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June 13, 2019
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When do you fight back and when do you stay silent? Let's talk about it! | TBN Prayer Line: 1-888-731-1000

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  • - Do you feel like you have to fight to be heard?
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    • - Do you feel like you have to fight to be heard?
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    • Join the conversation.
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    • It's time to take back the power of our voice.
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    • It's time to take back the power of our voice.
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    • (upbeat music)
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    • - [Lisa] The very first time I ever preached
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    • - [Lisa] The very first time I ever preached
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    • was an incredibly traumatic experience.
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    • was an incredibly traumatic experience.
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    • My husband was the youth pastor.
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    • My husband was the youth pastor.
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    • And he just kept saying to me,
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    • And he just kept saying to me,
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    • "I really feel like you should do a whole service."
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    • "I really feel like you should do a whole service."
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    • And I was like, no, no.
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    • And I was like, no, no.
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    • First of all, I'm not a package deal.
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    • First of all, I'm not a package deal.
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    • You don't get to just make me do things.
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    • You don't get to just make me do things.
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    • You're the youth pastor, I'm the breastfeeding wife,
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    • You're the youth pastor, I'm the breastfeeding wife,
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    • (laughs)
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    • (laughs)
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    • I don't do this.
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    • I don't do this.
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    • And so John went on a missions trip to Haiti.
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    • And so John went on a missions trip to Haiti.
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    • And he was supposed to have his co-pastor do it but he said,
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    • And he was supposed to have his co-pastor do it but he said,
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    • "I just feel like I'm supposed to have you do it."
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    • "I just feel like I'm supposed to have you do it."
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    • So he did a video announcement cause he didn't wanna
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    • So he did a video announcement cause he didn't wanna
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    • tell anybody that a woman was preaching.
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    • tell anybody that a woman was preaching.
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    • So he did a video announcement.
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    • So he did a video announcement.
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    • He told everybody,
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    • He told everybody,
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    • there's a special guest speaker in two weeks,
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    • there's a special guest speaker in two weeks,
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    • there's a special guest speaker in a week.
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    • there's a special guest speaker in a week.
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    • - Oh my.
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    • - Oh my.
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    • - [Lisa] And we had a group of about 200 people
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    • - [Lisa] And we had a group of about 200 people
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    • and I have been there youth pastor for two years.
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    • and I have been there youth pastor for two years.
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    • And then John did this little VHS announcement
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    • And then John did this little VHS announcement
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    • and said, "I just want you to know,
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    • and said, "I just want you to know,
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    • my favorite preacher, my favorite person,
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    • my favorite preacher, my favorite person,
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    • is going to be speaking and ministering tonight."
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    • is going to be speaking and ministering tonight."
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    • I sitting in the back room, my heart is like racing,
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    • I sitting in the back room, my heart is like racing,
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    • my upper lip is sweating.
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    • my upper lip is sweating.
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    • And he said, "It's my wife, Lisa."
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    • And he said, "It's my wife, Lisa."
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    • I walk to the front and as I walk to the front,
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    • I walk to the front and as I walk to the front,
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    • all I heard was metal chairs folding
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    • all I heard was metal chairs folding
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    • and people throwing them all into a stack.
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    • and people throwing them all into a stack.
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    • And they said,
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    • And they said,
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    • "I'm not staying here and having a woman speak."
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    • "I'm not staying here and having a woman speak."
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    • So the crowd of 200 came down to like, 50.
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    • So the crowd of 200 came down to like, 50.
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    • And I had to just stand there
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    • And I had to just stand there
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    • and wait til everybody was done.
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    • and wait til everybody was done.
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    • And I just looked at everybody and I said,
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    • And I just looked at everybody and I said,
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    • "I wish I could do the same thing.
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    • "I wish I could do the same thing.
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    • I wanna leave right now."
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    • I wanna leave right now."
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    • I preached the stupid message.
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    • I preached the stupid message.
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    • I'm pretty sure I just read Scriptures.
