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November 22, 2016
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  • - Bobbie Houston: The story of
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    • - Bobbie Houston: The story of
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    • our Sisterhood is the story
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    • our Sisterhood is the story
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    • of us.
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    • of us.
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    • It is this gorgeous tapestry
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    • It is this gorgeous tapestry
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    • of lives interwoven
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    • of lives interwoven
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    • as followers of Jesus Christ.
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    • as followers of Jesus Christ.
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    • You have permission to rise up
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    • You have permission to rise up
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    • and be who God has called you
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    • and be who God has called you
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    • to be.
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    • to be.
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    • The beauty of the gospel
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    • The beauty of the gospel
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    • is the mystery.
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    • is the mystery.
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    • God the Father chose
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    • God the Father chose
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    • not to abandon us.
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    • not to abandon us.
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    • People are lost in the fields.
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    • People are lost in the fields.
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    • And right now, girls,
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    • And right now, girls,
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    • the fields are calling us.
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    • the fields are calling us.
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    • - Bobbie: So without doubt,
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    • - Bobbie: So without doubt,
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    • God is calling the entire planet
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    • God is calling the entire planet
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    • homeward, men and women,
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    • homeward, men and women,
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    • young people, children,
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    • young people, children,
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    • everyone together, amen?
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    • everyone together, amen?
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    • And you know what?
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    • And you know what?
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    • I really felt, I felt God prompt
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    • I really felt, I felt God prompt
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    • me.
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    • me.
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    • He prompted me about the sons.
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    • He prompted me about the sons.
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    • He prompted me about the men.
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    • He prompted me about the men.
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    • And he dropped, he said,
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    • And he dropped, he said,
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    • "I want you to do this session,"
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    • "I want you to do this session,"
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    • that we, as women,
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    • that we, as women,
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    • can live with greater insight
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    • can live with greater insight
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    • into the hearts and the lives,
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    • into the hearts and the lives,
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    • and sometimes the complexities,
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    • and sometimes the complexities,
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    • and the challenges,
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    • and the challenges,
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    • and the wonder of the men
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    • and the wonder of the men
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    • - Brian Houston: I do wanna
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    • - Brian Houston: I do wanna
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    • talk to you about men.
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    • talk to you about men.
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    • There are a lot of women here
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    • There are a lot of women here
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    • who, perhaps, do have a man in
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    • who, perhaps, do have a man in
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    • your life, or had, at some point
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    • your life, or had, at some point
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    • had a man in your life,
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    • had a man in your life,
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    • or are believing one day
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    • or are believing one day
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    • to have a man in your life,
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    • to have a man in your life,
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    • or will never, ever allow
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    • or will never, ever allow
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    • another man in your life again.
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    • another man in your life again.
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    • But I wanna talk in particular
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    • But I wanna talk in particular
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    • about men's happiness.
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    • about men's happiness.
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    • The Apostle Paul said,
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    • The Apostle Paul said,
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    • Acts 26, verse 2:
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    • Acts 26, verse 2:
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    • "I think myself happy."
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    • "I think myself happy."
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    • I'm sure that men,
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    • I'm sure that men,
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    • women as well,
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    • women as well,
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    • can think themselves happy,
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    • can think themselves happy,
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    • or can think themselves unhappy.
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    • or can think themselves unhappy.
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    • But I do know that
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    • But I do know that
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    • fundamentally, a lot of men
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    • fundamentally, a lot of men
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    • are just not happy.
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    • are just not happy.
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    • Now, that's obviously
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    • Now, that's obviously
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    • not all men.
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    • not all men.
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    • Many men are happy too,
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    • Many men are happy too,
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    • and contented.
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    • and contented.
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    • But there may be men
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    • But there may be men
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    • in people's lives here
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    • in people's lives here
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    • who are just not happy.
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    • who are just not happy.
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    • And of course, as a wife,
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    • And of course, as a wife,
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    • or somebody who loves a guy,
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    • or somebody who loves a guy,
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    • that's hard for you to carry
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    • that's hard for you to carry
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    • because you can feel helpless.
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    • because you can feel helpless.
