everybody else walks away
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    • That's the kind of friend I want
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    • to be and that's the kind of
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    • friend I'd like to have.
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    • And Father, we thank You and
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    • And Father, we thank You and
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    • praise You today for Your loving
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    • You put up with a lot.
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    • You provide us everything.
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    • And You're so generous to us.
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    • And we ask today that You'd
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    • desire to be the kind of friend
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    • so many people need.
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    • You've brought us from
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    • multitudes of places, different
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    • backgrounds, but You've
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    • surrounded all of us with
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    • surrounded all of us with
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    • different people, many of whom
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    • need a friend.
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    • need a friend.
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    • Teach us how to be a godly
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    • Teach us how to be a godly
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    • friend, that being our friend
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    • friend, that being our friend
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    • will draw them closer to You is
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    • will draw them closer to You is
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    • our prayer in Jesus's name,
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    • our prayer in Jesus's name,
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    • - announcer: If you've been
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    • - announcer: If you've been
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    • blessed by today's program,
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    • blessed by today's program,
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    • - Dr. Stanley: His voice waits
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    • - Dr. Stanley: His voice waits
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    • to be heard; and having heard
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    • to be heard; and having heard
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    • it, we are launched into the
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    • greatest, most exciting
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    • greatest, most exciting
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    • - male: --algorithm to the
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    • - male: --algorithm to the
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    • Eleven point six verses per day.
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    • Eleven point six verses per day.
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    • And that's how you read through
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    • And that's how you read through
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    • the Bible in a year.
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    • the Bible in a year.
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    • What do you think?
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    • What do you think?
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    • - female announcer: Make
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    • - female announcer: Make
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    • reading through the Bible in a
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    • year easy and rewarding with
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    • year easy and rewarding with
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    • "The Charles F. Stanley Life
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    • "The Charles F. Stanley Life
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    • - Dr. Charles Stanley: Do you
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    • - Dr. Charles Stanley: Do you
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    • make decisions based on whether
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    • you'll be accepted or rejected?
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    • you'll be accepted or rejected?
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    • Or do you respond to God's
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    • Or do you respond to God's
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    • commands in your life according
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    • to what you know God teaches in
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    • His Word?
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    • His Word?
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    • It takes courage to be obedient
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    • It takes courage to be obedient
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    • to God.
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    • - male announcer: Dr. Charles
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    • - male announcer: Dr. Charles
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    • Stanley shares his personal
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    • Stanley shares his personal
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    • journey of living by faith:
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    • "Courageous Faith: My Story From
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    • "Courageous Faith: My Story From
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    • - announcer: "In Touch,"
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    • - announcer: "In Touch,"
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    • Leading people
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    • Leading people
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    • worldwide into a growing
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    • worldwide into a growing
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    • relationship with Jesus Christ
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    • and strengthening the local
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    • church.
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    • possible by the grace of God and
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