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    • I'm pretty sure I just read Scriptures.
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    • (laughing)
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    • (laughing)
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    • - They regret that decision now, though.
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    • - They regret that decision now, though.
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    • - And then John was in Haiti.
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    • - And then John was in Haiti.
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    • I was pregnant with Austin.
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    • I was pregnant with Austin.
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    • And I put Addison to bed.
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    • And I put Addison to bed.
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    • And that night, someone came to my house
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    • And that night, someone came to my house
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    • and pounded on my windows, knowing my husband was gone,
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    • and pounded on my windows, knowing my husband was gone,
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    • knowing I was by myself.
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    • knowing I was by myself.
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    • And I had to call the police
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    • And I had to call the police
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    • and it was a spirit of intimidation.
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    • and it was a spirit of intimidation.
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    • It was not even a possible,
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    • It was not even a possible,
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    • maybe someone's trying to shut you down.
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    • maybe someone's trying to shut you down.
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    • It was
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    • It was
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    • super intense.
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    • super intense.
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    • I told my husband, "If you speak and have a bad day,
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    • I told my husband, "If you speak and have a bad day,
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    • you just had a bad day.
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    • you just had a bad day.
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    • If I speak and I have bay, I have a Jezebel spirit.
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    • If I speak and I have bay, I have a Jezebel spirit.
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    • Or maybe witchcraft, or seduction, or whatever it is."
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    • Or maybe witchcraft, or seduction, or whatever it is."
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    • And I said, "I'm not willing, I am not willing,
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    • And I said, "I'm not willing, I am not willing,
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    • to have that kind of scrutiny and persecution."
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    • to have that kind of scrutiny and persecution."
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    • Plus I said, "I only have one eye."
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    • Plus I said, "I only have one eye."
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    • Like, I am a one-eyed woman, I have a handicap,
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    • Like, I am a one-eyed woman, I have a handicap,
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    • I do not have to get up on the stage.
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    • I do not have to get up on the stage.
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    • And my husband just kept saying,
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    • And my husband just kept saying,
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    • "There's young girls in the audience."
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    • "There's young girls in the audience."
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    • You know, it's fascinating to me that
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    • You know, it's fascinating to me that
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    • it says that "God is not giving you a spirit of fear."
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    • it says that "God is not giving you a spirit of fear."
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    • One of the translations said, "Or of timidity."
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    • One of the translations said, "Or of timidity."
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    • That would be intimidation.
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    • That would be intimidation.
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    • "But He's giving you a spirit of love, power,
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    • "But He's giving you a spirit of love, power,
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    • and a sound mind."
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    • and a sound mind."
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    • See, a spirit of fear
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    • See, a spirit of fear
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    • comes after your authority in the spirit,
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    • comes after your authority in the spirit,
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    • it comes after your ability to love.
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    • it comes after your ability to love.
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    • Because a spirit of fear is always gonna cause you to say,
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    • Because a spirit of fear is always gonna cause you to say,
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    • "What about me?
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    • "What about me?
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    • What about mine?
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    • What about mine?
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    • I don't wanna lose."
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    • I don't wanna lose."
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    • And it comes against your soundness of mind.
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    • And it comes against your soundness of mind.
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    • which is the sword of the Spirit
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    • You know we talked about Ester.
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    • - That's right. - Exactly.
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    • - Ester is so not me.
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    • she prepared a banquette.
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    • When I fast, everybody pays.
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    • (laughter drowns out speaker)
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    • "You get rice and beans"
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    • I'm gonna feed you what I don't wanna eat.
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    • - That's right, like tofu. (laughs)
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    • - That's right, like tofu. (laughs)
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    • - But we have to have a generation that is willing to fast,
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    • that a banquette can happen for the next generation.
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    • that a banquette can happen for the next generation.
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    • and hard for Holly and I, we're not mad.
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    • at her conference and she got up and actually preached
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    • I won't do that one."
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    • But I have to tell you, she did better than me.
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    • Why does she get to be cute.