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    • You can feel like there's
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    • You can feel like there's
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    • not a whole lot you can do
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    • not a whole lot you can do
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    • about it.
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    • about it.
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    • Then there's what Job said.
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    • Then there's what Job said.
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    • It's Job chapter 7, verse 7,
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    • It's Job chapter 7, verse 7,
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    • Job said: "'O God,
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    • Job said: "'O God,
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    • remember that my life
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    • remember that my life
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    • is but a breath.
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    • is but a breath.
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    • And I will never again feel
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    • And I will never again feel
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    • happiness.'"
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    • happiness.'"
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    • In Job chapter 9, verse 25
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    • In Job chapter 9, verse 25
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    • Job said: "'My life passes
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    • Job said: "'My life passes
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    • away more swiftly than a runner.
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    • away more swiftly than a runner.
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    • It flees away without a glimpse
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    • It flees away without a glimpse
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    • of happiness.'"
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    • of happiness.'"
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    • Job got to the point where
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    • Job got to the point where
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    • he believed he could never
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    • he believed he could never
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    • be happy again.
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    • be happy again.
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    • I don't think a lot of people
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    • I don't think a lot of people
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    • understand just how many men
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    • understand just how many men
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    • are not completely fulfilled,
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    • are not completely fulfilled,
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    • are empty, or just not happy.
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    • are empty, or just not happy.
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    • Because men, for a start,
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    • Because men, for a start,
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    • can be emotional closed books.
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    • can be emotional closed books.
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    • And then secondly,
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    • And then secondly,
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    • can try to portray
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    • can try to portray
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    • that I'm whole, and I'm healed,
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    • that I'm whole, and I'm healed,
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    • and on the inside I feel strong.
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    • "What about me?"
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    • That's living your life
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    • I was talking to Joyce Meyer
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    • Joyce Meyer, for anyone who's
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    • never had the opportunity
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    • to talk to her personally,
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    • is when she speaks to thousands.
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    • Kinda scary in the most amazing,
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    • beautiful way.
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    • her the best possible question.
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    • I said, "Joyce, do you ever
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    • And she just looked at me like
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    • it was the most stupid question
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    • I just try to help people."
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    • "What an amazing answer."
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    • "What an amazing answer."
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    • That's living your life
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    • That's living your life
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    • from the inside out.
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    • "I don't think about myself
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    • I just try to help people."
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    • I just try to help people."
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    • And I think for every one of us,
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    • we know how to live our lives
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    • it will make all the difference.
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    • The Word of God can redeem
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    • The Word of God can redeem
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    • I believe God's Word working
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    • build happiness into your life.
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    • and God can bring deliverance,
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    • let's just learn to live
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    • let's just learn to live
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    • to live his life outwardly, but
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    • I'd tell him to live his life
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    • worshipfully.
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    • worshipfully.
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    • Let me confess somethin'
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    • Maybe I'm an Aussie bloke.
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    • It always to me like praise,
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    • It always to me like praise,
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    • that's a man's thing.
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    • Ooh, we praise.
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    • it's a little more feminine.
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    • there is something about
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    • of your presence, Lord."
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    • King Jesus, let's believe God
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    • Just havin' some fun.
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    • fighting my partners at work.
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    • Do you know something?
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    • the best for our marriage.
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    • for our children.
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    • Children feel that tension
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    • we bring it back to ourselves,
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    • unhappiness in the home.
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    • have the grace to live our lives
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    • where it's not about me.
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    • that fulfillment,
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    • come when you learn
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    • how to live in a releasing way.
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    • Bobbie and I have been able
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    • life, number one, because our
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    • children have always been so
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    • our church has also been
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    • so releasing.
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    • are so generous when it comes
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    • reasons why Hillsong Church
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    • has always been blessed.
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    • who are so outward in their
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    • approach to the way we are able
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    • knowing the greater calling
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    • that's on our house.
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    • Let's live our lives peaceably.
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    • "For the Scripture says,
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    • 'If you want to enjoy life
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    • and see many happy days,
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    • and work to maintain it.'"
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    • but in particular, in our home,
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    • seek the peace.