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    • Why does."
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    • to your own prayers."
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    • will rise up strong and fury and vibrant and beautiful.
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    • But it's not from Jesus.
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    • - No. - Right.
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    • - The last thing He did was the Great Commission.
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    • - The last thing He did was the Great Commission.
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    • And the Great Commission is our permission
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    • to go into all the world, whatever our world looks like,
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    • and preach the gospel.
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    • - (Holly) And the trick,
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    • because I've been places where I get up there
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    • and there go the men. - Yeah.
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    • - And many times I've been the first woman on a platform
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    • - Yeah, same. - But,
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    • but regardless, whether our voice is used on a platform or
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    • For me the trick is to not get angry about it.
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    • - No. - Yeah.
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    • - Or see what's on the other side of it.
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    • - Right.
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    • - Because Jesus (murmur) up before Him.
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    • - Well, it took me a minute to get to that.
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    • - Well, it took me a minute to get to that.
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    • (laughs)
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    • - [Lisa] Probably took me five,
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    • - [Lisa] Probably took me five,
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    • - [Holly] Because,
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    • (laughs)
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    • You just get angry.
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    • - Yeah. - Yeah.
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    • - And so then, if you get angry then you voice
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    • - Everything about Christianity is counter culture.
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    • - Everything about Christianity is counter culture.
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    • It says that we bless those that curse us.
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    • - Yeah. - That we do good
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    • (laughs)
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    • - Our culture is not doing that right now.
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    • - Our culture is not doing that right now.
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    • If somebody curses us, we curse them back.
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    • - Right. - If somebody hits us,
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    • we hit them back, harder.
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    • - Right, right.
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    • - [Lisa] So everything about Christianity is
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    • - [Lisa] So everything about Christianity is
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    • "That's it, it's not fair, I'm gonna be angry."
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    • It would've shut you down and God would not have been able
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    • And so, I know for me,
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    • Very much like a lot of things we hear in certain theology.
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    • and yet I knew that that's never how God talks to me.
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    • - Yeah, right.
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    • He never talks to me like that.
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    • - He never says, "Hey, you know, I would've liked
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    • Your probably stupid."
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    • - Or shut down the men.
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    • - Or anybody, we have to use it on the serpent.
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    • and so we have a whole generation trying to shut down
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    • - Yeah, it's not attacking somebody else
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    • to give you your own voice.
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    • - That's right. - It's never that.
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    • You'd get good ones and then you'd get these horrible ones.
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    • And I said, "What."
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    • that says you had just set the moon in place,
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    • God has just used you so much to minister to me
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    • and then you can get another letter that says
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    • you have got to be the daughter of the devil."
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    • (laughs)
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    • And he said, "And they both affect you the same way."
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    • And I've never forgotten that,
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    • that a third is gonna love you,
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    • thirds gonna hate you and third don't care about you anyway.
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    • So you just have to walk where God put you.
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    • Don't let them, don't let criticism
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    • close your mouth into loving people.
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    • You stay on your coarse.
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    • You stay doing what God has called you to do.
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    • And that's the only validation that you need in your life.
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    • And that's the only validation that you need in your life.
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    • Sorry for not having the best upbringing
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    • Sorry for not having the best upbringing
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    • and best influence in your life.
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    • No nurturing.
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    • You have the power of choice on your side.
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    • You have the power of choice on your side.
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    • To choose wise friends, good friends that will help
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    • To choose wise friends, good friends that will help
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    • you in life.
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    • You're not defined by your failures.
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    • And to forgive as quickly as you can.
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    • You can watch, Better Together episodes on demand,
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    • - Go to bettertogether.tv to strip all of our
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    • - Go to bettertogether.tv to strip all of our
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    • latest conversations.
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    • - Hindrance is, you know, whether it's
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    • What does that fuel inside you.
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    • - I think a lot of that is validation,
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    • where we get our validation from, you know.
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    • And knowing that,
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    • that God is in control.
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    • And God sets us in places to use our voice
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    • for His honor, for His glory.