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    • "Pursue peace with all people,
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    • and holiness,
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    • without which no one will see
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    • the Lord: looking carefully
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    • the Lord: looking carefully
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    • lest anyone fall short
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    • of the grace of God;
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    • springing up cause trouble, and
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    • by this many become defiled."
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    • Roots of bitterness often start
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    • because we never learned
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    • the power of pursuing peace,
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    • and the power of keeping tension
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    • out of our home.
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    • I'm never, ever judgmental
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    • bedroom as my brother.
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    • And when we were 14, we
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    • made different choices in life.
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    • And I don't think there's
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    • anything different at all about
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    • anything different at all about
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    • the way my parents parented
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    • either of us.
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    • So I never, ever judge anyone,
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    • but I do know this.
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    • I do know that if we live our
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    • lives where just, even church
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    • lives where just, even church
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    • life, for those that are heavily
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    • involved in church, and some of
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    • the politicking that goes with
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    • the politicking that goes with
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    • that, and some of the fights
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    • that, and some of the fights
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    • that can be happening
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    • or some of the stuff,
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    • if you let that infiltrate
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    • your home, then those who
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    • love you more than you ever,
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    • love you more than you ever,
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    • you never wanna build
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    • a scenario, ever,
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    • where you talk about church time
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    • and make the two almost enemies.
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    • Love God's house.
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    • Love the people in your world.
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    • Just keep loving them.
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    • But whatever you do, avoid
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    • allowing a root of bitterness by
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    • allowing a root of bitterness by
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    • not pursuing peace to come into
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    • your family and into your home.
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    • Because children's eternity
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    • can depend on it.
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    • I don't want to be overdramatic,
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    • but children's eternity can
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    • depend on keeping bitterness out
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    • depend on keeping bitterness out
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    • of the fundamentals in your
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    • marriage, in your relationship,
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    • in your home.
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    • with pastors, and churches, and
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    • the Bible tells us
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    • it's going to happen.
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    • it will cause trouble
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    • and it will trouble to marriages
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    • and trouble to home.
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    • out of a root of bitterness,
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    • have made decisions they thought
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    • was gonna hurt a pastor,
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    • but it ends up hurting their own
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    • life, and their own family.
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    • And ultimately, it ends up
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    • hurting their own children, and
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    • hurting their own children, and
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    • became a root which bore fruit.
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    • I'd love everyone to stand right
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    • now for one moment.
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    • I do pray for happiness
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    • in your own soul.
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    • in your own soul.
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    • So, Lord, I just pray for every
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    • So, Lord, I just pray for every
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    • one of these women.
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    • one of these women.
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    • I don't know anything about the
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    • huge majority of them's family,
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    • huge majority of them's family,
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    • relational world, their homes,
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    • relational world, their homes,
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    • perhaps past divorce,
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    • perhaps past divorce,
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    • and living now on their own.
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    • and living now on their own.
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    • Or perhaps, Lord,
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    • Or perhaps, Lord,
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    • a marriage that's in huge
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    • a marriage that's in huge
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    • trouble right now.
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    • trouble right now.
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    • Perhaps they live with
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    • Perhaps they live with
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    • a very happy, fulfilled man.
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    • a very happy, fulfilled man.
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    • Lord, wherever they're
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    • Lord, wherever they're
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    • at, I just pray
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    • at, I just pray
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    • that you'll give them grace.
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    • that you'll give them grace.
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    • I pray that you'll give them
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    • I pray that you'll give them
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    • strength.
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    • strength.
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    • I pray you'll give them little
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    • I pray you'll give them little
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    • keys to unlock the happiness
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    • keys to unlock the happiness
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    • in the people around
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    • in the people around
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    • and about them.
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    • and about them.
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    • Lord, I pray that each and every
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    • Lord, I pray that each and every
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    • one of us can live our lives
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    • one of us can live our lives
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    • from the inside out, Lord,
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    • from the inside out, Lord,
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    • rather than allowing
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    • rather than allowing
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    • the outside, people's attitudes,
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    • the outside, people's attitudes,
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    • and people's thinking,
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    • and people's thinking,
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    • and people's meanness
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    • and people's meanness
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    • to frame our inside.
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    • to frame our inside.
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    • Lord, I just ask right now
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    • Lord, I just ask right now
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    • for happiness to settle
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    • for happiness to settle
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    • into marriages.
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    • into marriages.
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    • I pray there will be miracles
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    • I pray there will be miracles
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    • and testimonies
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    • and testimonies
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    • in relationships.
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    • in relationships.
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    • I pray for the miracle inside
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    • I pray for the miracle inside
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    • the hearts and souls of men,
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    • the hearts and souls of men,
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    • that you will bring them
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    • that you will bring them
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    • to a point of great happiness,
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    • to a point of great happiness,
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    • Father, where they truly can
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    • Father, where they truly can
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    • worship you in spirit and truth,
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    • worship you in spirit and truth,
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    • where they do know how to live
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    • where they do know how to live
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    • their lives peaceably,
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    • their lives peaceably,
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    • where they do become men of God
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    • where they do become men of God
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    • and men of prayer.
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    • and men of prayer.
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    • Father, help us to support
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    • Father, help us to support
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    • the men in our world, I pray.
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    • the men in our world, I pray.
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    • And as a fruit of that, I pray,
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    • And as a fruit of that, I pray,
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    • Father, that every woman here,
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    • Father, that every woman here,
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    • that they will see you
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    • that they will see you
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    • fulfilling their own inner need,
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    • fulfilling their own inner need,
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    • and their own inner emptiness
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    • and their own inner emptiness
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    • and void.
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    • and void.
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    • Lord, I thank you
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    • Lord, I thank you
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    • you're a Healer.
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    • you're a Healer.
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    • You're not a destroyer.
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    • You're not a destroyer.
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    • Lord, I thank you that you
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    • Lord, I thank you that you
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    • save the world.
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    • save the world.
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    • You didn't come to condemn
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    • You didn't come to condemn
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    • the world.
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    • the world.
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    • If you wanted to condemn
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    • If you wanted to condemn
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    • the world, you would've sent
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    • the world, you would've sent
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    • a condemner.
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    • a condemner.
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    • But you didn't you wanted
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    • But you didn't you wanted
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    • 00:37:38.110 --> 00:37:39.070
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    • to save the world so that, Lord,
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    • to save the world so that, Lord,
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    • you sent a Savior.
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    • you sent a Savior.
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    • But, Lord, I pray that only,
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    • But, Lord, I pray that only,
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    • not only our souls,
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    • not only our souls,
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    • but our marriages,
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    • but our marriages,
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    • and our relationships,
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    • and our relationships,
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    • and our homes,
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    • and our homes,
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    • I pray for the power
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    • I pray for the power
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    • 00:37:48.140 --> 00:37:49.170
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    • of the Savior, Lord,
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    • of the Savior, Lord,
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    • to save disasters,
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    • to save disasters,
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    • to save things that
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    • to save things that
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    • will bring division and strife,
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    • will bring division and strife,
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    • 00:37:54.080 --> 00:37:56.050
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    • and to bring the promise
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    • and to bring the promise
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    • and the power of God.
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    • and the power of God.
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    • 00:37:57.260 --> 00:37:59.070
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    • We give you the praise.
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    • We give you the praise.
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    • 00:37:59.070 --> 00:38:00.090
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    • We give you the glory.
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    • We give you the glory.
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    • We thank you for it,
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    • We thank you for it,
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    • 00:38:01.040 --> 00:38:02.070
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    • - Bobbie: I'm gonna invite,
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    • - Bobbie: I'm gonna invite,
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    • Brian is gonna come back up
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    • Brian is gonna come back up
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    • here with some of the brothers,
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    • here with some of the brothers,
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    • some of the men and sons in the
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    • some of the men and sons in the
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    • house, and he's gonna lead us
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    • house, and he's gonna lead us
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    • in a conversation.
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    • in a conversation.
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    • - Brian: For me to be doing
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    • - Brian: For me to be doing
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    • what I do because of the
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    • what I do because of the
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    • encouragement of Bobbie.
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    • encouragement of Bobbie.
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    • 00:38:21.030 --> 00:38:23.120
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    • - Carl Lentz: Guys are tryin'.
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    • - Carl Lentz: Guys are tryin'.