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    • for His honor, for His glory.
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    • - It took a grout, right.
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    • - It took a grout, right.
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    • - And we're women that have men,
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    • - Yes. - We're all,
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    • - Most days they celebrate our strengths.
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    • (laughs)
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    • - We have beautiful men in our world,
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    • that don't have that and so we,
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    • who have voice, need to be voice
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    • for those who have no voice.
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    • Mine reaction would've been to cower.
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    • I'd be like, "Okay I don't want that judgment,
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    • John you do it." I'm gonna cower.
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    • John you do it." I'm gonna cower.
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    • But then there came a part where I realized
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    • "I never want this for my daughters."
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    • This is really important and sometimes silence
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    • "You guys this isn't right."
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    • I'm gonna answer to God.
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    • And I don't want that.
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    • And so we have to, for the sake of Hosanna's.
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    • For the sake of Paris, for the sake now
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    • of my beautiful daughter-in-laws and my granddaughters.
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    • We have to use our voice, but be aware that
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    • the enemy is not the men.
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    • The enemy isn't religion that's oppressed women,
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    • that's something the enemy might use,
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    • but the enemy is the serpent who came against us
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    • but the enemy is the serpent who came against us
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    • and tried to shut down our voice in the very beginning.
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    • And so now we just have to use it in such a compelling way
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    • And so now we just have to use it in such a compelling way
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    • that it dismantles what the enemy is doing with wisdom
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    • and love and tenderness and creativity.
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    • And God has given you a voice, whether you ever asked
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    • And God has given you a voice, whether you ever asked
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    • and it's a stewardship issue.
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    • telling you, "Yes, we believe in your voice,
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    • yes we need your voice."
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    • there only needs to be one who believes in your voice.
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    • I'm thinking about that woman who pressed through
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    • the crown, that had the issue of blood,
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    • and she got a hold of Jesus' garment
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    • and he sensed the power and the virtue leave His body
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    • I'm gonna tell you, that one that you need,
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    • that one is Jesus.
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    • that one is Jesus.
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    • Jesus believes in the value of your voice.
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    • Jesus believes in the value of women.
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    • or women that nobody thought that He should be talking to.
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    • And Jesus wants you to find your voice
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    • and be this incredible force for goodness in this world.
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    • We need your voice and I'm sorry other people haven't
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    • We need your voice and I'm sorry other people haven't
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    • ever told you that.
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    • But I hope that you understand, this isn't just a show,
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    • but that we actually want your voice.
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    • There is a sound
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    • and there's something that happens with everybody,
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    • That kind of dynamic is when God says,
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    • then nothing is gonna be impossible."
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    • We are asking you to come into this impossible time
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    • and see what, how miraculously God will do.
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    • and see what, how miraculously God will do.
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    • that not everyone is an expert at what you're called to do.
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    • that maybe I got too many people's advice.
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    • I wanted to respect everyone that was surrounding me,
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    • I wanted to respect everyone that was surrounding me,
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    • especially my elders, especially people with more experience
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    • but I think I would've told 20 year old self,
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    • "Trust the Holy Spirit inside of you.
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    • "Trust the Holy Spirit inside of you.
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    • Take all of this advise with Samaritan
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    • Take all of this advise with Samaritan
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    • and a grain of salt.
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    • and a grain of salt.
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    • Don't have too many opinions.
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    • Don't have too many opinions.
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    • Know that not everyone is an expert at what you're
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    • Know that not everyone is an expert at what you're
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    • called to do and follow the Holy Spirit
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    • called to do and follow the Holy Spirit
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    • and the Word of God first and foremost."
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    • and the Word of God first and foremost."
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    • - What do you think about today's topic.
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    • - What do you think about today's topic.
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    • Join the conversation on social media.
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    • Join the conversation on social media.
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    • We can't wait to hear from you.
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    • We can't wait to hear from you.