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    • I think sometimes guys
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    • I think sometimes guys
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    • are the hardest on themselves.
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    • are the hardest on themselves.
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    • - Ben Houston: And we're good
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    • - Ben Houston: And we're good
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    • at acting like we're,
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    • we are those superheroes.
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    • And then you married a man, and
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    • then we become that lazy slob.
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    • then we become that lazy slob.
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    • You can lose, kinda, belief.
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    • - Bobbie: Proverbs 31 says:
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    • "A capable, intelligent,
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    • and virtuous woman,
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    • who is he who can find her?"
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    • who is he who can find her?"
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    • So you know what?
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    • I honor this one here
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    • I honor this one here
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    • because he's one of those hes.
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    • He has found me.
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    • He has found, he has found us.
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    • and leader, and apostolic,
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    • actually, voice, who has made
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    • a way.
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    • a way.
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    • I love that.
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    • I love that.
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    • "Who is he who can find her?"
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    • "Who is he who can find her?"
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    • But we can't happen on our own.
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    • We're in partnership together,
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    • We're in partnership together,
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    • right?
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    • right?
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    • I wanna flick the verse,
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    • I wanna flick the verse,
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    • and I wanna suggest today,
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    • and I wanna suggest today,
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    • "A capable, intelligent,
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    • "A capable, intelligent,
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    • and virtuous man,
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    • and virtuous man,
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    • who is she who can find him?"
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    • who is she who can find him?"
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    • All right?
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    • All right?
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    • And we all have men
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    • And we all have men
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    • in our lives, different ways,
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    • in our lives, different ways,
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    • and so I think it's inherent,
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    • I think the Father would love
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    • I think the Father would love
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    • us to be insightful,
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    • us to be insightful,
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    • and to approach it
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    • with different eyes, amen?
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    • with different eyes, amen?
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    • Beautiful.
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    • Beautiful.
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    • - Brian: All right, well,
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    • - Brian: All right, well,
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    • so we do have a great, fine,
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    • so we do have a great, fine,
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    • bunch of men,
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    • all different age groups,
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    • all within some form
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    • of leadership here.
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    • In fact, all pastors, leading
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    • and pastoring somewhere in life.
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    • and pastoring somewhere in life.
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    • I think if I was to be very
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    • quick, most know
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    • quick, most know
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    • Robert Fergusson.
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    • He's the teaching pastor in
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    • our church along with his wife,
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    • Amanda.
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    • really helps the younger pastors
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    • in our team and staff in terms
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    • and gives them incredible keys
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    • and gives them incredible keys
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    • at what they do.
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    • That's only a part of what
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    • Robert does.
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    • Robert does.
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    • He also just basically walks
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    • Very loved in our church.
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    • Very respected, highly honored,
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    • highly loved in our church.
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    • And then, of course,
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    • Joel A'Bell.
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    • Joel A'Bell.
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    • Joel is my right hand.
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    • Joel is my right hand.
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    • He is lead pastor
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    • and as such, carries so much.
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    • He's the person I was talking
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    • about who really carries so much
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    • about who really carries so much
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    • I turned to Bobbie,
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    • driving to church
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    • "Look at all that Joel
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    • "Look at all that Joel
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    • and Julia do, and all that
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    • and Julia do, and all that
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    • we're still doing."
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    • in those days, I used to lead
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    • in those days, I used to lead
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    • our denomination as well.
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    • our denomination as well.
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    • I said, "I just don't know how
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    • we were doing all that stuff."
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    • Well, I guess tonight, this
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    • Well, I guess tonight, this
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    • afternoon, people found out,
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    • afternoon, people found out,
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    • not very well.
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    • Gary Clarke, my best friend,
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    • second best friend.
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    • This is my best friend.
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    • This is my best friend.
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    • That's my second best friend.
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    • That's my second best friend.
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    • Has lived with me through
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    • Has lived with me through
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    • some of the emotional things
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    • some of the emotional things
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    • I talked about today.
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    • I talked about today.
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    • And also, is like a rock,
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    • And also, is like a rock,
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    • helping me.
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    • helping me.
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    • But he's an incredible
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    • lead pastor.
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    • lead pastor.