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    • - When we're talking about external fights
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    • - When we're talking about external fights
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    • - When we're talking about external fights
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    • - When we're talking about external fights
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    • or how to fight for your voice.
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    • or how to fight for your voice.
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    • How to advocate for your voice.
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    • How to advocate for your voice.
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    • I think in my own journey in life,
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    • because of my past because of my cultural upbringing.
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    • because of my past because of my cultural upbringing.
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    • In my own family there was incensed abuse,
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    • In my own family there was incensed abuse,
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    • sexual abuse and I could see how the enemy was,
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    • sexual abuse and I could see how the enemy was,
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    • not only intimidating my voice to be quiet and be silent,
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    • not only intimidating my voice to be quiet and be silent,
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    • because of the assignment of God on my life,
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    • because of the assignment of God on my life,
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    • but it was the constant reminder in my home,
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    • but it was the constant reminder in my home,
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    • not to speak up and so when I confronted my abuser.
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    • not to speak up and so when I confronted my abuser.
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    • He literally said, "You've ruined my life."
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    • He literally said, "You've ruined my life."
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    • My husband was sitting right next to me and he says,
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    • "Do you have anything to say, Dianna."
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    • "Do you have anything to say, Dianna."
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    • and I told him
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    • and I told him
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    • and he's gone on.
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    • and he's gone on.
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    • He's transitioned into life and he has to account
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    • He's transitioned into life and he has to account
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    • for his actions but I told the
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    • the one who abused me, I said,
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    • the one who abused me, I said,
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    • "I forgive you, I release you.
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    • "I forgive you, I release you.
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    • You don't owe me anything."
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    • and so I saw as soon as I did that,
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    • how much it redeemed things in my life,
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    • how much it redeemed things in my life,
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    • that only the Lord can add to.
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    • that only the Lord can add to.
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    • That now I'm able to sit here with things that God
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    • That now I'm able to sit here with things that God
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    • has done for me that are,
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    • that's echoing and reverberating through the body of Christ.
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    • that's echoing and reverberating through the body of Christ.
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    • And there are daughters still today, grown daughters,
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    • And there are daughters still today, grown daughters,
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    • 30, 40, 50, 60 years old that are still struggling
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    • 30, 40, 50, 60 years old that are still struggling
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    • with her own secrets.
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    • And so I determined within my own family line,
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    • I said, "For the sake of my daughters,
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    • this is not going to haunt or ghost in the family linage."
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    • this is not going to haunt or ghost in the family linage."
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    • And so now I have four confident daughters
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    • And so now I have four confident daughters
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    • that are like drastically different from me.
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    • that are like drastically different from me.
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    • I'm growing up where I would hid behind my mothers skirt,
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    • I'm growing up where I would hid behind my mothers skirt,
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    • my daughters are confident, strong and so,
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    • my daughters are confident, strong and so,
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    • fighting for your voice.
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    • fighting for your voice.
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    • The external things, the challenges that happen.
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    • It's a real thing in either country, demographic,
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    • cultural experience.
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    • It is a real thing.
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    • It is a real thing.
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    • And so my encouragement for a lot of the women
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    • that are probably, you know, just wondering
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    • "I'm gonna risk it, I'm gonna try.
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    • - It's important for us to forgive those
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    • who attack our voice, because ultimately it sets us free.
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    • who attack our voice, because ultimately it sets us free.
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    • Now I hate forgiving people who have hurt me.
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    • Now I hate forgiving people who have hurt me.
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    • I love holding grudges, I'm very good at it.
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    • I love holding grudges, I'm very good at it.
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    • But I will say that all the years I spent holding grudges,
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    • it was years of my life wasted.
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    • it was years of my life wasted.
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    • confrontation with some people that've
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    • done wrong against me and forgiven them to their face.
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    • done wrong against me and forgiven them to their face.
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    • That doesn't mean that I've allowed people that were
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    • did physical wrong towards me, back into my life.
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    • did physical wrong towards me, back into my life.
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    • It means that inside of me, that I have let go
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    • of my revengeful attitude.