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    • He and his wife, Cathy, are,
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    • He and his wife, Cathy, are,
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    • in our lives they're like gold.
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    • in our lives they're like gold.
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    • We're so grateful to them.
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    • We're so grateful to them.
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    • He's a wise man.
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    • He's a wise man.
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    • Ben Houston, Lead Pastor
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    • Ben Houston, Lead Pastor
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    • Hillsong Los Angeles,
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    • got his father's good looks,
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    • though he does look strangely
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    • though he does look strangely
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    • like his mum, I think,
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    • with that Polynesian skin.
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    • No, he's a great guy.
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    • No, he's a great guy.
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    • And he's a man of God.
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    • And he's a man of God.
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    • He's always had a soft heart.
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    • He's always been a people lover,
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    • He's always been a people lover,
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    • even as a high school boy.
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    • even as a high school boy.
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    • doin' so well himself with his
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    • doin' so well himself with his
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    • relationship with God he cared
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    • relationship with God he cared
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    • about the eternity of his
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    • about the eternity of his
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    • friends, always had a passion
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    • friends, always had a passion
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    • to see people saved.
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    • to see people saved.
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    • And now we're seein'
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    • And now we're seein'
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    • the fruit of that in LA.
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    • the fruit of that in LA.
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    • Carl Lentz.
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    • My prayer life has increased
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    • My prayer life has increased
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    • greatly because of Carl.
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    • greatly because of Carl.
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    • What God's put on his life,
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    • the way God has graced him to,
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    • the way God has graced him to,
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    • basically, whether it is the
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    • famous or the faceless,
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    • famous or the faceless,
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    • with people in a way where
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    • they respond to him,
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    • it's not natural.
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    • It's supernatural.
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    • God's put a grace on his life.
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    • God's put a grace on his life.
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    • And again, his heart
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    • and his passion for people
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    • and his passion for people
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    • is his greatest gift.
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    • is his greatest gift.
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    • He's a brilliant communicator at
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    • He's a brilliant communicator at
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    • every level, from individually
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    • every level, from individually
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    • to a big stage like this stage.
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    • And I'm actually super grateful
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    • And I'm actually super grateful
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    • we've got those guys
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    • we've got those guys
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    • in the world.
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    • Joel Houston, Joel is not only
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    • Joel Houston, Joel is not only
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    • our son, our eldest son,
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    • our son, our eldest son,
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    • he's a wise man.
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    • he's a wise man.
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    • And a lot of people maybe don't
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    • get the opportunity to see the
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    • wisdom that flows out of Joel.
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    • wisdom that flows out of Joel.
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    • And it's been great, like
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    • And it's been great, like
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    • everyone, to see him blossom and
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    • everyone, to see him blossom and
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    • emerge, and even in the last
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    • emerge, and even in the last
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    • 3 or 4 years to see
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    • 3 or 4 years to see
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    • what God's been doing
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    • what God's been doing
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    • in Joel's life.
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    • in Joel's life.
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    • But I'm immensely proud of Joel.
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    • But I'm immensely proud of Joel.
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    • Okay, we're gonna talk about
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    • Okay, we're gonna talk about
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    • men.
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    • So here goes the conversation.
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    • So here goes the conversation.
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    • Carl, let me start with you.
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    • Carl, let me start with you.
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    • I talked about Aussie men and
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    • I talked about Aussie men and
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    • mateship, Aussie mateship, which
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    • mateship, Aussie mateship, which
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    • I think's one of the strong
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    • I think's one of the strong
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    • things about our culture,
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    • things about our culture,
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    • but it does have a funny code
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    • but it does have a funny code
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    • to it.
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    • You love your mates.
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    • That part would be true
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    • That part would be true
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    • internationally.
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    • You love your buddies.
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    • "Mates" is such a better word
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    • "Mates" is such a better word
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    • than "buddies."
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    • rat on your mates.
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    • rat on your mates.
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    • You never squeal on your mate.
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    • You never tell on a mate.
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    • Number three, you'll always
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    • Number three, you'll always
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    • stand up for your mate.
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    • stand up for your mate.
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    • Am I your mate?
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    • - Brian: Of course you are.
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    • - Gary Clarke: Robert.
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    • of God's love, which we are
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    • enjoying and understanding here,
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    • that would make a world
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    • that would make a world
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    • of difference in our families.
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    • - Brian: Well, I think
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    • - Brian: Well, I think
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    • your answer's profound.
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    • And I was thinking,
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    • I was actually thinking
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    • 'cause sometimes you think,
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    • "I wish I could put more tools
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    • "I wish I could put more tools
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    • in people's hands to help them
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    • to help their men."
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    • But love never fails.
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    • And I think sometimes we can
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    • feel so feeble, praying for
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    • someone and just loving someone.
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    • But love never fails.
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    • But love never fails.
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    • Would you add anything, Gary,
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    • Would you add anything, Gary,
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    • when it comes to the heart,
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    • the deep heart cry of men?
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    • the deep heart cry of men?
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    • - Gary: I think everyone wants
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    • - Gary: I think everyone wants
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    • that sense of unconditional
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    • acceptance.
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    • And you touched on it when
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    • you were speaking, just how much
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    • they put onto themselves,
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    • they put onto themselves,
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    • society puts on men, whatever,
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    • and it's all based on a
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    • performance acceptance.
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    • And I think, at base level,
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    • everybody just wants to
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    • be unconditionally loved.
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    • - Brian: That's true.
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    • - Brian: That's true.
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    • - Joel Houston: The exact same
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    • - Joel Houston: The exact same
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    • thing, I think, is just,
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    • thing, I think, is just,
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    • I think about the word "value."
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    • I don't know.
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    • what feeling valued, like,
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    • I am just sayin' as a, like,
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    • I've never had too much--when
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    • I was a kid, I was super, super
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    • insecure.
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    • insecurities my whole life.
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    • insecurities my whole life.
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    • But the one thing that I've
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    • learnt in the last few years of
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    • just being married is I didn't
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    • realize how much I needed value
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    • from a partner, a wife,
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    • you know?
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    • And so I think that's something
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    • that, it's love,
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    • it's acceptance,
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    • it's all of those things.
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    • But I think everybody searches
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    • for value, and then they need to
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    • - Carl: Encouragement never
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    • - Carl: Encouragement never
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    • goes out of style.
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    • You gotta go home and maybe
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    • find just something to find
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    • in your husband or your man
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    • that you wanna encourage.
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    • Because nothing is like
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    • you love the most.
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    • I've never sat in a marriage
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    • couples yell, like,
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    • you know?
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    • "I can't stand him."
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    • - Brian: No one knows more
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    • - Brian: No one knows more
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    • So we've got our whole lives
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    • to work this out, you know?
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    • situation, and it's gonna bite
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    • you in the butt, girls.
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    • - Ben: If I can,
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    • I'd like to add--
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    • - Gary: This is like marriage
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    • it's my parents talking.
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    • - Gary: [laughing]
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    • - Ben: If I could add
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    • two things to that.
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    • You know, things that, like your
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    • question, unlock the potential
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    • question, unlock the potential
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    • in a man.
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    • I would say belief and trust,
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    • belief and trust.
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    • And I think they're two things
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    • that men can often break easily.
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    • that men can often break easily.
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    • We are good at breaking trust,
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    • and we're good at acting like
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    • And then you married a man, and
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    • then we become that lazy slob.
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    • then we become that lazy slob.
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    • You can lose, kinda, belief.
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    • But I think if we're to speak
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    • to the incredible women that are
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    • to the incredible women that are
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    • here today, and talking about
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    • here today, and talking about
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    • unlocking that potential that's
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    • unlocking that potential that's
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    • in a man, it's to do those
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    • in a man, it's to do those
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    • two things, you know,
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    • believe in your man,
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    • and to learn to trust your man.
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    • and to learn to trust your man.
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    • I think they're two pretty
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    • powerful things.
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    • powerful things.
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    • - Carl: I would add, I think,
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    • - Carl: I would add, I think,
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    • encouragement.
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    • encouragement.
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    • Encouragement never goes
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    • out of style.
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    • And I think that when you
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    • you often see in church,
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    • it's super encouraging.