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    • of my revengeful attitude.
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    • I have let go of the hate in my heart.
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    • I have let go of the feelings I used to have,
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    • I have let go of the feelings I used to have,
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    • that they would never know Jesus
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    • that they would never know Jesus
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    • and they would just have terrible lives.
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    • and they would just have terrible lives.
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    • I had to let go of that feeling.
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    • The feeling that they would never be restored.
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    • And I had to fake it till I made it.
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    • that said horrible things to me in public.
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    • While doing my dishes, cleaning my house.
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    • Flying to another job, I had to in my heart,
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    • pray that these people who hurt me,
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    • that God would heal their wounds.
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    • that God would heal their wounds.
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    • So it wasn't always a face to face confrontation
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    • truly inside of myself, letting go of the way
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    • I had to hate this person.
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    • And that set me free.
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    • - The thing that like gets me.
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    • so you had an actual physical attack against your life,
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    • to silence you - yeah.
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    • - And when you had a chance, you used your voice
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    • to forgive and to release.
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    • And I just thought.
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    • That's actually what it's supposed to be.
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    • - For women that's not a natural tendency.
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    • - For women that's not a natural tendency.
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    • - No, no.
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    • - For a woman it's to be mad.
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    • - I don't think it's anyone's natural tendency.
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    • - It is to be mad, which is rightfully so
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    • and don't have a grieving process.
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    • You'll get upset, you'll try to vindicate yourself.
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    • You'll try to do anything, you know,
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    • whatever you wanna label it.
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    • I think you know, it really comes down to,
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    • will you allow Jesus to do the work for you
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    • and vindicate you.
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    • - 'cause He says, "Vengeance is mine."
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    • - 'cause He says, "Vengeance is mine."
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    • - Yes, yes.
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    • - After all of those. - After all of those
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    • - Vengeance is mine - he has it.
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    • - Vengeance is mine - he has it.
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    • - I'll take care of it. - That's in Romans,
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    • - I'll take care of it. - That's in Romans,
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    • He has it, He has control.
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    • - [Lisa] So you didn't, "I'm the victim."
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    • - [Lisa] So you didn't, "I'm the victim."
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    • that's the power, you took away the victim hood.
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    • that's the power, you took away the victim hood.
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    • - The forgiveness was for you.
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    • - Yes. - It set you free you.
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    • - Yes. - It set you free you.
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    • - Yes, yes and it's never like poison you wanna drink.
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    • - Yes, yes and it's never like poison you wanna drink.
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    • It's a releasing and I dedicated even in my own heart,
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    • you know driving in my little swagger wagon down the road.
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    • you know driving in my little swagger wagon down the road.
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    • Just thinking to the Lord, I said,
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    • Lord, if he said in his last breath,
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    • "Please forgive me Jesus."
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    • "Please forgive me Jesus."
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    • if he's in Heaven, I'm okay with that.
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    • the presence of God over me,
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    • you know I'm just so glad that your heart was there.
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    • - But that's what Christ did for us, He said,
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    • "Forgive them, Father."
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    • "Forgive them, Father."
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    • - Yes. - They know not what they do.
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    • "They know exactly what they're doing, kill them all."
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    • that the fight is real.
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    • The attack is real, but we're not wrestling
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    • that would exalt themselves against the knowledge of God.
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    • you'd see there's always a back story.
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    • - (mumble) out to destroy everybody.
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    • - (mumble) out to destroy everybody.
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    • That abuser, Satan's trying to destroy their life with that.
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    • - That's powerful. - You fought
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    • that attack with good and I just.
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    • - Good on you.
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    • - Good on you.
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    • That's what it's all about.
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    • - Alright, I'm gonna speak to you out there
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    • - Alright, I'm gonna speak to you out there
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    • and I wanna say I understand that you've afraid
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    • to understand that you've been misunderstood.
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    • but you've probably misunderstood again.
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    • I understood you've been misrepresented.
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    • I understood you've been misrepresented.