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    • And then I think there's a gap
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    • husband to be and who he is.
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    • And I think you leave a
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    • conference like this
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    • and you gotta go home
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    • and you gotta go home
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    • and maybe find just something
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    • to find in your husband
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    • to find in your husband
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    • or your man that you wanna
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    • encourage.
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    • Because nothing is like
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    • Because nothing is like
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    • the encouragement of the ones
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    • you love the most.
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    • I've never sat in a marriage
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    • counseling meeting
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    • and seen couples yell,
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    • and seen couples yell,
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    • you know?
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    • "I can't stand him."
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    • And I think there's a,
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    • if you can even start small,
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    • if you can even start small,
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    • just to find something.
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    • The encouragement of the one
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    • you love the most, 'cause guys
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    • are tryin'.
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    • I think sometimes guys
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    • are the hardest on themselves.
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    • And the longer you're married,
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    • the more you start seein'
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    • the cracks rather than celebrate
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    • even the small wins.
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    • And I think if you,
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    • especially if your husband isn't
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    • a Christian, or doesn't know
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    • a Christian, or doesn't know
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    • Jesus, just to find the little
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    • bit of sun there might be,
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    • little bit of rays of light goes
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    • a long way.
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    • - Brian: Cool.
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    • - Brian: Cool.
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    • - Robert: Can I just pick up
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    • - Robert: Can I just pick up
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    • on something that Ben said?
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    • on something that Ben said?
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    • Obviously, men are desperate
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    • Obviously, men are desperate
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    • to be affirmed.
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    • They're desperate
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    • to be encouraged.
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    • They're desperate
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    • to be respected.
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    • But "trust" is a really
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    • interesting word because
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    • "Well, I can't trust my husband.
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    • He's untrustworthy."
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    • They've proved themselves
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    • But if you look
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    • it says: "Love trusts."
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    • encourage people in this room.
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    • world, just be brave,
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    • Because it will release them
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    • to be someone different.
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    • to be someone different.
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    • - Brian: Just takin' it back
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    • - Brian: Just takin' it back
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    • to encouragement for a second,
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    • I need a lot of encouragement.
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    • I need a lot of encouragement.
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    • Everyone needs encouragement.
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    • Everyone needs encouragement.
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    • And you can assume no one,
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    • you can assume that some people
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    • One, you can assume that some
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    • encouragement
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    • 'cause they're so confident.
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    • you can assume they get
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    • a lot of encouragement.
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    • a lot of encouragement.
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    • 'Cause sometimes they don't.
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    • And so I'm big on encouragement.
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    • I've had over the years
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    • who's a pastor,
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    • who's a pastor,
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    • and gets up from preaching.
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    • over what he said.
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    • - Gary: And he's still
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    • - Gary: And he's still
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    • - Brian: Yeah, he is.
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    • And he's in your country.
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    • shouts it out to him while
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    • Well, I couldn't even tell you
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    • do, because of the encouragement
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    • do, because of the encouragement
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    • of Bobbie, and the constant
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    • encouragement.
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    • encouragement.
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    • I know that when I get down,
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    • if she can't encourage me about
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    • all of these things, she'll find
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    • all of these things, she'll find
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    • somethin' she can encourage
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    • me with.
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    • me with.
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    • And so encouragement
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    • is a massive thing.
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    • is a massive thing.
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    • And never assume that, no,
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    • that anyone in your family
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    • that anyone in your family
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    • doesn't need encouragement,
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    • doesn't need encouragement,
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    • - Joel Houston: I've seen
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    • - Joel Houston: I've seen
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    • so many friends do it over
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    • so many friends do it over
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    • the years, men and women,
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    • the years, men and women,
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    • step off their rock
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    • and end up sinking in the sand
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    • and end up sinking in the sand
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    • or in their relationship.
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    • And if you know what your rock
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    • is, and you trust it, and you
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    • understand that it's a firm
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    • foundation, sooner or later, and
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    • it might take many, many years,
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    • that person is gonna be sinking
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    • in sand, and then they'll see
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    • that you're solid,
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    • and they're gonna figure it out
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    • sooner or later.
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    • - Brian: What about the girl
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    • - Brian: What about the girl
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