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    • It may happen again but you can't drop back.
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    • It may happen again but you can't drop back.
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    • You can't give any person that much control over you life.
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    • You can't give any person that much control over you life.
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    • Your life is submitted to the Word of God
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    • Your life is submitted to the Word of God
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    • and to the leading of the Holy Spirit.
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    • and to the leading of the Holy Spirit.
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    • So I'm gonna pray that that God gift in you life,
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    • So I'm gonna pray that that God gift in you life,
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    • that gift that God planted as a seed in you
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    • that gift that God planted as a seed in you
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    • when He wove you in your mothers womb.
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    • when He wove you in your mothers womb.
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    • I'm gonna pray that that gift comes forth
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    • I'm gonna pray that that gift comes forth
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    • and that that gift adds voice and purpose to you life.
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    • and that that gift adds voice and purpose to you life.
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    • So, Heavenly Father, I come to You in the Name of Jesus
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    • So, Heavenly Father, I come to You in the Name of Jesus
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    • and I speak to the gift that is in their life,
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    • and I speak to the gift that is in their life,
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    • that gift that is dormant.
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    • that gift that is dormant.
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    • That gift that is just slightly growing.
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    • That gift that is just slightly growing.
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    • And I thank You, Father, that that gift of God
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    • And I thank You, Father, that that gift of God
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    • in their life comes forth free, strong, blessed, glorious,
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    • in their life comes forth free, strong, blessed, glorious,
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    • beautiful, Father I thank You for women.
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    • beautiful, Father I thank You for women.
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    • That You are touching them, wherever they're at,
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    • That You are touching them, wherever they're at,
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    • in this very moment with Your love and that You are calling
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    • in this very moment with Your love and that You are calling
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    • them and answer where other people
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    • them and answer where other people
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    • have called them a problem.
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    • have called them a problem.
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    • That You are calling them strong, where other people
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    • That You are calling them strong, where other people
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    • have called them weak.
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    • have called them weak.
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    • That You are calling them free,
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    • That You are calling them free,
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    • where other people have called them bound.
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    • where other people have called them bound.
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    • Father, You said in your Word,
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    • Father, You said in your Word,
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    • "The Lord announces victory."
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    • "The Lord announces victory."
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    • and Father, I thank You that You look at a situation
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    • and Father, I thank You that You look at a situation
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    • that we would call chaos and defeat
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    • that we would call chaos and defeat
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    • and You declare victory.
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    • and You declare victory.
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    • And Your Word says, "And throngs of women."
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    • And Your Word says, "And throngs of women."
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    • That means an innumerable host of women,
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    • That means an innumerable host of women,
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    • throngs of women, how they shout,
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    • throngs of women, how they shout,
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    • not whisper in fear, but they shout the happy news.
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    • not whisper in fear, but they shout the happy news.
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    • And so, Father I thank You for an army of women,
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    • And so, Father I thank You for an army of women,
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    • declaring the goodness of God.
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    • declaring the goodness of God.
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    • The victory of Jesus Christ over their nations,
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    • The victory of Jesus Christ over their nations,
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    • over their families, in the Name of Jesus,
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    • over their families, in the Name of Jesus,
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    • I break intimidation and I thank You, Father
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    • I break intimidation and I thank You, Father
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    • for divine release in Jesus Name.
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    • for divine release in Jesus Name.
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    • Amen.
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    • Amen.
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    • - Better Together is grounded in prayer.
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    • - Better Together is grounded in prayer.
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    • And we wanna pray for you.
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    • And we wanna pray for you.
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    • We wanna hear what God is doing in your life.
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    • We wanna hear what God is doing in your life.
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    • - [Laura] Here's what's happening next time
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    • - [Laura] Here's what's happening next time
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    • on Better Together.
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    • on Better Together.
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    • - I wanna talk to this person.
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    • Is this gonna help or hurt the bride of Christ.
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    • Is this gonna help or hurt the bride of Christ.
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    • - [Laura] Watch Better Together only on TBN.
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